fc2af4 No.24876
Are you someone's sister /fem/? What is(are) your relationship(s) like with your sibling(s)?
For only children, do you wish you had a sibling?
178d91 No.24883
>>24876I have a brother older than me by 10 years. Until I was 12, he was my best friend and father figure. He got me into things like gaming and made a tomboy out of me. But he had an argument with our mother and moved in with his fiancee, and when I refused to side with him he decided to never contact me again. I haven't seen him in six years. ;_;
fc2af4 No.24885
>>24883I doubt he's still mad, he's probably just embarrassed. You should contact at him and hash it out, remind him you were 12. You only have your family
0dd58d No.24886
>>24883I'm an older brother living a similar conundrum.
Contact him. He probably loved you dearly and his heart is probably broken by now. He can be resentful of the whole ordeal, but he will prefer having his little sister again.
That, or he's a huge jerk.
04ab5e No.24888
I have 3 sisters and no brothers (my poor dad jokes that he always wanted to be surrounded by women but this isn't what he had in mind)
My oldest sister is 6 years my senior and lives in another state. We were never particularly close since she moved off to college while I was still relatively young, in middle school. We will be spending Christmas all together though since she just got engaged and I think only my parents have met her fiance.
My second older sister is the one I would say I'm closest to. We're one year and 11 days apart and grew up inseparable. We were treated like twins since we were so close; we each got one of everything, that sort of thing. She moved out around 3 years ago but we still text and talk on facebook and stuff. We don't really have too much in common anymore unfortunately.
My younger sister is 9 years younger than me and has Downs Syndrome. I used to really like her since I always wanted a little sister. I was protective and was the whole "ideal big sister" kind of thing for a while. After a few years though I realized it's really taxing having a disabled sister. I still live at home with my parents and younger sister and I get pad to take care of her (watch her, bathe her, feed her, make sure she gets ready for school, and take her to and from school each day) It's… frustrating. I'mm 22 and I really want to get out and have a life but my commitment to my family kid of holds me back. I hate to admit it, but I resent my younger sister a lot, and in a way I also resent my parents for having her. At least it's really solidified in my mind that I'll never have a disabled child. I'm already raising one and she's not even mine. I see my little sister as less of a sister and more of a burden, as horrible as it is for me to say.
fc2af4 No.24894
>>24888Do you think she feels like she is a burden?
04ab5e No.24895
>>24894I don't know how she feels. She's 13 but mentally seems to be more like 6 or 7, but with the moodiness of a teenager. Al she really does when she's at home is watch cartoons and eat cheese.
fc2af4 No.26198
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483384 No.26202
>>24888I feel like your parents are just shoving their responsibilities on to you. Are you worried they would feel like you're being selfish if you say you want to be more independent? Also if you have brought that up and they have said you're being selfish just remind them that THEY are her parents, not you. You're her sister and while I assume you do want to help her out, being her caregiver has clearly overtaxed you. Save up, move out, find a job (put down all those years as a caregiver as experience because IT FUCKING IS), live life, suck dicks/lick pussies, get white girl wasted, grow as a person.
648a02 No.26263
I have a brother, 3 years older than me. We used to bicker and argue a lot - especially once I hit my teens. He always knows just the right buttons to push to get his lulz. Still does, but it just evolves into mutually enjoyable banter. What looks to everyone else like a heated argument is just us having fun now.
a81f63 No.26285
>>26266I wanna wait until 27 for my first child but I aspire for like 4 children but I'm 9 years away from that age. My aspirations are too big, atleast there's till plenty of time until then. I hope it will be safe, gosh how do people not feel terrified of there being problems?
9f8770 No.26287
I'm an only child, and I like being alone. I don't like sharing my things with people, and my mother likely wouldn't have been able to support multiple children. If she'd had more I likely wouldn't have the nice things I have, because she wouldn't have been able to afford two; like my computer, or vidja. Being an only child and being fine, if I ever have any children (despite not wanting any), I think it could only be one. To me, having children outnumber the parents seems like a bad idea.
If I had to choose though, I'd like to have an older brother.
0cfada No.26599
I have a little sister. She's a feminist with green hair…
133704 No.26628
I have a younger brother who I still love very much. He went through a major surgery recently so I bought him an Xbox and a bunch of games for him to play while he recuperates. I taught him the joys of vidya a long time ago and we used to PvP in WoW back when we weren't so busy.
475d45 No.27726
>>24876I have a younger brother, we were super close when we were kids though we are nothing alike. We live in different countries now and are bad at keeping in touch, but when we do see each other about once a year we are always best friends again. It's a good relationship.
c4a8ee No.34482
I don't have any siblings. In the past couple of years (21 now) I would've liked to have a sister around my age, but if I had a sister through almost all my life, I would've turned out very different. I don't hate myself, so if I had the option of changing the past I probably wouldn't.
9f7116 No.36428
>>36427
I have a brother three years older than I am. He's always been a good big brother to me. Taught me how to read and write and do math. We would play vidya together, he introduced me to good music from a young age. Taught me how to get out of locks and other sparring type skills. (I might be 98 pounds and pretty weak, but I'm deceptively good at counter-attacks.)
He's more protective than my parents are. I feel bad that when I was a mess a few years ago, he blamed himself. I didn't realize how much he sees me as bring his responsibility.
9f7116 No.36431
>>24883I agree with
>>24885 and
>>24886 >>24888It's not horrible; that's the reality of the situation.
9f7116 No.36885
If any guys are lurking, is be curious to know what their answers are.
851024 No.36897
>>36885Only child here, I wish I had either an older brother to whip me into shape or a younger sis to protect :/
9f7116 No.36899
>>36885*I'd be
>>36897Guy or girl?
32022d No.36902
>>3688521 with a younger sister who's 18. We used to be close and have common interests and play together but this lasted until I was maybe 12. Since then we pretty much have nothing in common and don't talk much. We're not on bad terms but since I moved out neither of us has a reason to talk to each other.
If I could describe our relationship it would be two people who happened to grow up in the same house. That's all we have in common pretty much. If she needs help I have her back and vise versa but yeah there's not much there emotionally.
b9b4ff No.36906
>Be youngest of 2 girls 2 guys in family
>Have to deal with 2 older sisters and an older brother
>was 16
>Parents split up
>Am 20 now
>Father now has found a new younger wife and my mother has found a new husband
>My father gets his new wife pregnant
>I now have a younger half sister
>My face when
I'm not ready to be an older brother someone halp
9f7116 No.36909
>>36902That gave me more feels than I was expecting.
>>36906Do you live near your father now?
17a1a9 No.36910
>>36885I have a little brother. I don't like him.
He says he needs to study to get out of his chores, and I catch him playing Warframe instead.
He says he's going to refuse to go to school, and my parents have to start unscrewing his door and take away all of his games to get him to move. They're practically my back up alarm now, since they always have to start the day yelling at him.
There's a lot of shit like that, he's not dumb, he's just insanely lazy. It's making me wonder if it's worth staying with my parents during college to save money because I get dragged into this shit a lot.
I care about the rest of my family however, it's not like I'm some edgelord that wants to be all alone. I'm probably closer to my cousin who lives down the street.
b9b4ff No.36911
>>36909Yes, he's taken my half sister on her first international trip for now but they're coming back to raise her here in canada. It seems she might be the only other introverted person in the family besides me now.
851024 No.36912
>>36899I thought the fact that I was a guy was implicit.
9f7116 No.36919
>>36910How old is he? That does sound rather stressful.
>>36911Will they live close (like not more than an hour drive)?
What do you wish you'd known growing up?
>>36912True, I just didn't want to make an assumption. Why do you want a younger sister, if you don't mind my asking?
17a1a9 No.36925
>>36919He is 16 now. This has been going on for the better part of a decade now. It upsets my mother that I probably won't talk to him once I don't have to interact with him anymore, but I'm really at my limit. He's a key reason why I'm wary of having kids lol.
32022d No.37178
>>36909It always makes me kind of sad when I see siblings who are close and hang out a lot because it's such a foreign idea to me. I'd be lying if i said I wasn't jealous of close siblings but it could be lot worse.
4635b8 No.37203
>>3688520, 2 brothers. Both older.
f3a7a2 No.37237
>>3688525 no siblings, but I wish I had a sister, younger or older, after watching too many animu I began to love the sister figure in general (no incest though), but realistically speaking in my family would be a very bad idea (no cash nor enough intellect to grow more than one child).
9f7116 No.37941
>>36925The flip side is that you do have your siblings for almost your whole life. My mom's side of the family isn't all that close; it really makes her out sometimes. My dad has a brother, and they drive each other nuts, but they still love one another.
That being said, it's more than reasonable to set boundaries.
>>37178Yeah…when I was with my ex, my brother and I grew apart. We're closer again, but it's not like it used to be and it makes me really sad.
>>37237Yeah, kids are expensive.
You know you've been on the internet too long when you're relieved to read
(no incest though). But really, why all the incest?It's got to be only children who think it sounds appealing. Nobody with a sibling would think that. 93b910 No.37957
f4b6a7 No.37959
>>37941>My mom's side of the family isn't all that close; it really makes her out sometimes. My dad has a brother, and they drive each other nuts, but they still love one another. I don't know how to talk about this without sounding like a Jerry Springer extra. But long story short my mother only talks to her direct siblings (not half siblings) and her fathers side of the family, and all of my fathers family is too damaged to deal with.
Then it's like, everyone forgot to have kids I guess? There's my cousin at 30 who literally has an IQ of 80 something (she was a premature baby), my sheltered cousin, then there's me and my shitter brother. Within a few decades everyone else will be dead or close to it.
I really do wonder what the fuck is going to happen to this family once I graduate, or if I should bother having a family, or any of that nonsense.
>But really, why all the incest?It's got to be only children who think it sounds appealing. Nobody with a sibling would think that.God I'm trying to figure out what it's called but basically if you grow up with someone you won't really see them as a sexual candidate, even if the bond isnt blood.
9f7116 No.37965
>>37959I know that feel. Family can be a double-edged sword.
Westermarck effect, I believe.
a6aa97 No.37986
>>37941>But really, why all the incest?It's got to be only children who think it sounds appealing. Nobody with a sibling would think that.I have a sister who I am very close to and care about greatly even though we are half-way across the world. I am of course not even remotely attracted to her physically nor romantically. The thought of it just doesn't compute with my mind.
Oddly enough incest is one of my fetishes. I blame it on anime, but I like shows or hentai with sibling incest themes.
I might just be weird though.
335657 No.37990
>>36885I have a sister 5 years younger than myself. I've never been too close to her. She was and still is a spoiled brat, which actually makes me resent her. I haven't actually had a conversation with her in 4 years, and I really dont want to.
But I will fuck up anyone who hurts her. 9f7116 No.39236
>>37986So you mean having sex with a sister, but not the sister you actually have. Idk, weird is a relative term.
>>37990Is this a common older brother thing?
eb9e07 No.39245
>>37959>God I'm trying to figure out what it's called but basically if you grow up with someone you won't really see them as a sexual candidate, even if the bond isnt blood.It's called the Westermarck Effect!
9e81f6 No.39252
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>>39236I think it makes sense like this: people like to fantasize about intimate and naughty sexual acts. Fantasizing about incest has an added level of intimacy and naughtiness.
We generally aren't attracted to the people in our own family, Westermarck effect perhaps. So we generally don't want to think about our own family that way. However people can more easily fantasize about others engaging in incest. Someone without an actual sibling could fantasize about having a sibling that they do naughty things with.
fc2af4 No.39269
>>36885I have a younger brother and he behaves like a wigger. I hate his guts
43d6ed No.39270
guy here
I have 3 siblings, all girls. Raised by a single mother. So, I was the oldest and the only guy in the family. It was always weird, because I was taught as a kid that girls are inherently smarter than guys, so I always felt dumb and stupid and my mom would always call me stupid anytime I ever made any kind of mistake. She was really narcissistic and would make a point of making anyone feel terrible if they didn't do whatever she wanted them to do, and had no problems manipulating people against each other (She often pitted me and my sisters against each other)
As for my siblings, I don't dislike them, but I don't feel any attachment to them at all. If something awful happened to them, I wouldn't be happy about it, but I have a hard enough time getting attracted to anyone, much less family members.
Its like, I grew up with them, they're alright people but I can't bring myself to care about them. Some people I talk to think having a shitty mother made it so that I don't attach to other people very well so that might explain things.
213253 No.39296
I have an older brother one and a half years older than I. We were really close when we were little, usually choosing to play imaginary games with all of our free time. When he pubesced he decided to quit being besties which tore me up like hell, but it was understandable. He still shepherded me through a few of my teenage rites (big school plays, first time getting high, first kegger, etc). I miss being really close to him, but I admire the strong funny and charismatic man he's become, he was always my hero and in many ways continues to be so.
We also have a little sister five years younger than I. We were pretty fucking horrible to her when we wanted her to keep out of our business back when we were all kids. Right now at seventeen, she's an absolute tumblrina, but that's just how girls her age are. She's actually pretty funny and cooks up some great food. Over the last three years we've actually become friends and that's been awesome.
c03d72 No.39319
Guy here, have three younger siblings, two brothers, one sister (sister is the youngest.)
I'm pretty close with all of them, my only concern is my sister, who's gone full tumblr-she has the most stereotypically teen blog in existence, which is home to bizarre fanfictions and SJWish feminism.
>mfw
How do I help her see the light, /fem/?
43d6ed No.39320
>>39319>How do I help her see the light, /fem/?Provide a good example of moderate, egalitarian balance between SJWs and MRA's and that her extreme SJW behavior isn't really necessary when centrism is more rational and generally more appealing for everyone.
cb42bd No.39387
Are there any only child /fem/ in here? I find that most people don't really understand the plight of only children. Sure we're treated like the oldest, get the attention of the youngest, and everything we own is new but lets stop the positives there. Unless we grow up in the same town for our entire lives and make friends that basically become family, we're fucked. We don't understand how to interact with someone that you've living with and disagree with, we don't have an older sibling to learn from the mistakes of, we don't have a younger sibling to teach how to avoid the mistakes we've made. We don't understand dealing with conflict, we don't get to experience different social groups that wouldn't normally know we exist or protect us if needed. And I mean there's just tons of other shit horrible about it. So any single Fem that can relate?
67c233 No.39392
>>39270Haha… you're living the dreaded "single mother" nightmare…
43d6ed No.39424
67c233 No.39457
>>39392Well not so much single mother as Turbo feminist. I've heard stories from guys raised by feminist mothers without fathers around, it sounds like hell on earth. You're not alone their are a lot of other people that lived in a similar situation.
b4f206 No.39483
I'm the older sister! My brother is a year and change younger than me. We're pretty close, I guess. I'm his role model because I have a cool job and have moved out and apparently have my shit together. I try hard to be a good older sister because I want my brother to see that it's possible to get out of the 'hood and have a good life.
758868 No.39524
>>36885I have an older sister. She is very kind and pretty. When we were kids, she used to make lots of time for us to hang out together, and didn't mind me hanging around her friends. She was the one that introduced me to both video games and anime. Before she went off to college, we'd spend hours in her room, talking, watching anime, listening to music. We even shared a bed a few times. I wonder if she was really asleep when I awkwardly tried to feel her up as an 11 year old boy.
I was pretty much in love with her from the day I was born 'til 16 or so, when she got married. He's a good guy, so I'm glad she didn't end up with an asshole or a douchebag, but I started resenting both of them somewhat after that. We don't hang out much nowadays, though still probably a lot more than most adult siblings. When we do, she usually gets drunk and starts teasing me, snuggling with me, lightly touching me, even slapping my ass, while I somehow conceal my raging erection. I'll embrace her while we're watching something together, or even hold her hand while we're going on a walk, but if I ever try to do anything more than that, she silently backs off. When she goes to sleep and I'm left alone with my thoughts, just imagining myself kissing her is enough to push me over the edge.
I like to think she's secretly a brocon, but she's a very conservative, Christian, "good girl" kind of person, so sadly for me, her feelings are probably just regular (if strong) familial love. I often ignore her messages nowadays and she gets sad, thinking I hate her, but she doesn't get that it's the exact opposite. I'm jealous and bitter that I didn't grow up fast enough to become a responsible young man and sweep her off her feet before her husband did. I feel like she's ruined all other women for me, but I can never ever have her.
1e28aa No.39536
>>24876Bitch onee-chan. Though I used to be proud of her, and still am, I am probably dead to her.
Socially retarded robot otouto that I regret bullying as a teen. I feel partly responsible and a terrible person for ruining his ego and apparently life. I try to compensate but he's grown distant and I haven't talked to him for months. ;_;
0cfada No.39539
>>39524Man that's tragic, anon. It's like a movie with a sad ending.
182f4e No.39662
>>39524That sounds suffering
>spanks my ass>religious girl Nice
9f7116 No.41660
>>39252When you explain it like that, it makes more sense.
>>39296I know that feel about not being besties like when you were little. And my brother definitely did the rite-of-passage guidance too. He taught me about weed and alcohol and taking the train. And it's great that you're close with your younger sister; a lot of girls grow out of tumblrinaism.
>>39319Keep an eye on the blog if doing so doesn't invade her privacy. Just spend time with her; having an older brother who cares about her can help her be well-adjusted. And it's hard to hate men when the men in your life are kind to you.
On a side note: my brother had always been a bit of a feminist, largely because he cares about the world his little sister is going to live in. I have always been a tad sexist (well, I believe in equal treatment as the most pragmatic approach; but nowadays that means I'm anti-feminist bullshit).
>>39387I'm sure there are quite a few only children. While only children get a lot of parental resources, I feel like having a brother has been the most valuable part my upbringing. To be fair, my brother is exceptionally kind; a lot of sibling relationships are somewhat adversarial.
>>39483Good on you; I deeply admire older siblings who care about their younger siblings.
Sort of brings tears to my eyes when I think about it.>>39524Damn, anon. That must be rough. While feelings like that aren't normal, its not something you chose. Not to be
that person, but maybe therapy would help you with those feelings.
b50ab0 No.42002
My little sister is as tall as my brother and I. We're no manlets either, our size is average or a bit above it in this country.
Are any of you girls taller or the same size as your brothers? How does it feel?
601b02 No.42642
>>36885Hate her. I have anger issues and she's a scheming, controlling, manipulative cunt who loves to 'impose her will' self-righteously and otherwise has no issue treating me like shit. and an eroding self-control does not lead to good interactions.
I hope she fucks off and I never have to deal with her again. Woe to any man who falls for this banana princess in disguise. I would have to deal with her legally to split proceeds of… whatever is left of my parent's estate when they're done with retirement but since I plan to die of self-induced heart failure/cancer way before then that shouldn't be a problem.
Oh yes, she's younger than me.
f2e6ae No.42647
>>42642That's fairly impressive.
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2ce17e No.44308
>>36885I'm a second son. Mother got children apparently mainly to accommodate for varying degrees of her own emotional stuntedness due the her own mother being too controlling, and neither are in any way over it, so they let bad attitude trickle down to whoever they can manage to dump their baggage on. Older brother is absent by now, and I don't see any humane future for myself either except by taking off, never looking back, and enjoying the life of an adult orphan without the pity points but getting frowned upon instead as I neglect my existing family and try dealing with the idea they are only getting worse when I'm not there to pick up after them.
Could be worse.
I don't think I'll be getting a family of my own.
9f7116 No.44312
>>42002My brother's taller than I, but definitely thinner. My bmi is like 17.5, so… he's pretty thin. Except he's not skinny fat.
Each of our mutual friends days we have an uncanny resemblance. Same hair color, eye color, etc.
>>42642Goddamn, I'm sorry you got dealt a bad hand, sibling-wise. That sucks.
>>44308That sounds awful. Kind of reminds me of the situation my father and his older brother had. What about your younger sibling?
917690 No.44345
>>36885I am the big bro and have a sis and a brother(14 and 12). We are quite close altough we dont talk that much normally since we are all home dwellers and thus have little to talk about but I am there every time they need me and they are for me. There is nothing I´d give up these memories for, playing in the bed of the parents doing pillow fights and roleplays as pokemon, laying next to them waiting for them to fall asleep when my parents where out. I even saved my sisters life at a young age, she had climbed up some play-wall or something and was about to drop(she wanted to for some reason and I noticed it) so I sprinted there and just threw myself on the ground to break her fall. My sis can be annoying as fuck now but I guess that is to be expected at that age, she started hanging out with boys and such and I am super protective but the group seems very nice right now. Plus: she is a big animie fan and has an impressive set of figures
I once looked on a list of animies to watch and she came in, looked at it and pointed at one "Look this one it´s one of the good harem animies anon". Based sis. My bro is the silent one and just likes to game or watch YT videos, he is a shut in even more than me I think.
The only sad thing is that though both of them play games they never really want to try out games I have or want to play with them.
**My sis and bro share one room and my mom wants to get them seperate ones but cant right now, should I move out this year or stay and see if it provokes lewd situations?
>webm may become related** 5c0050 No.44381
>>24876I have two older siblings, a brother and a sis. I don't speak to my sister, she practically decided that our family isn't worth her time and that her boyfriend/daddy replacement (who is 19 years older) is enough for her. I'm on good terms with my brother, we used to hang out quite a lot as we both like fantasy, sci-fi, and hot ladies, but now he's married and has a kid. So there obviously isn't a lot of time for it.
I also have two step siblings, both younger, but I never see them.
8a2b47 No.53813
>>39252this, basically.
I'm a male here. Seing other do wrong stuff turns me on, and thats where I stand on incest.
not with close family but cousins, with some, specially one, we are really close, I feel some kind of sexual tension sometimes, we slept together, but nothing sexual happened.
We feel comfortable around one another, we even checked our own bodies and tell what we think of each other as a male/female, like she grabed my thing hard and seen it, I grabed her boobs, we kissed, like kids do, just lips. all this in different times, not all together.
it is naughty, but we never exploited the sexuality of one another wish is good. I never gave her pleasure nor her to me. The intimacy we have is good :) and feels good to have her as she is, a woman that does not take advantage of me wen things can get hot while still have some 'innocent' intimacy.
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