/improve/ - Self Improvement

I'd recommend getting into a trade. Plumbing, electrician, etc… These pay a lot right off the bat and you won't have to waste your money on college. Just remember these maintenance jobs are always needed, and they pay well.

>>5352

Learning a trade is good but let me warn you; it's a high school locker room type of feel socially. The guys in the field will fuck with you if you are socially awkward. You have to learn how to bantz. And be prepared to work more than 40 hours a week. You'll have a shit ton of money, but you will be too tired to do anything in your free time.

>>5349

Take shit one stage at a time, anon.

Getting back into college was enough. For now, focus on whatever your academic goals are. If you have none, then that is your goal: what do you want to major in? If you don't know, then the next question is: where do you want to work, doing what? Take the question seriously, NEET lifestyle only lasts until your parents are dead. Do you want to work in a cubicle doing bullshit until you are 65? Better have the education to do what you want, then.

Go to anything and everything your college has to offer that interests you in the slightest. Clubs, events, mixers, whatever. Talk to people. Talk to girls.

DO NOT MISS CLASS. Do all your assignments, LEARN while you are there. The professors couldn't give a fuck less and will gladly fail you. Succeed to spite those smug motherfuckers. Engage in your classes. The right girls will notice. Be forward with them but not pushy. You'd be surprised how many college girls are willing to give a little head or a handy just for showing them a little interest and asking.

But honestly and really, FOCUS ON SCHOOL. The job will come. The money will come. If you end up in your late 20s/early 30s fully employed with health care and a place of your own, the pussy will come.

I'm still stuck at the "being NEET" stage. I have no idea what I want to do in life, I've just been at a complete standstill for years, but now that I'm 24 it's more embarrassing and shameful than ever. Later this year my situation will be reviewed and it's at least a possibility that muh NEET/autismbux might be stopped, perhaps even due to my self-improvement efforts over the last year, but I'm panicking because I don't know what I'll do if that happens.

I've not improved at all in terms of education/employment/training, I've got shit grades didn't even do my country's version of high school, left at 16, been NEET for the last 5 years, and I've never studied or had a job in my life. At the place I go to every two weeks where they check up on me in order for me to keep getting NEET/autismbux, they say there isn't really any voluntary or work experience type stuff available, so that's not an option.

Not that I would've agreed to do it anyway, anxiety and avoidance have been my biggest barriers throughout my life. It's not as bad as it was over a year ago, it's still bad enough that I'm terrified of getting a job or doing anything that isn't being NEET.

>>5364

Take shit one stage at a time, anon.

What do you want to do with your life?