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As a blue who approaches only pinks, you want to make sure your approaches are to the point without beating around the bush and no bullshit either. Male characters get bad reps for being unimaginative "Ey bby, want sum dis? ;)" types, so you need to break the mold and put in some extra work if there's someone you really want to play with. You profile for Alex is good considering it's your very first, but you got to work on a bit more characterization, perhaps a few reference pictures (don't focus on dick pics unless you're going for poon and nothing else), and some formatting just to make things look prettier and easier on the eyes. A good profile/character will set you apart from the sea of blues out there.
>"Hey, I saw your character and I think it's a really good one. We have the same kinks, so how about we rp sometime? Hope to hear from you soon."
Not bad, much better than the typical "What's up!" people get, but it needs work and something more personal. Mention their character's name instead, perhaps say that you think they have an interesting backstory or setting.Say that you think your characters can mesh well, other than your kinks though. Kink talk can be mentioned in another way, or even just wait. If you're going after someone, you'd want to pitch something right in the opening, so they know you're serious rather than asking if you can RP sometime. It sounds wishy-washy and passive. Being thoughtful and kind though is always good, you might want to try something like this instead though:
"Hey there, I gave a look over Jennifer's profile and I really liked the background you had going for her. That being said, I'd be really interested in trying to do something together. Since it seems like we're both into a strong dom/sub aspect in an RP, I had a few scenario ideas in mind that could be fun and bring both of our character together. Feel free to give Alexander here a look over and let me know what you think. I'm pretty sure we've got kinks that match up pretty well, but if any of this doesn't seem to be like your sort of thing, then I understand. Thanks for giving this a read!"
Shows that you actually read the profile, are looking for immediate play, and are most importantly coming to the table with ideas in hand. I pitch stuff like this fairly often and players playing females 9 times out of 10 actually end up being thankful for a more thought out approach. So it works without being a huge wall of text or anything, and if someone refuses, then just keep moving. You also want to change it up every so often, make sure it seems personal rather than a generic greeting you just fill in the blanks.