/girltalk/ - Girltalk

>>3717

Sure. If properly credited.

(Reposted because accidentally clicked wrong flag. Meant to show the flag in question, accidentally clicked above or below it.)

This thread will not die

>>3711

I suppose you're right. To an extent. I just don't understand why a woman would want to be strong-it doesn't make them any more feminine-just slightly more attractive..?

Sacrificing Feminine whiles for muscles to be more attractive???

>>3710

Because I like being /fit/ but I get jelly of how much faster men build muscle than me

>>3690

make them more supportive of each other and more confident so they don't need to feel envy. It's not everyone but it happens too often.

>>3931

Best reply so far.

I'm sick of women using people. I hate how nonchalant they are about it too, so entitled. I see it all the time. Everyone is so two-faced. At least with men it is obvious.

>>3959

dude it's obvious with women too, if you aren't full autistic at least. I know it's bait but just look ceo's of big companies or other high ranking positions. Everyone who as a little social awareness and some kind of high career goals which require to network or has above average ambitions for sucess, turns somehow two faced, manipulating or goes over bodies at worst in order to achieve what he/she wants.

>>3942

it's remarkable how someone mentally labil like him could make it that far. What was it that make him people basically fall in love then? With charisma like his, you can basically achieve everything, even if you are full of shit.

Quiet, with only really one or two friends.

>>3632

>like any kids'?

>are you a pedo?

I'm fairly certain they meant stuff like being the tall kid or something of the like.

For example, I've always been pretty short and below average height and never had acne.

Stuff like that.

My childhood consisted of musical theatre, dancing, and pageants. It was amazing and fun. It started going downhill in my later teens. I quit everything and gave up.

I lost my virginity around 16. I don't regret the time I lost it, because I was ready. I do, however, regret who I lost it to. This guy named Frankie. Yeah. I should've known. He fucked my life up. He was cheating on me the entire time with this girl who he claimed was like his sister. She lived close to him so was around him more than I was. It was like everyone knew but me. "I just… Didn't want to hurt you." "I didn't know how to tell you" my supposed friends said. I stopped talking to everyone and my outgoing, confident self changed.

i was always kind of quiet, as in i would rather read a book than talk to people, but i used to be a lot more outgoing when i was a kid.

i used to like playing football and martial arts etc.

i was always slightly tall for my age, and i was generally strong for my age. because of this, i never lost any fights.

though i never got in serious fights, i had a temper.

as i grew up and the boys my age got stronger, my martial arts practice ensured that i never lost.

ive always been proud of that.

i went to an all girls secondary school, and couldn't interact much with the girls in my class :/

we just didnt have anything in common

later on i found some people more like me in another class, so i made friends, but i was much more shy and introverted than i was in primary school.

got my first boyfriend at 16 and lost my v-card soon after (completely intentionally)

Everyone was surprised, which was pretty funny

i was the last person anyone expected to get a boyfriend

i was never the boy crazy type, but i loved him.

we lasted 4 years, after which he cheated :/

it was good while it lasted though

since then, i've gotten better at talking to people and ive stopped practicing martial arts (though i'd like to start again)

i think i've also become a lot girlier, which i like.

I didn't "realize" I was a girl until I was 16, which sounds really stupid but it's true. In second grade we all gave ourselves little nicknames and the one I made for myself was "Mr. Man" so obviously I had some issues around gender. When I was 15 I found 4chan and have spent the susequent 10 years of my life on imageboards.

>personality

I was pretty much the quintissential "lol so randum xD *holds up spork*" kid. Very early on, age 8, I could tell I was an outsider. I took the class clown approach to dealing with it. I knew people were going to laugh at me anyway and think of me as weird anyway, so if I was being funny and weird on purpose it wasn't going to hurt me. Not that I knew all of that back then but looking back that's clearly what I was doing. I was also pretty tomboyish, which seems to just be a regular trait of mine, not a defense mechanism. I had a tendency to hurt peoples' feelings by accident, I was always saying stuff that I didn't realize was mean and making people cry. Now as an adult I am very low key and very careful with how I talk and it's because of that.

>body

Always been a pretty small and thin person.

>social life

Hung out with boys and girls pretty equally. As I got older I became more subdued and less likely to hang out, mid high school was isolating myself alot and mostly just hung out with my best friends, but cancelled on them alot.

>Any boys and dating or they were too obnoxious and boring? when did you lose your v-card and was it intentional or spontaneous?

Intentionally, at age 17 or 18 with my boyfriend, who was my first boyfriend. To be honest, around that time in my life I was trying hard to be a normie, which is why I even had a boyfriend. I figured I should try having sex. For me I equated my "weirdness" with immaturity, I thought that if I forced myself to grow up and act like an adult I would be normal. So I got a bf, we had sex…It was painful and boring. It hurt me to the point of tears, but because I was in "experimentation mode" Post too long. Click here to view the full text.

>>3754

>So creepy to see children at like 8 or 9 doing this

My childhood friend and I did creepy things too. we would murder our barbies, make them have orgies, or even worse stuff, without knowing what it exactly was. I don't know, we complemented us so well, although our backrounds were the polar opposite, since she grew up alone with her single mother, who didn't give a crap about her and I basically grew up in a overprotective, conservative christian household. Our favourite topics at the age of 9 to 11 were basically medieval torture methods, the black death, witch craft and stuff like this. It didn't seem abnormal then, we were sincerily fascinated with it. Why I was kind of shy and head-heavy, she was outgoing and charismatic and had more friends then I at the end of elementary school. Our later lifes turned out to be the polar opposites as well. While I'm studying now and aiming to have an academical career, she became a mom in early highschool and is now 3 years behind me, still in school. even if my christian upbringing has left some deep mental issues, I feel very sad for her, since she is actually one of the most intelligent people I know and actually a very well meaning kind of girl, but might be underestimated for the rest of her life.

>>3949

women do have a hell of a lot of distaste towards socially awkward men, you can post all of the r9k links in the world but this wont change that fact

>>3950

I'm not trying to help you get a gf, dude. I want you to be happy. You're displacing the responsibility of that personal dissatisfaction onto a very unrelated group of people. It's commonly said, "If you're not happy out of a relationship, you won't be happy in one" and I really believe that's true…

>>3948

the hate you are talking about has it roots on boards like 4chan. It was men who started to bully those kind of socially awkward shy guys. yeah that's right, robots quantified these guys problems. why most people just used to feel some pity for them at worst, it changed to fear of getting the full package of sexism, racism and obniouxious enlightened atheism and therefore avoidence of communication with them. Like feminist hate, it has now caught on in rl. congratulations, your tirades about alpha male shit and pseudo conservative values has turned against you, now leave to /r9k/ cunt>>3948

>>3905

I dunno. I'm a female. The place used to have more females a while ago. Just figured I'd give it a shot, I guess.

We need Josh to stop being retarded and finally deliver a working site so that we can build our base back up.

>>3957

Please tell other lady-friends you know about this place, too! and please be patient, this board is in a low period

i went out properly for the first time in two months. i went to an art history gallery and to my favourite place in this town, down by a river. everywhere was quiet and it was so beautiful. when i got home i had a lovely conversation with my partner, and put some books on my kindle so i'll have something to read if i can't sleep tonight. i also borrowed a book from my family that has some stuff about bertrand russell in it, so that should be fun.

>>2157

Sounds like a creamy, dreamy day tbh

My day just started. It's going alright thus far, but we're only five minutes in. Yesterday was calm and harmless. I drank and made some art.

>>3934

never heard of it, instant love, thanks

>>3939

have you finished it yet? What did you think of it?

>>3795

no?

is this an epic meme or do you genuinely think im someone you know?

>>3796

The latter.

>>3798

My name is not Siobhan :3

>>3732

skeltal

pale af

huge eyes

style: professional, in an attempt to make people take me more seriously a

>>3737

Why would you want to cover freckles? They are really kawaii.

They really are. My boyfriend doesn't even play Splatoon with a boy character because he thinks the girls look so much better.

>>3924

I can confirm. That's most guys. We'd rather play as a cute li'l squid hottie than some dorky shota squid.

I think it's because they're pretty tom-boyish. Shorts and t-shirts on girls is really cute.

I remember freaking out when my first gf first hung out with me in her loose PE t shirt. She thought it looked horrible, but I doted on her like crazy.

losing weight

>not really a big issue right now as i have no appetite

learning to play the guitar

>will put a lot of time into it once exam season is over

improving my style of dressing

>charity-shop literally all of my clothes except one outfit and go and very carefully buy new quality, aesthetic clothes

getting into college

>it's in the hands of fate

oh, yes, i forgot:

>get back into reading

i always read a lot growing up, but after a bad depression last year or the year before i fell out of the habit. i've just dusted off my kindle and put some books on it as i think that reading from something small and light might be the first step to titrating up onto real books.

1) Get into neurological research and cure alzheimer on the long term

2) improve my violin play

3) better grades i need that 4 gpa

4) ensure a youthful appereance and smooth skin

5) a bf :(

>>3930

>a bf

How old are you and where do you live? 💮

Light arm hair on girls is kind of cute.

>>3894

I have to know because one of my chick friends told me it was gross, and I have an above average amount of arm hair. I personally don't like it, but removing it is hell.

>>3897

Agreed, especially if it's light blonde peach fuzz.

I like arm hair but it doesn't make someone attractive to me, so neither.

I do really love chest hair though

>>3921

Well, I shave my chest, and I don't plan to stop that.

>>2174

if you want to get into philosophy, i'd recommend you the stanford philosophy encyclopedia. don't worry, it's not some pricey tome - it's a website. http://plato.stanford.edu/

>>2179

I did take ancient philosophy as an elective class once, and I really enjoyed the class, but I can't bring myself to really study it outside of a classroom setting. There are just too many other hobbies I would like to spend my time on, most of which aren't academic at all. What is cinematic theory?

>>2181

ah, i should've phrased things better - the theory of film, such as of analysis, purpose, societal effect, and all kinds of meta-film. a bit like semiotics. basically literary theory for films.

Philosophy's pretty cool.

Bumping this thread to ask who /girltalk/ posters' favorite philosophers are.

>>2152

my favourite philosophcial work is probably Nietzsche's "Also sprach Zarathustra" and his originial definition of the übermensch. trying to improve myself constantly and setting high goals is how I chose to live. I disagree with many other points in his thesis though.