>>2710
I've got two battling mindsets, the side that wants to head straight for discomfort and a side that wants to go for comfort.
There are moments when I surprise myself, where the day starts off horrible, where I wake up late, where I do every negative thing that you can do and by the looks of things it would appear as though my day will end up being shit. Then completely out of nowhere I just explode into action, I go from lazy to pushing myself to my limit at the gym, I go from not doing shit to studying crazy amounts of hours and I go from being shy to taking the risk.
There are a lot of times where I do not burst into action and the above are pretty rare but they are becoming more and more common.
What I would like to do is head for discomfort, because discomfort is where the growth is. Behind your fears is the man you are supposed to be, so I head right into them, or at least, I would like to head into them.
I've been using cold showers to get myself used to discomfort and it seems to work, I gave a presentation a few weeks ago that got rated the best, and presenting happens to be my biggest fear or was my biggest fear.