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Conversations Friend 12/29/15 (Tue) 07:12:38 No.25225

What are your conversations like, /kind/? How do you keep them fun and interesting?

Sometimes I meet people who can't even get past small talk and I end up screwing with their minds for fun. Once they get really attached I start telling them all sorts of crazy and lewd things. When they ask me stupid questions on Skype like "what are you doing?" I make shit up like "masturbating to futanari, wanna join me?"

When I sense someone is talking to me without a purpose, then I derail them and make it as difficult as possible. And if I sense they're trying to use me, then I really fuck their shit up.

What I really love is when a conversation is deep and playful. It's an amazing feeling when you can relate to each other's darkest most embarrassing secrets and have a laugh together, or when you spend time together and feel irreplaceable, or when a friend seriously fucks up and only you forgive them. It makes life feel meaningful like we're living the best we can be.

Friend 12/29/15 (Tue) 07:22:50 No.25226

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I'm terrible at conversing so I usually just say I have to get going and leave, its better than letting them find out how awkward I am.

Friend 12/29/15 (Tue) 08:07:03 No.25227

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"…"

"…do you like dinosaurs?"

Friend 12/29/15 (Tue) 10:04:21 No.25239

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You wanna try and be my friend OP? I'm afraid I can't offer a whole lot to keep interesting though.

I try and be funny, maybe pleasant or thoughtful given a topic but my mind isn't really up to snuff. My role in spiking excitement up is dependant on my partner being able to get the momentum going to begin with. If we're having a good time my responges can be a good paragraph or two long so there's plenty to pick from. I'm sort of moody though but only about myself, I'm infinitely forgiving I'd like to think. I like to be organized and polite to promote my partner's comfort but I think more the problem is I'm just not so interesting.

None of that really answers your question though, it's all just spur of the moment I guess.

Friend 12/29/15 (Tue) 10:10:02 No.25240

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>>25239

*responses

I still don't know why this sort of thing happens, I must have the most moronic auto-correct ever.

Friend 12/29/15 (Tue) 12:13:55 No.25249

IRL or online?

IRL I usually just keep my mouth shut or blurt out stupid shit, or babble about myself.

Online I am a conversational virtuoso.

Friend 12/29/15 (Tue) 13:17:05 No.25259

I don't really have a lot of people to talk to. I have a few irl friends but I don't want to bother them all the time.

Friend 12/29/15 (Tue) 13:23:51 No.25262

>>25226

If I were you, I would use these opportunities to practice being not-awkward. Conversation is a skill that you can learn to be at least decently good at with time.

After all, what does it matter if they think you're awkward?

Friend 12/29/15 (Tue) 15:00:36 No.25263

>>25225

I don't mean to bully but this sounds rather edgy, OP.

Being so manipulative isn't very kind.

Friend 12/29/15 (Tue) 19:31:07 No.25272

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>>25227

I LIKE DINOSAURS!

Friend 12/29/15 (Tue) 20:02:46 No.25273

>>25262

They're people that I see pretty regularly so I'd rather stretch it out as much as I can.

Friend 12/29/15 (Tue) 23:53:18 No.25282

>>25225

My favorite people to talk to are people that I know I can open up conversation with by saying something that anyone else would consider random. I pinged a friend on skype today with something about shopping for sledgehammers, and we just had fun from there.

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>>25282

That sounds endearing!

Friend 12/30/15 (Wed) 10:51:34 No.25310

I don't have any friends, so any IRL conversations I have are with family. I'm kind of shit at it though, 20% of my "conversations" are me prattling on about something autistic that only I care about, and the other 80% are me being completely silent or giving one word answers.

I'm very inexperienced with online communication too, I stopped doing it about 7 years ago, and I've only started doing it again within the last few months, this time with various strangers from 8chan rather than people I knew in school. I've noticed about 95% of what I write begins with "I" and is entirely about myself, and I'm not sure how to fix that or if it even requires fixing.

I feel like I'm okay if I'm being asked specific questions, but as soon as things start getting vague, small-talky, or about someone else's life, I just don't know how to respond.

Friend 12/30/15 (Wed) 12:02:53 No.25312

>>25310

People like you more if you get them to talk about themselves. That way you can just smile and nod in silence and give one-word replies at strategic intervals and they'll love you for it.

Friend 12/30/15 (Wed) 13:24:19 No.25313

I suck at conversing. Seems like if we didn't have much in common, I would get memed on by you OP.

Friend 12/30/15 (Wed) 19:18:47 No.25332

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>talking about talking

Blah blah blah quiet in public, blah blah blah more talkative online.