>>56714Sorry for the tangents.
OP:
First off: Yay for healthy relationships where decisions are respected and each party cares about the other's feelings! (That's you in this scenario; being considerate of his feelings. He is respecting your feelings by not guilt tripping you.)
Second:
Did you ask what part in particular appeals to him? As in, psychologically. You two have been together a while; sometimes it's like claiming you as his and himself as yours.
>>56717Unless your boyfriend is a sadist into humiliation/degradation (I don't know what his kinks are) I think he'd want you happy. With a loving partner, it's very sweet and intimate; not degrading. Like sex in general, what you see in porn is not what you generally experience in practice.
>>56739Never had it in my eyes, but have him male sure to give you time to close your eyes (and aim away from them). If you don't want it in your mouth, close that too. Again, kleenex nearby because jizz just has a way of getting everywhere.
>>56746Taste depends on the guy. If he smokes, it's disgusting. If not, it's generally like avocado and slightly alkaline. If he eats processed salty foods, that's where a lot of objectionable taste might come from. I believe broccoli, onions, garlic, coffee, alcohol, chocolate, red meat, etc. are supposed to contribute too, but I've never personally experienced the effect on taste. Mostly, hydration is key. Fruits and juices (or soda, I suppose) can make it sweet and sometimes you can taste hints of certain fruits, which is pretty cash.
>Tl;dr on previous paragraph: if he is a nonsmoker who eats a relatively healthy (moderation and such) and stays hydrated, it's tastes okay, but YMMV. >>56737I think it frustrates him a normal amount, but OP is bringing it up because she cares about pleasing him (I hope this is mutual; mutual gratification is best sex).
>>56715Talking just in general about your hesitancy and why he wants to do it is a good idea. You mention that you "think it's gross" so maybe it's discomfort with cum? Maybe think about what it is about cum you find gross (gross like new and unfamiliar, or gross like vomit?) and if it's the sort of thing that is from lack of familiarity, you could get to the point where cum isn't gross. As in slowly getting comfortable with it.
Once you get familiar with it, you might enjoy it. You might decode not only ate you okay with it, but that you want it on you and in/around your mouth.
If it's a hard limit for you, that's okay too. Is he the type to patiently explore getting comfortable with new things with you?
>>56739As
>>56741 mentioned, she might not be upset because of distress, but because she's acting out a role in a scene. If your boyfriend is a decent guy, he won't want it in your eyes any more than you do. If he gets off on distress/discomfort, then the issue at hand is a different one.
If he wants you to be comfortable and relaxed, I'd say slowly get comfortable with his cum. Facials can come later. But start slow.
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Trader Joe's was selling blood orange clementines for like $2 a bag and some the season is so short and they are usually expensive and HOLY SHIT THIS IS THE FIRST TIME I'VE SEEN THEM AS CLEMENTINES so I bought five bags. We watched anime (I have been learning to into anime; it really is hard of you don't have someone show you) and ate them nonstop for however long all of Elfen Lied is. Then sex and cuddles from maybe 11pm to like 10am (exhausting and fun; we took breaks). It was blood orange flavor. Was an unintentional very fun surprise.</tangent>
>Has your bf ever tasted himself? Have you ever tasted yourself?
>Also, any mananons have input as far as taste? And psychological reasons for jizzing on girls?