Hey guys, I need some advice and I am too tinfoil hat to ask this on Reddit.Last week I met a trans girl through Reddit, on a subreddit where we hate both her (Ill just say her, other shit is too weird) gender/sexuality/condition and her ethnic group,

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Anonymous 01/19/16 (Tue) 05:51:29 No.2256

Hey guys, I need some advice and I am too tinfoil hat to ask this on Reddit.

Last week I met a trans girl through Reddit, on a subreddit where we hate both her (Ill just say her, other shit is too weird) gender/sexuality/condition and her ethnic group, and I frequently do too, sorry guys. Shes from a different country from me, but we could meet up in a 2 hour train ride. Shes smart, shes pretty, shes kind, she shares my hobbies and interests. Only difference is that she is about 4,5 years older than me, but I have no problems with this (turning 20 myself in a few months). Weve been talking every single day, sometimes until 4 am. We Skyped a few times and I am pretty much sold, I guess, shes awesome. But theres some stuff that bothers me. Ive never had a girlfriend or sex and Ive sort of given up on that shit. Maybe deep down Ive been looking at trans girls as a surrogate for an actual woman? Is this fair towards her? I really like her anyways. Also, when we meet up it seems like its going to end up in sex. What if I ended up weirded out or something? Its not exactly a one-way thing from me, so I dont want to hurt her feelings.

Thanks

Anonymous 01/19/16 (Tue) 13:41:21 No.2257

I'd probably take this to the beta site since this board seems to have been nuked. Honestly though man just treat her like a normal girl. People on here might say

>her

>she

But don't let that shit bother you, in your mind try to see her as a normal girl because if you don't she'll pick up on that and definitely won't like it.

Also as far as sex goes just fug her from behind if you're still weird about dicks. My bf was the same way at first but now he's gotten to the point where we can do pretty much any position and he can ignore my dick no problem. So just try to relax and if she sees you're nervous just blame it on it being your first time.

If you do mesh well she'll be cool and you can work through the sex together. Anyway that's about it hope it goes well

Anonymous 01/27/16 (Wed) 06:11:14 No.2258

You're too caught up in what she is not who she is, if you like then go for it.