If we are to ever achieve true self-actualization, we have to follow our own light, our own drive. To feel the utter lack of meaning of our existence, and in this very light, carve our own meaning into it.
Every single one of us has their own path to walk, and to be "helped" by anyone else is just a ploy in which we forfeit our own drive to someone else. It is betraying the only person who will be with you from start to finish. You betray yourself.
>but muh guidance
Any message posted in this board won't guide you for more than a week. The very fact that you are here is a solid statement about yourself: you'd rather talk about self-improvement than go out and carry it out.
You want some fucking guidance? OK: stop browsing this imageboard, anon. You are your own person, and your past or current circumstances will limit you as much as you let them. You wanna become a better person? Go out and do something about it.
Oh, you are scared of failure? You are scared of not being able to do it? You are scared because you've been "trying" so hard and you've gotten not so far?
If you can't go ahead and do something for real, you are just lazy. Apathetic. Merely wasting your time so you can one day die and not feel the burden of life on your shoulders.
Life is struggle. From beginning to end. You've forsaken life for so long… and yet it is on your hands to take it all back.
Sigh…
I will never say I used to be a regular poster here, I will never even say I used to be addicted to imageboards. I will start anew. So should you.