I don't consider myself a pedophile, as my age of attraction practically never drops below 12. I'm still attracted to adult women as well, so I don't think I fall under any kind of "phile".
If she's old enough to begin developing breasts, and shaping an ass, then she's old enough to fit my attraction. Of course, there will be the rare 10-11 year old who is developed pretty nicely, but overall they are practically non-existent in every day life.
I think the only difference between myself and normal people is that I'm willing to admit to myself that there are a lot of sexy underage girls.
That said, I have never told anyone that I am attracted to underaged girls, and likely never will. I live in Utah, and everyone here is super duper Mormon-thinking. Even the non-religious types still keep a lot of the Mormon ideology that the state was founded on.
The closest I've ever come to actually telling someone was my closest friend, when I mentioned I really love the petite figure on girls, and that girls around 14 can be very attractive if early puberty treats them well. He didn't flip out, but he immediately started with a worrying tone, saying that I should try and find an 18 year old girl who just "looks 14". I had to explain to him that my attraction wasn't limited to 14 year olds, and then he understood. It was from there though, that I realized that people are going to jump the gun if I mention it to them, so I simply don't.
I come to /hebe/ semi-often when I want a wank, but most of the time this board has too many young girls for me. I'm the kind of guy who enjoys jailbait, and "barely legal" types of teen porn, not shots of gray-area child modeling and 8 year olds eating candy.