e89636 No.51572
I've been successfully cheated on by all my girlfriends I've ever had, including my fiance.
We were supposed to be married in nearly 5 months and I caught her with another man.
/fem/, I know this isn't my personal blog or anything but I'm not alright. I'm not okay. This was the woman who promised me kids, and she was out with another guy behind my back for nearly three years, now. She apologized, but it doesn't really seem like it matters, now. I just get an empty feeling that this whole thing was another sham to fuck with me once again.
I just want to know that not all women are like this, that not all girls are the same. I just want to know that I'm wrong for once.
Because I knew this would come, since life is never going to give me someone special. I hate myself so much right now for it, I can't stand to look into a mirror and not see a loser, once again. I can't do it.
Just please tell me I'm not alone.
c2a5af No.51581
Sorry bro, only a very small and special percentage of women are loyal for real, the rest, even the "decent" ones, crave for the cock like a drowning man craves for air.
Culture plays a big role on it, since very young, women get this retarded ideas pounded in their heads, that cheating is hot and being a cumdumpster is cool, that men are like clothes, that you can just take off and get new ones.
I don't know if some biological wiring is involved as well, but just look at female media, all series, books, movies, everything you can think of, is about sex, about women fucking like rabbits, "discovering themselves" a.k.a. doing depraved shit, and finding the man of their dreams.
I's an achetype women follow to a T, if they do shit, it's cool and justifiable, they're women silly, if they get shit done to them however, it's horrible and "omg I can't believe it men are pigs T-T"
>pic related
Some people say it's because they're not getting enough plowing in their holes, that the spark fade out and there's no romance anymore, but it's bullshit, women have been educated to behave like sluts, or at least to want.
Now, I know that you feel terribly bad, but think about this, you got out before marriage and kids, you won't have to pay alimony, you wont have to support a worthless whore, you won't have to deal with divoce, just let that sink in, I don't think you are a failure, I think you are very lucky, now you are free, free to do what you want, free to learn and pursue long forgotten dreams that marriage woul've crushed.
And if you want to have kids, get fit, get you act togheter, and donate sperm like a mad man, you ought to no-scope at least one or two bellies, and with that, your genetic lineage will go on.
Best of lucks man.
cc4492 No.51586
When you get cheated on once thats an unfortunate experience but can happen, twice and you might just be an unlucky bastard, but when it happens five fucking times there is very obviously something wrong with what kind of girl youre going for and how you view relationships.
TL;DR the problem is you
2a82c8 No.51604
>>51581I really don't know how/if you will ever stop getting cheated, but I do know that if you put effort on your own qualities and achievemets you won't see a loser on the mirror anymore.
You shouldn't hang on keeping a gf for validation, especially after it's worked out for you.
cb64f6 No.51610
>I just want to know that not all women are like this, that not all girls are the same. I just want to know that I'm wrong for once.
So why are you asking women?
#notallwomen
#I'mnotlikethoseothergirls
e4df95 No.51616
Three ex boyfriends have cheated on me. I could spin the same yarn as you and then cry about why don't I just be a lesbian. Keep an eye out for warning signs. There are just some people who are completely incapable of monogamy, both men and women.
23cc7d No.51635
>I've been successfully cheated on by all my girlfriends I've ever had, including my fiance.
Do you have a literal micropenis and/or live in the ghetto? Because otherwise I really don't get it.
You need to stop dating trashy women anon.
608a05 No.51676
>>51635>>51616both of those posts are right. I got cheated once by a bf. He was a general asshole so it was my fault that I was dating him, it was obvious he was going to cheat. I'd personally never cheat on anyone. I find it utterly disrespectful and scummy to do it.
0caeb9 No.51683
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>sees himself as a loser
>for not being as good as other men at telling women what to do
> I just want to know that I'm wrong for once.
You are.
So was she for being sorry afterwards.
7acc30 No.51706
>>51572>I can't stand to look into a mirror and not see a loser, once again. I can't do it.there is a reason for this; you are infact a giant manboob beta. until you fix this, its going to be beta bucks, alpha fucks for you
> Just please tell me I'm not alone.phew if that's all you wanted: no, you are not alone. the majority of men are cringeworthy betas. per definition of female hypergamy.
73fa53 No.51733
I can see why they all have cheated.
23a244 No.51774
If that's true you need some real help from someone who cares about you.
Not internet mockery and recommendations to become alfalfa or think all women are cheaters.
Not all women are the same, but there are quite a few cheaters and it's not impossible through no fault of your own to have had bad luck in your relationships.
Sorry for your loss.
You've been in relationships, so you can't be bad, they don't just go with you to fuck with you. They do want you on some level, they're just cheaters. You should be able to find someone new, and there are good women out there to be with.
c7a4cd No.51780
>>51683God you submissive types are disgusting. You can't take any responsibility for anything.
d3d127 No.51782
>men complain about how all women cheat>women complain about how all men cheatWhy the fuck do I always see this? How come nobody ever backs this up with anything besides anecdotal evidence? Just because you had shitty experiences doesn't mean every male/female cheats.
I don't have time to go crazy with source checking so take it with a grain of salt but after a quick google search I got this:
>Men are more likely to cheat than women. But, as women become more financially independent, women are starting to act more like men with respect to infidelityThis is particularly interesting as it suggests that being financially successful has a coloration with infidelity…
http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/cheating-and-infidelity/stats-about-infidelity.html 3440b3 No.51843
>>51572>>51782I'd need to do the research again to be sure, but iirc a huge study found that anywhere from 40-60% of all women have cheated, and 60-50% of all men have.
Personally, all of the instances of cheating I know about occured in relationships that were either not serious/just starting out (at which point it's kind of tenuous to call it cheating) or in relationships that were in a downward spiral anyway.
Humans are not naturally monogamous, so it makes sense that some people are going to cheat. Usually it's just best to forgive people for it, and try to find a way to prevent it in the future, or find a way to exercise/incorporate the cheater's need for variety or whatever drives them to others.
44e162 No.52112
>cheated on by all his girlfriends
>he actually married
>not all women are like this
Red Pill yourself before it's too late.
5323bf No.52142
> Have gf
> Be very fucking clear with her
> "If you begin developing feels for other people, tell me, shit happens, I just fucking hate cheaters"
> She tells me she feels the same
> In fact, she seems to hate cheaters more than I do (I can see it as forgivable depending on the circumstances, she says it's never forgivable)
> ESPECIALLY in long-term relationships
> BEfore I met her, I was of the opinion that lifelong relationships are impossible and undesirable anyway
> She made me want lifelong relationship
> Literally had dreams of what my life would be like with her
> One recurring dream where we were both old and showing grandkids pictures of us
> Never felt these feels before, that I wanted to settle down with someone
> Never felt so sure that somebody was "The one"
> One day, one of my friends sits me down
> Tells me that he knows that my gf has been fucking around on me behind my back with another "friend"
> We both confront other "friend" to find out how long it's been going on
> Since the very fucking beginning
> Get tested first thing
> Bitch gave me herpes
> Feel empty and sick
> Cut off all contact with her
> Don't even give her an explanation, she doesn't deserve one
> Burn everything she ever gave me
> Lease was up in a month, so I just move
> Literally disappear from her life
I hope it fucking hurt her.
What sucks the most is I know it will be years before I can trust people again, and I'm already old. By the time I'm ready for a relationship again I will already be past marrying age.
This is why cheaters are fucking dirt. You don't just lie and use people, you rob them of all the time it's going to take to heal.
a14ec1 No.52209
>>52142>cheating >forgivable>she lost all respect for him and cheated>hopes it hurt herYou poor, naive beta cuck…
a14ec1 No.52210
>>52142You poor, beta cuck…
a14ec1 No.52211
>>52142You sad, cucked beta…
5323bf No.52260
>>52209>>52211>>52210
> hurr durr muh beta Yeah dumbass, I didn't say it was universally forgivable, I said it was forgivable depending on the circumstances. Specifically, I said if someone was abusing their partner, I'd understand if the partner cheated.
8b7837 No.52445
>he dated five women
>has a specific type whore
>ALL WOMEN ARE LIKE THIS
maybe its you making shitty choices?
c225c8 No.52635
>>52260If someone is abusing their partner, they call the police. I don't really expect people to stop making excuses for unacceptable behavior anytime soon, though.
It really doesn't matter. All the man has to do is what the guy in
>>52215 did: recognize the huge red flag and steer clear of the cunt.
5323bf No.52676
>>52635
> Greentext about a woman who cheated on a bf of 1.5 years> "The man saw the huge red flag and avoided any trouble!"Are you retarded?
47a571 No.52677
>>51572become a misogynist and treat women like dogs. Their cute, friendly, and completely retarded. They need to be trained, and while they may growl and occasionally bite, they'll enjoy it in the end. Stop thinking of them as your equal, and start thinking of them as women.
Also, get fit and wash your face.
511748 No.52692
>>52676I think he is talking about the dude she cheated with. As in,
"don't date a girl that cheats on her boyfriend, even if the guy she slept with was you."
2495a4 No.52697
>>51572>I can't stand to look into a mirror and not see a loser, once againIt's going to look shitty for awhile, but be glad she did what she did you found out about it before you got married.
Where have you been meeting these women?
abc57b No.55108
>>52142>> In fact, she seems to hate cheaters more than I do (I can see it as forgivable depending on the circumstances, she says it's never forgivable)>> ESPECIALLY in long-term relationshipsThis is actually a tell. When a girl tries to shutdown any attempt to get deeper into a conversation on cheating by being extremely anti-cheating, that's pretty much a sign that while she wants your confidence she really does not want your scrutiny so she's faking what you want.
She just might actually be strongly anti-cheating, but I doubt it. When a subject provokes a strong emotional response that blocks the ability to get further into the subject, there's something they're hiding.
>>52215The depressing part is that these new "yes doesn't always mean yes" laws would allow her to have the police arrest the dude she fucked for raping her since she drank some beers so she was "violated" because she was "too impaired to give consent."
03b3a0 No.55110
I'm really sorry to hear that, OP. Being cheated on is just awful.
For what it's worth, I don't believe in being in a relationship unless you're committed and loyal. Not all women share this view, but I know I'm not the only one.
>>51616This.
d83afa No.55133
first of all, you're a fucking retard for wanting kids
i can already tell you're the type of self important asshole that has no critical thinking ability
the world is going to be markedly worse off in 30+ years, and it's very likely that your children will have to cope with a much more arduous life, because of climate change and resource scarcity
ANYWAY, obviously all girls are not the same
people are shitbags
i'm 1000% devoted to my fiance and i see no other men. he's all i see. he's all i live for, and i'd rather stab myself in the cunt than touch anyone else. i don't masturbate to anyone else. i don't even touch myself without him saying so.
a lot of people suck
it probably has 0 to do with women, and more to do with you not being discerning enough. you probably have shit friends, too.
a lot of people let shit slide because they're lonely
DONT BE THAT GUY/GIRL, and don't waste your life/time on anything less than your ideal, because you will resent them/regret it