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 No.26839

Is there a way to deal with abusive parents when you esentially have nowhere to go?

i try locking my door and going full escapist mode but its no good when they try and break in.

also, i'm requesting hug pictures or whatever.

thanks.

 No.26841

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Where do you live? How old are you?


 No.26842

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Define abusive parents.

Explain your current situation in detail. Leave nothing unsaid.


 No.26846

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>>26839

define "nowhere to go" how much cash do you have access to, and are you old enough to get a job?

it's not usually the best idea but it is possible to run away from home

if you're below legal age call social services if you're above call the cops

I have a couch you could sleep one for 2-3 days if you're in MA


 No.26850

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 No.26861

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I hope op is ok…


 No.26868

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 No.26870

I'm with >>26846 there is no reason whatsoever to put up with abuse.


 No.26877

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Get physical with them, push them whenever they try to get in. If they abuse you now you can be sure they will kick you out eventually so youre not losing anything by trying, dont beat them too hard though the point is showing you have a limit and will retaliate, not getting the cops on you.


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 No.26895

I dunno what to say.

I guess try to avoid them unless they ain't having that


 No.26904

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Why is OP not replying…


 No.26909

Hey. When things start kicking off, relocate yourself. As a teenager, you won't be any great shakes in an argument - but you will always have the right to free association, & that extends to dealing with family members.

Know your local area. If you have friends nearby, go there. If you don't, stake out a park, a playing field or a tree you can climb - somewhere you wouldn't be found or harassed. Invest in a decent coat so that you won't be too cold. Make sure you always have a loaded & charged mp3 player to help you calm down & kill time. Take a book, if you know somewhere safe & well-lit where you can chill.

You can't permanently remove yourself from the household. What you can do is learn to gauge your parents' attitudes & extradite yourself when things are getting overly heated. Ideally, you would have your own house-key to sneak back in when they're sleeping. If you don't, you'll just have to deal with them. Forewarn them by sending them a text - don't just turn up. Say "I'll be back at [whatever time]," so that they're prepped & don't have reason to call the police.

What you want is to remove yourself for three to four hours, so that they can wind themselves up, vent, reflect, & worry. By the time you come back they'll be less enthusiastic about giving you shit. Unless you're dealing with straight-up violent psychos, in which case different rules apply.

The first time you do this they will be very difficult & try to place you under a lot of stress, however, by the third or fourth time they will start to get the message. Remember that you are an independent person, & you do not have to capitulate or participate in someone else's drama.

I hope you feel better. It's a shitty world.


 No.26914

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>>26839

I hope you're ok OP!


 No.26945

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>>26904

>>26861

>>26914

*worrying intensifies*


 No.26951

I hope OP didn't get killed by his parents or something…


 No.26961

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OP pick up the phone…!


 No.26966

I get the feeling OPs parents are reading this. Dumbass probably left his browser open and now theyre wondering why his son is asking for sympathy on a cambodian rc cars forum.


 No.27157

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Is OP okay…?


 No.27163

I hope OP is okay… There have been a couple times where I've made a thread and gotten so self-conscious about it that I can't bring myself to look at it for a week. Maybe that's what's going on with OP?

Maybe?


 No.27165

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Hello, my friends.

I apologize the delay, everything is as usual.

My physical integrity and overall context is the same as the one I posted the thread.

I apologize for the great delay, there have been thunderstorms where I live and I was unable to use the internet for this period of my time.

The weather is calm for now, but clouds suggest there will be more storm to follow.

I like them though, i always found that rain and lighting are beautiful to observe, the downside being that I cannot be with you for the time they exist. I really like you guys. And I appreacite the help.

I appreciate all the support and advice, I've taken them into consideration and with the analysis of the context I have come to the conclusion that much joy can be found in a waifu. With the little money i have stockpiled I managed to order a dakimakura, and soon it will arrive. I already have plenty of pics on my PC and I'm enjoying this… lifestyle. i really appreciate my waifu. Videogames also have been helping.

Thank you very much.

Hopefully this message will reach y'all.


 No.27183

>>27165

I'm very thankful you've let us know you're OK, friend. I haven't posted in this thread until now, because I just wanted to tell you to please stay strong. There will come brighter days, and we'll always be here in your time of need.

I'm sorry that I can't offer any solutions, but some other anon's have posted some really great information that I hope is some use to you.


 No.27292

>>27165

I'm happy you're not dead


 No.27315

>>27165

What? You are having trouble with your parents and what you do is buy an anime pillow and play videogames? Escapism won't help you, self-improvement will.




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