/mental/ - Mental Health, Illnesses and Disorders

i'm pretty sure we could /thred with a picture of you. if not, its halitosis

ppl are superficial. try being an ugly female - its no piece of cake

If you posted a photo of yourself I would gladly see if I could give you some pointers to improve your looks.

If you feel uncomfortable with that I understand, but the offer stands.

>>1330
I bet. For people like us who look like monsters it's no peice of cake in general. I piety all who look horrible. The problem in my case is i was born like this and nothing will change it. Might be yours as well. If so then I feel ya…
>Halotosis
lol most of the time i don't even need to say a word to get trashed by woman-kind.

>>1332
>Posting a picture of yourself on the internet
I never did that before and i'm quite proud of it. But listen. I'll honestly describe myself.
>Not fat, flat like average person
>No white pimple in my face or what so ever
>Hairy under the belt ;-; females at school used to laugh at me about this on my back. When i looked at them they quickly looked away holding their laugh.
>Almond eyes
>Nigger lips. Pretty thick for a white person.
>thick eye brow
>brown long hairs
>Baby face/10

Also if you are interested…
>>>/fem/16000
>Dat get

>>1311
Dude… /fem/ is a horrible place.
post intelligence is lower than on /b/, bans left and right for harmless shitposting, and it's full of betas asking women how to be successful with women. It's literally /b/ with anons pretending to be female.
Never ask women how to be successful with them. Their answers will probably hurt, and will probably be utter garbage because they do not know you.
Reflect by yourself. Look at yourself and clear your mind.What do you need to change? Can you change these things? Or is it even worth the trouble?
Is it truly women you seek, or have you convinced yourself of this? I thought I needed a girlfriend, but what I really wanted was happiness.
Now, if contact with women hurts, and chances seem small, is the chance of getting a girlfriend worth the pain?
On a less abstract note: There's a chance to win millions in a Casino. Is it a sensible choice to bet all your money?

>>1555
I learned not to care about whatever answer i get. All i wanted was the point of view of a female on why was i trashed so hard in my young days. Why did my FACE mattered that much. Seeing all your friends having gf and female friends, and these same females of my friends saying shit to me for no other fucking reason then my face on top of that!? No wonder why i want to avoid them at all cost. It literally forced me to not trust anyone of them and i never wanted this. I see it as a strategical retreat to avoid damage.
By the way… i heard the definition for misogyny is exactly this. Mistrust toward women. [sarcasm]Damn…. if this is true i wonder what is the cause.[/sarcasm]

But it's over now. My mind is concluded. Never i will give them the attention they do not deserve.

>>1603
Learn to not care about women at all. Minimize their role in your life, and you'll find inner peace. Your past experiences will seem unimportant.
You might say that you don't care about the past, but by posting these threads, you show you do care, a lot.

>>1611
>but by posting these threads, you show you do care, a lot.
You got me there. My only defence is because i am truly about to cross the point of no return and i want to know why did all of this happened. When the nuke drops however, they will be lowest priority.

Disregard females, acquire currency.

>>1311
>>1603

Bitches and whores aside, you're generalizing women based on some shitty experiences you had in high school. Not only is that unfair to women in general, it's also unfair to yourself. It's like never wanting to eat pizza anywhere ever again because you've only had pizza from the shitty Pizza Hut in your home town, and you're assuming that it must be the same for every other restaurant in the world.

>>1359
>Hairy under the belt

I'm not entirely sure what you mean by this. Most guys are hairy below the belt. Hell, I've been hairy than most people's dads since I was 14.

People are people and saying they are all like this or that will always be false. While I can't understand your frustration my advice as a random dude on the internet is this. Don't talk to shitty people, have good friends, and have a joyous day.

>>2009
Well it turns out guys like us are very good at hurting ourselves on shitty women.
And generalization is how our brains work. If a bushman sees a member of his clan being eaten by a lion, why not assume that all lions are dangerous?
I don't try to make generalizations seem like a globally good thing, but they do help protecting us.
So, while we've been repelled from women, we have some time to let our wounds heal. No use in stabbing them over and over.

Comparing the pain you experience if rejected by those you're unfortunate to fall in love with to having a bad pizza doesn't really work, either. I've suffered from clinical depression, and the pain I felt every time this shit happened almost drove me insane. Those times were the worst of my life. You can claim it's unfair to women all you want, but the pain I felt and the prospect to go through that hellish torment again if I fail at a relationship or even if I only had a crush on someone and it didn't work out makes any new attempt at acquiring love seem like madness. I don't think I'll ever try that shit again. My sanity is too important to gamble.
That's why I've decided to live my life without a female by my side.

>>2026
>And generalization is how our brains work.

Eh, that's not entirely true. We also have the useful ability to use discretion about what sorts of generalizations are accurate to make.

And even if it did, that certainly doesn't mean that generalizations always make us safer. Using your example of a primitive native, let's say some guy witnesses his buddy die after eating fruit that's poison. As a result, he assumes that all fruit is deadly and refuses to eat any, which severely limits his already sparse food options. His likelihood of starving dramatically increases as a result of his unfounded generalization.

Now, I'm not telling you that you NEED to get out there and get yourself a woman. Obviously it's your own life. If you feel as though you'd be happier without a partner (or as little female interaction as possible), then that's your choice. I'm just letting you know that it's not nearly as bad as you think it is.

>>1311
im a little offended by this post because you seem like a nice person and if i had met you and talked to you we might be friends, if the circumstances were different. because i am a girl. and i have a lot of guy friends and it just feels bad that you decided that all girls are bad.. because not all girls will hurt you. but it's up to you.

>>2077
Why do you take this personally?
For once, we don't hate women. We stay away from them do decrease the risk of getting hurt. See >>2026.
Then, for you there isn't really a downside. Do you really think a guy like me could be of any value in a relationship? I play vidya, I'm interested in physics and nuclear reactors. And car technology. Boring to most people. I'm hard to motivate, I don't like going on vacations, I start to get angry with people once I have to be with them for a long time, I get mad easily if someone acts too emotional.
I'm absolutely paranoid, I think everyone is talking behind my back, I think everyone instantly notices flaws in my appearance, which is why I never go swim and why I'll never be comfortable around anyone if I'm not wearing a good layer of clothing. Do I fucking sound like the guy you'd like to date?
Stop thinking everything is about you. This isn't.

>>2077
I don't mind having friends of anykind. Because of my previous experiences however, i have a strong distrust toward women, but i assure you i never wanted to be like this. I do not blame ALL womens, but every contact i've made with them went down the drain quite rapidly. I might have decided it, but i have made this decision based on what i've experienced. I don't mind if we become friends for example, but the scar will always be there as a reminder: "She might be one of THOSE girls. Watch your back!".

I'm not the kind of guy you'd like to hangout with. Allow me to use the basic "You and I" model for a moment. in my case, i am highly philosophical, sarcastic however very serious, I cannot laugh/smile easily and i don't talk alot unless needed. This is seen by most as "a boring person". Would you hang with me for a whole day? Think about it. Unless we have points in common, i don't know how you would endure my presence…

I know many of my friends who look worse than me but i consider myself the ugliest, tell me i' "handsome" i will consider it as complete bullshit. I'll never believe it. You will be lying to me. I've been told so many times in the past that i looked horrible that it stayed and came to really believe it. No one tells me how bad i look anymore, but the scar left on my mind is too profound. And i don't want to take the risk of someone making it bleed again. Not anymore. Nuke has been detonated.

>>1364
>those comments

lol no empathy, but what do you expect from a board that is half populated by /b/

>>2117
/fem/ is not only 50% /b/.
When /b/ decided it's cancer was getting too bad, it took as much of the tumor as it could find and put it in a containment board.
That containment board is /fem/.