/improve/ - Self Improvement

>>2106
Do you have any brothers and sisters?

What does your Dad say about you? (You only mention your Step Dad)

>been out of the closet
Just to be sure, you're homosexual?

Consider saying what you said to us, to them and also if you have any friends tell them the situation as well.

>Do you have any brothers and sisters?
Yes I have two sisters an older one who has moved out and a younger one who they baby the shit out of.


>Just to be sure, you're homosexual?
Gay as a rainbow.

>What does your Dad say about you?
Hes a piece of shit who if he found out I was gay would probably kill me.

How do you respond to all of this?

For example your step dad calls you fat and lazy, what you reply?
They tell you to get a girlfriend, what do you say back?

Also, the mom worrying about masturbation is just weird. Tell her it's pretty uncomfortable that she cares so much about what you do in your own private time.

>>2106
The way I look at it, things will only get worse as you bottle up your emotional reactions from what they say.

Thus, there's two options:
1. Simmer and let things get worse.
or
2. Confront them and let things get worse, or things get better.

You should confront them, but don't be confrontational. There's a difference.

Ok tuff love time op
you are fucking up your life. If you have to live with people who dont suport your life style it is a failure of your lifestyle not thiers. If your realy so much better than then why do you care what they say? Your just making excuses
get in to real shape, bot just "better than him"
get a real boyfriend and quit the porn, not jus masterbate "less than them"
Of your options id say move out. But if you dont change your whiney attitude first your not gonna make it long.

Maybe do a late teenage rebellion. Be as obnoxious as possible, keep pushing the boundaries. Then once you stop, you'll seem very well behaved.

So basically start masturbating to gay porn twice daily with high enough sound to be heard outside your room. When they complain say you hate them and they are the worst parents ever.

Ok maybe that's too over the top, but you get the idea.

>>2106
1. Doing
>Far better than 2 but a lot harder, can be done without doing 2
Show them wrong. Get a boyfriend faggot. And you better not be some degenerate flamer special snowflake piece of shit Get so in shape if he calls you fat he is insane (don't think you're in the clear just because you're in better shape than a middle aged loser raising another mans kid top cuck). Go out and do shit. Spend as little time as possible on your computer. (This one isn't that important considering modern society is materialist shit) Stop watching porn. At least for a week or two.

2
>only to be done as a temp. fix while embarking on the way to 1
Confront them. Tell them you like dick and you'll never get a girlfriend. Tell your step dad that he is the fat and lazy one, that you are bettering yourself and he is stagnating (might backfire because of things mentioned in 1).Tell them they are wasting their lives watching shit reality tv while you are using the computer to learn (this wont work if you watch some faggot ass pony videos all day). Tell your mom that you masturbate a normal amount and that it is none of her business regardless.

Just remember anon: they want to help you (almost certainly). Think they are stupid sure, just don't hate them for being stupid.

>>2119
What is the difference?

>>2166
I guess he means being "direct" when he says that we should confront people, and being confrontational it's to start an argument/to escalate