I'm sorry no one, including myself, was able to help you in a timely fashion, friend. I literally left for work minutes before you created this thread. There's not a lot of people on /hope/ yet, either, since it was created less than two weeks ago. You kind of picked a slow board for timely advice.
That being said, tell me what happened and I'll see if I can't make you feel better about it. Then we can talk about how you can handle similar situations in the future.