>>18155
>Let's say I live in the wilderness.
In the night I wake up to find that someone has eaten my favourite grapefruit, and is now running away.
>How much is it ethical to punish him?
>asking for a friend
That's a fucking stupid hypothetical. I am going to change it to favorite birdhouse, because you would have to be a complete fucking retard to become sentimentally attached to a grapefruit, because #1. it's a fucking fruit #2. it will decay pretty rapidly so you can't have it as a keepsake for any length of time. A tree could be a "keepsake" of sorta. Maybe. One fruit? No.
Let's say this person destroys the birdhouse a dead relative made for you, it was well made too. That, or they sell it. First of all, if you have no proof this happened, your knowledge of the criminal's identity will be of no use to you in a statist society- social enforcement of basic norms is impossible when economic ostracism is "MUH ILLEGAL DISCRIMINATION" and completely irrelevant due to the welfare state, social ostracism is also irrelevant because statism de-emphasizes the importance of close relationships with people (virtually forming your own insurance companies and "tribes" in a free society, but in a socialist society the incentive to provide value to people who you will one day depend on is gone because you get their resources regardless of how much of a cunt you are.) However, your options are much better in a free society. Let's say you saw him- but you don't have video cameras and the only evidence of his crime is ashes that are dispersed in such a way you can't link them to him/your birdhouse. In a statist society, the courts will not help you, best case scenario they punish him and the criminal provides you no restitution.
In a free society most people would be high IQ and psychologically healthy, because you can't have liberty with a population averaging around 95 IQ. You pretty much need 110 and above, and NEGOTIATION during childhood (if children are exposed to mutually beneficial non-violent conflict resolution, I would guess that they would favor such methods as adults). Why am I saying this? Because the unhealthy or low-IQ people susceptible to crime will be known to the community. This is assuming you live in a personal 150 person "tribe" (this doesn't mean rural, it just means that you have close relationships with a distinct community, whether that be an entire big apartment building, or a portion of a suburb.) This means that everyone has about 149 character references, or 149 witnesses to their poor character. When you say "this guy we all know is low-IQ, not in stable relationships, etc. burned my shit" there's a lot of social pressure you guys can exert against him. Assuming the likely scenario, where the victim is reputable and the criminal is not, chances are the criminal is understood to be a delinquent and they will try to punish him without outright ostracizing him. Now, by virtue of this person being able to associate with your community, we know implicitly that your community is either doing him a charity (because he's obviously predisposed to delinquency and they're trying to help him anyways) or he's a high-IQ sociopath sadist, in that case, if you were also a high-IQ individual, you would be best to NOT let that sociopath sadist know you saw him, tell some of your closest friends about the incident, and try to gather proof he's a fucking sociopath sadist; you don't want to accuse him outright because if he's really good you'll just look crazy. It's important to note that even the most brilliant sociopath manipulators will seem "off" after a while, to most perceptive individuals.
This means that the individual that committed the crime is one of the following:
-someone who is only accepted into your community as an act of charity, people will recognize that you are not lying, and seek to punish him/provide restitution to you without punishing him so severely he feels hated by the community
-The criminal is some evil mastermind sociopath, and you need to gather further proof of this before you proceed with action against him (inciting your community to ostracize him as a predator, because while most sociopaths are "okay", a sadist sociopath is just going to be a threat to the community)
-Someone stole and destroyed your birdhouse by accident
-Someone in the community, who is at least somewhat reputable was pissed off at you and stole your birdhouse and burned it. Except, this would never happen, because a high-IQ, mentally healthy, reputable person wouldn't resolve their dispute in such a childish way. They would seek arbitration for this, and you should be able to resolve any dispute with some kind of exchange of value or at least agree to a "white peace."