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Am I an asshole? Femonymous 09/10/15 (Thu) 07:42:19 9ded2d No.66201

My current girlfriend is everything I could ever want.

She's way out of my league, all my guy friends are jealous.

She's smart enough to get all my jokes, even the really nerdy ones.

She's really into the kind of sex i'm into.

She doesn't want me to spend a bunch of money on her.

Yet I'm considering breaking up with her because she's taller than me and It's a massive turnoff

Am I an asshole, /fem/?

Femonymous 09/10/15 (Thu) 14:23:11 46fab9 No.66205

yes.

Femonymous 09/10/15 (Thu) 18:35:16 25f428 No.66206

Nope. She is turning you off, and your at the beginning of your relationship. Imagine it 5 years from now =/

Femonymous 09/11/15 (Fri) 03:35:58 199e53 No.66207

>>66201

You're picky as fuck, dude. You're not an asshole, you're stupid.

The likelihood that you'll regret giving her up for that is much, much higher than the likelihood that you'll find another chick with all that good shit going for her.

Get over it or be prepared to be left alone with your high standards.

Femonymous 09/11/15 (Fri) 07:20:39 9ded2d No.66209

>>66207

Is it really just me being picky if I don't love her?

The sex is good and all, and I like hanging out with her. It just doesn't seem romantic at all for me.

Gummi 09/11/15 (Fri) 14:24:59 25f428 No.66210

>>66209

If you don't love her than really you shouldn't be together. I would hate to be in a serious relationship, and find out it was just a one sided love. To avoid hurting each other I honestly believe you should end it.

Femonymous 09/11/15 (Fri) 18:20:00 9ded2d No.66212

>>66210

I guess it's a bit more complex than my OP stated.

>Started off as regular dating, i broke it off after one date because I didn't like her. Even though we had sex.

>couple months later, meet at a party, have sex again.

>Lots and lots of sex in this area

>We start doing actual boyfriend girlfriend stuff

>She asks me if I want to get serious a month ago, I'm a honorable man I say of course.

>fast forward to now, deciding if I really like her.

I did just get out of a relationship before I met her, i'm wondering if I'm just emotionally stunned, or if I am really just turned off by her height or something else.

Gummi 09/11/15 (Fri) 18:44:16 25f428 No.66213

>>66212

How serious was the relationship prior?

Did the past relationship end badly?

Do you view your current lady as a friend more than a lover?

It does seem that you have some feelings for her even if its not love.

Femonymous 09/11/15 (Fri) 19:38:42 9ded2d No.66216

>>66213

We were engaged, first girlfriend ever.

Very badly.

Yes that's pretty accurate, if you can be sexually involved with a friend.

Gummi 09/12/15 (Sat) 05:59:19 a81d87 No.66222

>>66216

My opinion you should go on a few more dates, and if your feelings don't change move on.

I wish you the best of luck in the future.

Femonymous 09/12/15 (Sat) 07:34:49 9ded2d No.66226

>>66222

Thank you for the advice, Gummi. If there's anything I can advise you on say the word.

Gummi 09/13/15 (Sun) 09:08:59 386c84 No.66257

>>66226

Your welcome. @_@ and I don't need any advice on love, but if you know anything about sugar gliders that would help!

In all honesty I love helping people, so keep us updated on what's going on. If you need any more advice I'd be happy to help.