/fem/ - Female

>tfw no French gf

>I've seen many girls here complain about rat shit. Why not have pig shit instead?

>>66245

I figured that this would be the main response.

You are now free to explain why it seems like most if not all femanons look down on guys that use the same websites they do.

>>66247

Well I actually changed "most if not all" to "many" but I accidentally posted the wrong version. Either way the point stands.

Why would you want to find girls to date in anonymous imageboards? The push from anonymity into personal, private communication will be a very big step that you can only incite over messages that everyone can read and reply to or whatever, and most people would be very reticent to share private stuff with people that could share those nudes later behind their back on /b/. And you will have to trade nudes back and forth because the chances of you two living even remotely close are extremely unlikely. Have I mentioned that women here are a very low percentage of the userbase, most girls on imageboards prefer to shut up about their gender, and if they are the kind to go ahead and try to date with guys around here, you will be one in a queue of many, which will make it so she will be a lot pickier, if she isn't taken already by some /fit/izen or a /fa/ggot?

You hadn't thought this through, right?

>>66251

>Why would you want to find girls to date in anonymous imageboards?

We'd be more likely to share interests and preferences. It wouldn't be a guaranteed effect but anonymous imageboards have a tendency to attract more of certain types of people, particularly somewhat more obscure ones like 8chan (at least compared to 4chan).

>The push from anonymity into personal, private communication will be a very big step that you can only incite over messages that everyone can read and reply to or whatever

People share contact info all the time on imageboards.

>most people would be very reticent to share private stuff with people that could share those nudes later behind their back on /b/. And you will have to trade nudes back and forth because the chances of you two living even remotely close are extremely unlikely.

Who said anything about nudes or sex in general? I said "date", not "hookup with". If you just want that then obviously something like Tinder is better. How about just talking and getting to know each other to start?

>Have I mentioned that women here are a very low percentage of the userbase

Which is why I posted this on a board for girls.

>most girls on imageboards prefer to shut up about their gender

Which is why I posted this on a board for girls.

>you will be one in a queue of many

That's still better than nothing, for both the guys and the girls, since if they had such a queue they wouldn't complaining about being KVs.

>if she isn't taken already by some /fit/izen or a /fa/ggot?

Guys that browse here can't be fit or fashionable?

>You hadn't thought this through, right?

No, I had completely anticipated that insufferable faggots with a chronic case of pretentious negativity would infest this thread with their inane nitpicks. I've been using *chans for a while.

>>66252

Heh, good. You do have thought this through. I am just saying, the odds are not in your favor nor mine. I was just making sure that you weren't unaware of the drawbacks of the approach and also trying to demotivate competition. That optimism is conductive enough for your goals.

Good luck, anon.

>>66247

What's there to explain? Just because we're on it doesn't mean have to think it's good.

>>66240

The problem isn't that I'm a kissless virgin, I have no problem getting laid. My problem is I won't let anyone into my personal life, so I push away any woman that tries.

Thus why I'm here on a Saturday night.

>>66240

because you are all kisses virgin boys pretending to be girls

>>66248

>>66247

What gives you the impression that women on 8chan judge you for doing exactly the same thing they are? Why would I do that? I have irl guy friends who post here (not /fem/ specifically) and they're awesome people.

>>66254

The very fact that you're here means you find worth in it. If you have disdain for a website, use it, and judge others for using it, you're a bitch.

>>66255

I don't know how old you are but there's nothing wrong with relaxing and being single for a while, getting comfortable living your life on your terms. I was single for 6 years because I couldn't get close to anyone. I took some time, worked on my life, and now I have a great boyfriend and I'm happy because I'm comfortable with myself now so he's the icing on the cake, not the whole cake.

>>66258

If I'm a guy, there's something seriously wrong because my dick's inside out.

>>66279

I get what the intention of that phrase is but some people believe it's literal and those people are fucking morons.

why girls can't find boys

women are too: arrogant, narcissistic, manipulative, abusive, slutty

and have nothing of value to offer a man.

this is how men see you, if you want that to change you have to change otherwise enjoy your cats.

>>66273

>What gives you the impression that women on 8chan judge you for doing exactly the same thing they are? Why would I do that? I have irl guy friends who post here (not /fem/ specifically) and they're awesome people.

With the exception of reasonable women like yourself, it's not an uncommon opinion, as this thread proves.

>I don't know how old you are but there's nothing wrong with relaxing and being single for a while, getting comfortable living your life on your terms. I was single for 6 years because I couldn't get close to anyone. I took some time, worked on my life, and now I have a great boyfriend and I'm happy because I'm comfortable with myself now so he's the icing on the cake, not the whole cake.

1. For a lot of guys it's not a matter of just leaving the dating scene for a bit or not. It's that they never even really entered it in the first place. They do not even know what it's like. So it's like texting somebody from Disneyland that you're overstimulated and need to take a break from it when they've never even been there.

2. Guys can't just leave and reenter the dating scene as easily as women. Women view not having dated recently like employers view a hole in your resume. The longer you go without dating, the more undateable you become. Female attention compounds. Females like men that get attention from other females. It's been scientifically shown that women are more attracted to a man's looks when told that he's already married, for example.

Eventually you get so screwed that you come to 8chan looking for the rare unicorn of a woman that is able to overcome these behaviors.

>>66273

>The very fact that you're here means you find worth in it.

The very fact that you're here means you find worth in it. If you have disdain for a website, use it, and judge others for using it, you're a bitch.

>if you come here you must lower your dating standards for us

lol cry harder you little bitch

>>66311

>Find an introverted female freak with doritos on her hands

What do you think we're looking for? Stacy Thundercunt, star cheerleader and European fashion model?

"Introverted female freak" (as long as she's not too much more emotionally unstable than I am sometimes) is exactly what I've been seeking (other than the Doritos and Wal-Mart part because I wouldn't touch Doritos with your fingers and Wal-Mart isn't very romantic).

And I don't need some alternative scene queen with dyed hair and 52 piercings (actually that'd probably be a negative). She doesn't have to fit any mold. She just has to be kind, loyal, have a compatible personality with me, and not be a whore.

I feel like you vastly misunderstand what a lot of men nowadays.

>be a 20 year old kissless virgin

>sign up for some shitty dating site

>end up going out with a girl who's a self proclaimed hippie which is gross but she's rely nice

>get her phone number and then later basically says she doesn't want to go out again because she lacking in college

Come here to see what girls like and find nothing out at all except they have right wing beliefs and dont want to meet people. That feelaroonie when it's pretty much to late to find anyone especially another virgin and I should probably stop trying and accept my fate

>>66319

>right wing beliefs

That's a good thing m8.

>>66322

I didn't say it's not but that's one of the only things I learned…

>>66319

It's never too late to find a virgin. There are virgin girls turning [age of consent in your area] every day.

And if by any chance it ever comes to be that literally no girl makes it to the age of majority a virgin, then there are still other options.

Don't settle for used goods anon. There's still hope.

>>66326

I just meant not trying to date any girls at all and just be lonely

Good idea OP I'm into this. Where all the bitches at?

>>66240

>I've seen many girls here complain about being kissless virgins.

Maybe it's just one girl who's really whiny.

>>66347

She still must become my gf.

i luv u guys, but I wouldn't trust yall to look after my dogs, let alone date u.

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might screw you in a parking lot tho

>>66356

So they can look after you pussy, but not after your puppies?

>>66358

Is that why so many women nowadays are whores? Because they have even less respect for their own vaginas than they do for the average man?

>>66359

Boy forget that girls like sex too.

unporn.tumblr.com mate

>>66361

Everyone who has tried heroin has liked it too. So what? It's okay to be a drug addict now too?

>66363

Yes, we are living in the saddest, most sex addicted society that has ever existed, and that is obvious just from watching a little TV or looking at how much of the Internet's bandwidth is consumed by porn.

Some whores are sex addicts. Since they're women, a lot of them may just be attention addicts too. Some of them are probably both.

I am grateful that my close encounters with the modern hypersexuality meat grinder have been restricted to porn. If I were a woman who could get laid on command I might not be so lucky.

I think you're lashing out because you feel judged. Consider that whether you judge somebody or not for a behavior doesn't affect whether it should be promoted or seen as a good thing.

None of this changes the fact that it is not normal or healthy to get as much dick as your average woman nowadays does.

>>66365

I'm glad you've managed to restrict yourself to porn, and keep your judgemental self away from normal boys and girls who just want to have fun sex.

>>66367

You say "judgmental" like it's a bad thing. In a society with no judgment, anyone would be allow to do anything.

Defending something just because it's "fun" is an argument for five year olds. It's telling how nowadays it is considered a serious thing for adults to say.

>>66369

*allowed

Fuck 8chan's post-eating CAPTCHA. That is all.

>>66369

>Hating fun

Go back to /tg. On 4chan.

Sex is fun. Sure, there's risks, but guess what? You can manage the risks, and have fun without ruining your life. You know, like normal people do to make themselves happy.

>>66302

^This dumb shit couldn't even quote the person correctly. lol. What's wrong with the fact that if you hate people for using the same damn website you use, you're a bitch? I read nothing about lowering dating standards. Oh, posted on Sept 20th. Oh well, dumbass probably won't even see this.

>>66371

>You can manage the risks, and have fun without ruining your life.

Promiscuity is correlated with a variety of negative statistical outcomes, many of them mental and related to life satisfaction/depression, even if you practice "safe sex" (which is not 100% safe).

But it's clear that you've made up your mind and don't care about things like long term consequences. I hope you avoid them.

>>66375

Jesus dude. I just wanna get laid occasionally. You're the one who has made up your mind.

I'm not gonna fuck everyone I meet, form an unhealthy emotional attachement which will not be returned, and do self harming stuff to get more attention.

I'm just a girl who enjoys sex, and is comfortable in her sexuality. Who the hell are you?

>>66376

>I'm just a girl who enjoys sex, and is comfortable in her sexuality.

used goods by 30, cap this post

>>66377

Fuck off

>>66377

Don't be silly. A woman is already used goods the first time they allow a man to have sex with them without a romantic commitment, since they've literally allowed themselves to used by a man for his orgasmic purposes.

90% of women over 15 these days are used goods. It's okay though. This generation of whores will grow up, realize that the men of their generation are disgusted with them and don't want to marry them, and hopefully teach younger girls not to be such sluts.

>>66379

Fuck off

>>66284

…or the environment and society emasculates men physically.

The ugly and unfit are ignored. If a female looked like a male, then no straight man would date her.

I wonder if these pro-chaste people would have a different attitude towards sex if it was not difficult at all for them to obtain good sex.

>>66384

>implying sex is hard to get

you just get drunk at a nightclub and pretend to be a chad, I've seen total nerdlingers get with girls that way. Then there's also prostitutes

at the same time, there's nothing wrong with wanting to have sex with somebody you actually care about as opposed to anonymous fucking on top of a bin with somebody you first met 15 minutes ago

>itt assmad open legged sluts

I wouldn't want any of you either.

>>66393

Itt, argument between sex positive people

Who probably don't all get laid every month

and sex negative people

who don't probably all get laid every month

and then there's you

virgin

>>66393

meant to reply in the post above

>>66395

>Women that ask men for sex

>Not women who have men ask THEM for it

I don't know why this is even a conversation. Men hate sluts. Some men tolerate them long enough to get off inside them. Many others are too disgusted by them to even do that. I'm sorry ladies, but it's just a biological fact. You aren't going to shame men into rejecting their instincts cause "LOL MUST BE A VIRGIN XD".

>>66398

Men's "instincts" tell them what?

-Go for the shy, virginal girl with no experience? Only if the men themselves are sluts and enjoy bringing sexual experiences to others.

-Go for the girl who's had a few partners? There's no way to tell by looking.

-Go for the hot, slutty, sexual girl who laughs freely and grabs the most out of life? Hell yeah! She'll be a lot of fun.

>>66399

Congratz on finding someone

>>66400

Men's instincts tell them to seek out a woman with the least amount of prior partners possible in order to minimize the chance of raising another man's offspring (in addition to avoiding possible microchimerism-based contamination). Similarly to how disease invokes disgust in humans due to the evolutionarily injurious possibilities of reduced reproductive fitness and/or death it causes, the evolutionary catastrophe (for a man) that is being cuckolded causes men to be disgusted by sluts. Your Facebook-tier rationalizations about how slutty women are "fun", "laugh freely" (because we all know that chaste women are incapable of laughter), and "grab the most out of life" (the most out of life = the most dick possible shoved in every hole) have no bearing on these behaviors that are literally millions of years old, any more than fat women can erase the health consequences of obesity by horking on about how "BIG is BEAUTIFUL".

Any man who has ever masturbated to online porn can tell you that being horny will suppress quite a bit of your natural disgust toward many things, so certainly sluts don't have to worry about running out of dick any time soon (though given the choice between two equally hot girls any man would choose the virgin over the slut). What they won't get (other than from desperate men which are unfortunately somewhat common nowadays) is any sort of commitment or actual romantic affection. Men think of sluts as holes. Any other behaviors demonstrated toward them are mere social pleasantries used to get inside of those holes. This is easily verified by listening in to a group of men having a private conversation about a promiscuous women (or reading imageboards like this one where men are free to express themselves honestly).

Of course it's not like every woman on this planet doesn't already know all of this. If women really thought that men preferred sluts then they wouldn't lie about how many men they've had sex with (and advise other women to do the same), or take issue with being called "sluts" in the first place, or even worry about people like me thinking negatively about sluts. Because if everybody actually likes sluts, then who cares about what one random guy says? It'd be like arguing against somebody that hates ice cream: a confusing waste of time. You wouldn't even have any sort of mental schema for talking about the issue, because you would have never encountered any anti-slut mentality in this hypothetical pro-slut world, but you obviously have in this real world given that you have your talking points all ready to go.

I'm not even mad that you're defending sluts. I just find your response inane. We're supposed to like sluts because they "laugh freely" and are "a lot of fun"? How naive do you think your average man is? If you are a slut, at least don't be a stupid one who makes men cringe with an endless string of retarded justifications. Just own up to it and admit that you chose a few extra helpings of dick over being a wifeable woman. Men will respect you more for it.

>>66404

You know what? Fuck off.

>>66405

You sound more butthurt than that time Tyrelle gave you anal herpes.

Sorry babe, the truth hurts.

>>66410

Fuck off

>>66240

She's cute.

>>66413

Fuck O…

Wait, you're not that guy.

Continue!

>>6413

Yes, I posted her because she looks like she might not be awhore.

>>6413

Yes, I posted her because she looks like she might not be a whore.

>>66418

>>66419

I said fuck off.

>>66372

>Swedish flag

The only thing close to a fug your getting is watching some isis sand nigger cream inside an Aryan woman as part of a mandatory re-education purpose

>>66351

that's their loss then

if their expectations are too high, they wont find anyone

how does that have a negative impact on anyone else?

>>66398

fair enough, but i don't know any women who would tolerate being with a slut either :/

i know i wouldn't be comfortable being with someone whose slept around a lot before me.

>>66399

congrats :3

hope it goes well for you