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No.1709
What does /femdom/ think of financial domination? I just got into it and I'm having a voice in the back of my head telling me it's a horrible idea and to just cut off contact. I feel sick.
No.1710
>>1709Do you trust the woman you're doing it with?
If yes, proceed, but with caution.
If no, find someone you can confide in.
If maybe, follow instructions for no.
It can be really hot, but you're dicking around with your future, no pun intended.
No.1711
Terrible terrible idea where a selfish person is simply exploiting your bank account and using your fetish for their own gain. Avoid at all cost.
No.1728
it's one of those things that should never move past fantasy.
No.1730
>>1709literally retarded
like shit nigger, you dun fucked up
No.1735
>>1728100% this.
Don't do it opie.
No.1736
>>170999% of "findommes" are just broke young girls who need the easy cash. So obviously i won´t do it. But then again, i don´t have this fetish.
No.1737
I'd sooner do hardcore CBT than financial domination.
No.1738
Seriously OP this is a shit idea and can fuck over your life just to get your dick a little hard.
No.1779
>>1709I am VERY HAPPILY into femdom (into a couple variants of it actually) and even I don't understand what is the appeal of this. Shit, I don't even know why anyone with any sexual orientation or fetish would do it just because it makes him or her horny. It looks like a horrible idea to me.
But it's your choice I guess.
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No.1809
If it's your wife you have been with for years and years them maybe, and within the specific context of she makes the big financial decisions and you have joint account. Not she had sole control of your account.
With girlfriend or person you have been for a few years or months absolutely not. You're asking for trouble and potentially to get fucked over big time.
No.1824
Just get married OP.
No.1830
It would be hot if it developed naturally with a woman that I knew. With an internet whore, though? Never. What's your situation, OP?
No.1835
>>1830>>What's your situation, OP?"Already gave away a ton of money to a random stranger on the internet asking me for it and now I need you to tell me that it's okay and really sexy", would be my guess.
No.1836
>>1835His "Mistress" is probably some neckbeard or fatty who took some pictures of a hot woman in fetish clothes and made some ridiculous profile asking for "money slaves."
Or it could just be a hot girl who realized how easy it is to use that to exploit retards while over her lunch breaks at McDonalds.
No.1840
>>1709>financial dominationYou mean blackmail and identity theft.
No.1842
>>1835Dude, just stop. Financial domination may be ok with a mistress wife, and a long lasting relationship, but not with a total stranger on the internet.
No.1844
My girlfriend was in to it. Although it was just fetishism and I always controlled the flow of money.
In RP to make things interesting we'd conceive "sucking machines" attached my member that drew out my money as I'd fight against it and she'd coax me to giver her more.
Although that my fall more into drain fetishism rather than financial domination. It does have aspects of both. Sadly, I'm much more dom than she is.
No.1845
Literally the worst idea I have *ever* heard of in my life. Role play it if you want, but for fucks sake man do not make this a real thing. ESPECIALLY not with someone over the internet. This is just beyond dangerous.
No.1846
>>1845Wait shit. I'm getting an idea that is both hot and somewhat feasible. I STILL wouldn't do it with someone online unless you've known them for years, but like, okay so.
Here's the deal. You make a game out of it where she can financially dominate you, but that money goes into a savings account that you have full control over. Obviously it's still in your name, but if you start pulling funds from it you've got a lot of explaining to do.
Like any good BDSM, you can safeword out, and you're still in control where it matters.
Plus the idea of a girl trying to drain you so you can't buy anything and fuck with you is actually really hot.
Still an awful idea, but if you're gonna do it that's really the best way I can think of.
Alternatively, you agree that for every time you cum you have to give up buying something. Maybe it's as simple as having to pack lunches for work or something along those lines, but again a way to tap into the denial of things you desire without fucking with your future and finances or health or anything like that. That's pretty much the best you're gonna get. Anything else is fucking insanity.
No.1848
>>1846>Like any good BDSM, you can safeword outGirls into findom do not give a shit about safewords.
No.1851
Thats why you control the account in the first place. Not her. You're not safewording. She never had access to begin with.
No.1855
I don't get how people can get off on the idea of losing something as abstract as money. Its a strange idea to be turned on by seeing the numbers in your bank account go down.
No.1861
It's not like it's literally seeing numbers go down or even losing money though. I think it's safe to say most people with a scat fetish don't get a boner when they see dog poo on the sidewalk, the person from who the poop came/comes or what she does with it/makes you do with it is the main part of it.
I don't really have this particular fetish myself, but I doubt people who do have it get horny when they lose money at a casino.
No.1862
>>1709There is degeneracy and there is _degeneracy_.
Findom is strictly the latter. Get out while you still can.
No.3712
>>1711
>a selfish person is simply exploiting your bank account and using your fetish for their own gain
that's the hot part about it. the fact that they don't care about you at all and just exploit you like the subhuman beta male you are
i've never given a single penny to any of these whores but i've jacked off to their profiles on twitter multiple times
No.3713
Indulging the fantasy is one thing. Actually going through with it is potentially very destructive.
I love the idea of being raped by women, and my jerk-off fantasies almost exclusively revolve around that idea.
I would never want it to happen in real life.
No.3729
The least sexual and most exploited fetish out there. If you're into it, fine, but it seems more like a way of conning white collar wageslaves out of their money than anything else.