/erp/ - Erotic Roleplay

I've never done anything involving mind control or hypnotism in ERP, but I -did- have an ERP partner that would Skype call me and hypnotise me OOC. I'm not sure exactly how well it worked.. I distinctly remember wanting to do the things he told me to do, not so much that I was directly controlled by him. There was this one feeling I would get though as he was guiding me into a trance that I suddenly began to feel very heavy and weighty, as though all my limbs were too heavy to move and that all I could do was lie there and breathe, powerless to stop whatever might happen to me, and that was insanely hot. He had me take a tray of ice cubes and alternate them between my mouth and vagina until they melted, piece by piece, making me suck on them or squeeze my thighs together or hold them against my clit or nipples. I forget exactly how things played out next but I just remember feeling warm, safe, comfortable, telling me what a good little slut I was and how well I was doing.. and I can't even remember how it happened but holy -crap- I had one of the best orgasms in my life. I came so hard when he pushed me over the edge, the inside of my body had stopped cumming but my hips kept spasming and I couldnt talk, and I was afraid my neighbor would hear me through the door so I had to bury my face into the arm of the couch to muffle myself because god, I couldnt stop shaking. Usually the first time I orgasm it's pretty forgettable and I dont really "climax" until the second time, but I came so hard that after I finally stopped shaking I was filled with this instant sense of gratification, this full feeling and warmth, this like, perfect contentment with no desire to continue, just wanting to lay there and feel how warm and soft and good I felt, and I remember being SUPER giggly. Everything made me giggle and I was in like the absolute best mood for the next day. It was AMAZING. Ugh.

unfortunately this story does not have a happy ending because I have INSANE anxiety / mental health issues and I became so embarrassed and ashamed of what I had done that I blocked him and never got the courage to speak to him again because I convinced myself that I was beneath him and I didnt deserve to bother him.

But yeah, that's my experience with it anyway. I'd like to try it in ERP sometime, I just dunno where to start.

I've had an interest in erotic hypnosis and mind control for a while now; a situational fetish for me, sometimes it doesn't work but it's incredibly hot when it does. Actually been trying erotic hypnosis through audio, with limited success. I can relax and get into a trancelike state for short periods of time, and sometimes feel sensations as they're described, but I'm as likely to doze off after the induction. My mind wanders easily and the effects of any triggers don't seem to last.

Anyway, would be interested in trying, both giving and receiving. Thought I was strictly a sub, but recent ERP sessions have brought out more of a controlling side, so I'm curious what a good session involving this would look like on both ends. Just feels like you'd have to be careful to make sure everybody's having fun with it.

>>67887

Regardless of the particular method, being in control is a big turn-on for me. Having someone helplessly under my influence, the anticipation of what's to come as I guide them into indecent acts, seeing them give up their freedom in exchange for pleasure, instructing a servant how to properly present themselves in order to satisfy their master's needs and seeing them have barely any hesitation in following a request to take off their clothes and spread their legs for allowing entry, it's all guaranteed to get me really worked up. I also love hearing how they enjoy being a good servant and complimenting them for it. All of that goes well with hypnosis and mind control, so… yeah.

I'm generally IC-focused person and would need to study and test the actual techniques much more if I wished to use hypnosis OOC.

>>67891

It sounds like you got some effective treatment, reading that was really hot. Even if that ending was a bummer.

Hypnosis is definitely my biggest kink, and I cannot tell you how many partners I've gotten hooked on hypnosis by RPing with them. The only problem is that it necessitates I be the one hypnotizing, not being hypnotized, so I'm looking for someone to help me get my fix and having little luck with it.

And OOC hypnosis is fantastic, especially when you ease into it without them knowing. Obviously people are going to say what they say, but apparently I've hypnotized a few people over text, too.

>>67894

This anon here.

>>67891

Kinda glossed over your story when I posted, but that's very interesting. What you describe sounds like the ideal outcome for hypnosis, where it feels like the suggestions are natural thoughts and not instructions from someone else. As I understand it, there's an element of cooperation involved; several factors, of course, but it seems like there's a lot of personal nuance to it, and the person being hypnotized needs to relax, both actively and on a more subconscious level.

If you don't mind, would you be willing to elaborate on what you do remember? For instance, how long induction took, roughly the number of sessions involved, whether any triggers were planted and how effective they were, that kind of thing? If you're not comfortable discussing it, that's fine, I'm just curious about the mechanics of it. I do have a skype handle myself if that'd be more comfortable - lpresso1 - but again, no pressure if you'd rather not.

In any case, it sounds like you had a hell of an experience, and thanks for sharing it. I'm sorry it didn't end well.

Hypnosis and Mind Control is easily my biggest kink, and I enjoy pretty much every aspect of it, from simple trances to manipulating behaviour with subtle triggers, to straight up brainwashing/rewiring. When it comes to me being on the receiving end, I'm a bit more picky about what I like.

Interestingly, though, these things actualy kinda terrify me OOC. I just really hate the idea of not being in charge of my thoughts. I wouldn't mind trying to hypnotize someone else, though, but I don't know how to do it, and I haven't had any reason to learn so far.

>>67891

That reminds me of something, back when Hypnochan was still around, there was a girl who called herself Toy Slut. She shared her experiences with her master, that was quite interesting to read.

I really need to make a dominant character for this. Best fetish, but I need to actually get into the mood to play top, and having a character that works helps so much with that.

>>67887

If you're still there, I'd love to do something with you, skype in email.

I've RPd on both sides of the spectrum and it is tough to find partners. I've had bad luck OOC when I have tried but would still be interested in a subject role. Even just discussing it is fun I think. I'd love to take the time to learn how to be an effective 'tist but I don't have as much spare time as I'd want to dedicate to learning to do it well so I just depend on the rare partner to share an RP with. Just the thought of someone lulling me or a character into a deep, comfy, and erotic trance gets me going >.>

>>68350

Just popping this back up because I have to stay up tonight to reset my sleep schedule for graveyard.

Does anyone know a good place to learn hypnosis? I've used it once before with someone on skype and while the triggers were excellent, I'd like to learn how to actually do it myself.

>>68592

A decent way that I've found is to look over other peoples' hypnosis scripts/sound files/videos. You'll get to see the patterns, you'll understand what's going on.

If you can get hypnotized, then that also helps. There are a lot of places where you can do this; I got my basis from Second Life but I'm sure there are other places you can find it.

>>68613

I've gone over it and know how it works but, well…I was hoping for a more accurate guide then relying on my interpretations of other people's works. Still, thank you.

I delight in hypnosis and mind control in RP and yet I never engage in it because of the absolute dregs it brings in.

I suggest that I want to do some dominant hypnosis style stuff, and I'll get these useless blushmoans who just sit there going "yes goddess" like fucking sheep and never actually engage in fucking RP, and just sit there acting like they're actually hypnotized when I know the player is just typing with one hand and jerking off.

Or on the other side of things, where the other party doesn't understand that this shit is basically just a mixture of mindgames and foreplay. Look at the shiny watch, click, now you mindlessly do whatever I say, I mean come on how fucking boring are you. Best part is when they spurg out when you show signs of things like resistance, or describe the thought process.

>>68636

Well, in real life, the entire idea of hypnosis is that it must be completely and absolutely voluntary. You cannot hypnotise someone without their explicit permission to enter their mind. Even then, hypnotic suggestions must bear a certain tone and manner. It's all a bit technical and finicky, as matters of the mind tend to be. You could theoretically rape someone through hypnosis, but you would have to be a master spindoctor to get it off.

As for the world of fantasy, I wouldn't really be opposed to magical devices that make you turn into a slobbering slave with a metaphorical snap, but it should still make sense. Otherwise it's just an abbreviated form of godmodding.

>>68638

That's the thing. We're dealing with fantasies here, so we can stop with the pedantic "well, hypnosis only achusually works…"

And sure, there are people who are into that (clearly), but my issue is that hypnosis seems to mainly attract people who are into low effort godmodding rather than actually RPing.

>>68641

Though the area between "godmodding" and "overdoing it" is quite small, isn't it? As with many things, even outside ERP, there are very few people who do put the effort into it and understand it well enough to be "just right".

Yeah, as I understand it, the trick in roleplaying a hypno/MC scenario is giving both players something to do. It comes down to the details: maybe the victim resists at first, maybe some commands are misinterpreted, maybe it's body control rather than thought control, maybe the power waxes and wanes throughout the session.

The point is, anything more than rote obedience takes effort on both parties, attention to nuances and focusing on the finer points. So I gather, at least. It does seem like it could be a lot of fun, you'd just need to be sure you've got a good partner for it.

>>68654

>giving both players something to do

Isn't that basically the principle behind any good ERP, hell, RP at all?

>>68659

Very true. Just seems a little more complex in this case, since the context is controlling someone else while the player still has some freedom to write the character. It's an interesting challenge, kind of the mental counterpart of a non-consensual setup, and I can see why it might wind up frustrating for some.

>>68659

>>68664

That's why I run mind control where *specific words* are the ones that matter or 'hit' the other player, instead of literally everything or hypnosis. That way the other player can have a little fun with literal interpretations, etc.

>>68664

Not to mention that, realistically, most of the hypnotizee's actions would be in their own head, and one could see only minor movement from the outside. It's a dream state controlled by a third party, so unless you go full moon-walking, you'll have to get pretty creative.

>>68665

There's an idea, giving them leeway and using specific words to tighten the screws where necessary. Like I said earlier, I'm curious what a good session looks like from both ends, because it seems to rely more heavily on the skill of both participants than most setups. I mean, it always comes down to the writing, it just seems especially paramount here.

>>68666

That's the other thing, on the receiving end a lot of the action is in their own mind, so it seems like there'd be a lot of introspection, a lot of thoughts about thoughts, so to speak. There's something to be said for restrictions fueling creativity, but I think you do gotta be in a certain mindset for it.

>>68669

I don't know of any good session. Is there any other option but to make one?

>>68665

That's why I usually like to work with triggers. That keeps some level of agency for the sub.

>>69323

I get that. Why introduce kinks if you're just going to gloss them over and bang? If inside of three turns the shy librarian becomes a bimbo slut why not start with the bimbo slut?

One thing that bugs me is body control being treated as a sub-category of mind control. The two intermingle and overlap a lot, but each as their own nuances that serve differing tastes.

>>69323

>>69345

I recall being in RPs of doctors and psychiatrists using hypnosis to ease someone closed off and introvert to "open up" usually, leaving them unaware of the sessions they went wild but slowly leaving them blossoming over time. At most, they'd be left with some pain in their butt that came out of nowhere, not realizing whatever sex act the doc had them do, but over time develop a liking to it and seek a partner into that sort of anal fun they're growing to love.

One idea I've had that'd be a bit of a long-runner would be something like a lonely single mother losing track of her reality from the growing hypnosis from her, say, son or young male neighbor. Her lack of a sex life leads to odd kinky dreams, possibly foreful/rapey ones, thanks to being hypnotized to ease stress– or just shits and giggles from the naughty boy. The hypnosis would creep more thoughts and daydreams, slowly causing supposed hallucinations/mishearings & figments of imagination or blurring of fact from fiction. Walking nude in the supermarket? That was just a strange dream… right? Just like that recurring blowjob dream. Some just are more… lucid than the rest…

MC/Hypno (receiving) is probably my favorite/top fetish. But slow or with struggles. Trigger words to abuse in outside situations and more.

Too many people just want to "ur hypnotized nao u wan fug"

What do you guys think of 'hypnosis' via drugs, or just drugging basically.

Not just like, a roofie although that could be nice for some settings but what I really love is like a fictional, 'hyper aphrodisiac' or love potion. So there's a girl at her friends place, he sprinkles some onto her food or opens a canister or something and she suddenly can't stop herself from jumping at his dick. She has no control over herself in this state and doesn't remember a thing the next morning.

"Oh, I was at Anon's, yeah we just watched movies and ate pizza. I feel so bad though, I keep falling asleep at his place. What? No! He'd never do something like that to me, how could you even suggest that, you know how much of a nice guy he is."

Something fantastic that happened in an RP of mine with this in it, is the effects started to wear off slightly. Like she was sucking his dick, but then started to slow down like "W-whats going on… Anon is this…" the guy panics and just rubs a handful of the powder into her nose. She's still for a couple seconds but then her pupils dilate and she goes into a fucking dick frenzy, it was amazing.

>>70659

Can be hit or miss depending on the RP and partner. Did one similar-ish where it was an app on the phone and as long as she watched the app she was under but if she was blocked from seeing it or anything she'd suddenly find her mouth stuffed