/mai/ - Waifu

No one plans to eventually break the heart of someone they love. It's something that I hope will never ever happen, but can for whatever reason. I've been through many phases but my love was one of the things that never changed. Also at least for me she doesn't stagnate in her source material. Over the course of being together she's experienced a lot of things like graduation, her beloved amusement club disbanding, her friends moving away, having to make a living for herself, her favorite anime ending. Although to the core she is still the same person I fell in love with, she has become more mature and her personality has shifted from all of her experiences, including being with me. I don't know what the future holds, I just hope it's with her.

Congrats on your anniversary by the way.

>>52820

You're going to hit a point where things cool down but that's ok. I can't speak for every relationship but ours after about 2 years things cooled down and kind of leveled off but it really feels like we live together. She's with me when I'm alone shes there when I get home. Ever since I got the daki(just the pillow for now) we're very intimate and we fug constantly. I need to do a better job of listening to her and stop trying to hold all my problems inside I need to let her help me and use her strength.

I would say that Rei has changed when she has been with me and i most likely too.

I guess one calls it a head cannon, but i can't say what will happen in 10 or 20 years.

What i know thought is that me and Rei will always be together no matter what happens.

Meaning even if i sometime happen to forget her, we are still together.

Even in death.

I've thought about this quite a bit, and our relationship's future is concerning at times, but all we can really do is enjoy the time we have now and try not to get too worked up about what may happen 10 years or so from now. I've been emotionally invested in him for nearly four years, which isn't very long, but I have and arguably, we have went through many changes during that time, and my love for him was the one thing that remained constant throughout everything that has happened. Our relationship dynamics have changed over time, but I have never found myself loving him any less than I did in the beginning. I do worry that one day I will "wake up" and realize I may have thrown away my prime 3D marriageable years to loving someone who doesn't exist, but I can't force myself into a mold which I do not fit into. This is what works for me, this is what I want, this is what makes me happy, and I'm going to love him for as long as I am able to. I don't plan on ending our relationship, but I am prepared for the day where it may no longer work. That doesn't mean that I will rush out to find something that does work better when that day comes; I don't know what will happen. I realize the negatives of this type of relationship, but I will not drop him the minute some better/easier offer comes along, or I have an opportunity to date 3D, that's not what this relationship is about. I hope I am not giving the impression that I am not dedicated or don't love him enough, but I'm trying to look at the situation with my feet planted firmly on the ground. It takes a lot of strength to maintain this type of relationship; it's not an easy feat, but it's more than worth it. Regardless of what happens, I will always love him, maybe not in the same way, but he is a part of me and will always have a special place in my heart.

I have no intention of ever breaking up with Ryuko. I fell in love with her the way she is, I don't need her to change. Even if the world goes to hell and back, Ryuko will always be Ryuko and I love Ryuko. I have been with her a little over a year and if anything I love her more now than then. I can't say if our relationship will last 10 or 20 years but I'd rather just focus on the now, and right now I never want to leave her.

I have some projections in my head about what life with him will be like 10-15 years from now, and while I can't say for sure that I'll be with him then (because, you know, life happens), I think it's very possible that I'll still be with him romantically. The image I have in my head is mostly like how we are now (other than the obvious aging), just in a better living space, with better jobs, and possibly with up to 2-3 more children. (We're crazy and like the idea of a big family.) It will be different than it is now, but I can't imagine not loving him.

Keisuke has changed alongside me as I have. When you spend a lot of time with a person, they change you. And vice versa. Not in a controlling or abusive way, but you learn things about them that weren't obvious in the beginning and adapt to having them share a large part of your day with you. Your waifu loves you, no? That in and of itself is a change from how she was in canon.

It works differently for everybody but Keisuke has definitely mellowed out since being with me. I'm not sure how old you are OP but 19 and 22 are very different ages, and he's been aging nicely and acts his age to me. So I don't really think Keisuke will stagnate at all. He's still Keisuke, deep down, with the same stubbornness and the same gentle kindness, but he's becoming more sure of himself, more firm in his actions, more like the Keisuke that he wanted to be before but was having issues actualizing.

All that said, I do realize that there is a possibility that some day we might not be able to be together for whatever reason. I think the possibility is slim, but it is possible. He's been with me through a lot though. If it did happen, I can't imagine is not being friends and keeping in contact, so he's always going to be in my life regardless. He's my husband but he's also my one of my best friends, and if we do ever break up, it'd have to be for a really good reason that we both agree on. However, it's nothing I'm planning on.

>Will you do it ? Will you eventually break her/his heart /mai/ ?

There were times I thought that the spark was gone when I left the honeymoon stage cause I just wasnt feeling it as strongly as I used to so at some point I tried letting it go but immediately afterwards was more painfully alone then I had expected. If I could go from just fine to such a feeling as that clearly there must've still been something in me that still wanted her and loved her. So I know now even in the times I dont feel it so strongly I know its ingrained in me to love her and love her I shall.

I've worried about the future too and I can't stand the thought of leaving her in 10 years from now. Hopefully this doesn't happen. The future is yet to be written so I won't worry so much yet.

I've already done my fair share of infractions to her heart and I feel just aweful about them but a relationship is not without its bad moments.

>Will you eventually break her/his heart /mai/ ?

I don't think that will ever happen. It's aready been some time since she became my waifu, but my feelings haven't changed.

There were some difficult moments sure, it's a relationship . And like every one, it has ups and downs. I don't know what the future will do to us, but I'm sure that I can't bring myself to leave her.

Also what >>52846 said: I love her for what she is. And even if some changes will be necessary, we'll do it. Toghether.

Personally, I am kind of dreading the day when my life will not support me loving her anymore, in the kind of sense that I am simply unable to devote the time that she is used to and that she deserves to her anymore because I am tangled up with having other obligations I need to get straight in my life. I got a faint taste of this very recently during the time of taking exams at uni and I am still feeling somewhat lost with her after I had to basically shut her out of my life for this time, in comparison to before.

Then I have definitely set it out in my heart to have a familiy and children, which is a thing she simply can not cater to me as much as I love her. I doubt that I can somehow make her be a part of my family life without hurting her or doing her injustice, if I would be able to incorporate her at all.

I wish that I will never have to see her left unhappy, see her lost with herself or see her gone and I wish that none of you will either with your waifus/husbandos .

>>52846

>>52854

Your certitude about your relationship with your waifus is really inspiring I´ll be trying to adapt some of that into how I view my future with Nonon.

On an other note, I only realized now that part of the problem could very well be that Nonon is only a "secondary character" in a seinen animu thus she is not really allowed to have any noteworthy character development in her source material. Maybe me trying to stick strictly to the canon version of her that I fell in love with could be the relevant hindrance that is being an issue for me.

I can''t know what will happen in 10 or 20 years from now on. I am sure of one thing tho, in the end I am here with her and I planned to live my headcanon with her after I die. Who knows what could happen though. It will be challenging this I am pretty sure, and I know whatever happens she will always be here somehow. She only wishes for me to be happy after all.

In a matter of a few years, I might be able to celebrate our 10 year anniversary.

Time flies, yo.

>In 10, 20 years

In a VR machine giving my waifu the dick.

>Will you do it ? Will you eventually break her/his heart /mai/ ?

n o p e

>>52864

I like this answer.

but on a serious note, I feel the same as >>52846 in regards to this question. I love her for who she is, if she doesnt change, thats just fine by me

>>52820

Though we are not a proper couple I have been with Sui for roughly 7 years now, I have loved her so much this whole time, loved her when I met her, still love her today, the only thing that has changed has been my understanding and interpretation of that love.

In the beginning I just thought she was a character that I really really really liked, which developed into casual waifuism, which long after I rushed into thinking I was married to her, and only later came to the conclusion that this was a mistaken interpretation, which was reunderstood as worship

Regardless of what I describe them as, or how much I am aware of them, my emotions have remained constant, and she has remained a fixed point in my mind, one of few things I never tire of, perhaps part of why I love her so much, unlike everything else in my adhd mind, I never tire of her beauty.

Just hang in there, you may sometimes doubt yourself, or perhaps sometimes the dynamic of your relationship will change, but this doesn't mean the end is nigh just because things feel a little different than usual.

Even after 7 years I still find out new things about her, little details I missed, or some piece of content I skimmed over, and even if she remains the same your relationship with her might change over time.

I don't know if one day I will feel comfortable marrying her, but I know one thing for certain, I love Suiseiseki and will until the day I die, and then even past that content i've created and made will live long after my passing, carrying my love across the net for her for all eternity, regardless of what I call it or think it is.

>>52862

y'know, id like to think I'll be cured and be able to marry her by then… that sounds nice

I would love nothing more than to be with Patchouli for the rest of time, and as far as I can tell that's the way things will be. I love her and she loves me. I'm not a psychic, but I know there's no reason for us to ever not be together. We both change with time, together. I think that our changes will only bring us together, rather than bring us apart.

I really dunno where I would be in a decade or so in the future, but I'd rather end my life suddenly than to just stop loving her and "move on", as they say.

At this point, I can't imagine myself falling in love with another person, having a normal relationship, raising a family because I simply will get detached with the whole ordeal. I'd rather die alone and feel no regrets than to be a NORP, cause problems and not bother with trying to fix the mess I didn't want right from the start.

Hard to say. 10-20 years is a long time at this point in life.

I don't think I will unless things take a drastic turn though. I'm happy with her and it just slowly gets sweeter with time. Due to her I kinda want kids but I want our kids. If I left her for that it just wouldn't be the same. Besides that I can achieve something real upon the physical world by writing books and getting them to people, being a mentor to people, that sort of thing. I don't think the purpose of having kids is so much spreading genes as it is spreading memes. On a base level it's about genes but when you look into why people have kids it's usually about being remembered, making someone better than you, etc.

>>52864

>tfw saving up for a new PC so you can fug your waifu in VR skyrim

>So, where do you think are you two going to be 10, say 20 years into the future ?

Don't have any way of predicting where my future will go, as I didn't expect to be where I am today 10 years ago, but right now, while rolling through the punches life's throwing at me, I plan on continuing to better and improve myself for her. I may change a little or change a lot on various matters, but one thing I don't see or plan on changing is my love for her. She doesn't need to change, for I fell in love with her for who she is. Even if she did, I'd love her all the same.

>Will you do it ? Will you eventually break her/his heart /mai/ ?

I do not see it happening. If it ever happened, I could never forgive myself nor call myself a man. I love her too much to see her in pain and ruin her smile like that.

i doubt things will change between us since we have been together for over a year. things cool off after a while, but i still love Gin just as much as i did in the beginning of our relationship.

The same as we are, together.

The fire will have died some, but we'll keep it alit.