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If you have an easy way to make it happen, take it. Prepare for a drawn out series of anonymous imageboard posts and an inevitable loss of interest otherwise.

I am pretty sure that when you die your consciousness ceases to exist, which means you will never be able to experience anything ever again, which is pretty boring.

Also this board would be even slower than before if you kill yourself ;_;

>>22295

You need to stop drinking so much man. It feels good yeah, but you know just as well as I do nothing comes from it but a void of depression.

Obvious differences aside and going by the general idea of your post, I've been in the same spot you're in, if not deeper. If you're the same anon from the tulpa thread from a while back, I really do think I may have some advice that would help you. Advice I honestly don't want to go broadcasting to the world for a multitude of reasons.

Regardless, and with that in mind, things have changed from me more than I can possibly explain as a result. It's been fucking painful, it's been fun, and most of all it's all given me a hope for the future the likes of which I've never experienced. The answers lie within yourself, but again, there's more to it than that and I don't want to get into it here.

I dont really use skype or anything like that, but I got steam. Shoot me an email at the one I linked in the name field if you want. Easiest way to contact me is through steam so if you want i'll add you. Either way man, hang in there.

>>22323

When you die, sure, maybe. The suicide prereq thing however, I really doubt. Winding up in the void seems most likely if thats the way you choose to end things.

>>22295

You will never be a normalfag because normalfags are retarded, the only solace you will ever find is in escapism/drugs/autism. Your talents will never get recognized due to you lacking drive/money/time to build up on them. You will die alone due to women being more retarded and those who are not COMPLETELY retarded are either too ugly for you, out of your league, or just as ugly as you or uglier. Even if you are attractive, can get attractive, or were attractive all of these things would impede you from being a successful contributing member of society. You being here is a HIGH indicative that you're an abject failure of a hyumane bean.

>>22418

Says who? Stop projecting.

Make your own choices and be happy with them. What makes you think it's a requirement of happiness to be so deeply ingrained in society and culture? "Normalfags" have their own way of going about shit and finding their own happiness just the same as we have ours, individually.

Failure is absolutely subjective, and if you do percevie yourself as such, what is stopping yourself from working toward whatever goals you may have to peel the self inflicted label from yourself?

Do what you want, it's your life. Why spend what time you have trapped in self-inflicted misery?

>>22419

The meaning of life is living. Nothing more, nothing less. Stop trying to escape the pain and face it, hell, embrace it; edgy as it sounds. Your past is part of what makes you yourself. If you have painful memories in relation to the past, work on building yourself up from them instead of getting stuck in the endless cycle of self deprecation. It's a process, yeah, but it sure as shit beats the feelings that come with thinking you want nothing more than to die.

>>22424

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I am not as good as I once was at giving advice, but as somebody who has suffered from clinical depression/ still suffers with severe anxiety that is becoming more manageable I can tell you what will help you out

1.) You will want to live if you find somebody in your life that loves you and/or makes your life worth living -

By this I don't mean specifically romantic love, although it could be, it means that you develop some sort of relationship with a person. To meet people, you could enroll in a community college course. Don't wanna dish out cash to meet people that way? Volunteer at a soup kitchen to become more familiar with your community/ help those less fortunate. It is easier than forcing yourself to approach people and you feel like a genuinely contributing member to society. Not good with people yet? Volunteer at an animal shelter. Both times I was in psychiatric care I was told that animals are very therapeutic, but you also feel important them since you are helping another living people that is capable of showing love.

2.) Realize that what a culture views as important is completely subjective, and may not be what is important to you -

Trust me, it sucks to feel like you are working as a wage slave to not even be able to afford your basic necessaries. I don't blame many of you for being legitimate NEETs. Society truly does put a lot of emphasis on work/ class, but just because society places those values on you does not mean that you need to view them with any relevance. I can guarantee myself that my values are going to change, hell, probably in a couple of months. I am sure that you are sure that your values are going to change in the next year or so. Since we can almost guarantee both of those things, wouldn't it be reasonable to say that a society's collective values will also change with the next decade? The point is, do NOT always worry about what your culture/ area/ country thinks of your situation because their opinion will almost definitely change in a matter of time, making it almost obsolete.

3.) Don't worry about shit like the afterlife/ existential crisis provoking thoughts

It's way easier said than done. We've all probably thought about death and the uncertainty of what happens or if we will even exist afterwards, or why the hell we are even having a conscious experience against all odds of us even existing. It's a daunting scary thought and doesn't help that you and I are immersed in image board culture which is heavily nihilistic. There have been times when I have spent the whole day thinking about these things, it sucks it sucks it sucks. The best way I have coped with this is when I catch myself having these thoughts I fill my mind with something else. If there is a manga I have been putting off, I will read that. If there is a video games I have been putting off, I will play it. Finding a job also really helps because you are forced to take your mind off of those things, interact with other people which is healthy, and you make money to support your hobbies.

Two things to keep in mind about this. The first is that I am not assuming that you shouldn't think about these things at all. My position is that one of the greatest gifts is the ability to think and form intelligent thoughts, so you should think about this occasionally. It only becomes a problem when you worry about it to the point where you are having an existential crisis induced panic attack over one possibility out of many. The second is that a lot of people on here are going to tell you that if you that not wanting to think about these things makes you weak/ unintelligent. This is as far from the truth as you can get, most of the people that tell you this are pseudo-intellectuals themselves with an ivory tower built in their head that buy into ideas that have about as much evidence as crystal healing just because it is accepted in academics and usually are angry people. There are many well debated ideas of why we exist/ if there is something when we die that the best idea if you want to stay sane is humble yourself, move on, worry about the things in your life that can have a solution.

4.) Eat healthy/ exercise/ sleep well

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5.) Have something going on for yourself

This is the most important thing, in my opinion. A one way ticket to depression is having no hobbies, interests, goals, dreams, or stable career/ college situation. Having interests that you are good at gives you excitement, satisfaction, and makes you more appealing to others. Even if you are bad at something, practice! When ever you pick up a new hobby you will start off slow because you need to lay a foundation, but when you lay down that foundation you can start learning pretty fast. Sooner or later you will look back on your progress and be proud that you learn something/ can do something new. Then after a little while you will be skilled at a number of things, always having something to occupy your time with and feel good about.

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There is no magic one way ticket to feeling better, OP. I used to be a severely depressed NEET that had attempted suicide twice and always worried about interacting with 3D piggus and death. But things have changed. As corny as it sounds, you need to work at it to get better. It will take time, but I worked hard and am experiencing the benefits of doing so.

you're cool and awesome and your direction in life is not entirely incorrect