>>10385
Although I am not Op but since I am in a somewhat similar position I may add something.
For me I think Feminization can be broadly classified into three categories.
A.Male who has no interest for serious feminzation and occasionally wears a dress to satisfy kink.Otherwise he is absolutely ok with his day to day normal life.
B.Male who has an idea that his gender construct is somewhat dicey and not masculine but he is not sure whether he falls into textbook female category or not.This can be further categorized from beginner to advance.Those who are in advanced category can overlap into category C.
C.Those who are very sure about his female identity and transitioning or about to transition.
For me I count myself as Category B-Advanced stage.Being in this stage,my problem with the current hypnosis scene (targeted mostly to category A) is they over emphasize certain aspect of femininity which in real life become bit silly.
E.g - I am not really sure about the women who always dress up as house maid in frilly white satin knickers.Who are always weak and submissive and ready for sex.For me this type of portrayal while occasionally fun but in long term turns me off.
What I like to see ->
1.Less devaluation of femininity - Asking some one to be Bimbo because all girls are bimbos?As a feminized male I have to lower my intelligence to be counted as a female?Lower my self worth? Always allow random men to grope me and be available for sex? The current culture of hypnosis scene propagates stereotypical idea of females being dumb and worthless and piece of ass..
I have noticed my feminine persona is more outgoing and less shy and confident.I enjoy that.Sometimes behaving silly and having fun doesn't mean I have an aspiration to become Bimbo.I would like to keep my intelligence intact,if I can.
2.More Femininity and less Hyper Femininity - I love putting on lipstick or nail polish.Doesn't mean I always will be putting on bubblegum pink and do french manicure.I am not saying I will never put on bubble gum pink.I am saying I want an opportunity to actually put on a tasteful outfit.If Bubble gum pink goes with my outfit,why not?
3.Less emphasis on Sex - Instead of emphasizing the need to have sex with random guys why not put more emphasis on building a meaningful relationship.Developing more inter personal skill and giving a choice of saying NO.In hypnosis scene in general,Male are always reduced to cock?.And the relationship goal is to have sex with bigger cock.
I am not looking to have sex.I like an opportunity to find a suitable partner.Go out,have a date.Have a good laugh.Then if everything goes ok,off course I like to have sex.But not in a demeaning way.
4.Avoid associating Feminine activities as silly - Some guys will wear lipstick,and rub it off.That is fine.But for rest of us,finding a great color makes us giddy.We would like to find a Gloss.Or go Matte.Maybe find a good lipstick brush.Maybe would like to go to Youtube and learn something new about makeup.Thus a simple act of rubbing lipstick requires a bit more thought and effort.
Current hypnosis scene finds feminine activities as silly and thus can be doable without putting on much effort.Instead why not stress the fact that even simple activities are not easy to do and actually it requires a lot of effort thus may be given a bit more respect.
5.Avoid dehumanization - .We don't need to feel worthless,lesser than other human beings just because we love being feminine.
Being not textbook normal,our life is always miserable and sometimes feel like 10 thoughts are running around like hyperactive kids in a playground.A proper systemic approach to gather these thoughts and shape them to a coherent framework is needed.A cis woman has her thoughts already structured by practice and conditioning.We would like to have that conditioning.I am looking for hypnosis which though keeps in mind my sex difference( may or may not be uttered explicitly) but harmonizes gender difference,thus treating me as a woman.
I don't know where do I fit into this gender scale.I like and admire femininity.I feel more ease at being female.But I don't know whether I am trans or not.So I can't say what OP was asking.These are my thoughts from listening to hypnosis from last 7-8 years.