1cae7c No.57213
Tips on getting over a crush?
There's a guy on the other side of the country I'm a little crazy about. He's saved my life a few times, he's got the biggest brown eyes, he's a true blue friend, and he's just the coolest. He almost certainly doesn't reciprocate and he's way up there in NYC. Hell, it might just be extreme admiration, but whatever it is I need to get over it because it's not happening.
Asking grillz because halfchan's /adv/ is full of r9k and mra shitheads.
1cae7c No.57219
Bump I am going a little nuts. I tried dating somebody else and had to quit in part because I thought of this guy too much
81aaa4 No.57220
>>57219>tried to date somebody to forget a platonic love crushInto the trash it goes
1cae7c No.57224
>>57220FUCK, I'm an idiot.
ANYWHO, what makes you say "platonic love crush"
81aaa4 No.57225
>>57221Ayy le epic sikret board club.
>>57223Dating somebody, then dropping him because of reasons in the other side of the country, giving a risk of seeding feelings on him. It's just reckless.
Okay, you want help professional help? go to an internist doctor and tell him you feel a lot of anxiety recently.
If you're lucky he will give you Bromazepam which are good drugs to inhibite love and crushes. Probably a common tactic used between MGTOW's.
If you're scared just man up and tell him, he will probably love you back.
A man's heart is very easy to touch but it's even more easier to break
>>57224Calm down mane, it's going to be okay.
1cae7c No.57228
>>57225>dropping himLady he don't even like me. I ain't dropping shit, I've asked him out and gotten turned down.
Less importantly he's still in his home and I've moved back to mine and I fucking love it here.
81aaa4 No.57230
>>57228I see, it's okay though. Crushes are always easy to cut down if you do something different in your life, for example.. i dont know… playing videogames? getting fit?
For me doing exercise was my favorite activity to drop down autism feelings of love. Physical work are the best activitys you can do to get over those feelings because if you do things like that you will probably finish drawing his face in hearts or things like that.
Go get fit m8, it's the way to crush the crush feelings
If he turned you down there is no use in forcing him to love you.
1cae7c No.57231
>>57230Yeah that's not such a bad idea. I'm just having an extra hard time right now because I lost my job and desperately need treatment for chronic depression… Two birds one stone maybe
81aaa4 No.57237
>>57231Just to try to cheer you up a little (sorry if this sounds like an autistic hugboxing hardtry)
Listen, as an irrefutable truth of what i am going to tell you at, all times, no matter where or when, at the very least, one person acknowledged you, enjoyed speaking to you, appreciated your friendship, and loved you.
I'm not good cheering up depressed people, sorry mane.
Also, french is in the other seas, mexico is under usa
From now on french is the new mexico.
1cae7c No.57239
>>57237That is the second time tonight my sight has horribly failed me.
Anyway Idk m8 that was pretty deep. Gracias por el consejo chica. I have been overthinkin' it because last time I saw him we exchanged some smooches and had a few lines of romantic drama 'this means nothing… we can never-…' before splitting. Then I was pretty sad because I hardly get to see this guy even as a friend.
81aaa4 No.57244
>>57239Not a girl though, but had a similar experience with a girl not so long ago.
Those are killer tips to crush la crush the feels.
Hopefully other girls in this board will give you better advices than mine. I hope it helped
1cae7c No.57247
>>57244orly? R u a QT? Maybe got a pic of yourself in a wife beater lying around?
81aaa4 No.57251
>>57247Pls dont hit on me, i'm married to my career till 2019.
Go do cardio exercise for that mexican anon you confused for frenchfag, dont give up!
859a7a No.57286
I will help you the only way I know how: by telling some of my terrible jokes
What do you call Russian on a sign?
sign language
What do you call it when you throw salad in the trash?
tossed salad
What do you call a coordinate system with a long y-axis?
a gir-aph
How do you beat a musical note?
you trump-it
What do you call it when you find a prize in your soup?
a soup-prize
1cae7c No.57340
>>57286Thank you
That helped <3
d2df02 No.57341
cf382b No.57394
Where are you OP? Like how far away from NYC?
1cae7c No.57416
>>57394Like central Texas far away
e9e880 No.57417
You should stop being such a coward and make it happen.
1cae7c No.57420
>>57417I've
triedThis'll probably make everybody see this differently, but I'm gonna repost from a shitty get-it-off-your-chest thread….
>"Hey anon I'm into you let's go on a date">"Sorry femanon I'm just not attracted to you">Stares at me while I fall asleep>Makes out with in lewd positions>Plays with breasts>Suckles tits>"Haha I just did that out of pity you're such an autist you're super gross">Makes frequent sex jokes>Cuddles and snuggles>Does what he CALLS "raspberries" all over belly, neck but are pretty much just tiny, week fart noises while resting lips in different spots>"raspberries" reach up to face, eventually just fucking resting on mouth>Smooch>"Woah okay just for the record you're initiating this">More smooching>"This means nothing okay? Nothing can come of this" 1f0f9a No.57421
>>57420protip: men don't mind having fuckbuddies
if you are actually in love with this guy, dont be a pussy and tell him so. ive had some of my fuckbuddies go all berserk on me because they thought they were being clever by suppressing their true feelings and letting me fuck them until I was supposedly obliged to call them my grillfriend; and guess what it didn't work.
1cae7c No.57423
>>57421We are not gonna be fuckbuddies, he is nowhere near me and I already
have told him
repeatedly. He does not care, does not reciprocate, gives a fuck about me as a person, but has been pretty clear that he doesn't
actually want to fuck things up by having sex. Plus he doesn't find me attractive. He probably just gets lonely and I'm nearby and he knows he can get away with some smooches without any commitment or drama.
687d3b No.57469
Hey, I would like to date you(USER WAS BANNED FOR THIS POST)
687d3b No.57471
>>57213I'm interested in you
c4ca48 No.57477
>>57471Is that you up to some shenanigans, /pol/?
a903ab No.57480
e9e880 No.57482
>>57480Theology is more reliable.
a903ab No.57499
>>57482
>>Implying god will ever give you the sweet sweet loving you deserve. 859a7a No.57500
>>57499>implying Jesus doesn't love me cf4134 No.57504
>>57213MRA are shitheads?
How the fuck is advocating for anyone's rights shitty?
Have you tried masturbation, OP? Masturbate to the perfect version of him. Everything good. Then realize he isn't as good as your fantasy and get over it.
134fdd No.57505
>>57480I don't believe in modern love. It walks beside me, it walks on by.
What are you nazis doing in my thread? Cease your shitposting posthaste
660512 No.57559
>>57213I feel for you girly. I recently told one of my friends I had fallen for her knowing she didn't feel the same. I guess I did it to just get it off my chest and hopefully move on. I don't really have any advice for something I'm struggling with, but I hope you feel better.
693cab No.57566
>>57504It's because you're literally the male equivalent of feminists
You use the fact that you talk about a few good points to justify your constant, endless bitching and whining self-righteous anger
8fb745 No.57599
>>57566This.
The way to fight professional victims is not to become a victim yourself.
134fdd No.57604
>>57559Thanks for the picture of the cats and the story they helped
e3e0f2 No.57779
>>57566And this is why MRA will never actually go anywhere. Unlike women, "endless bitching and whining self-righteous anger" is not tolerated from men. They're held to higher standards.
Red pilling oneself is much more effective than any MRA association could ever be. You change yourself only.
693cab No.57814
>>57779quite honestly most people don't tolerate it from women either, feminism is pretty widely reviled
It's just that they have their grubby little paws in the government, which is why they get their shit passed and MRAs don't. Feminists can AFFORD to be haughty, hateful and completely insufferable. MRAs can't, but they do it anyway