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 No.967

I decided to really improve myself.
I started my improvement on 4.2.2015.
It was supposed to be some change during February.

Then I realized, why just February?
Why not continue till 5.31.2015?

Things that I plan to do:

- no fap
- shaving only after full month of hair growth
- cold showers
- waking up earlier in the morning
- taking more care about hygiene
- drink only water because it's healthier
- workout (calisthenics)
- eat regularly
- read books
- improve myself in other areas as much as I can

What do you think guys?
Someone has any suggestion to improve my plan?

 No.969


 No.970

>>967
Add in journalling, this is just to cover the mental side of things and to make sure you are consistently keeping yourself in check. It's also good for measuring progress.

Plan shit out, make a timetable.

The biggest suggestion I have is that you should ease into all of this. Start easy on every single one of them and gradually increase the difficulty. If you start too much too early, you will burn out. Unless you have some Olympian level willpower in reserve it's almost inevitable if you don't ease into it. So start small and slowly make it bigger.

 No.971

>>970
I will add journalling, good suggestion!

>Unless you have some Olympian level willpower

But that's what I want to do, I want to find my limit and break it.
I want to increase my self discipline.

 No.973

>>971
You know what may happen when you burn out? It's very possible that you will revert back to your previous routine and then it will take some time to build yourself back up to start again. Who knows, you may even restart straight away but wouldn't you rather fly smoothly? I mean it's easy to say all this now, when your motivation is sky high but motivation runs out, it always does, that's why you start small, because you are turning the activity into a habit, and once it turns into a habit, you will be able to do without a second thought.

For example, say my goal is to start running at 6 am for 1 hour every day. That requires significant amount of effort and thus significant amount of motivation. I'll probably be able to keep this up for a few days, but say during any of this my motivation runs out or something else happens, like I don't wake up or something in time, it's very likely my new found routine will go down the drain.

Now if I start jogging for 20 minutes at a comfortable time of day, and slowly and gradually decreased the time that I wake up in the morning. If I gradually increase, I'd eventually be able to jog for 1 hour and be able to wake up at 6am and if I keep going, I'll be able to wake up every day at 6am and jog for an hour without giving a single fuck mentally. Why? Because at this point it's about as much of a habit as brushing your teeth and thus, even without motivation, you will be able to do it with minimal problems. Not only that, but you will also be building discipline along the way.

 No.974

>>973
Well you have a point.
I will listen to that advice too.
Thanks!

 No.977

>>974
Make sure to journal, that way if your routine fails and you have to restart again, you'll identify why you failed and how to make sure it doesn't happen again. It might also be the difference between you, restarting your routine or giving up because it might remind you of why you started in the first place.

Anyway man, good luck and I wish you the best! I hope you succeed.
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 No.978

>>977
I'm buying notebook tomorrow to use it as journal.

I will report back on 1.6.2015.

 No.983

>>978
Don't forget to update us if you're making progress or need advice

 No.1029

Just came here to report my failure and restart starting tomorrow.

There is this girl that I like a lot and because of something I think I fucked up.
So then I fapped to relax and to to sleep better that night.

But I can say that was definitely improvement during February while I followed my routine.

 No.1065

>>1029
Keep going man, you can do it!

Learn from your mistakes and try again.

 No.1237

I have this small report.

I started working out with more willpower and I feel that my strength is little bigger now.

I have desire to flirt with girls and less desire to fap than in February I can control my desire to fap.
(the only thing that I failed during improvement in February)
Also social situations are now not problem, I find right words when I talk with people, I have confidence.
Also I stopped watching porn.

Cold showers are making me feel less cold and I don't remember that I sneezed this month or in February.

My sleep schedule is little off but it's improving.

I have better appetite, I guess this is because of working out harder.

I read about 3 books since my OP but I gradually improve reading speed.

I also started recording my dreams so I can try out lucid dreaming.

I started saving money and I don't buy unnecessary things.

Because I drink water my skin looks little better and I feel more energy during the day.

So there is change in my habits and it positive change.

 No.1260

Very nice work.

The fapping to get to sleep is what killed me. Do you have any tips on stopping this urge without staying awake for hours?

What are the benefits of only shaving once a month?

 No.1266

>>1260
>What are the benefits of only shaving once a month?
I just started this because I don't have good beard so I wanted to let my smaller hairs grow bigger and balance out my beard gradually.

>The fapping to get to sleep is what killed me. Do you have any tips on stopping this urge without staying awake for hours?

Just ignore the urge, I stay awoke longer because I don't fap and when I wake up I have boner and desire to fap but I force myself to stop thinking about girls and start thinking about something else and forget about urge to fap.

 No.1267

>>1266
*avake

 No.1268

>>1266
Also don't watch porn.

 No.1274

>>1237
Holy shit, good work man. That's some great progress.

 No.1275

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>>1237
Keep it up anon!



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