09c269 No.41041
/fem/
How do you feel about your self image?
ef8431 No.41050
I don't like my face or my body. Everything seems fake. Except my eyes, I like my eyes, they stay always the same.
The only other body part I like is my dick.
7c8456 No.41051
I want to break every mirror in my house one by one
611639 No.41052
Honestly I look in the mirror when I'm getting undressed and it turns me on.
4fbe26 No.41053
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I'm pretty okay all things considered, I think… Not a hopeless cause but I often end up neglecting taking care of my appearance as much as I'd like to focus on work/school/hobbies. I wanna be more feminine but I have acne and my hair is kinda flat and thin, my room is a mess, and I find it hard to do laundry regularly… ;~; It's kind of hard to pull myself away from the computer to put more effort into looking like a normal cute girl.
ef8431 No.41055
>>41053Pretty much this
But my room isn't a mess haha
09c269 No.41058
I'll join in
I am constantly stuck between feeling like not caring at all about my appearance
However for one person only, I want to be beautiful..
I want to be the most beautiful person only for that one guy..
I've never liked my self image
The only part I'm alright with is my wrists, its only because they are so small
The rest of my body is horrid. And my face is bad, too.
When I was a little girl I had incredibly hairy eyebrows, which I have plucked for years. My nose is too large and the same goes for my mouth.
My eyes have been considered beautiful by some, but they are just plain brown and I suppose some think they're rare because of where I come from.
My jaws are too big and muscular, they're square and misshapen for all I see…
I'm average in body size, its just that my body still looks horrid.. My boobs are loose, size C, and my ass is looks as if I'm in my thirties.
Even my nipples are bad. They're colourless, just as my lips.
My toes are misshapen, they somehow bend into a triangle shape
I could go into the tiniest detail of my face, going from the little facial hairs and on to the blackheads on my nose, and the redness of my skin and right down to the scars and slit markings on my thighs
Its not just physical.
My persona is uninteresting.
I've never related to anyone as much as Tomoko. I always do try to make horrid attempts to make friends and to talk to people, but usually just make things worse. I spend far too much time in the mirror trying to figure out what I could change about my appearance and my persona.. I wear far too much make up all the time.. To cover the redness of my face, and to enlighten the dead colour of my lips..
I don't have any friends. I haven't talked to one person in my two years at the same workplace, although everybody else there is friends.
At school I am all alone, and I never know where to go. I'm just in the wrong place, I always feel. Even with my family, whom do not know me at all.
ce6f3a No.41106
>tfw no insecure girl to coddle and support
Why do I bother living
e92f7e No.41107
I'm a guy and I like how I look. When I look in the mirror I smile.
I used to be fat though and hated how I look so maybe it's just because I look so great by comparison lol.
ce6f3a No.41109
>>41058Like this girl for example, I just want to hold her tight and tell her everything will be alright and andklfnasdoignewiogniaodgn
d8a8ec No.41113
>>41109But this doesn't solve problems.
You should hold her in your arms and tell her what to do and help her about it.
314549 No.41180
Disclaimer: Am a guy.
I've never really been self-confident in my appearance. I have an alright face, I guess. I once tossed my picture to the unforgiving maw of halfchan /b/, and was told I was a 7.5, so that's got to be something. But I've got untreated manic stress: I started losing my hair at 18. Now I'm 25 and I have the hairline of a 60 year old. And that's doubly crushing because one of only two reliable compliments I'd ever get in the past (the other being my eyes) was that I had such incredibly nice hair. I wear it long, and have had it down to my tailbone in the past. Before it looked nice. Now I just think I look like a pedophile. Or that guy who will never be able to understand anything if not put into relation with Magic: The Gathering.
Shitsux, but I can't do anything about it.
0ee466 No.41212
I'm really cute and I would date myself if I liked girls
0ee466 No.41213
>>41212Oh wait, one part of one of my arms looks shredded and horrendous, but I can just say I fell into glass or something.
But I like everything else and I just hope people don't notice the arm.
5534b3 No.41215
>>41058I feel you, sister
552f7d No.41227
>>41041Need more job and money. Otherwise I'm pretty much perfect.
1bbe62 No.41257
>>41213Oh hey it's messed up arm girl! I remember you.
1cb3d0 No.41278
I'm okay but I need to stop having dark under my eyes and I need to finally get a haircut so my hair doesn't have so many split ends but I dont wanna go somebody buy me some shears i swear ill do it myself I won't mess up
d8a8ec No.41280
fa4cae No.41307
I don't have a great self image, I don't think I am that attractive at all really. I am thin and have pretty good skin/skin tone, but I have a lot of cutting scars on my arms/thighs and some faint ones on my chest. Those are from the past, I don't do that shit anymore, but yeah, it's pretty horrifying and embarrassing when you take your clothes off in front of someone and have to worry about, not only the physical flaw, but looking unstable and batshit. I'm extremely uncomfortable about it, even though my BF says they are not that noticeable, I am really self conscious :/ My face is kinda pretty, but I don't really like my teeth.
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f1e71f No.48921
For a long time, I've avoided mirrors. Like, if I'm in the bathroom, I'll usually have my head down and quickly wash my hands. I'm on the thin side so weight's not an issue but because I'm pale, eye bags show up everyday. Even when I get enough sleep.
I've started using skin stuff and hope that it'll start working so at least one thing's fixed.
e83559 No.48923
I think I'm pretty attractive. I stare at myself in the mirror quite a lot.
Only issue I really have is that the skin around my eyes is blue. My veins are blue as fuck. When I touch something really cold my skin turns blue.
Other kids used to make fun of me for my blueness. They called me an alien.
c14779 No.48967
I like to think I'm pretty average, at least under normal circumstances, my biggest crutch is I was born with a hand deformity and had this done when I was a kid.
http://www.gosh.nhs.uk/medical-information/procedures-and-treatments/toe-to-hand-transfer/ It's the one thing that bothers me most about my self appearance. I used to get fiercely bullied about it to the point I started seeing myself as some sort of sub-human freak. I pretty much always purposely keep my hand hidden in long sleeves and rarely wear anything that shows my arm outside of the house because I still see myself pretty negatively because of it even though I think the rest of my body is fine. (My nose and butt are too big though in my opinion.) Just the other day I got a little upset because my girlfriend likes doing that thing where you both intertwine your fingers and hold hands and I felt guilty she could only do it with one hand.
8e87c1 No.48984
I'm okay with myself, the mirror is fine with me. I sure could be a lot better though since I really look the part as being a shut-in NEET. My self image was terrible in so many ways when I was in school though. I bordered anemia and anorexia all my life until more recent years and kids were so hurtful to me that I felt like a worthless ant.
8434ad No.49050
I like myself a lot more now since I lost weight. I knew I was always pretty but I feel more confident now and I know people will still think I'm pretty even if I don't put any effort into my appearance. That said, I'm very comfortable with myself and I don't feel as pressured to do full face makeup to leave the house anymore.
(used to have full blown panic attacks when I was in a crowded place because I was so insecure about my looks)
4dcb31 No.49079
>>48984I wish there was a thread with some pics of the shut-in spaghetti NEET girls, but I guess that would be a bit paradoxical.
or would it? d1e5b5 No.49098
>>49079We should have a thread sometime where people with 'bad self image' should post a picture of themselves-blurred if they would prefer-and then have others point out what they like and/or give advice on how they could look better.
7b07f8 No.49099
>>49079>>49098Both of these ideas sound amazing. Why not do it now!?!?
d1e5b5 No.49103
>>49099I don't think I would be able to offer too many opinions as to how people could improve themselves, so I don't think I should be the OP.
7b07f8 No.49104
>>49103Aren't we saying things that are good about the various people first of all? Like kinda, constructive criticism?
3d944c No.49139
Overall I'm ok with my body. I'm a bit too scrawny, but no part of my body stands out as being particularly weird or ugly which I'm thankful for.
I honestly don't know how people rate me out of 10. I have heard vastly different opinions of that. I seriously have no idea whether I'm a 3/10 or a 7/10 or something in between. I've given up trying to figure that out, and I just want to find a guy who's ok with how I look.
I haven't had a boyfriend yet, and it's really important to me to find one some day. I know that I'm not supposed to care so much about that but I can't help it.
The sexual stuff is all really freaky for me. I just find the whole penis/pussy thing to be extremely embarrassing. I go into these crazy extremes where sometimes it's all so frantically exciting, and then other times I'm just horribly embarrassed about it, but I never stop being insanely curious about it. I overthink everything to death, and it's making me crazy to be secretly so obsessed with penises and pussies. It makes me feel so weird about my body. That's probably the biggest self-image issue i have.
7c8959 No.49144
>>49139I'd request a picture but there only person whoever does is swami and her flat ass
983d9b No.49169
>>49144You wot m8? swami will rek u
73580b No.49201
I look like a man and hate myself.
33b689 No.49205
I don't look great, and I don't look awful. I am ton but don't have much muscle mass. I like my tits.
64d559 No.49221
holy shit where do i start?
i'm a very insecure person and always have been. i come from a near perfect lifestyle. upper middleclass, new york, parents have been married since they were about 20, very close to family, never grounded. i was bullied a lot during middle school and high school for nothing but being shy, a loner and not knowing how to dress or do my hair or any of that. basically i was an easy target for a lot of "alpha" bitches because i would never stick up for myself and didn't have friends. 4chan became my safe haven. you know the drill.
when i was about 20 i finally peaked (i call it second puberty) i finally had my own style and i met many people online who became real life friends. i've always been asexual but i lost my virginity at 21 to my first boyfriend (still with him at 23). we're long distance though. have been dating for 3 years. long distance fucking sucks. i don't even know if i like this guy much anymore. he's not even my type. i have no idea what my type is. i think i like men and women. no fucking idea.
my body is objectively really nice but like most, i have pretty low self esteem and i see a lot of flaws.
5'2, naturally very thin, c cup, flat toned stomach, wide hips, tiny waist. i really love my waist to hip ratio.
but i don't know if it's all this "booty" craze or what, i'm really starting to hate my legs. i cannot seem to keep weight on them. they're very skinny, much like my arms. i guess my limbs are naturally very thin. i really hate my legs. they're the kind those pro-anorexia tumblrina's romanticize so much. i fucking hate them. jeans do not fit me for shit, ever. my hips are wide and my legs are thin so i feel like fucking mike from monster's inc. thigh gap galore. i usually only wear dresses, skirts, sweatpants and leggings.
i work out often, squats, lunges etc. fucking NOTHING works. i am doomed to have chicken legs for life. i would KILL to have anyone's "fat" legs.
i know to some of you this probably seems like the stupidest shit but it's really starting to get to me.
i also have trichotillomania. i have been compulsively pulling out my hair since i was 11 years old. i wear really expensive, nice wigs so nobody ever knows but it fucking sucks and i've been depressed since i was ever diagnosed with it. i'm just glad i don't have it for my eyelashes or eyebrows.
i also have severe ADHD.
anyway
i'm a pretty fucked up person. no body would know this by looking at me. i look like a generic neurotypical normie.
i guess thats good.
e9b756 No.49225
I'm not going to post my life story but it's pretty bad and I drink a lot and am starting to get more afraid to leave the house as I get older. I'm in a relationship though and it's been a long time, they have their issues too but I can still say I have that. I don't take the attitude like I deserve it. We put up with a lot of each other's bullshit and get through it.
331b52 No.49226
>>49201it's probably because you are one
70f6c6 No.49332
I used to hate how I looked when I was younger cause I was a fat social retard but then I got my shit together, lost some weight, and now I would say I am a 7 or 8.
36e159 No.49555
>>49221Why did you start pulling your hair when you were 11?
4dcb31 No.49559
>>49555They said it's a disorder. Why else would someone pull their hair like that? Shit hurts.
36e159 No.49562
>>49559Something had to have caused the disorder, people aren't just born with them. Some type of abuse, traumatic experience?
fbb6c5 No.49592
>>48967Oh, I remember you, you even posted a picture once. Why don't you just get your hand surgically removed and get a prosthetic (robotic) one? Cyberpunk is cool.
c14779 No.49609
>>49592Can't really afford it, even though it sounds neat.
I never expected anyone to recognize me though, I only ever posted it on Halfchan's /v/. Obviously I didn't mention gender over there because it would've been stupid and attention whorey.
c14779 No.49624
>>49609>mfw I just remembered I post it when I also joined /fem/Oh, right. Whoops. I'm a dunce.
8e87c1 No.49646
>>49639
Well okay
I mean for me /fem/ is just as fast as I want it to be
Whenever I come check there's always quite a few people who have posted something
c2c8da No.49648
>>49639
Fuck off, german. We don't need another Kraut shitposter
79586d No.49830
Between reading this thread and the "dream man" thread I've come to the conclusion that this board is full of psycho women with fucked up issues.
>dating a girl from the internet>not even oncegirls on the internet come with soooo much fucking baggage and issues I don't care if she's an 11/10, it's not worth fighting through all the layers of insecurity to date her, because even once you do, she will NEVER feel secure enough in your relationship to stop all the games that come with insecurity. I dated a girl from the internet and it was a nightmare.
All you chicks with issues will never get your dream man, because deep down inside you know you don't deserve him, so you'll never get him. You'll only get assholes who treat you like garbage, because when you do meet someone who truly loves and cares about you, you push them away and perpetrate all sorts of insecure-stemmed bullshit that I can't even go into here.
inb4 mgtow
inb4 m'lady fedora
inb4 friendzoned crier.
I have never been friendzoned, I'm speaking from experience dating an insecure BITCH from the internet who is so fucked in the head she's beyond saving, and beyond spending any of my effort on anymore, when there are many more women deserving of my love and attention.
The worst part is when girls like
>>49221 act completely normal and unleash the crazy later on once she's roped the guy in.
d2c0cd No.49869
>>49835
>>49839
11 out of 10
64d559 No.50076
>>49555it's a form of OCD.
64d559 No.50080
>>49830i'm not crazy. i'm very self aware. most of my personality faults just stem from being socially secluded as a kid/teen so i missed out on a lot of growing up. i'm incredibly sheltered/naive.
everyone has their faults, nigga. this is not just "girls on the internet". the only reason it looks like that is because you're reading a bunch of anonymous bitches vent about very personal things. when do you ever have a chance to see that anywhere else?
773201 No.50113
I'm perfectly fine with myself except for my height.
4ccf52 No.50200
>>41041I like me, but it took being a failure at marriage and having to raise 3 kids before I began to realize I was awesome
85b041 No.50233
>>50200I wonder, what is the average age of /fem/
not to derail 4ccf52 No.50235
>>50233I am def in upper age cohort
7554a6 No.50345
I feel like I'm unappealing, maybe a 5, but I'm not sure if I really care about it.
Scrawny, skin so pale you can see my veins through it, jacked teeth, bags under eyes, messy eyebrows, no tits, bad fashion, ect ect. But I don't get any anxiousness/depression/whatever when I think about this shit, probably because I've already decided that I'll die a spinster.
05f1f1 No.50495
I quit HRT after a year. I'm going to kill myself as soon as my application for a gun gets through. I can't look into a mirror.
281f99 No.50498
>>50495Don't you guys have your own board? Quit bumming everyone out.
There's easier ways to euthanise yourself than with a gun anyway, why do you want to go in such a messy way?
Also, why not live? I mean life sucks, but unless you have cancer or are black, it's not THAT bad. Just live life and let old age or heart disease get you.
0188d5 No.50669
>>49221>have been dating for 3 years. long distance fucking sucks. i don't even know if i like this guy much anymore. he's not even my type. i have no idea what my type is.Why are you in a 3-year-long relationship if you don't even know how you feel about the guy?
425b54 No.50680
>>41109>>41113>>41106The problem with unattractive people getting together is that it just creates more unattractive people
And that's how niggers came into existence
425b54 No.50681
>>49830The crazy is fine as long as you can drive fast enough to outrun the cops should she accuse you of abuse/rape
95cb5d No.50736
>>49830>I've come to the conclusion that this board is full of womenkek
If only. The best I would hope for is that the larpers at least wouldn't shitpost constantly. They come off as psychos because they have no clue what they're talking about.
Also you're talking to a wall you dumb faggot.
44ddef No.50881
that it's shit, and it's something that's been ingrained into me since childhood. If I have no concept of self-image, I will never perceive myself to be prettier than anyone else. self-depreciation is the counter to egotistical narcissism.
a8340a No.50974
>>49830That's pretty absolute mate. Both the best and worst gf, in terms of behavior
lookswise they were both short and fat I had were severely insecure damaged people from the internet.
The main difference is that shitty insecure people are complexed sardonic cunts projecting their insecurities to feel better about themselves (like majority of /fem/ I must admit) while likeable insecure people are dependent, constantly trying to please others, emotionally fragile and kinda moe crybabies, which aren't a bad/unattractive traits on a girl (except for the part that it can often lead to promiscuity/infidelity).
64d559 No.51019
>>50669i do love him and care about him a lot. i think it's just the distance that fucks up my emotions sometimes. i can't picture myself being with anyone else really. he's a great boyfriend and a great person. i'm just kind of feeling shitty lately about a lot of things.
i don't really have a type, never have, so perhaps it was stupid of me to say he's not my type. i love everything about the dude. especially how he treats me and how good it feels when i'm in his arms. so i guess he is my type afterall.
long distance still fucking sucks but we make it work as best as we can. hopefully soon we will live together.
324172 No.51125
>>41041I honestly hate myself, but it goes up and down.
Some days I want to go back to cutting myself, other days (like today) I feel very pretty. But, besides the whole cutting thing, that would be normal for most people?
I'm also too damn lazy to workout and too poor to afford skin care stuff or else I could be a self-hating 8/10.
pic related, I want to cosplay this and pull it off
5c1a4f No.51128
>>51125Minus8 makes some cute designs. I wish you luck with it, femanon.
324172 No.51130
>>51128thank you, I might post pics if I ever do it, expect it maybe in the summer.
I'll gif the dancing 6f6b9b No.51169
Wonderful.
08e73a No.53496
>>41109this.
You are my man anon
87c038 No.53744
>>41041I don't really care too much either way tbh. I'm not perfect, but I'm not the worst thing to exist either, so I just keep confident and sarcastic and see what happens.
But I've at least gotten to the point I can look in the mirror and think "Meh, face is kinda pretty."
I just never really cared enough to have a strong opinion either way.
Recently broke up with a boyfriend of 4 years and got a new online relationship, feels promising so I'm feeling optimistic about everything including myself.
c5a9fa No.53747
>>41041You, are coming onto 8chan, to ask girls how they feel about there self image?
Do you just get off to females hating themselves or saying "Oh I'm not cute…" "I wish I was less fat" ect? is that it? really? Cus I sure in hell do bro, thanks for the thread
d7b4b1 No.53805
>>41053Are you the same girl who made a thread about wanting to be more feminine?
pls respond
6afe6a No.53806
>>49221>my body is objectively really nice>5'2kill yourself, worthless womanlet
fbf981 No.53811
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ee50b8 No.53816
My vagina is fat :(. I really wish I got female circumcision.
8e05b6 No.53821
>>49099DO IT FAGGOT
so i can finaly call you all hambeasts and fat slobs with 100% accuracy
281f99 No.53825
>>53816I have one too. I think it looks cute. Better than a gross dried up beef strip. Be proud of your cute fat puss!