0741da No.24079
I've heard time and time again from other men that women don't feel love like men do.
I mostly scoffed at it, until I came across this image and read comments from women saying they didn't understand it, and asking if men really do feel this way.
Obviously the generality rule applies, there are always exceptions, but I'd say that this accurately reflects how a guy feels when he falls in love with a girl, given my own experience and what I've seen from friends.
It also made me realize that these emotions are a form of evolutionary conditioning to reinforce the protection of women by men. Reading it critically, I couldn't help but picture some kind of ant drone being biologically driven to protect its queen.
These feelings by the way, are what a lot of those "friendzoned" guys feel about the girls who friendzone them. It's why they'll put up with all that bullshit and it's from where "putting the girl on a pedestal" innately stems.
0bf06d No.24082
It's a bit sappy, but I'll begrudgingly admit that there is some truth to it.
24a721 No.24083
an insight into the mind of a beta fedorian
af95e1 No.24084
>>24079I think it's overly dramatic, and I've never seen guys IRL that obsessed with a girl. I think the middle paragraph has some truth to it, that odd little details suddenly become cute when you're in love with a girl, that hearing her name/thinking of her makes you perk up etc. but for fucks sake if you find yourself feeling like that about a girl that barely knows you exist, slap yourself the fuck out of it.
>It also made me realize that these emotions are a form of evolutionary conditioning to reinforce the protection of women by men. Reading it critically, I couldn't help but picture some kind of ant drone being biologically driven to protect its queen.>These feelings by the way, are what a lot of those "friendzoned" guys feel about the girls who friendzone them. Because they're fucking morons. Rejection wouldn't be such a big fucking deal if they didn't let their emotions build up to that level before making a move. That's ass backwards. The reason guys get mocked for going full beta is not that people think they're "weak" for falling in love, it's that they're acting out weird ass disney caricatures of it. Look at that shit near the end about being a martyr, about winning her heart etc. Save that garbage until you have some kind of connection.
9b94b8 No.24085
>>24079I cringed. I felt like that was coming from a girl. What interests me about a guy is the fact that he offsets my bullshit, not indulge in it.
975a19 No.24095
>>24079>that entire pictureI cringed.
546dd1 No.24105
Thanks for the update, /r9k/.
f0299a No.24115
>>24102
How you think directly influences 'how you feel.'
Women and men feel love differently.
e280a7 No.24140
Girls are taught about feelings from an early age, boys are not (except that crying is for faggots). Guys don't feel more strongly or pure, they're just emotionally immature and don't know how to handle or even interpret their own feelings. Men are more likely to suicide in almost every single country, even in countries where men are treated like gods compared to women, and every man gets a free wife thanks to arranged marriages. I point that out because a lot of men blame the suicide rates on feminism or their inability to get laid. Why do they really suicide? Because when they feel bad they have absolutely no clue how to handle it.
3ca1e9 No.24145
>>24140>this is what women actually believe 4ebc13 No.24153
>>24140>This is what women actually believe.Holy shit, and yet it's impossible to be sexist against a dude…
0bf06d No.24159
>>24140Yeah i'm gonna call bullshit on that. Is that what your gender studies professor told you?
efcd12 No.24161
>>24140This whole post is absolutly new level of bullshit for me. Also one thing…
>every man gets a free wife>you get somthing which requre stabile income, you must care for it, show your social status and gives you other problems.It's like you just said that goverment gives you free taxes.
c2c893 No.24164
Guys feel love with our dicks and our bellies. Bee a good cook and a good fuck and you'll have us at your disposal.
e280a7 No.24189
>>24161>Implying men in third world countries need a stable income and act responsible to get a wifeTop lel. Women have no worth in those countries, so if the husband wants to starve her, beat her or kill her then he's free to do so. When they get over in the civilized world they spend all their welfare money on drugs, cars and other crap, while the state or the red cross pays for medicine, clothes and other necessary thing for the wife and kids.
efcd12 No.24207
>>24189>thinking that arranged marries are only third world/arab country thingk…
>Women have no worth in those countries, so if the husband wants to starve her, beat her or kill her then he's free to do so.that's true such things are not acceptable yet in first world countries they also happen. It's not a culture thing It's just depends of what kind of person is husband.
975a19 No.24210
>>24189What the living shit are you smoking kid
b8b760 No.24238
>>24079>These feelings by the way, are what a lot of those "friendzoned" guys feel about the girls who friendzone them.Really tired of SJWs telling me when I'm upset about being friendzoned it's because I'm "mad she doesn't want to fuck me".
49d614 No.24251
>>24140>every man gets a free wife thanks to arranged marriagesthe other way around
arranged marriages are about finding someone for the girl, not for the guy
6aaf1f No.24293
It's just important to know that attentively listening to a girl, having lots of constructive feedback to give to a girl in her personal matters, and being very courteous to her in outings aren't the kind of things that substantiate a love relationship (these kinds of things will span into what people appreciate about normal friends and family afterall). I mean, you shouldn't not have these things, but it still won't get you love, and it also won't prevent girls falling in love in general, so girls might crush on someone who isn't responsible enough to care about that girl properly. It is foolish of a girl to go into a relationship that doesn't have the things I talked about above factored in, but it'd also be foolish of a girl to not want anything else. There's got to be more.
You might need to just relax and take it off your focus, and then think about what other things you wanna do with your life. Hopefully there'll be things that interest you that will do you a favour in being appealing. If your appeal isn't going to change, then maybe you can still be appreciated by a girl somewhere. I guess most girls just won't be interested in you, though.
975a19 No.24380
>>24375
>equality between sexes
pls stop going full retard
975a19 No.24541
>>24538
>Men:
>>suck it up
>Women:
>>seek help
This is a medical reality. Men usually only seek help after everything is beyond fucked and they don't have much of a choice. Women take preventative action much more frequently.
863d35 No.24551
>>24083Emotions are for faggits.
5d47c3 No.24557
>>24140>Women have no worth in those countries, so if the husband wants to starve her, beat her or kill her then he's free to do so.Gotta need source on that, otherwise you got some top tier QHD projector right there.
e79cdf No.24567
>>24079I think you would be interested in Attract Women Through Honesty by Model which goes into the difference between male and female sexuality. Females, at least on a purely biological level, want to be wanted but specifically want to be wanted by someone they perceive to be of high value. The more that guy invests in them the less attracted to him she becomes.
I am not saying "hurr durr be a dick" but it's why males become less attractive when they become needy and I hypothesize it's the reason we are pressured to be manly and hide or feelings. Models book goes into how to improve yourself in such a way that women come naturally because your self worth is not based on women.
e79cdf No.24571
>>24557Not him but here you go:
>For many years, the suicide rate has been about 4 times higher among men than among women.https://www.afsp.org/understanding-suicide/facts-and-figures
>Industrialized countries generally have higher rates of suicide than non-industrialized countries. Among industrialized countries, the U.S. has a moderate rate of suicide.http://www.hsccs.org/poc/view_doc.php?type=doc&id=13737Afghanistan is the only country in which the female suicide rate is higher than that of males.
http://www.thestar.com/news/world/2008/03/08/ten_worst_countries_for_women.htmlNote: This refers to successful suicide. Women attempt more often but men typically use more deadly methods.
>The study found that the suicide rate was ten times higher in men of lower socioeconomic status than in affluent men. The link between suicide and unemployment has been known for some time, but the authors discuss the reasons why, beyond losing a job, socioeconomic class might affect suicide risk. One factor is the increasing “‘feminisation’ of employment (shift towards a more service-oriented economy),” which may cause men to feel like they have less room in the professional world. The authors write that “men in lower socioeconomic groups now have less access to jobs that allow for the expression of working-class masculinity, and have thus lost a source of masculine identity and ‘pride.’” Yet losing a job may still make men feel like a “double failure, since they are unable to meet two central demands of the masculine role: being employed; and ‘providing’ for the family.”http://www.forbes.com/sites/alicegwalton/2012/09/24/the-gender-inequality-of-suicide-why-are-men-at-such-high-risk/ 7c64db No.24576
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0bf06d No.24631
>>24189
>Women have no worth in those countries, so if the husband wants to starve her, beat her or kill her then he's free to do soYeah there's no laws against murder over there I'm sure. It's illegal to starve your wife though since you're obliged to take care of and feed her.
This is what happens when someone that's never left their gated community talks about the rest of the world.
19c53e No.24665
Guy here, its hard to tell a lie about everything that dumbass said in the picture but thats not what i felt.
Im 22 now, working as a file clerk. But only ONCE in my lifetime had i actually fallen in love with a girl. That was a year ago.
To me i see two different kinds of girls. The ones you can actually have feelings for, and the ones that are simply sex objects that exist only for the sole purpose of fapping.
Im not saying fat ugly girls are the only ones you can have feelings. I think it just depends on the guy.
4e998d No.24689
>>24085That's what I want from a girl. Like that phrase "better half". Someone who makes up for my shortcomings
35ef96 No.24717
>>24079It's greatly exaggerated into fedora-core, but if you ignore all the excess sappy cringe then it's half true. It expresses young love though.
4a40fc No.24756
>>24732
Then why does the law of several "equal" countries make special exception for women when it comes to high-pay white collar positions in corporations?
e20939 No.24787
>>24079>Reading it critically, I couldn't help but picture some kind of ant drone being biologically driven to protect its queen.>People actually compare relationships now like thisMy generation is doomed.
There is no magic or love anymore between the sexes. Just broken minds and people constantly putting themselves on high horses on both sides.
Truely Hell is other people.
0b2b3a No.24796
>>24787I warned you about Scientism bro; I told you man
c49fc1 No.24825
>>24732
>You can have equality under the law without being the same physically.
So you can say that I can slap your shit when you do something stiupid? Well you can't say you are opressed when I slap shit "equally" I mean disregarding sexes. This is called equality.
8b1f28 No.24842
>>24145>>24153No, that is what retarded women believe.
8c4833 No.24844
>>24140That's a bit sexist, don't you think m8
8c4833 No.24847
I love how we can have a civil discussion about the differences in men and women's emotional capabilities, without it turning into a who's-the-more-oppressed-gender-content.
In regard to OP's screendump: I felt a little violated, reading that man-boy's über gay rainbow colored emo-rant. But I guess everyone is entitled to their emotions.
What makes you all so sure that we feel love differently? I've never read a description of being in love (from either gender) that I couldn't connect to the feeling I know.
611167 No.24848
I'm going to get called beta, pussy, and everything else but I don't care.
My last relationship, which I'm still trying to fight for, resonates with this fucking image. Reading it makes me want to cry because I've had a shit day.
Here's my story:
>Random sublet 2 summers ago
>Cute housemate
>Become friends
>Last week of summer, say fuck it, kiss her at a party
>2nd best week of my life
>She goes to school on the other side of the states
>Start up penpal's with her, write back and forth for months
>Winter comes, she surprises me and we spend new years together
>decide we can't date because distance
>keep writing, flirting, talking, essentially dating
>Springtime comes, fly out, best week of my life
>go home, month later, send flowers to her house
>we start dating, agreeing to breakup at end of summer
>lives with me during summer
>best summer ever
>august comes, tearful goodbye
>life feels meaningless, lots of friends move away, grandma dies
>girl study's abroad, no phone, doesn't like social media
>still penpals
>working on winning her back despite her being abroad for the next 6 months
I would do anything for this woman. I absolutely love her. Deeply, and I'm going to fly out to her in the spring. Maybe not all of us men love like this, but for those of us who do, you better believe our love isn't simple.
5d47c3 No.24874
>>24571> so if the husband wants to starve her, beat her or kill her then he's free to do so.Above statement may be true to Afghanistan, but that's some nice cherry picking to brand
ALL THIRD WORLD countries as the same.
e79cdf No.24877
>>24874Hey man I'm not the one making claims I am just the guy pulling some actual data lol. Like I said I am not the one that made the claim and I don't have a point to prove.
92d86f No.24878
I am interested in this subject. Despite having a psychological condition that does not allow me to feel emotions strongly (goes without saying I have never lovef anyone)I sure feel curious sometimes about "love". However, OP, your image made me cringe a little bit. Is this really how love is like? If yes, I'd rather stay away from it.
dd5c3d No.24881
Op's very cute and shit, but what about men in a long time relationship?
Because that shit sounds entirely as infatuation BEFORE being in a relationship.
I personally feel a lot of conflict, since I adore being with her, I love doing things for her, I get happy by making her happy, but I also get tired some times, I do look at other women and wonder, if for a moment, and I do have issues with marriage and forming a family -though that's entirely personal-
70301c No.24887
>>24140Actually it's spot on.
>btw im a boy ;^) 2c1d49 No.24905
so a lot of men say they have felt this way, but I did too and I'm sure a lot of women feel love like this.
the girl who started talking about love in the image didn't give such a colorful description of what i assume are her feelings about a loved one, but she wasn't trying to explain what she felt, she was trying to ask a question. to me, what she wrote and his reply sound pretty similar. He just goes into a lot more details.
3ef17c No.24912
f7e71b No.25127
>>24878It's how a low-value high-estrogen psychologically-castrated stupid idiot loves a woman.
9efe79 No.25192
>>24079That was pretty gay
0741da No.25246
7c64db No.25380
>>24079there's heaps of love songs and poems written by men for women.
examine those.
241ffc No.25454
I don't feel love the way that guy does at all, but then again I'm self-loathing narcissist.
For me, its more like a person becomes the object of all my attention and affection (which I suppose isn't too different), but I'm not generous and I'm not very complimentary. After I've been with someone a while I'll start feeling bored and feel like I can do better, at which point I'll start ignoring her. I'll feel very guilty and when I'm with her again I'll realize how much I really do love her, which will compound the guilt even further. Eventually, guilt, resentment stemming from it, or ego-inflation will tear us apart, they'll realize what a piece of shit I was, I'll realize how fantastic they were, they'll end up in a good relationship and get married, and I'll do a lot of drugs and write songs about wishing I was dead. This process has literally happened enough times to seem like some shitty romantic comedy starring Dane Cook, and in some way it may be preferable to feeling like OP's pic and being friendzoned because being tall, dysfunctional and a musician does at least mean getting laid by girls with daddy issues at parties, as soulless as that usually feels later.
3a37f5 No.25456
>>24787>There is no magic or love anymore between the sexes>implying there ever was>implying women didn't fuck up the little bit that might have been therethanks women
504ad4 No.25468
>>25442
>Under the law that applies to men and women equally.
That's total and utter bullshit, in western culture hitting a woman is terrible thing that only degenerate would do. Hitting a man on the other case is acceptable by society therefore if a male hit other male he will get a lower sentence than a male hitting female. Also Earler … i was proving my point that females/femminists don't want equality, they want to gain more and more provilages even they are now more priviliged than male in western countries. And one more thing…
>Retard.
Argumentum ad personam?
34ae21 No.25474
I'm a man and I think you're a delusional faggot OP
34ae21 No.25475
>>24787
> People think my emotional outpouring is indulgent bullshit?> THIS MEANS ALL RELATIONSHIPS ARE DEADJesus christ
8faa44 No.25480
>>24095You cringe because you know it is a perfect representation of many males.
f56d6d No.25491
>>24140> Because when they feel bad they have absolutely no clue how to handle it.Or maybe because when they feel bad none feels the obligation to emotionally pander at them and usually tell them to "man the fuck up" if they don't downright ridicule them.
57c00b No.25507
>>24170
Feelings are how your brain responds to those chemicals, which is very low-level thinking.
f7daad No.25678
>>25480Yes. It makes me sad.
f7daad No.25679
>>24810
Maybe your entire concept of equal is fucked up.
34ae21 No.25897
>>25896
There are states in the US where hitting a woman is actually classified as a more severe crime than hitting a man
504ad4 No.25948
>>25896
>Way to fail at doing that though.
Maybe that was too extreeme but this is still true unless you don't know what equality means.
>>25913
>That would be an example of an unequal society.
and that is great society. You wouldn't allow mentally handicapped person go to normal school or weak female work in mine or quarry. During wartime would you like to see females being slaughter on frontlines?
fae1ed No.25958
>>24631
>Sweden fails to realize that women need their husbands to provide for them in some 3rd world countries because there are no government handouts or hiring quotas and gets indignant 46ab5d No.26157
>>24140>I point that out because a lot of men blame the suicide rates on feminism or their inability to get laid.It's an objective fact that feminism has made finding a wife (and keeping her) exponentially more difficult and costly.
46ab5d No.26164
>>26158Connect the dots, sister
2c1d49 No.26207
>>25948if it's about weak people not being expected to do hard labour, just have some sort of strength test :/
it's not like all men are automatically stronger than all women
i'd rather not be on the front lines because i wasn't physically strong enough, than because i was a woman :/
i don't like these double standards
e280a7 No.26443
>>26164>Women take all the responsibility of the kids, takes time out from work and all that>Men do jack shit, and refuse to make any sacrifices for their kids>Mother gets custody because the father shows very little interest for his kids, while the mother takes all the responsibilityIt's not rocket science. If men want the same rights as women, then they better start acting like real parents and make some sacrifices.
34ae21 No.26446
>>26443Oh femanon you know this is bullshit
e280a7 No.26451
>>26207Plus it's not like swole men earn more than DYEL men. In fact fat and weak programmers earn way more than coal miners, but for some reason that's acceptable. Weak men earn more than swole men, but women should get a smaller salary because they're weaker than men. Lel male logic.
34ae21 No.26456
>>26451I have pointed out in this thread twice now that coal miners are actually well paid and no one listens
I guess we all just like to pretend we're living in early industrial britain
e280a7 No.26464
>>26456Irrelevant. The point is that lazy men with easy jobs earn way more than men doing heavy jobs.
34ae21 No.26465
>>26464As I pointed out, no they don't. More strenuous jobs actually tend to be more well paid, especially if there's a health risk. And you guys seem to have this weird delusion that "programmers" are well paid. They aren't, in many cases they're paid extremely low wages. Not every programmer is a software engineer, which is what you're probably thinking of when you say programmer. And even with them, coal miners are paid pretty competitively.
46ab5d No.26512
>>26362>That graph is counting second divorces as well, it's been debunked.So what? It was counting second divorces in the 30s and 40s too. Your intelligence is debunked.
>>26443Pic related
46ab5d No.26535
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>>26527
>10 Divorced women can't remarry because it's socially unacceptable
This is where your logic falls flat on its face. It wasn't socially unacceptable to re-marry, it was socially unacceptable to get divorced in the first place.
This chart proves the point even better. If what you're saying were true then the marriage rate would be rising along with the divorce rate, not falling.
f7daad No.26539
>>26382
Female body builders probably use testosterone, though.
46ab5d No.26540
>>26531
>100 Women married
>90 Remain married
>10 Divorce and remarry
>The same 10 Divorce and remarry
>The same 10 Divorce and remarry
>The same 10 Divorce and remarry
>The same 10 Divorce and remarry
>90 marriages vs 50 divorces
That would be 140 marriages vs 50 divorces. As you can see in the chart above, marriages have nearly halved from their peak, not nearly doubled as your model would suggest.
16715b No.26544
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>>26527
I've always wanted a father who keeps a good authority over me and when I'm interested in a boy/he seeks out for a boy to marry me, he bonds with him and earns his trust, then allows for him to develop a relationship with me then marry me.
16715b No.26546
>>26544I don't even know who I replied to now because I forgot what I was replying to how silly… I might have replied to the wrong person what the heck was I going to reply to???
b8918a No.26552
I think men tend to have far stronger crushes that are often interpreted as "love." A lot of the flowery language and strong sentiment (like in the OP picture) seems to come from men in the throes of passion either at the beginning of the relationship or the honeymoon period, but even then, I've heard men say stuff like that (and actually act on it) for women they merely find attractive (see: the "friendzone"). I think women at the start of relationships/in the honeymoon period and even with crushes will feel…fluttery but they don't seem to be as willing to throw everything to the wind in the same way men do. I guess maybe (it could be argued) they're a bit more realistic with their crushes? Or they're just a lot more willing and able to diminish it as just a crush?
However, I think with actual and true love (the kind you see in people who have been together for a long time and struggled through a lot of things together) they are very similar.
I think evolutionary psychology is flawed bullshit, but if I had to bullshit I'd say it drives men to take big leaps at the beginning to try to impress a woman; the fact that his passion and "love" just dies down a few months later doesn't matter if she's already pregnant and his genes are passed down, while women have to be a bit more careful about who they choose to be with.
449335 No.26563
>>26531
Nice math skills fagina
>tl;dr your posts are shit
dat projecting
46ab5d No.26580
>>26535Which two of these countries are not like the others
Food for thought.
951fba No.26920
I'm gonna get hated for this but from my observations and my experiences men are incapable to love as strongly as women, possibly due to the way they are raised to bottle up their emotions. Of course, like any other post here, this is just a personal opinion and doesn't necessary have any basis in reality.
53a294 No.26951
>>26531
>Men not getting "the talk" from their dad about marrying sluts is not the fault of 1st and 2nd wave feminism
Men sure get lots of "talks" from feminists about how they can't judge any woman based on her sexual history, and that if he refuses to date or marry a promiscuous woman he's a misogynist.
>it certainly doesn't make finding a woman any costlier or harder for you
Get real kid. That shitty movement actively encourages you women to slut it up. I'm sure the actual high value women love encouraging you to lower you own value. After all, it raises hers.
Valuable women are scarce today. Their price is only going up.
b46ca8 No.27049
>>24079Betamax description.
Jews have done a good job making average white man de facto sterile.
No one ever will get laid with that sappy shit.
White race is doomed.
53a294 No.27054
>>27038
>feminists have some sort of brainwashing power
Yeah, a whole lot of women screaming "misogynist" at you and your employer until he fires you has no power to shape people's behavior at all.
>listen to your parents instead
Lots of men are raised by single moms. Is it any wonder they end up feminized excuses of men?
>WTF does prostitution have to do with this?
Just because they don't demand live money doesn't mean women don't have prices. There are other forms of value.
53a294 No.27082
>>27069>What the fuck does that have to do with choosing a wife?>>26951>>Men not getting "the talk" from their dad about marrying sluts is not the fault of 1st and 2nd wave feminism
>Men sure get lots of "talks" from feminists about how they can't judge any woman based on her sexual history, and that if he refuses to date or marry a promiscuous woman he's a misogynist.My only "wrong" here is dignifying Canadian posters with serious replies. They continue to prove themselves to have the mental ability of children.
b46ca8 No.27135
>>27082PAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAATRIARCHY!
04cbfa No.35326
>>24079wouldn't know, I'm an emotional black hole. I know that's the stereotype for men, but I feel it. I hole of apathy, unable to truly care for anything other than approval. And once I have it, I only feel a slight calm. But that feeling warms me to my core. Its all I strive for, approval.
735ee8 No.35329
>>35326>approvalI believe the proper term is "Narcissistic Supply."
409648 No.35361
>>35326
>I hole of apathyDon't worry. All of us goes through emo phase.
8ac7cb No.35927
well, mails
I found a few song lines that I think describe the very base of love:
"You're the only friend I need
Sharing beds like little kids
We'll laugh until our ribs get rough
But that will never enough"
Agree/Disagree?
8ac7cb No.35928
>>26544This is the weirdest thing I've read all day.
Wow.
3ef17c No.35957
>>24084>I've never seen guys IRL that obsessed with a girlThe truth isn't so cheesy - but it is that powerful. I met a girl a few times, and I fell for her really hard. She made the world beautiful again. She made life worth living - and I barely knew her. But just being around her made me happy.
She lives far away, now. I had almost managed to forget her when the winter weather came back - and the smell of the forest in winter reminded me of her.
I don't know what women live for, but men live for women. That's just how it is.
1f39a8 No.35969
>>26451Computer field is often not an easy job. It's a job that sucks you in with your interests and the promise of good pay then drains your soul and overtimes you into oblivion.
A lot of sysadmins hate their jobs because they can get called at 1 fucking AM because the production server went down and now they have to fix it pronto with the only thanks being "k glad that's over with but why the fuck did you mess it up in the first place?" A lot of sysadmins get used to being yelled at for shit users themselves did wrong too.
Software developers are so used to unrealistic design and deadlines with massive mandatory overtime that this has its own industry term, the "coders' death march" because of how badly they sacrifice their health to try to meet deadlines and usually they get paid bad overtime and minimal bonuses (because bad product) too.
That "amazing pay" you are going on about is a crock of shit especially when you factor in the amount of work these types put in while being treated as completely expendable pawns because there's some stupid fucker who will do your job for less and he will fuck everyone else by doing such a sloppy job the rest are busy putting out the fires this fucker started and doublechecking his work.
1f39a8 No.35971
>>24140>Guys don't feel more strongly or pure, they're just emotionally immature and don't know how to handle or even interpret their own feelings.Are you sure you're not talking about yourself here?
e0bfc4 No.35976
>>24079What I read in this pic sounds like the stereotype of any love novel, but half of it might be true, excluding the "unpredictable, persistent, stubborn" part which sounds like obsessive behaviour, in my teen years I felt almost exactly the same for a classmate, though I never told her anything because I always hated myself and I thought I wasn't worthy of her attention, when she accepted me on FB it felt unreal to me, whenever she was online I was always worried if it was ok to send her a message once in a while, but I couldn't stop thinking she would start hating me for bothering her, even though I knew she was a wonderful person that could never hate anyone for a silly reason like that.. in the end nothing happened in 3 years of hs as classmates, every time she smiled it made me smile, every time she was writing on the blackboard I couldn't help it but think about how cute it was every gesture she did or when she was talking, the way she paused after every sentence made me feel lighter and funny in the chest/shoulders. I felt like hugging and cuddling her even though I akways used to avoid physical contact of any kind with anyone, but once during a break in last year of hs when I was talking with a friend about some mmo game, she casually hugged me from behind, still now I don't know how to describe what I felt back then, but I was petrified, she wanted to see the softness of my jacket, that's what she said when my friend asked whats up, I couldn't say anything, I just pokerfaced and kept talking with my friend about games, but after that I was always thinking about what she did, everyday trying to understand why she did that, was it because I sounded like a dumb little kid talking about video games? was my jacket really that soft-looking that makes you wanna try it? was she trying to tell me she didn't hate me? I'm shy and bad with words, and she was the silent type, there was no way I could talk with her about that or even about anything in general, the only times I ever talked with her was about upcoming tests or to borrow a pencil, that kind of stuff, yet it made me happy every single time. Whenever I think about school, she's the first thing that comes to mind, after 5 years I still feel emotionally attached to her, but now she's married and I know that if there ever was a chance, it doesn't exist anymore and I know we'll never cross paths ever again, but I feel happy for her and I know she is with the right person, because she's smarter than me, I know for a fact after 3 years as classmates, I don't know if I'll be able to feel like this for anyone else, ever.
a96589 No.35991
I've fallen in love a total of 4 times in my 20 years of life spawn.
Yeah, we feel like op said. But a lot of us want to be edgy and hide it.
When we lose that love, the love reverses into hatred if you were put in the pedestal or simply dissapears if you let it dissolve with time like a lot of people do.
Women can cherrypick all they want by saying men put girls in the pedestal too but its way to obvius that feminist are going to drive this world into an end and im okay with that.
I just hope that the buzzwords like beta, alpha omega and phedora dont arrive anytime soon into my countrt
d225ca No.35998
>>26544How sweet. I wish you had that.
>>35976Have you seriously never written a woman you love the equivalent of a love novel? God damn, I write the chicks I fall for poetry in rhymes, in imagery, in the way I touch them, the manner that I hold them close to me, in the way I say their name, etc.
Sorry you never told her about your feelings - maybe it's time to write her a letter and probably never speak to her again.
>>35991>its way to obvius that feminist are going to drive this world into an end and im okay with that. I'm with you on that one….I'm so damned jaded now it's not even funny. Shit hurts, but there are plenty of wonderful things completely apart from women. Animals, plants, etc.
e0bfc4 No.36015
>>35998She is married, probably has kids too, trying to get in contact with her *now* would be not only a huge bother for her, but also an act of selfishness, because she's probably happy and alright in her current situation, the only one who gains a benefit is me, it might sadden her a lot, because she's that kind of person, especially if she finds that I had feelings for her the whole time, from the very first days of hs, just ask to the girls in /fem/ and I'm sure they agree it's a very bad idea, man I don't even have a stable job lol if she divorces because of me, both our lives would be fucked, especially if she has kids…
35d0a9 No.36044
It's been 6 years since I spoke to my ex.
Things kind of fell apart because I got drunk at a New Years party. She didn't want me drinking that night because she wasn't going to be there.
The relationship would have fell apart due to trust issues like that - but I like to blame myself for being an idiot and drinking that night. Ruined a 4 year relationship. I haven't touched alcohol since.
I'd do anything to have her back, but I know she's happier with me out of her life - and I just want what will make her happy. So I stay out of her life.
Every few months I'll check her social media to make sure she's still alive. I don't read up on her life or what she's doing though - it would only hurt me to know and I don't want to be intrusive anyway. It's just comforting to know she hasn't died in a car accident or anything.
I'd say theres a lot of truth to OP's image.
I know its unhealthy to be like this, but I haven't been able to feel the same way about any other girl. I've tried looking but just haven't found anyone to fill that hole.
So now I just sit around watching anime with happy, romantic endings and just imagine how different my life could have been if I didn't drink that night.
8785bf No.36047
>>26157Goddamn, 71' and 93' must have sucked.
0f43e1 No.36066
>>24140>Girls are taught about feelings from an early age, boys are not (except that crying is for faggots).Stopped reading here. Boys haven't been taught this directly for several generations, and have hardly been taught in indirectly since the 80s at least.
cb988e No.36068
I'm 20. I've just got a gf. I think she has vaginismus or some shit named like that.
>literally can't into vagina
it hurts.
66115b No.36071
>>36068It's called clidoridectomy, Mustafa.
Happens a lot in kebabistan, you should know.
cb988e No.36081
>>36071Don't be mean, komshi.
66115b No.36089
>>36081Yiff in Mongolia, furfag.
a6ad91 No.36099
>>35957That's actually quite lovely, anon.
I think depth of feeling really depends on the individual and cannot be generalised to m/f identity politics.
I'm an extremely emotional person and I have intense relationships with other extremely emotional people. I imagine less emotional people seek each other out using some other measure of compatibility?
66115b No.36101
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>>36090You madder because
I'm more penis then u cb988e No.36110
83c904 No.36224
I used to have crushes on a few girls. I don't know what that feels like anymore. I don't know what being in love feels like at all. I'm pretty sure I'm a narcissist, so even if I could remember those feelings, they would not be helpful in this situation due to my self-centeredness.
66115b No.36234
>>36226
>women being more emotionally stable than men
HHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHA!
Oh wow…
42e68a No.36817
>>24079I'll be honest. I've been in five different relationships that lasted over a month, three of them over a year.
I had feelings for all these women, but only the first time I was in love. The text was awfully sappy but I wouldn't say that it was far from how I felt. It has been ten years and I still think of her. Not her today but her from the time when I was in love.
>The mark of a mature man is a certain scar he bears: the memory of a perfect woman never won, or of a once-true love forever lost. However much he may love you, he is only here because she is not.This describes it pretty well. I'd like to believe otherwise, but I don't think I'll be able to have the same feelings for another person again. It's a one-time deal.
42e68a No.36820
>>36817The sad part is that I still remember how she smelled.
c20999 No.38327
>>24140What's a guys first love like? We put our love first in an irrational way so much so that we're almost doomed to fail the relationship. When the relationship fails because, like some other anons said, we're emotionally stunted, those of us with half a brain end up being more skeptical of relationships.
This leads to us becoming much more emotionally closed off and can lead to a man turning to the pua community to get laid while avoiding emotional intimacy or just swearing off women all together.
The amount of relationships this takes to actually happen obviously varies and there are some happy endings but this is just a small look into the mind of a man who you may consider emotionally closed off or bitter. The guy you asked out but got turned down for seemingly no reason at all.
92006f No.38335
>>38327Thankfully my first "love" was a one sided unfulfilled mega-crush. It was embarrassing and quite cringeworthy in retrospect but at least since it stayed mostly in my head it did not do much irreparable damage to my external image other than being a bit too angsty even by average teen standards. On the upside it kinda forged me into a more realistic more desensitized person with greater control over my emotions and prevented me from developing high expectations and emotional investment in actual relationships.
398e11 No.38436
b49681 No.38476
>>24079I'll be honest OP this is some of the faggiest shit I've ever read. This is what I would write about my wife of 35 years not some random slut I want to fuck
35d0a9 No.38541
Before I could even begin to wonder the only true question. You found me, you hugged me, you showed me the answer.
I was young; I didn’t know what being alive meant. You were beautiful and you were oh so perfect. I wasn’t on earth. For the first and only time I can remember, I was happy. Time came and you changed. You didn’t smile how you used to, you didn’t laugh how you used to, you didn’t even smell like you used to. The real you arose.
No matter how hard I try and erase it, erase you, with more people, more distractions, more attempts that having fun. I tell myself I am happy. I’m not. The day you changed is the day earth lost its most beautiful creation. The universe misses you.
901ccf No.38551
>implying I would ever feel like that about a cunt
Good one.
I wish I was by nature an Asexual, but nope. I'm forced to be attracted to a sexes that's full of hate and vitriol, devoid of empathy and compassion.
Women love a man's status, and men love the woman herself.
Women are shallow, materialistic bitches.
Fuck you NAWALT's too. Fuck you to hell.
d69c64 No.38558
>>24140>men are emotionally stuntedMaybe it's women who are emotionally unstable. I mean, son of a bitch.
Why can't women be more like men in regards to drama? Why do some women feel the need to start shit where it doesn't exist and make a big deal out of nothing?
>oh he doesn't agree with me, I can't do this!>oh he doesn't like my one bitchy friend that I complain about all the time but will never stop hanging out with, I can't do this!>oh he tells me things I don't want to hear and doesn't sugarcoat, I can't do this!>oh he doesn't like some of the things I believe, I can't do this!With most young women I have known, this is the case. HELL, IF WE HAVE A GOOD THING GOING, WHY CAN'T YOU JUST GET OVER THE STUPID LITTLE THINGS AND ACT LIKE AN ADULT.
4aa371 No.38577
>>24140Since women try to commit suicide much more then men do, that means they're even worse at dealing with emotions then men, following your rationale.
Checkmate.
9d4519 No.38612
>>38577Women try to commit suicide more than men, but succeed at it much less than men.
This is because most female suicide attempts are just 'cries for attention'.
af95e1 No.38640
>>38612So they're not good at handling it. They're just bad at being bad at it.
5733da No.38641
>>38558God I wish you were single, and female… fuck it just single. Okay, just lived near me… okay I'm okay with this situation as is.
96d83b No.38665
>>38558This is why you don't date girls you date women.
d55ddf No.46206
I don't know what it's like for other guys, but anyone I bring close to me, including my mate, ceases to be something I desire, but something that becomes part of me. An extension of my being. And like myself, I demand the greatest from it.
If it hurts, I am hurt. If it is happy, I am happy. And if there is a problem, it must be fixed.
I think for girls it never happens quite like that, as guys seem more "practical" while girls are more….romantic in that way.
328eee No.46249
While sophomoric and clearly rose tinted, the op picture doesn't necessarily lie. I've certainly said and felt the same things to my love.
I've been in love 3 times, the first was juvenile and wierd and wonderful, and ended in the crushing of my heart. The second was what I thought was going to be the one, 5 years I spent with her through hardship and new heights, we fought, we loved, cheated and repented, through it all I believe I gained a deeper understanding of my own self, human desire and condition.
The third and current time was a surprise, still in love with a woman of 5 years my friend brought his new girlfriend to the beach with us, he went to be a gloomy dark brooding mess by himself in the woods and she sat next to me and passed me a smoke. I looked in her eyes and in that moment I knew I was going to fuck her. It wasn't until much later when I had, that I realized I had fallen for her.
What followed was a mess, but I came out the other side in a different place, physically and emotionally, firmly attached to the woman I know I will be spending the rest of my life with. She challenges me intellectually and excites me physically.
Yet these are not close to being able to describe the feelings I have for her. To sum it up, she gives me purpose. There is plenty of lighting my life and half smiles and thinking about her always, it goes deeper when you find that connection, because that's what it really is, love is a chemical connection to another person, your body reacts, your mind follows, your heart fills. A man feels love like any other person does, what brings about the confusion shown in this thread is a lack of knowledge, lack of experience.
A man's love may not be different, but it may manifest itself in different ways, there is no feeling in the world like taking something(or one) from someone else and making them your's. Becoming someone else's. Many talk of power plays and dominance, but to truly understand you have to look deeper, I may boss her around the bedroom, she may enjoy my hands around her throat, she may dance provocatively in public with other women, she may toss her hair and stand hips tilted talking to another man, these are all games.
Another problem I think in our understanding, is that I believe our personal understanding, and the manifestations thereof, of love can both grow and shrink, depending on our experiences, and a lot like 1500mg of lsd, may be hard to quantify or enumerate without sounding like a mad man or a retard.
To touch upon another subject here, love begeting hatred when lost. Again you have to come at it from a different angle, the opposite of love is not hate, they are often intertwined. Like two ends of a horseshoe, or two sides to a coin, they are more alike then not. The opposite of love or hate, is apathy.
5899a5 No.46409
>>24079I fucking hate to admit it, but it's true.
He forgot to mention the part where every moment the girl you like is paying that attention to someone else or shows impure tendencies, it feels like a thousand niggers are stabbing your chest with screwdrivers. 92a002 No.46462
>>38476>This is what I would write about my wife of 35 yearsExactly, that faggy shit describes being in love, and in an evolved relationship with your special someone.
>not some random slut I want to fuckBut you're not in love with that random slut anon.
eb4cd5 No.46464
>>24848>Responding to month old postsDon't even care
She's fucking other dudes, man
Guaranteed.
Don't end up as a cuck, move on.
398cd9 No.46465
Love is not something you feel, love is something you talk about when you don't know for shit what you're talking about.
Any two people who "feel love the same way" are just people who haven't thought about it enough to cut the bullshit, and instead fill the gaps in their respective feelings with self-projection to fool themselves into thinking they are at all on each other's level. Any arbitrary groupings, including "men" or "women", have enough idiots within them to fall to these trappings.
70c3f1 No.46479
>>26552I would agree with this the most.I feel like woman tend to be a bit more cautious about it at first while men are more prone to fall head over heels. I think its just the way we are made as humans.
Not that there can't be exceptions to the rule.
c7aa9f No.50334
Guy.
4 years after a breakup, ender up on meds, througout these 4 years I kicked myself in so many ways that I died spiritually. All because I found "the one". Absolutely compatible, both very interested in character design and silly jap shit, similar music, among other things. Anyway, long distance, skype every day, sleeping together through skype, all that fun stuff. Living a fantasy really. We lost our virginity to one another, while her parents were off on vacation, I took about 3 planes to see her in person, I sometimes feel guilty about that even today, 8 years after the fact -I mean the whole "behind her families back thing", I always wished that I could write her father a formal apology and tell him just how madly in love I was with his daughter, I have his email, but I never wrote it thinking.. nah, it'll just develop a strange relationship between her and her father… so I sacrificed even the option to write a forgiveness letter. Honor is very important to men.. if there is a heaven, I hope he can judge me based on my undying love for her.
What I learned is that women truly don't love like men, at almost any age, with the exception of motherhood and grave loss, and there are so few that genuinely understand. Certain women tend to love with a sense of escapism, in other words, they'll love to break the routine, but never be so fully invested in it that it jeopardizes relationships with her mother and father (which I respect). A man will go against anyone for true love, especially their mother and father (which may not always be so smart). Men have a combative nature to them that sticks, women seem to have a combative nature to defend more subtle things, like someones integrity, I wouldn't say they "protect less", I'd say they protect what they want in so long as it doesn't hurt anyone, but this is only a singular observation, there are many modes, sometimes even reversed roles.
All I can say today, is that my love for her was so intense that I burned because of it. And her decision to move on, however cruel, was ultimately better for the both of us. Her weakness would have destroyed us eventually (not but a week after she decided to go out with some guy she knew, I didn't know about this till a year and a half later and through some other guy that hit on her). But also, her family and mine would never have made any sense together, we were very different, yet her and I so much alike (with minor exceptions).
Another thing I learned is that forced love is never good love. And this is one of the reasons I was able to overcome her memory in a negative light, among many others (layer after layer of introspection). It's almost as if God had made up his mind about us before we were even born.
9d4519 No.50336
>>24079That is the sappiest pile of shit I ever had the displeasure of reading.
4ea49d No.50367
>>26157weird that there was a lot of suicide during the turn of the century but not during the depression
c7aa9f No.50402
>>50334I wanna add to this… because this might sound crazy after what I've written.. but I feel that God doesn't make mistakes, I feel he makes decisions. And he can make a short moment feel like a million years, a long time feel like just yesterday. It's as if life is in reverse order, for what we cherish lives on in memories.
I also used to think that God pairs us up with the perfect mate, always, if we genuinely want love. But eventually it's our own weaknesses or even strengths that destroy what God intended, or maybe it's because we lie to ourselves that the fantasy can be maintained, I don't mean love, to me love is real, I mean it's continuation, in a sense, it can't go on because we're so desperate to keep it going, contrary to our own negative feelings or the sound opinion of family.
I feel God shows us the light through ourselves and others, but we get it and throw it aside to experience darkness, but no matter how dark it is, that light shines eternally, if we let it.
If I hugged her now, 8 years after the fact, I feel that we would transmit to ourselves an awful lot that has been burried, no matter how many people she has been with. Even if we simply go our separate ways. That kind of love destroys lives, but it can also heal…
All things must be transparent to work, or they will not. All secrets must come forward or lifes very burden will impede ones success. If not your own, that of those around you.
>>50367Abundance creates spiritual scarcity. Scarecity creates spiritual abundance. We live in a world of abundance, even the so called poorest members in our society are doing great compared to genuinely poor nations.
50e737 No.50405
>I've heard time and time again from other men that women don't feel love like men do.
The lie in it is men telling other men that between them they all feel love the same, which they don't. Your problem is that you take your ideas of love from… alpha males.
a44f12 No.50659
>>24847I think it is basically because of the way we are raised to perceive emotions.
>men: suck it up, nobody cares>women: let it all out, every one is there for youThus, elevating the value men place on feelings, just think about it, women deal with emotions like sneezing or farting, they say "I love x", "I hate x", "I wanna cry","omg ur horrible gibe me wat i want sob sob*" and move on as if nothing happened, they trivialize it into everyday happenstance.
Whereas men are wary of letting their emotions shine through, "people will make fun of me", "there's no use making a fuzz about this", "take it like a man", and so on, they choose to bury their feelings.
That's why most men are "cool headed", have repressed anger issues, and actually kill themselves when they try, because unlike
>>24140 says, men are not emetionally immature, they're emoionally deprived.
I don't want to sound like a clingy faggot here, but I doubt women understand how meaningful can be for a man to open up, they do it all the time for all the reasons and no one gives them shit for it.
a44f12 No.50663
>>50659> they do it all the time for all the reasons and no one gives them shit for it.Women I mean
4ce1f7 No.50693
>>24079The guy who wrote that sounds like a massive fag
83c904 No.50702
When a guy is in love he has hope. He invests himself in it.
When a girl is in love, it's another toy for her to play with.
4ce1f7 No.50712
>>50702and when a beta who hasn't been burned talks about love it looks like the OP image and when a beta who has been burned talks about love it looks like what you posted
Faggot
9a6322 No.50720
>>50712>betashaming attempts in the freaking chansGets me every time!
96ae87 No.50744
>>50659>men are not emetionally immature, they're emoionally deprivedSounds about right. The emotionally immature ones are the people who treat their feelings like fat alcoholics treat bowel movement. Not all men are emotionally repressed, but the ones blamed of being "emotionally immature" are actually that, and people calling it immaturity are just morons. Often only saying that to drive attention away from their own immaturity, the actual one that should rather be addressed and dealt with.
21e126 No.50791
>>24079If you want to see what a Mans love will make him do look at technology, medicine, architecture, art, poetry, classic literature and how western and eastern laws always favor the women.
We do everything with the women in our lives as our first priority.
As a Christian I can some it up in one verse
Ephesians 5:25
Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her
Think about how much Christ loves the church and what he was willing to do and that is what most men in love with a women will strive to emulate even if they arent christian.
438904 No.50814
>>50659A man is not weak. If they are, they disguise it as strength. This is because if you're a man, you're held to a higher standard. A weak man will not be respected. In certain situations, showing weakness can mean his death.
Women are not interested in their men's weaknesses, either. If he can't handle the world, how can he handle her? I wouldn't rely on any woman to help me with any of my problems, even though they expect me to do that for them. The best thing is to be able to confidently handle any problem that comes your way. That is only possible if you experience repeated success; you become used to it. Only loyal brothers can be trusted with pleas for help. We must treasure our good friends, for they can be much more valuable than the women in our lives.
>>50702>When a girl is in love, it's another toy for her to play with.True… Until she's over 30.
a57c52 No.50839
>The male yandere.
a57c52 No.50845
>>24881>Because that shit sounds entirely as infatuation BEFORE being in a relationship. This too. Women's love grows over time, men are obsessed until they get what they want and then lose interest if they aren't kept on their toes with passive aggressive bullshit that reminds them of their mothers or flat-out abuse from the woman that the men just romanticize.
badcca No.50860
>being anything other than a alpha male
Lol fucking end it dude, you know no ones gonna love you unless you are a top quality male
1971b3 No.51021
>>50860No, you're buying into the illusion just as much as Feminist Extremists do.
People find love all the time that aren't anything special-they're special to each other.
Love is not an objective thing and therefore really does matter the most to the people in love with each other.
While there are ways to fall in love, things to fall in love with, things that people stereotypically love each other for; People are still going to love each other.
The false message, the false reality that men buy into, is that only Alpha men receive love and that women only want Alpha men.
The false reality that preys upon women is that they won't be able to be loved by anyone but Alpha men.
In the past, neither of these things mattered and issues between man and woman were interpersonal rather than permeating society.
Because men and women have both been disenamoured by love and the relationship that should exist between them-shown both men and women in media that are perfect in every way, an unrealistic portrayal of the dynamics between people in real life (even the bad guys have next to no flaws)- they've been ensnared by a message that you deserve the perfect person.
After all, it happens all the time (on T.V.).
ceb060 No.51025
>>51021I'm pretty sure its just substandard girls and beta guys that fall in love with each other cause they can't get anything better.
Also women only care about getting the love of non-alpha guys when they know the non-alpha guys don't care about them anymore and wont commit.
1971b3 No.51029
>>51025>I'm pretty sure its just substandard girls and beta guys that fall in love with each other cause they can't get anything better.
>substandard girlsThere you go. You don't even understand what you're doing. If there can be Beta men, there can be Beta women.
By stating they're Beta, you're stating they're less that perfect. Substandard is less than Beta.
Yet, you classify them in the same class as Substandard women.
You're the exact type that has fallen for this insane message than men and women are on a scale of Omega to Alpha instead of understanding that certain men are attracted to certain women and vice versa.
Women and men look for certain traits-some consciously and others with a underlying subconscious drive.
You're trying to say we're purely animal, that somehow you can make a designation between people whom are Alpha and people whom are Beta when these aren't even applicable to humans or animals.
An Alpha leads a pack-the others aren't considered Betas, they're just not the leader. They still mate with others of the opposite sex, they just don't get the best pickings because they haven't established dominance.
People aren't savage animals, we don't 'assert dominance'.
>Also women only care about getting the love of non-alpha guys when they know the non-alpha guys don't care about them anymore and wont commit.Bad stereotyping based upon the aforementioned reasoning.
Ask women what they consider Alpha-female. They will not agree, just as asking men what they consider an Alpha-male will not agree.
You could ask them what they considered the Alpha of the opposite sex to be and you would find just as many variations.
How morons fall for this shit I may never know, but I do know why they think that way and why it's wrong.
Stoic elitism will cause further erosion in relations between men and women-not spurn on the creation of more 'Alphas'.
You are mistaken horrifically, and you will not realize the error of your ways until those eggs you've been trying to protect in your basket turn out to have been rotten from the start.
517cb7 No.51030
>>51029>they just don't get the best pickingsThat was a lot of words to restate what I had said from the start.
1971b3 No.51032
>>51030I don't expound upon things solely for your sake.
Even so, you missed it's entire point.
e7dc23 No.51043
>>51032>Woman was created for manJust like they say in the Bible !
1971b3 No.51051
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>>51043It takes two frog.
I get it that you're even more secular than us these days-that doesn't change the fact of biological or sociological natures.
Also, is this an ad hominem? Very poor form anon.
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1c4452 No.51064
>>51032>men don't care about hierarchyUmmm pretty much all male mammals form a dominance hierarchy in order to establish who gets the best women and so on and so on. This is why you always see /pol/ throwing around the cuck meme and why the alpha beta thing is such a popular concept. Women just establish their hierarchy differently. Failure to understand the differences between men and women probably leads you to assume that they're inferior…
1971b3 No.51140
>>51064>Failure to understand the differences between men and women probably leads you to assume that they're inferior…Do you mean the difference between how men and women organize themselves or something else?
Women tend to be petty, men tend to be forceful in straight relation to the establishing of hierarchy. Those who do tend to fall prey to this categorization fall into one of two categories; Elitist or vain.
de313e No.51151
>>24079this tumblrpost was written by a betamax
fb8d77 No.51159
>>24079girls overanalize love too much for me at least, love is just an emotion like fear or anger or hapiness we don't put that emotion into a pedestal and start thinking thats our reason to live, unlike girls i meet that keep talking about that all day all night thinking about their future love for me at least it's just a feeling a good feeling I like to feel. And sure I love being around the girl I love but i don't think its something magical that came outside a fairytale.
Tllddr:
girls think too much about love
men just feel it
e22a87 No.51171
>Falling in love
398cd9 No.51189
>>51159>head up his own ass>analyzes it this much>only accounts for self but generalizes for all men>"men don't overanalyze"uugh
this entire fucking thread
093e52 No.51356
>>51059>>51059>>51059This is hilariously stupid. Females made their bed and now they cab lie in it. You don't get to take all the male positions, change society, then complain that your changes to society made the opposite sex unattractive to you. Don't like it?
Woman up.
97c13a No.51836
>>50845Is that your excuse for being a bitch?
3cf2a4 No.51840
>>24079it hurts to think about
8c2f03 No.51860
>>51021>The false message, the false reality that men buy into, is that only Alpha men receive love and that women only want Alpha men.It is true that woman obviously prefer Alpha men. The real false reality is that people think looks matter.
Do you really think cavewomen cared if the cavemen were pretty boys? They cared that they could defend them, be decisive, a leader, unwavering under stress and pressure and able bring food on the table. These are the circumstances under which our brains evolved, and modern society is to young to have changed a deep rooted core instinct like that.
The only thing that changed is that society holds up these pretty boys, giving them all the attention what makes them confident. While you, the slightly weird kid were told to shut the fuck up.
But we've all seen it. That ugly guy, that short guy, that fat guy, with a pretty girl. But you pretend not to. "He just got lucky", "He must have a lot of money", "She's probably an escort", ect…
For women looks do matter more. Because that are signs of fertility. And because we like pretty women, you obviously think women must like pretty men as well.
>>51051>>51056>>51057>>51059While it is true that men are opting more than ever. She's making some serious assumptions here.
411d72 No.51866
>>24079>emotions are a form of evolutionary conditioning to reinforce the protection of women by menSecular brainwashing if I've ever seen it.
d318ef No.51920
>>51860I read through it and most of it is "ladies are unhappy that they replaced man and now the men aren't attractive because they aren't appealing to the submission fetish women have. Therefore its men's fault for not competing in this environment."
Also stuff like saying that the guys who live in Mom's basement have self-esteem that is the opposite of the case.
3e59b1 No.51934
>>24079That is some sappy dribble right there.
Here is how I, a 31yo man feel when I'm in love.
In the honeymoon stage she is on my mind most of the time and I can't wait to see her again. I want to hold her, show her new things, take her places and generally spend a lot of time with her while keeping it interesting for her (she is enough to hold my attention). This is the most intense stage from me and I would die for this girl I barely know.
Beyond that I like really getting to know who she is and where she has come form. This is the point here I'm figuring out if the honeymoon stage blinded me to something that puts me off her.
From there it's the comfortable stage where if I'm still with her then she means a lot to me. This is when I really notice the small things, it might be the way she smiles or tilts her head to use her phone… The little things that make me love her more. This is what I consider true love and I have been lucky enough to spend 5 years there with a woman is saw as perfect.
fb1e72 No.52030
>>25454Welcome to the hell of BPD. I'm a a female whos trapped in the same cycle. ahaha
1971b3 No.52078
>>51920The reason is because while she realizes the reality-that men are attempting to evade society more and more-is not because she understands the reasoning behind it but understands that it's not good for society.
Though I don't think the author understands the eventual collapse of a society dominated by women, her line of thought for the most part is what drives men away from women.
Men don't want to hear the lie that they're avoiding obtaining a family because they can't handle competition-that's the furthest from the truth.
Men enjoy competition between each other-they don't enjoy competition with women.
They get into a frame of mind that is essentially 'Why bother? They say they don't need me and they are in a position where they truly don't. Why should I attempt to cater to a woman when they're in a position above me-I would need their assistance more than the opposite.'
But the opposite is also true a modern day society-that men shouldn't have to be solely responsible for keeping the house in order or being the sole bread winner.
The truth is that man and woman will be ultimately satisfied when the realm of household operations they excel at are under their control or a shared responsibility between each other.
It may not have been like this in the past-and by that I mean more than 1000 years ago-but it is the reality of man and woman's relationship now.
So when women and other men create a system that doesn't hold true to the desires of a society, that holds up those who don't strive to better themselves or others, a system that deprives men of their manhood and punishes them for any display of masculinity, a system built for the comfort of one sex; The system is gamed against them-this makes it a logical assumption and decision not to play the rigged game.
While men can still succeed, that is not going to be the case for much longer-the worst of whom receive this systems ire being the young white male.
But not because he's not being cared about the most-no, instead all of the tools a young man of any race has been removed from them, but minorities have been prioritized in the pecking order for perceived and past injustices.