/mai/ - Waifu

>>51152

>Sometimes I'm male sometimes I'm female.

What the fuck am I reading?

I'm glad you brought it up. I'm complely comfortable and even attracted to Osira's masculine side. I'm with being her bitch even if I'm not always feeling submissive. She doesn't dominate me but if she wants something she will take it and I appreciate that bluntness of hers. It would be completely in character for us for her to carry me over the threshold with her still wearing the dress.

well Makoto is super girly girl with a side of masculinity (her strength and height) while I am incredibly effeminate (which is fitting cuz i'm trans). In all instances that I've made shit on kisekae I've made myself female (appearance-wise, so just boobs, long hair and girl clothes, not genitalia) to go along with her.

She would deffo be the one carrying me. She's easily the dominant one even if I have a protective streak towards her.

>>51151

my relationship also follows traditional gender roles but thats just mainly because of her personality, not me making her or anything.

I have a majorly hard time picturing it swapped. She's just far too girly and can't into masculinity and I'd find it awkward and uncomfortable for her to be into girls

Not all relationships have to rely so strictly on male/female roles. You can do whatever you want and act however you'd like as long as your partner approves. If you're unsure, you can try it and worse come to worst you can go back to how things were before.

Neither of us genderbend in our relationship, and he's fine with us not having a super defined male/female dynamic. We certainly have our own roles that we fill, but neither of us is "the woman". I understand that for some people having the traditional male/female dichotomy feels natural, but it doesn't work for us and that's fine. Do what you like as long as it isn't hurting others.

You don't have to act on your thoughts and curiosities, but if you'd like to and you think your waifu would be fine with that sort of experimentation, I don't see why not. Also, it is very possible to be the submissive partner without being penetrated (and without being a woman) if that is your major fear.

I mean, I am male and Patchouli is female. But our relationship isn't exactly "traditional." Even though I'm the one who works and she stays at home, that has to do more with our hobbies and interests, rather than any sort of gender roles.

As far as "who wears the pants" or whatever, it's both of us really. Neither of us is really more dominant or submissive, we share responsibilities, and sometimes take turns. Just like in the bedroom hehe

It's just what works best for us I guess.

I do enjoy seeing her "shipped" with certain female characters, but that's more because I identify strongly with those characters, nothing related to their genitalia.

Our relationship is kinda traditional kinda not. I typically do most of the house work and work outside but thats mostly because Gin isn't really house wife material. Suigintou is very dominant, but at the same time feminine.Vice versa i'm more submissive but i still my masculinity.

I would definitely princess carry her.It would be so cute. Though I wouldn't want to be carried by her(not that she would be strong enough do it anyways).I don't know we just what feels natural to us.

Youmu is one of the more tomboyish Touhou characters, but she's still a pure girl at heart. She's definitely stronger than me and possibly also more aggressive, if she overcomes her shyness.

But even if her personality influenced our relationship, I don't think this has anything to do with gender.

And our relationship roles are still traditional, since she likes to do housework.

She ended up this way by imitating Youki, not because of the cishet patriarchy.

Some of her behavior patterns may seem masculine, but on an emotional level she definitely is feminine.

>me

I don't even know where to start with our relationship roles

She is my goddess and queen, though its a bit like Bell and Hestia Including the teetering on possible relationship but its also not a relationship like that

I consider the Sui in my mind to be close to me, one I could see myself hugging and talking to and loving and being with, but there is also a greater Sui, existing in all minds of everyone, she is too grand for me to even begin to comprehend to be honest,

I'm honestly very conflicted between worship and relationship roles, they often clash in key areas, I feel like i'm teetering on the edge of one or the other, I can see pros and cons of both arguments. I also don't want to go either way to fit in, a thing im afraid i might subconsciously do, so I am uh, kindof stuck in limbo at the moment on some things

>>51308

I do suspect she would enjoy dressing me up for tea though

I guess you could say she wears the pants in the relationship. She'd probably have the job, she'd make most of the decisions, and I'd be the house husband, cooking and cleaning for her, and so on. She'd take me on dates, princess carry me, call me her princess, and all that. She's a really dominant dragon after all. I'd be completely happy with that, as long as I can earn headpats from her.

Comic pseudo related.

We're pretty traditonal about it outside of the fact that there's no way I can match her physically. If I lifted for long enough I'd overcome her yokai-strength but she'd just run circles around me and I don't know any martial arts.

We don't really think about it too much. We just do what we want which for the overwhelming majority of people are pretty traditional roles,

>>51262

She's not even that tomboyish. It's like 10% actual tomboyishness and 90% "lol yoomoo a boy xDDDDDDDDDD" shitposters.

She just wants to make sure her friends are safe and she's not the best at being subtle about it yet like Yuyuko.

>>51373

I agree, her canon tomboyishness is mostly restricted to not being interested in girly stuff (like fashion) and being an uptight character. Maybe "tomboyish" was the wrong word choice.

The thing is that her uptight appearance wouldn't be any different, if she was a boy.

Just try comparing a more mature Youmu to Yzak Joule, for example.

Gundam SEED started airing less than a year before the release of PCB. Maybe ZUN was inspired by him when he created Youmu?

But as I stated before: She's a girl at heart.

She might not show it to everyone everywhere, but she does have a girly side.

>>51376

Just found some chibi art of Yzak to demonstrate my point.

Between me and Marisa, we're both don't want to relinquish the "man card" of our dynamics, but I definitely gave up the upper hand of it, so she definitely wears the pants of our relationship.

In other words, she's the man because she can afford to be the demanding jerk in our relationship, but I'm also male because I don't give a shit and she can't do anything if I say no to something I don't want to do.

Nope, our relationship is completely vanilla.

Oh yeah, there's definitely some role-reversal going on in our bedroom, not really anywhere else though. Everywhere else we typically behave like an average male/female couple. Except, you know, her being very dominant.

>>51388

>those dubs

>that pun

Absolutely purrfect