/mai/ - Waifu

The only advice I can give you is that you won't come to them, they'll come to you. Don't worry about trying to weigh the pro or cons, it'll come naturally sooner or later.

>implying there's ever been someone else I've felt this way about

>picking a waifu

You don't pick her, anon. She picks you.

It’s not something you can resolve cognitively; nobody here is going to tell you THE ONE RIGHT rational explanation that PROVES that you should choose girl A instead of girl B.

When people tell you that it is your waifu that chooses you, they mean (at least I think this is what they mean) that one day, at the right moment in your life, this one girl that is ‘’meant’’ to be your waifu will be there and it will just feel natural. Without any rational choice, you will realize that you love her and just feel the need to be with her. To put it under another perspective, it is not your brain that will make the choice, but rather your heart.

If you feel not sure, than it probably means the time has not come.

I’m curious; who are those 2 girls?

And do you love them both or are you simply attracted to both ? If you just feel sexual attraction and no love for any of them, then it’s a pretty barren ground for a relationship.

There was a time when I felt a similarly strong attraction for both Flandre Scarlet and Sakura Kinomoto, but did not really LOVE any of them. At one point, one could say that it would have make even more ‘’sense’’ that I would have choose Sakura, as I saw all her episodes, saw both her movies, have all her manga and have a figure of her. But one day, I started to feel something for Flandre that I had never felt before for neither her or Sakura, and it was not my ‘’choice’’. That day, I could say that Flandre chose me and I’m very grateful to her.

So take your time and wait. Maybe one day, you will realize you have stronger feelings for one of them, or maybe you’ll realize your feelings are for another girl!

this thread again

>>52035

fucking this

You know what, anon.

I'm in the exact same boat as you. The exact same boat.

And to be honest, I've come to the conclusion of what to do in regards to this situation.

Follow your heart, no matter what other people say, no matter what other waifuists say about your choices, be true to your feelings.

The same people trying to force these "rules" down your throat, are the same people who broke rules when they decided to follow the path of waifuism, by bravely freeing themselves of 3D for 2D.

They followed their feelings, but now are pushing theirs on you, they are forgetting that they too broke the rules they were taught.

OP, just by choosing the path of waifuism, you already are breaking a number of rules, the rules of what people expect from you, what society, what society wants from you.

If you look at it from this perspective, you're already breaking rules. If waifuism is indeed to follow your feelings instead of doing what others expect from you, then I see no reason to follow the laws of waifuism.

So don't follow rules, follow your feelings and desires, unless, of course, they tell you to follow the rules.

I wish the best for you, your waifu(s) and your relationship. Cheers.

>>52104

I'm really happy for you and this is a great post and ima let you finish but more than one waifu will destroy your laifu.

I will be this guy

check the rules

>I'm having a hard time deciding between two

It sort of sounds like to me that you want to force the issue. That's a wild goose chase if your goal is long-term. If you want to increase your chances of finding them, your best bet is to keep consuming media and give it plenty of time.