>>55866The problem is that you are basing too much of your value on looks.
Make yourself valuable to men in other ways, that other women these days don't. Develop actual hobbies, have interests.
You have to do what men do to get a woman. You have to be interesting, rather than just looking pleasing to the eye.
Because when you're just window dressing, you can be tossed aside at a moment's notice for new window dressing. (When you're 50, for what reason will someone want to be with you? Your looks are gone; do you have anything else that makes you fun to be around?)
A lot of guys will be, "hurr cook, clean, etc." but fuck, everyone should be able to do these things. The women I find myself attracted to invariably have interesting kinks, act mature, get creative, play interesting games and can hold intelligible conversations about anything from politics to science without getting lost and while adding their own things to the mix.
Basically, don't be a fucking airhead. Don't focus on your appearance to the exclusion of everything else like so many basic bitches do these days.
Your appearance is what catches male attention, your everything else is what keeps it.