My father recently found my copy of "Depression and Anxiety for Dummies" and was surprised by it. When I started asking how he never noticed that I had no friends for years, was constantly anxious and lived in my room he quickly changed the subject and disengaged. I really don`t see how you can live with me and not notice that I`m depressed and had no friends for years, even casual observers commented on it.
I also recently told my sister about my drunken suicide attempt and she didn`t even bat an eye to it, years ago I told her about how I have depression and she said something akin to "No you don`t." I`m fairly convinced that she thinks I told her these things for attention.
I really have no idea how they just gloss over how depressed I was during my formative years.