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 No.3919

i feel like an ignorant dumb fuck, I saw a physiologist and she treats me like an animal with no dignity, tests are run on me as if i was retarded, i got a report and they basically called me mentally slow. I was bullied in primary (elementary) i was excluded and called names pushed around now i'm just ignored looked upon as dirt.Teachers make fun about me and joke about me as an anxious wreck, my mom is considering moving me to a huge school (called St Flannans) they have 300+ students in one year (grade) look at the picture it scares me, im 14 keep in mind its strikes genuine fear into my heart.

 No.3920

Why do you think you are made fun of so much?


 No.3929

You don't type quite like a retard, it could be your anxiety fucking you over. Not so sure how to deal with that, I'm ten years older than you and it feels like I'm growing out of it.


 No.3930

You probably are an ignorant dumb fuck. There is nothing you can do other than learn how to act and talk like a normal person. If you do that right, you will eventually grow out of your anxiety, though it will likely take years. Oh, and stay off chans until you are 18, or for the love of God just lurk.


 No.3931

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Okay, first thing's first, 90% of people who are bullied are at fault themselves. In one way or another, they draw attention to themselves as weak, stupid, or socially inept. You don't strike me as one of the 10% who just happen to be the victims of douchebags.

So here's some advice. Firstly, stop whining and just deal with your own problems. You know what you need to improve on, so do it. There are already threads on improving social skills, so I won't say what's already been said there.

Secondly, I'm going to give you the best advice anyone has ever given me. As long as you don't act like a faggot, you'll get on fine in life. You strike me as someone who acts like a social retard and then wonders why no one likes him.

Tldr; man the fuck up and stop being a retard.


 No.3933

Bitch youre 14.Dont even think about.You wont even remember these things happened when you're in your 20s.So relax and live bro


 No.3973

>>3933

Can confirm, I'm only 23 and I barely even remember going to high school.


 No.3974

I think a lot of the bitterness in this thread comes from the fact that OP is 14. People assume young teenagers are ignorant and stupid and don't think they should even be here.

A lot of this is also what causes many adults (even your psychiatrist) to treat you like an animal.

Anyways, because you're younger, a lot of the advice in this thread is poisonous. OP, find something you really love and get great at it, whether it's painting or programming. It can help you find new friends at your school, help you set up a career in your hobby despite your teachers' doubts, and can help you forget about your anxiety. Everybody has problems in highschool. Everyone treats you like a kid and gives you the responsibility of an adult. Other teenagers lash out. Anxiety makes it a lot worse. People who find what they love in highschool are the ones who get through it and find great success. Be inquisitive and try lots of new things. Join in lots of school activities. Your anxiety will tell you not to, but these thoughts are the enemy. Catch yourself thinking negatively and purge these thoughts.


 No.3982

Wish I was 14 again. The main thing I would suggest is get off imageboards and stop wasting time on video games and the internet in general. Seems far fetched, but you can ruin your life simply by doing that. You don't want to wake up at 24 as a NEET fuck up like me. I remember when I was 15 and first started browsing imageboards I used to laugh at the idea of a basement dwelling imageboard addicted neckbeard, it all kind of seemed like a joke. I'm not laughing now.


 No.3985

>>3982

This for sure. Don't waste your life here.

One of the best skills you can cultivate is bein able to look at other people; whether it's your idols, historical figures, your enemies, your friends, losers, stereotypes, or your parents; then critically examining them and learning from their mistakes to be quietly better than them.


 No.4051

I'm 14 also OP, I have almost the same situation as you, I have ADHD, Bipolar depression and Anxiety. I also got tested for IQ but got around 160-180. So I'm not mentally slow, but the differences are that I decided to change school because of pure ambition, maybe that's what you need, ambition. Try to be the best, the leader of the pack, and you'll soon lose all of your problems. When you change school, you become a new person with no past, so you can choose who you want to be. Don't lose that opportunity, you can make great things if you really want to. That's what saved me.


 No.4057

Search ways to improve your physical posture as it gives off an external air of confidence, and also makes your sub-conscious mind behave in a more confident manner. Just try it.




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