/hypno/ - Hypnochan

>>11638

I think you summed it up pretty well. It's about losing control, or pretending to lose control. That's why the hypno community is closely related to the D/S community. If you give up control to someone else you can make your forbidden fantasies come true without having to take responsibility for doing so. It's an erotic idea for many, and hypnosis enforces the idea of being "forced" to lose control to someone else.

>>11640

Interesting analysis.

But what's D/S?

To answer honestly, I got into this for all the wrong reasons. History of mental defects and developmental disabilities means being rejected and humiliated in just about every area of my life, and the idea of having my brain fixed was too appealing to not want, even if I knew it was impossible.

I don't believe anyone gets into d/s without being fucked up in some way though, but if someone pokes far enough into the community, there are particularly nasty people at the top of it. I don't like encouraging them.

Do I regret ever getting interested in this? In hindsight, yes, I really do, but three things make it palatable;

- I was never deeply invested in this, aside from wasting too much time trying and failing.

- Unless I were completely sheltered, I would have found it eventually, and if for whatever reason there was no online hypnofetish community, I'd have tried to form one.

- Had I kept practicing my stupidity in isolation, I would have developed increasingly degenerated fantasies on my own. Damn, I was a stupid kid…

>>12033

dominance/submission.

For me it is not so much a hypnosis fetish, but a means to an end in pursuing things I can't or shouldn't do in r/l. When I session, it's more like an interactive "bedtime" story. I never feel forced or coerced as I willingly chose the hypnotist, and selected the file of my own accord.

From a submissive point of view; is it fun to fantasize about losing control, being "forced" into various acts? Hell yeah! But to say these are not the very same things that I actually want would be untruthful. Lacking the ability to experience this in r/l, hypnosis gives me an outlet for these urges.

>>12045

Being in trance feels *good*. It's effing awesome, particularly if you've been cursed with an overactive brain all your life.

Too many people are caught into way too much overthinking of things that don't adhere to logic, and once you free your mind from those fruitless pursuits, there's a huge relief. D/s hypno piggy-backs a lot on this inherent quality of trance, I think, and that's one of the reasons we're drawn to it.

I still enjoy D/s hypno because some of the dynamics involved are truly fascinating, but when I want to trance these days I mostly go outside D/s.

two words. Totally. Spies.

>>12034

Are you me? I relate to/agree with your post word for fucking word. Now I sort of fap to porn until it just gets tiring, and then switch back to hypno so i can have a real boner again, then fail to really giving up control and give up and go back to porn

>>12045

OP here.

For me, it's not so much about dominance/submission, but rather justification. The "logical" part of my mind cannot fantasize my 10/10 married co-worker being horny towards me, for example.

Hence, my mind crafts out a fantasy where her body gets possessed by a sex-starved demon.

There are a thousand different scenarios, but it always boils down to answering why said fantasized female is interested in sex.

>>12074

Yup, that's the cycle for me too. I can't get it up for anything else, so I'm left frustrated when I'm inevitably rejected. These days I'm trying to give up on all those things, wank once a week and try to forget about it.

>>12034

never regret getting into this… never.

side note: getting possessed sounds hot

There are too many flavours to hypno fetish.

Being drawn to being posessed in your case can perhaps be just because you need a break from reality?

Being a man in control, being strong, making decisions, feeding the family, staying calm and focused 24/7 makes you want to take a break and turn it into 23/7? Some put on a pink dress and heels and have a couple hours to themselves pretending they are a little bimbo girl, others just want something else to control them. A hypno file comes in handy and off goes a new fetish.

Others want to be humiliated and degraded. becoming an object for someone to play with can be viewed as ultimate form of degradation.

I personally enjoy the trance. I could meditate instead, but that takes a lot more time to learn & master and does not necessarily take you to the same level as hypno. With hypno I am guaranteed to shoot myself up and zone out for 30 minutes or an hour. Stop the time, clear the thoughts, take a break. Furthermore, I can choose the flavour - do I want a sexy adventure or do I just want an easy relaxation session. Meditation does not offer this choice, at least in my case. When you don't have much spare time, this ability to float away at will without any major costs to my health or budget is priceless.

Also, the sexy side of hypnosis keeps me from cheating on the mrs. Why would I want to risk my family life, health and spend cash to get an experience that, let's be honest, will not even match the rush from a good hypno file?

>>12065

I totally agree.

>>14100

OP here.

I get what you mean by being drawn to possession. Though I rarely fantasize myself being the object of possession(usually I imagine it's the girl I lust for who is possessed), those times when I DO want to get possessed though, it's because I want to lose control to my lust; I want to have insane stamina and to screw the girl silly.

It offers me an escape, a break from reality, a chance to be this libidinous, powerful man that can do anything.

Sadly/shockingly, my possession fantasy seem to occupy 90% of my fap sessions. I can't seem to get excited. Even when I'm making love to my gf, the messed-up part of my brain imagines her to be possessed.

I'm probably pretty unique in how I got into it.

When I was young, I used to do "Hero Training" all the time. I was naive as fuck and assumed that someday I'd need to do something to save someone's life/fight evil people like in shows and that I'd need to be ready for it. I'd do stuff like punch rocks or hold my hand in scalding water as long as I could to try and get used to pain, practice running, took martial arts, etc.

Based on shows, I also assumed that being seduced was a possibility. So I'd try to watch porn and not get aroused. That never worked, and I'd always end up jacking off. So then I started tying my hands down when I watched it.

Cue bondage and denial fetish.

Eventually I stumbled across a hypnosis file on literotica, and decided it was perfect training material. If I could resist hypnosis and avoid getting aroused, I'd be set. I started listening to it every night while tying myself down.

You can imagine the results.

Things escalated from there; since I was seeing sexuality and arousal as bad, the idea of being forced into arousal all of a sudden became the hottest possible thing in the world to me. If I couldn't resist, that's not my fault, you see. So it's okay to be aroused; I can't help it.