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 No.4784

Is there any book/guide on how to talk to people and know what to say without spilling spaghetti? A guide to how not to be a social retard if you will.

 No.4786

>>4784

You have to learn by being around and interacting with others who are better at being social than you. That's the only way. It's all down to experience.

Just try put yourself in social situations even if you spagetti and eventually you will learn what not to say and what to say, and how to keep a conversation going.

I actually go out of my way sometimes to interact with strangers to see if I can make them like me/trust me. I do this by starting random conversations. It's great practice and if I spagetti it doesn't matter because I'll probably never see them again.


 No.4787

>>4786

>I actually go out of my way sometimes to interact with strangers to see if I can make them like me/trust me. I do this by starting random conversations.

Talking to strangers is unusual or almost taboo in some areas of the world, particularly in cities or areas with high crime rates.

Where I live UK south-east, I've read that it's much friendlier up north and outside of the major towns and cities but I've never experienced it myself, talking with strangers is very rare and uncomfortable for most, and the polite thing to do is usually to keep to yourself or your company, and give appropriate distance to any strangers.

Being overly friendly and sparking up a conversation out of nowhere is perceived as a very American thing to do, and you would be looked at as overbearing and weird if you burst out with "howdy friend! beautiful day isn't it?" over here. Asking for directions with a smile, an "excuse me," and a "thank you very much" is fairly common, but you wouldn't want to impede too much on the other person's time.


 No.4788

>>4784

Succeedsocially.com

A guide for the socially awkward from an ex socially awkward guy. Helped me a tonne back in the day.


 No.4791

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>>4787

SE ENGLAND REPORTING IN :DDD

I've had a lot of help from a good sleeping pattern and diet. The key for me is to not think about what i'm saying from an internal perspective, just hear the words exit your mouth.This is fairly self-evident. Also get into the practice of being more extroverted. Start with someone you're relatively comfortable around. Self consciousness is the bane of

social skills.

I just wish I could remember to practice my own advice on this board.




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