I can't stand myself.

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I can't stand myself. Anonymous 09/27/15 (Sun) 20:46:46 No.3969

First of all, im sorry about my bad grammer. English is not my native language so i'm sorry in advance.

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I broke up with my girlfriend two/three months ago, after we broke up I realized that I was the worst boyfriend ever, I didn't shower, didn't care for her at all becuase I was depressed from the Military and I tought I got "BIGGER" problems in that time. We were togther for a year and a month. and I didn't see something wrong with me at all. Now, after two months its came to me like thunder. I realized I'm not the person I want to be. I want to be difrrent. I cannot stand myself!

I want you guys to help me. I don't got any friends (during the time I was with her I hanged up my relationships with my friends from High School. I was depressed and nobody couldn't stand me, I was suprised that my gf could. and thats why Im still lover her but she doesn't love me anymore.

I came here to start MY big change.

Here is a list with the things I want to achive in my further future -

1. Learning languages like - English (for start - from the ground up) Arabic, French, Italian and Spanish.

2. Learn how to Program - C, C++, ASM, Delphi and LISP.

3. Psychology and the Art of Speaking right.

4. Chess and other hobbies like Sports.

and thats it for now.

How do I get started with a normal person routine ? Where I can learn how to dress well.

Thanks in advance!

Anonymous 09/27/15 (Sun) 22:17:17 No.3970

>>3969

well for dressing well you could go to /fa/ it seems like something simple to start with and you probably start feeling better about yourself if you look a bit nicer.

Anonymous 09/27/15 (Sun) 23:38:18 No.3971

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>>3969

> Where I can learn how to dress well

/fa/

>Want to learn English?

This is a massive collection of English grammar and writing books.

https://thepiratebay.vg/torrent/11846489/70__English_Grammar_and_Writing_Books_Collection_-_Mantesh

Use this site to improve on your vocabulary.

http://www.vocabulary.com/

This site teaches English and other languages

https://www.memrise.com/

>Programming

try

>>>/tech/

>>>/prog/

http://noexcuselist.com/

I hope this helps.

Anonymous 09/28/15 (Mon) 06:43:39 No.3977

Thank you guys

Anonymous 09/28/15 (Mon) 13:17:21 No.3980

>>3969

To start with a normal person routine make a list of everything you do at the moment and everything you need to do

Cross off unnecessary stuff that you don't need to do stop doing or minimize doing these things

Add everything that you need to do

Make a list with your timetable

Make time for every thing you must do to improve in your timetable

Also for learning chess I recommend downloading a chess app on your phone and playing it whenever you have time to kill on the bus or whatever. You will easily learn how to play in weeks at most

Anonymous 09/28/15 (Mon) 16:07:49 No.3984

>Art of speaking right

Bump for this, though I find speaking slower helps, and as autistic as it sounds, practice speaking aloud when you're alone.

Anonymous 09/28/15 (Mon) 18:40:24 No.3987

Obligatory tip to read books in the language your learning. Even if you don't really understand the language too well yet it'll help a lot. They're a great way to pick up new vocabulary and expressions. Especially if you already have a good grasp of the basics and grammar.

Also www.codecademy.com

>psychology and the art of speaking right

Just psychology in general? I'm starting to have an issue with the latter myself so I'll shut up about that.

My voice just doesn't seem to carry over a meter. I don't know how many conversations I've started this month with the first reply being "huh?". It kills me. Yea, I mean, just speak up, right?