>>2120>Hear me out. I usually don't want it, but then every once in a while I'm struck by a powerful desire for femdom. Then it just goes away.I'm the same. And at times I highly desire to be the top.
If you're not always like that I highly suggest to get a GF that likes to switch roles at times, it's fantastic and it's in my experience MUCH easier to find a switching GF than to find a 100% domme.
>Why do I like femdom so much?You're probably born that way. A lot of people like some elements of BDSM even though they probably wouldn't call it that way.
For example I believe that almost every guy fantasized at least once to be seduced in a slightly coercive way by a cougar or his teacher or almost every guy would enjoy being blowed/teased while being handcuffed, they just don't see it as a desire for D/S relationship.