/hypno/ - Hypnochan

Orgasmic escalator by Nikki. And weed. And relax and do nothing: don't clench, don't squeeze, don't think.

>>12297

I'm not the OP, but telling me "don't think" doesn't help and makes me think about not thinking which…makes me think. I can't readily smoke weed even if I wanted to, so that's not really an option either. However, I will definitely try to "do nothing" next time I try for an HFO. Like I'll literally just sit there and listen and hope my body reacts appropriately to the audio.

>>12299

I wouldn't describe it as not thinking. Instead, just relax, focus on the voice and let the rest of your thoughts slowly drift away. You shouldn't try to force anything, but focusing on the voice is important and if you do that, your other thoughts should quieten down and slowly go away. It takes a bit of practice and is very similar to meditation in many ways.

The HFO bit is very difficult for many people (me included) because I think that we're so focused on cumming we don't relax enough and the trance isn't as effective as it could be. We're also all different. I haven't had a wet dream in years and can't get a prostate orgasm - but some people can. Maybe we're not all wired to be capable of an HFO.

>>12297

I think that is my problem. I try to force feelings some times and thats what takes me out. I'll try this one and report back.

>>12299

Yeah, this is my problem too. I end up relaxing, and inevitably my mind ends up wandering and thinking of different things, most of which are not what I'd call sexy by any means.

How to HFO:

>Dont force it.

>Dont relax too much.

The sweet spot is when you're able to focus on the hypnotist and you follow instructions without thinking about them.

Also, be naked.

Turn up your heating if you have to but having pants / a towel / a blanket on your crotch is the #1 reason people fail at HFO.

The feeling of it on your crotch is too distracting until you've practiced without a few times.

try opening your legs, breathe in as deeply as possible and RELAX your kegal

also anal stimulation helps

Here is my two cents on the subject. I've had several dry orgasms which feel incredible, but never a full wet orgasm, but I haven't really been trying to, just enjoying the trances I've had.

You need to be safe, comfortable, and free from distraction. No clothes, make sure you're warm. No blankets if you can help it, as others have said above.

You want to feel like you are floating freely in the words and suggestions of the hypnotist, not the weight of clothes/blankets.

I find it hard to let go of the day so maybe try 5-10mins of some meditation to let your mind settle before going into trance.

Just let it what happens, happen. Don't force it, don't think "I have to have a HFO this trance". You're too focused on it. Focus on the words, on the feeilngs. Visualize yourself laying there and reacting how you would think you'd react to the stimulation.

Once you can start to lose yourself and float into trance you'll see more results from "doing nothing". To me that's the hardest part. Just being able to mentally let go and let the hypnotist take me where they want and I respond accordingly

I think it helps if you are listening to sessions that build up over time. I've never listened to one session and had a dry or wet orgasm. It takes time to buildup.

Also stop masturbating, drink lots of water. You want your body ready to and waiting to cum. You could try edging earlier in the day to get that feeling in your mind.

Practice doing kegel exercises. It will help in all aspects of your sexual life, but it will really help that "clenching" feeling that you should start automatically having when you get more and more aroused.

You don't need a raging hard on for an hour to have an HFO. It's more about the feeling in you mind driving your body. Don't get it backwards. Plus you'll probably lose your erection sometime in the trance and think "Shit no can it happen now" which is untrue. Just let your mind go and whatever happens physically happens.

Overall stop focusing on the orgasm, and focus on the experience of getting there. The end result shouldn't be the goal, just the icing on the cake.

Hope it helps!

OP here reporting back after a long time.

Have had much better success. Have had ejaculation but not really an orgasm. Think my problem is what >>13881 mentioned, i'm too focused on the orgasm. Will keep up the work. Nikkis files are really good