Well, if a guy is just generally handsome, then I won't be picky. But if he isn't, then certain things make up for that, mainly masculine traits. I wouldn't be able to date a guy who was into social media and queer news and watching TV. I like to have fun, so I'd like a guy into some activity/hobby, especially an /out/-tier sport, even if it just means climbing on rocks and shit. It's just boring to hear someone talk about fucking television or meme news (hurr did you see jimmy, you gotta see this vine..) maybe I'm picky, but I have no problem laughing people like this out the door.
As for physical traits, well again, perhaps I'm picky, but circumcised dicks sort of gross me out, so I can't say I've been too thrilled with the cut guys I've been with. It's sort of a drag, I don't know what to do with the thing. I also get a bit bored with hairless guys, I mean, the hairier the better. I'm a weirdo, but if a guy has a long beard and a hairy ass, he could be a 3/10 and I'd fawn over him, just no fatties. I don't like the bear scene because it seems to be filled with fatasses.
Okay, this post was kind of lame rambling, but I would reiterate that it's really effeminacy I'm turned off by, for whatever reason. Be it personality, or looks, the manlier- the better. I'd rather be with a tomboy than a flamer, not that I have anything wrong with ultra-queers, I've been friends with Beyonce-worshiping morons, but to imagine a relationship where I had to pretend to care about that shit is just asking too much. I want to be with someone I admire/respect.