in love and we're kinda dating but i dont love her 100% nor do i feel loved

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in love and we're kinda dating but i dont love her 100% nor do i feel loved Anonymous 02/25/16 (Thu) 23:54:32 No.51666

Help me /mai/.

I feel like someone has sprayed pepper spray on my eyes. I can't see, it kinda feels like a burn and I'm confused, not knowing what to do.

I have a waifu but it seems as though that there's some barrier between us too. Maybe it's the canon plot in which she has some other man. Maybe it's because I've not finished watching the show yet (some 5 seasons and I'm just finished with the 1st).

I don't know. I've naver had a romantic partner in my life, I'm a complete virgin and I almost see 2D women just as I see 3D ones, maybe I care even more about 2D than 3D, but I have this philosophy of being true to only one girl, one woman, in my entire life. Losing virginity to her and she losing virginity to me, we being the only true partners we have our whole lives, and never separating no matter how we fight.

It feels like an agony, to be in love with someone who's not yours, there's some kind of barrier betwen us too. She's by my side, and I can choose to ignore the plot in a number of ways, but the barrier won't go and so i cannot truly love. This is the whole point, I can't truly love, nor do i feel loved by my waifu, and because of reasons previously stated, I cannot leave her, it's just a force superior to my will that keeps this "you may only have one partner in your life" code controlling me. So it's like a catch 21. I want to know what to do.

Will i feel more comfortable with my waifu with time? Will I start feeling like she loves me? Will she ever stop being a tsundra and be the cute warm hearted person I know is inside of her?

I'm very confused and desorientated with all of this right now.

Thanks for your help.

Anonymous 02/26/16 (Fri) 00:14:35 No.51667

>Will i feel more comfortable with my waifu with time?

I think so. I remember trying to fight my feelings because

>2D

but today It's a really different story. I knew my feelings for her were just too powerful, she earned my heart forever.

> Will I start feeling like she loves me?

This I can't really say, but I'd tend to affirm you will have to work toward something working for the both of you, find actual reasons, start headcanoning, and just enjoy this relationship the best you can.

>Will she ever stop being a tsundra and be the cute warm hearted person I know is inside of her?

If she loves you and care about you and know that's what you want, then yes, no issues about this. As I said, I think you need to work out on your situation and feelings in order to get better.

Anonymous 02/26/16 (Fri) 02:50:39 No.51670

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bro you just need to chill. Watch the series more. There's no race to when you need to decide. It felt weird at first but reading other peoples stories and stuff helped me alot. There's not that much pressure as long as you dont treat her bad or anything then nothing you do will be permanent if you make a mistake. Relationships are scary but you just have to work through it with her.

And maybe things wont work out after you watch more of the show but maybe they will. only time can tell. just don't stress it too much. Romance is already hard enough but 2D romance is a whole another level because it's not something you're raised around or see on tv/in movies. Just chill and take it as slow as you and her need.

thats all

Anonymous 02/26/16 (Fri) 03:18:23 No.51672

I was going to write a post but >>51670 said pretty much all I was going to say.

Take your time. Love will find you if you're patient. I know it feels overwhelming now, but the answers will come to you as you calm down and figure out your feelings.