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Are you fucking serious mate?

inb4 copypasta/b8

>>82713

I think I've read it some months ago in cuckchan, OP is a faggot.

>>82713

Yes I am being serious, everything I wrote was mine.

https://www.google.com.au/search?q=So+this+week+it+happened.++++I+went+to+join+my+local+gym+to+work+out+and+start+Krav+Maga.++After+a+nice+workout+and+feeling+good+about+myself+my+fiance+the+next+day+told+me+it+was+over.++She+doesn%27t+see+a+future+with+me+and+she%27s+packing,+moving+her+stuff+out+by+next+week.++I+honestly+feel+embarrassed+to+tell+my+family.++++I+feel+like+a+failure+of+a+man+since+my+dad+was+separated+from+my+mum+after+a+two+years+of+marriage+and+I+wasn%27t+even+able+to+make+it+to+the+wedding+after+two+months+proposing+to+her.+++++I+tried+/fit/++I+really+did+try+to+make+it+work.++When+she+first+asked+me+out+I+took+a+chance,+I+helped+her+lose+weight,+supported+her+when+she+was+unemployed+and+moved+her+out+when+I+saw+what+she+use+to+live+in+awful+living+conditions,++her+parents+were+hoarders+of+junk+with+multiple+animals+in+the+house+and+it+smelled+like+death.++I+got+her+younger+brother+into+Karate+and+Magic+the+Gathering%E2%80%A6I+stood+up+for+her+from+her+father+who+had+a+history+of+domestic+abuse+between+the+two.+++++But+then+she+tells+me+%22I+think+of+you+more+as+a+friend+than+a+partner%22+and+it+hurts+anon%27s.++It+hurts+knowing+someone+you+went+out+your+way+all+those+years+to+help+her+and+she+says+that+while+also+saying+%22I+don%27t+see+a+future+with+you.%22++I%27m+going+to+the+gym+tomorrow+to+lift+but+man+does+it+already+feel+heavy+inside.&ie=utf-8&oe=utf-8&gws_rd=cr&ei=A06SVtHVPKOsmAWykbCgBw

There it is put into google. Word for word.

>>82715

FUCK YOU, YOU USELESS FUCKING BRAZILIAN! I'M GLAD ALDO GOT KTFO BY CONOR AND YOU GOT HUMILIATED AT THE WORLD CUP BECAUSE OF THIS FUCKING RESPONSE! FUCK YOUR SHITHOLE OF A COUNTRY! HUE HUE HUE!

>>82712

Wish you could come to breakfast with me, OP. I'm preparing to be in roughly the same position. I'll be here in this thread from time to time if you need me.

Ignore the faggots, if you're legit.

>>82716

OP, if you're serious you shouldn't reply in this manner, still a faggot, if you're saying the truth then sorry.

>FUCK YOU, YOU USELESS FUCKING BRAZILIAN! I'M GLAD ALDO GOT KTFO BY CONOR AND YOU GOT HUMILIATED AT THE WORLD CUP BECAUSE OF THIS FUCKING RESPONSE!

I don't like soccer, sorry, so no fucks given in that matter.

>FUCK YOUR SHITHOLE OF A COUNTRY! HUE HUE HUE!

You live in Australia. Also, Brazil is a good country, just sadly fucked up in some matters

>>82717

Thank you for the offer, I appreciate it.

>>82719

>OP, if you're serious you shouldn't reply in this manner, still a faggot, if you're saying the truth then sorry.

I'll end this appropriately by saying apology accepted and I'm sorry back. I have nothing against Brazil, I learned BJJ and Capoeria from your fellow country men. I love Brazilian women. But you came into this thread claiming I was a fake, that I used a copy pasta from 4chan even though I haven't being there since the exodus. I don't like being called a fucking fake especially in this state of mind I am in now.

>>82716

>BR says OP is a faggot

>OP responds like a faggot

The evidence is a-pilin' I tell you h'whut.

OP, drown your woes in petrol like your abo countrymen.

>8 YEARS

>"I think of you more as a friend than a partner"

Stupid slut who hasn't yet realized that the best partners are a good friend who you're comfortable fucking. Why would you want to spend your life with someone you didn't consider a friend? You want to be married to a guy you're indifferent about? An enemy? An acquaintance? Fucking dumb whores.

Alternatively, she just used you to get out of her shit life and has planned to dump you ever since, but got lazy or just let it go on too long by accident. Then she woke up one day and thought "holy shit if I don't stop this now I'm gonna end up married to this guy" and panicked. She never wanted to be tied down, she still wants to be a bar slut and have one night stands with random chads, and any love you felt from her for the past 8 years was a lie. Except in rare cases, women aren't capable of considering men's feelings. It's entirely possible the whole thing was an act and she was living with you out of convenience.

But jokes on her, unless you guys started REALLY young, she's in her late 20s now. Maybe even 30s. And nobody is gonna want her now cause she's past her prime. She gets to wallow in the adult dating world full of single parents, pathetic sob stories, mental cases, and losers of the genetic lottery. She won't realize how good she had it until it's too late. Steel yourself for The Call, because it will come. When she realizes how badly she's fucked up, she'll beg for you to take her back. And if you have any self respect at all, you'll tell her to fuck off and die. She threw away 10% of your life like it was nothing. You spent all that time thinking she was the one you'd grow old with, devoting yourself to her, going out of your way to help with her problems and fix HER life because you wanted to see her happy. And what did you get? Spat in the face because she doesn't… want to marry a friend?

When she calls, desperate to make up, just remember all the time you've lost at her hands. You could have been fucking other women, doing other hobbies and shit instead of dealing with her parents, you could have missed the ACTUAL one because you were with this girl when you met, and didn't want to be unfaithful. Remember this, and get angry. She had her chance.

And one last thing. Inb4 you find out she's been cheating on you cause that's always how it goes. They don't give up a good thing until they've got someone else lined up already.

>>82712

>I think of you more as a friend than a partner

I find this pretty hilarious when I think back on the Advice my parents have always given myself and many of my cousins over the years concerning this subject. Whenever asked about this they've said they both married their best friend. Sure there was some love and passion in there, but that wasn't the main reason they got married. It was more about finding someone they were both able to live with for the rest of their lives.

Looking back on all my friends who had divorced parents as well as some of my family members who have gone through divorces, I think this is probably why my parents are still together after 35 years.

>>82721

I know you don't hate brazil or brazilians, you were angry, just relax and think about your situation, no woman unless your mother or daughter is worth that kind of affliction you're passing through, your life means more than a woman which possible used you at least that's what I think about your situation and how you speak about it Go drink with a buddy and wash your feelings with alcohol at least for now, if you're relatively young you will find a girl soon, it's not the end of the world, it just feels like it.

>mfw I reply saying shit to an aussie then my elevator brakes with me inside for an entire hour

OP, you're a evil magic kangaroo

>>82730

>Then she woke up one day and thought "holy shit if I don't stop this now I'm gonna end up married to this guy" and panicked

This seems most likely

>>82730

> …just remember all the time you've lost at her hands….

Fucking oath lad

>>82716

Unbelievable OP. I'm screenshotting this shit because while I haven't been fucked over THIS bad, I'm peppering my angus.

8 years, jesus fucking christ……..

> I feel like a failure of a man

Not at all mate. You don't become a successful man by engaging in the same autistic behaviour as others, but by tanking autistic shit like this and slowly rising above it.

>>82730

Thanks for the read. I've already come to terms that it is over and I will not be taking her back, not even be a friend after what she did.

Also I refuse to let her decision hold me down after she's gone, I'm going to keep living how I want. Go to the gym, pump weights, do Krav and get healthy.

Friday when she moves out fully, I'm going to call my sister and let her know, then after that I'm going to pawn the ring, take the money then get some booze and pussy. I deserve this after putting up with her for that long.

>>82787

>Not at all mate. You don't become a successful man by engaging in the same autistic behaviour as others, but by tanking autistic shit like this and slowly rising above it.

Thanks for the advice mate.

I've seen a story similar to yours.

There was a guy who had a gf. he took care of her alot. Her dad wasn't paying any attention to her, so she had to buy her own food. Eventually, she was underweight because she hadn't enough. Especially whenshe moved in an appartment. That saved her life from drug abuse, starvation, death before 20. He dedicated his whole life to her. the, onde day, she left him. out of no real reason, she just went. The next thing he knows, is that she has now countless amount of sex with a close friend of him.

The stories seem similar. I can conclude that going out with girl that are currently having a shitty lifestyle with daddy issues that are on going is a mistake.

>>82730

>>8 YEARS

>>"I think of you more as a friend than a partner"

>Stupid slut who hasn't yet realized that the best partners are a good friend who you're comfortable fucking. Why would you want to spend your life with someone you didn't consider a friend? You want to be married to a guy you're indifferent about? An enemy? An acquaintance? Fucking dumb whores.

She's been fucking someone else, I guarantee it. Sorry OP, you've probably been cucked. On the other hand, there's nothing holding you back to leave humanity behind now.

>supported her when she was unemployed

there's your problem. you should have seen this as a red flag tbh fam

Not much I can say that hasn't already been said.

When it comes to women, living well really is the best revenge. Better yourself, better your life. I know it hurts, but take it one day at a time and do everything you can to move on.

>>82815

being cheated on =/= being cucked

cuck is allowing it to happen like anthony burch's "open relationship" with his wife.

if he had no idea, he's not being fucking cucked

>>82801

It makes sense, I've gone out with three women all with daddy issues and it never worked out. They all developed problems from over eating to drug abuse and excessive drinking.

I had a shitty upbringing with my dad but I least I never took it out on myself and just said "Man, fuck that deadbeat."

>>82832

I have no idea if I'm being cheated on or not. No evidence to suggest so. But I know she has someone else lined up. When she was packing her stuff she suddenly gets into a hour phone call about herself and her job, she's not talking to family, so who the fuck is it, I don't know or care.

Going back to the gym again either way. I'm going to treat me well and get back to fighting fit like I use to be.

>>82839

>Going back to the gym again either way. I'm going to treat me well and get back to fighting fit like I use to be.

That's the spirit OP. And one day maybe she'll see you again out of pure luck, and she'll see what you became.

And on that day, I can guarantee you it's gonna be the best feeling in the world to turn her down.

So while I was at the gym I got this text message.

"Anon, I write this to you because I won't be able to say it with a straight face."

Had no problem with a straight face telling me you think of me more as a friend than a partner.

"As you know I do, I lied. I do love you. I never stopped loving you."

Yet you won't say this to me in person. Funny how that works.

"I cannot however deal with remembering everything for you and our financial problems"

1- I had radiotherapy for tumors in my brain. Excuse me for not having a great memory considering my brain was blasted with radiation.

2- Financial problems? What fucking financial problems? A full fridge, a comfortable life in a 3 bedroom apartment right across the road from the beach. Unlimited internet access, a car, a cross trainer machine, her own computer, her own world of Warcraft account, Stan, Netflix and Crunchyroll account. I ask again WHAT FINANCIAL PROBLEMS IF YOUR LIVING COMFORTABLY?

"Everyone asks us constantly about a wedding we cannot afford. And it hurts me."

I've suggested many times, lets go to the local council and sign the marriage certificates and have a party later to celebrate if money was an issue. Guess she forgot about that option existing.

"If we didn't rely on your sister for everything I'd feel a lot better, but unfortunately you have no choice I know."

First of all my sister relies on ME more than I relie on her. I've paid off her debts, when she moved down to Melbourne to be with me after mum died I footed the bill to pay off her moving accommodations and even used money I inherited to cover her bills to give her a fresh start. Because that's what family does, look after each other.

She gave me back in reward by letting me be employed at the family business and when I got sick the life insurance I got signed thanks to the loan we got from the back now covers me the rest of my life with a livable wage after I got brain tumors. And now she's looking into my contract because she on her own time with my brother in law might have found out the insurance company might owe me more money than what they gave.

My sister always spoke highly of my ex, she purposely bought products from her company and always pushed her to move up in the illustrators world after she got more than four years experience, because she fucking cared about her and wanted her to make more money. FUCK YOU, YOU UNGRATEFUL BITCH!

"I wanted to work on my emotions and thoughts but you said there is no grey area"

When I said there was no grey area I meant are you saying you think of me as a friend instead of partner there is no grey area. Simple as that. After all the shit I've done for you to be told that is fucking insulting and I want a clear cut answer.

"So I felt no choice for this. And thus put up the wall"

She always had a choice. Always. The other day she tried to actually blame me she didn't go with her dad to see the V8 super cars which I said back straight away "I never objected, you never asked. You never went, I never protested. Stop it." It feels like she's just dropping anything she can to blame on me at this point when its clear its her own personal issues. Nothing will make her happy, nothing.

"I don't expect you to ever forgive me. Just know I still care."

That's a lie. If she cared she would of tried to make it work but never did. My mum raised me and my sister by herself, no child support ever on one third the living wage both of us were making combined. So don't tell me you fucking care when you don't even try.

>>82845

OP, do you seriously have tumours in your brain? Holy shit, your ex-gf/fiancée is a horrible person, good luck with the treatment.

>>82845

I wouldn't even bother responding to her. Blocker her, delete her from contacts and move on. Shit happens and it will be much better for you to not give her any attention, angry or other wise, cut your loses and move on.

Don't give her the satisfaction of response. act like you've never know her and move on. Nothing good will ever come from contacting her anymore even if it means yelling at her. Show her she has no power over you and just fucking ignore her. I can guarantee she's trying to get a response from you, any kind whether it's pity or anger. Don't give her any kind of satisfaction. Forget her and move on.

>>82846

>OP, do you seriously have tumours in your brain?

Yes, I've being through surgery three times, one to take out a tumor the size of an egg at the front which was giving me pounding headaches. A few days later back into surgery because the bone plate got infected and had to remove it, meaning I had a gaping hole in my head for a year, so no going up ladders, weight exercises, driving or swimming was allowed. With the risk of seizures that year. The third surgery to put a metal plate in my head to give my head a normal shape.

I have still two more tumors left, one on the main brain stem so surgery could possibly leave me paralyzed and another around the memory cortext part of my brain so if that's removed or if I do chemo it will fuck with my memory. So basically I get scans every four months to get checked up on to make sure there is no grow, there both level 2. Three is urgent, 4 is death.

>>82847

I'm not responding. I'm going to tell my sister when I tell her on friday too. My family including my grandmother bent over backwards to accommodate her and she just spat on us. Fuck her.

>>82848

what in the fuck….

what a world

why krav maga?

>>82845

What an ungrateful bitch. Be strong OP, you'll eventually find a good woman to have white babies with.

>>82845

I hope you didn't even respond. That kind of radio silence drives women up the wall.

>>82848

From what she said alone, she sounded a lot better than you made her sound in the OP, but given this context, she can get fucked, for all I care. If someone I loved had a brain tumor, I would fucking handcuff myself to them.

>>82845

>Nothing will make her happy, nothing.

Some people are just like this. There are those who will try and build themselves an airplane when they end up homeless and on a scrapyard, and then there are those who will never even try, no matter how much in their life goes right. Stay clear of these people. Seriously; stay the fuck away from them.

OP, I am touched, I really am and there's nothing I could say to express it

Thank you, man…whenever I feel tired or feel it's too much, I will remember you, remember what you've been going through and how you controlled your chemicals, got your shit together and went to the gym

If there's anyone here who's gonna make it, its you Anon

You're gonna make it

Right now, I really want to go learn BJJ, Capoera and Krav Maga…unfortunately I don't have any gyms teaching those around this part of Egypt

I really hope you get well soon, Anon

P.S:If you don't mind revealing yourself, I could really use chatting with you for a while, you sound like a nice guy and that you could use the chat, I'm serious about this

Also, if the gym you go to is 24:7 Airport West, I could get you the account of an Australian friend who trains there, the dude is awesome and I would train with him all I can if I weren't living in a different country

more like a different hemisphere, but still…

>>82839

>>82845

>has a new guy lined up already

>bitching about financial problems that don't exist

>wants a bigger wedding than you can afford and considers this a large enough issue to bring it up in this breakup

The new guy is rich. She gave you up to gold-dig him. Guarantee it.

>all that cancer shit

Fucking fill her car with pissed off Australian wildlife. What a goddamn whore.

>>82832

no, that's not what it means. The definition or public understanding has changed to spare people's feelings. You are a cuckold if your wife has had more than one sexual partner excluding widows. You could also argue that governments importing foreigners to fuck their women makes a country's population cuckolded. OP was not married and therefore not a cuckold, he probably feels like one since he was so emotionally invested.

>>82845

Is she delusional? If shes lying to you there are two options. She either thinks you dont have the faculties to remember correctly or she genuinely believes what she says is right. If its the first option she is a huge cunt and deserves a nest of funnel webs on her cars sun visor. If its the second she might have some mental issues which you certainly dont want to pass onto your children and would make your life shit to live with.

You are well rid of her upside down bro, have some fun and show that massive bitch what she gave up.

>>82884

>You are a cuckold if your wife has had more than one sexual partner excluding widows.

Seriously, what's up with this victorian mentality? The reason why no one respects a man who allows his wife to sleep with other men is because he allows the relationship to become one-sided, and takes the short end of it. This signifies a lack of self-respect. If we define cuckoldry as broadly as you do, then it includes things that no one in his right mind has any kind of problem with, and the term loses all meaning.

This happened to the word rape, too, at least the way feminists use it. It staring at people is rape, then rape is just a minor nuisance, and a phrase like "I was raped" eventually loses all its impact.

>>82901

We're all pretty sure and it's been said but OP has no concrete proof the actual act occurred. There is at the very least someone else she's talking to that she wants to fuck.

That sucks OP. But rather it happens now instead of after you are married, right?

>>82716

come on fam you're from the land of shitposters dont let a hueposter get to you

And here I was thinking not being able to work out for three months was bad.

From what I've read so far, OP is a man with an iron temper, and even if his ex was a complete and total bitch, he WILL make it.

>>82852

>why krav maga?

Already done karate, kickboxing, Capoeria,and BJJ for about two years each. I grew up with Boxing from my older uncle who contended in golden gloves and I wrestled my neighbor (we were pro wrestling fans so we wrestled to submission finishes only) who's now a black belt in judo.

I live in Australia where the knife crime rate is the norm. Most people who I trained with despite being blackbelts were over whelmed by weapon users. It was just a natural progression.

>>82854

Yep when she came home I walked the dog instead, never brought it up.

>>82870

Thanks for the comment. I'd love to go to the middle east just to see the ADCC Submission Wrestling World Championship live if it ever returned to Abu Dhabi, get that real middle eastern experience.

Unfortunately I don't go to that gym, the one I go to is old school tough. No Air Con, all old school equipment. Feels great developing rough hands again.

>>82887

The fact she's moving back in with her parents shows she has mental issues. All she did was complain about her parents and then is willing to move back with them instead of staying at her grandfathers place where he has a bungalow out doors where she get privacy, shows that.

>>82912

At least I wasn't hung dry through the divorce courts. That's always a good way to look at it.

>>82915

We already made our peace.

>>82916

Thanks for the compliment.

>>82712

Might sound cliche' and probably won't mend your sadness but dude, fuck women. They're garbage. I'm not a mgtow but it doesn't take one to acknowledge how western women are mostly all aweful human beings through years of being coddled and worshipped.

Women are opportunists and it's in their nature to seek out a partner whom they believe will sire the best offspring with them. This is bound to happen with relationships, just like turning over logs in the Mohave is bound to get you bitten by a rattlesnake. In both cases, they're just behaving accordingly to their biological predisposition.

In hindsight, you shouldn't have built an emotional attachment to another person OP, you fucked up big time. faggot.

>>82712

I wish I could trade places with you. O have a gf I'm tired if and shes literally crazy about me. Ive reduced her to tears for thinking other women besides her are attractive. She starves herself to try to look like the women in the pictures I look at. And I'm just so bored of her…

>>82801

> I can conclude that going out with girl that are currently having a shitty lifestyle with daddy issues that are on going is a mistake.

Dude I can fucking support that. Every guy I know so far who had gf with a shitty father or no father at all was fucking rekt after she broke up with them. I guess that these girls look towards their own mother as a role model. and what do women do when they cannot sustain themselves (as in all cases) - they fuck other men.

I even saw it with my aunt and my niece now. Fuck.

>>82937

Don't listen to this faggot, OP.

>>82957

Holy shit, now that you mention it: I totally know this one girl who has no father, and she is mental AND a commie! Guess there might be something to this bro-wisdom, after all.

>>82959

Well fuck, you better prep up that oven again German-bro. We got some work to do.

Lifting dem whores in the oven is lifting after all.

>>82712

I'm sorry, Anon.

>>82959

>mental and a commie

So she's a commie, then.

She's a degenerate whoreslut that thinks she's worth a lot more than she has. That's thr consequence of being too nice, OP. She will want to come back, but you will say no.

Pain only makes men stronger and wiser. You will make it work eventually. And remember, you did nothing wrong. She was the slut.

>>83019

>Pain only makes men stronger and wiser.

Are you talking about life gains or gym gains? that's pretty accurate tho.

>>83045

Both kinds of gains. Not to mention bone gainz we all have to thank mr. Skeltal for. Without these, we'd get crushed under 3pl8

Op, did you want a girl who wanted to stay? if so, the you are better off, right.

So finally told my sister, she was really upset for me and got my brother in law to pick me up. Last night I had exactly what I needed, talked it out, hanging out with my bro in law with burritos and beer while broing out watching nba best slamdunks, best nfl hits/plays, bas rutten and russian road rage.

My sister also helped me out by pawning back the ring (I didnt have the right ID to do so) so thats money back in my pocket and im going to really enjoy this weekend by going to the city, going to a fighting game tourney, see the hateful 8 on an original 70mm film.

>>83019

Thank you for the comment.

>>83069

All I wanted was to work it out but thats life. You cant make it work when the other refuses to try to make it work. Either way Im not going to stop living over this. Im going to keep enjoying myself and take care of myself.

>>83090

>degenerate women

Mate, woman are all degenerate, the difference is the degree between them, it applies to men too.

>>82719

>You live in Australia. Also, Brazil is a good country, just sadly fucked up in some matters

Brazil is even worse than shitstralia.

>>82994

Feel bad for being shallow

>>82730

>>82712

Dudes, in the age of feminism and state-mandated egalitarianism, women don't want or need a friend or provider. You either have to be interesting to her or you have to seem like you have the best cum her looks can get her (be or seem powerful, suave, intelligent, competent, not vulnerable, etc.)

The dating game sucks big in 2011+5, but I think that's why OP got dumped. As a rule, women have no gratitude and give no fucks that you provided them material aid. Expecting that from any woman is a mistake. I'm sorry you were betrayed like this, bro.

>>83411

>state-mandated egalitarianism

>Still believing the feminism=equality meme

>>82848

Well, I guess the brain tumours is why she left you. You probably don't notice it yourself, if you act strange. Plenty of people have killed their families due to brain tumours. That's scary shit.

>>82883

This, she already is riding the new stallion

I hope you learned your lesson, captain save a ho.

>>83411

>As a rule, women have no gratitude and give no fucks that you provided them material aid. Expecting that from any woman is a mistake.

Women don't seem to have a sense of loyalty in the way that men do. If they have the opportunity to fuck someone more physically attractive/ richer/ higher social status than what they currently have, they'll do it, sometimes without thinking twice. Doesn't matter if her current man works his ass off to support her, or the things he's done for her.

I'm starting to think when I finish getting fit, I should start pumping and dumping instead. Women aren't reliable enough to get invested in relationships.

>>83584

This, women are gains goblins.

I've lost three lifting buddies to women. I don't know what it is about them but they can't be trusted

>>84766

It's pretty fucking gay no matter what position you're in, that's half the fun. If you're not lifting for your boyfriend who also lifts then you aren't doing it right and are probably a manlet, etc.

She wasn't "your" gf, you were only taking a turn. Or you could say that you were taking a 8 year rent.

>>84766

Just be full on gay, you faggot.

>>84748

Evolution may have something to do with it, females will always look for the best genes.

you should update on the situation OP. female tears give me boners

>>86018

Well then he probably ded you cunt

post ur cock btw n-no homo

This is a good thing.Now you don't have to buy her shit, and worry about her giving it up one night, and hear her nagging.

>>86038

OP made a long list of reasons why his ex is a complete bitch:

>>82845

He was specifically complaining about her being ungrateful, irrational and unsympathetic in regards to his illness, but not about the two things you mentioned. You read them into his story, apparently without acually reading the damn thing.

Let me tell you something about being a decent human being: When someone needs sympathy, you listen to their story, THEN you extend your condolescences. What you don't do is ignore them, make it about your personal problems or agenda and then pretend you were showing them sympathy. You weren't. You've just been a narcissistic asshole.

Sage because I already posted a few minutes ago. I really hope /fit/ won't get more of this beta-rage.

>>82712

I can relate anon. My relationship of 2 years ended a few days ago, well it was over months ago but I was too blind to realize it. I wasn't perfect but I tried everything in my power to bring it back. At the end of it she cheated on me. We lived together for most of our relationship and she was just able to toss it like that, instead of being honest to me about her infidelity. But you know what anon? We're gonna fucking make it, we will move past this and become even stronger than before, we will let these experiences show us how painful life can be. At the end of it she kept telling me she was sorry, that she's always gonna care for me and all that soppy shit. I don't care. There's no reason to continue dwelling on pain that they arent sharing to you. They arent worth it no matter how great you think they are. You are the most important person in your life. Fucking lift heavy shit, use the pain of your situation to mold yourself as a person into someone you'd be jealous to be and or look like. I'm beginning my legacy today. I hope you'll follow suit. The week leading up to the breakup she was blatantly ignoring me, talking to her friends for advice. I was rolling around in agony praying for her to save me from the drugs I was doing. She never came, and she didnt even tell me about the cheating on her own, I found out through her boyfriend. I was at my lowest point ever. Just like I think you are now. But we must move on. For ourselves. Be the absolute strongest you can be, mold yourself into a god among men. Because I know I sure as shit am. I gave up lifting because I was happy where I was with her, intense amounts of sex several times a day really makes you forget about your physique, but fuck that. I'm not happy with myself. And i'm gonna fucking destroy myself growing both physically and mentally, WE are gonna fucking make it anon. All of us who have that will to strive will fucking make it in the end. I hope you pull through buddy, no one deserves to be inflicted pain by someone they used to love.

Holy fuck I'm sorry OP.

Don't even her any attention or satsifaction of a reponse. Don't acknowledge her existence. Think of her as dead.

Judging by that and by her texts, she's an emotional and financial parasite who'll stay latched onto a host until another seemingly juicier one appears. She also seems unable to empathise with you and focuses solely on her own thoughts and concerns, and somewhat manipulative.

Just drop the bitch, work on yourself and watch her decaying self beg you later on when Chad no 56846846 dumps her via text and she's aware that she's past her prime.

>Krav Maga

The martial Jew

>>88479

I also practice Krav Maga, mostly because it's the only legal way to beat up Jews in France.

Stay strong bro. Live the way you want to and eventually you'll realise that whores will be whores. Do the things you like to do, and you'll be over it in no time.

P.S: If she comes back begging for you to take her back, DON'T DO IT

>>88480

>le pretend batman martial art

Wow, eight years. Reads like you invested a lot of time and energy into the relationship. I hope you stay a good friend for her younger brother, though. Keep in touch with him, if you can. Let him know you've no hard feelings with the split and that you hope you two can still be friends despite it. As for you, keep lifting. You're on the right path. By the way, Krav Maga? Are you Jewish by any chance?

>>82920

Love your attitude to this, OP. If you are up for it, I would welcome to chance to share a few beers and stories with you in melb city some day. what fitan tourney are you going to?

>>83079

You DID fuck your sister out of gratefulness, right?

no shit I would have left you as well if I was a woman, eight years no marriage no children. There is a very important life lesson here that I think you avoided by feeling good and feeling bad about yourself instead of analysing the mistakes that lead to those circumstances and everyone here sympathizes with you but is too cowardly to tell you that it is 100% your fault and blames it on the woman.

>>82937

>Women are opportunists and it's in their nature to seek out a partner whom they believe will sire the best offspring with them.

This.

>Be me

>19

>Talking with qt girl I've had a crush on for 2 years

>"Oh anon I'd love to be with you but I can't because xyz"

"Don't worry hun, I can take care of xyz"

>"I'm sorry :("

>Later on

>"So what are your plans anon?"

"I'm studying medicine right now, just finished my biology and chemistry courses, working on A&P"

>"I SHOULD JUST MARRY YOU RIGHT NOW"

kek.

I offered to move her to my 13 acre farm, was going to help her with college, and help her get /fit/, but she said no until she found out I'm studying medicine.

Fuck her and Fuck OPs fiancée. I've been engaged before and trust me I'm much better off without some leech sucking my soul dry, OP will be too.

>>82712

>I feel like a failure of a man

You're not. It's rare these days to see men be faithful for 8 fucking years. You are more of a man then pretty much everyone in your generation.

>>88869

>Talking with qt girl I've had a crush on for 2 years

There's your problem. You don't wait that long to get to know someone you like.

If you see a girl you like you ask her out ASAP, if she says no, fine, troubleshoot your approach and move on to the next girl.

>>82937

Don't be bitter, about women or anything. Bitterness will hold you from achieving real gains in life.

Stop caring so much, friend. Relationships are dominated by the most irrational side unless you know how to become dominant in them. Do you know what the easiest way to do that is? Appear to care, but stop caring. Like any drug; love can be used as leverage to get what you want.

You might think this the path of despair - the path of someone who is avoidant. Trust me though, will live a better life once you kick your oxytocin addiction and learn to step on the heads of others like most people do.

i'm sorry

Stop caring so much, friend. Relationships are dominated by the most irrational side unless you know how to become dominant in them. Do you know what the easiest way to do that is? Appear to care, but stop caring. Like any drug; love can be used as leverage to get what you want.

You might think this the path of despair - the path of someone who is avoidant. Trust me though, will live a better life once you kick your oxytocin addiction and learn to step on the heads of others like most people do.

i'm sorry