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>How do I have conversations?
It's a numbers game. Don't go after a single person. Find groups of people that converge together out of their own volition. In normalfag talk it's called parties but people get interested in hobbies and other interests in their own time. You have to find an interest, find a group that caters to this interest and seek them.
College can be an example. People go there, hopefully, to learn and/or improve their lives. It's generally a positive and easy atmosphere and they are less guarded. Of course, the numbers game also works against you here as there are a ton of shitasses attending but you get the idea.
>How do I find motivation for life?
Write a list of everything you could possibly want out of life. Cut out the stuff that's obviously impossible like being an astronaut or something. Rank them by which ones you want to do the most. Pick the top three and research what exactly you need to accomplish them and start working at them. Remember to review the other goals as they'll move around as you go along but this should be a nice starter.
>How do I make friends with people who aren't motivated to improve?
You don't.