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 No.837

Has anyone tried this? Does shocking yourself work? I'm thinking of buying a dog shock collar for tenth the price and use it to stop eating candy and shit like that.

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 No.841

Might work.

 No.860

Soon you will have to wear it at work, might as well try it out before.

 No.872

>>837
Honestly punishments can have nasty and sometimes unintended consequences. It could leave you feeling discouraged or make you feel like a failure. Punishment does not direct us to a better alternative, it only suppresses behaviour temporarily. In my opinion rewards are more effective in the long run.

If however you're going to do this anyway, here are some pointers.

If for example you are reaching for a sweet, don't punish yourself after you've had a bunch, punish yourself before you even eat the sweet and then double wham that bitch by rewarding yourself for choosing a better and healthier alternative snack. So punish for negative and straight away reward for changing it into a positive.

Catch it early in the behaviour chain. Pretty much the above, punish before you do the negative.

Variety. Use many different forms of punishment, not necessarily shocking yourself, it shouldn't be a penalty, it should be anything that decreases the behaviour, preferably nothing like shocking yourself. Use a wide range of mild punishments so it doesn't lose its impact. Putting yourself in time out is one example of mild punishment, so skip your favourite show or something.

Punishment should be immediate, calm and contingent. It should also, most importantly be consistent, make sure you remind yourself so you don't end up forgetting and only catch yourself breaking rarely.

 No.1098

>>872
>punish before doing the negative, then do something else

THIS.

And be very careful. You may end up getting into a mentality where your transgressions are 'paid for' by the pain, making them okay. It's like how things like fines for leaving your kid late at daycare just encouraged parents to leave their shitsteaks for longer, because they felt that by paying the extra price, they 'earned' their bad behaviour.



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