Anonymous 11/18/14 (Tue) 14:03:47 No. 3374
what is the common treatment with sexual disorders like fetishism?
Anonymous 11/18/14 (Tue) 16:14:34 No. 3385
Masturbate and then feel guilty.
Anonymous 11/18/14 (Tue) 16:39:30 No. 3390
whats ur fetish op?
Anonymous 11/18/14 (Tue) 16:45:49 No. 3391
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Anonymous 11/18/14 (Tue) 16:53:53 No. 3393
>>3391 that you op? assuming so. no idea bro, google around a bit. really talking to a psych is gonna be your best bet. then again, if it's not hurting anyone, or causing you any problems, may be nothing to worry about ya know.
Anonymous 11/18/14 (Tue) 19:36:47 No. 3401
>>3393 how do I get rid of a femdom fetish?
Anonymous 11/18/14 (Tue) 20:54:22 No. 3405
>>3401 Why do you want to? Having fetishes is perfectly natural.
Anonymous SAGE! 11/18/14 (Tue) 21:58:42 No. 3407
Anonymous 11/18/14 (Tue) 23:00:46 No. 3409
>tfw fetish is too specific and have trouble finding fap worthy material
Anonymous 11/18/14 (Tue) 23:31:59 No. 3415
>>3405 It's when it interferes with daily life and functioning, as well as being a threat to the safety of yourself and others, when it becomes a problem.
Anonymous 11/19/14 (Wed) 00:32:24 No. 3420
>>3393 Its wasn't OP, I just posted it because have a fetish is ok as long as its not delusional
Anonymous 11/19/14 (Wed) 01:01:22 No. 3423
>>3401 imo you should just embrace it. find a kinky chick who's in to the same thing. girls are just as perverted and kinky as guys in most cases, they just hide it better, but they generally appreciate a guy who is straightforward about his sexuality. when a girl asks what you like sexually, just tell her honestly, chances are she'll love it, even if she's not into it, it sets you apart from all the other dbags spouting the same "I really like a girl I can talk to" bullshit. like others have said, fetishes are normal, just find someone you can act them out with and life is good ya know.
Anonymous 11/19/14 (Wed) 17:45:32 No. 3469
>>3415 This. Everything in moderation is generally a good rule of thumb. If it goes far enough off the deep end to meet these criteria, then it becomes a problem. It's the difference between having a few drinks on the weekend and drinking a liter of vodka a day. Honestly a good idea for anyone feeling like it's becoming increasingly more difficult to feel sexually satisfied is to take a break. Masturbation is totally normal and healthy, but a lot of people end up using masturbation as a coping mechanism for other problems. It's a lot like self harm, orgasm washes you out with dopamine and endorphins and lots of other feel good chemicals, providing a release, if even for a moment, from whatever anxieties you have. But you can totally build a tolerance to your own neurotransmitters involved with sexual gratification, that is a thing that can happen. Try just not fapping for a little while. You'll likely find that your orgasms are easier to achieve and more satisfying by the time you get back to it, and maybe even more at peace inbetween.
Anonymous 11/19/14 (Wed) 21:43:08 No. 3498
I don't know of any way to "cure" yourself of a fetish. Most techniques I know of are more based upon regulating behavior, i.e. not engaging in the fetish.
Anonymous 11/26/14 (Wed) 05:12:23 No. 3932
>>3423 This is decent advice, but not for me.
I'm trying to minimize my desire for the fetish, and increase my desire towards more vanilla things.
What are some things I can do to wire myself towards more vanilla stuff.
inb4 NoFap
I've already been doing this for months now, and haven't been watching porn either.
What else can I do?
Anonymous 11/26/14 (Wed) 16:23:53 No. 3982
>>3932 You might as well try and change your sexual orientation while you're at it. These sorts of preferences aren't something that most people are able to reshape.
If you don't mind answering, why do you want to minimize your fetish?
Anonymous 11/26/14 (Wed) 23:40:42 No. 4016
turd burger
Anonymous 11/27/14 (Thu) 00:44:16 No. 4022
>>3469 I remember when I first started masturbating.
It was really awesome and fun and the orgasms were so ridiculous and the level of arousal alone was intense.
Now it's like… well, it feels better to look at the porn than it does to touch myself, and that alone is a little strange. I don't even masturbate /too/ excessively; just haven't gone over a month without it since middle school.
Anonymous 11/27/14 (Thu) 15:01:13 No. 4054
>>3415 >being a threat to the safety of yourself and others is that a guilt-tripped lolicon we have here?
Anonymous 11/29/14 (Sat) 01:47:41 No. 4185
>>3982 Not so -
http://yourbrainonporn.com/are-fetishes-innate
Anonymous 11/29/14 (Sat) 16:36:31 No. 4210
>>4054 Pedophilia could definitely be an example of a problematic fetish. Same with stuff like necrophilia, bestiality, or anything that involves inflicting serious injury to yourself or others.
>>4185 I still need to look over the studies that this article mentions before forming a more solid opinion, but based off the article itself, I'm still very skeptical on its conclusions.
Why is a fetish less genuine if it's discovered through internet pornography? It seems to be arguing that the only way to discover your "true" sexual preferences is to try and ignore fantasies you've developed through viewing pornography.
Also, it seems like the guys who admitted to viewing the "kinkier" stuff (femdom, gay porn, feet) was just struggling to come to terms with his tastes. Is it really that absurd to consider that a lot of people might be a lot "kinkier" than they think they are, given how a good chunk of the population is sexually repressed to some extent?
Anonymous 11/29/14 (Sat) 19:36:02 No. 4221
>>4185 I used to be very worried about my porn tastes getting more extreme over the years. But a while ago I remembered that as a 6-year-old kid, before I had internet access and before I knew about sex, I used to draw pretty fucked up stuff: bdsm, torture, guro, vore, usually involving naked people. Until my parents found out and freaked out about it, anyway.
I don't think porn has given me fetishes I didn't already have, it just made me rediscover them.
Also, I never stopped being able to get off to the more vanilla stuff I fapped to 10 years ago, as that article claims. I'm pretty sure I'm not the kind of porn addict the article is talking about.
Anonymous 11/29/14 (Sat) 21:04:10 No. 4223
>>4221 >Until my parents found out and freaked out about it, anyway. What ended up happening? How'd your parents react?
Anonymous 11/29/14 (Sat) 23:44:03 No. 4231
>>3374 1- fap the less possible
2- on the rare times you fap, fap to your imagination vanilla stuff
3- see a therapist who expertises on sexuality
Anonymous 12/01/14 (Mon) 02:39:35 No. 4289
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I seem to have a handful of self destructive or homicidal fetishes.
Anonymous 12/01/14 (Mon) 09:34:58 No. 4296
>>3932 The more you try to contain it, the stronger it gets.
If you have that much of an inclination towards femdom that you need to try and minimize it, if not properly handled it will surface in ways you do not expect or even in ways it never should have surfaced.
There are journals written about fetishes that add credence to the origination of a fetish as a subconscious coping tool from trauma. So in some likelihood, your femdom fetish is the byproduct of trauma, and being able to experience sexual gratification through the simulation of the trauma is an adaption.
The way I look at it, being able to be stimulated from something that shouldn't - that's actually a strength, not a weakness.
As for containing it, the only containment that works is having an outlet. Work on that, and you'll have your containment.
Anonymous SAGE! 12/01/14 (Mon) 17:26:12 No. 4309
>>4289 I want to
spank you and cuddle afterwards.
Anonymous 12/02/14 (Tue) 17:31:03 No. 4379
>>4296 What a stupid fucking picture.
Confirmed autist
(USER WAS DIAGNOSED WITH AUTISM FOR THIS POST)
AverageGuy 12/02/14 (Tue) 22:54:30 No. 4393
>>4379 That's the best hentai ever tho.
Cm'On Shoot Faster!
Anonymous 12/03/14 (Wed) 10:16:56 No. 4420
>>3374 Dont fap to it. The more you fap the more you get addicted. Try to watch normal-fag porn. Even if you dont like it you will eventually come.
It is even better to completely not fap
Anonymous 12/03/14 (Wed) 12:32:56 No. 4427
>>3409 Know that feel bro.
You'd think there'd be plenty of praying mantis porn but it's oddly rare.
Anonymous 12/03/14 (Wed) 16:55:37 No. 4432
>>4427 Care to share some examples? :)
Anonymous 12/03/14 (Wed) 16:56:09 No. 4433
>>4420 dis nigga right here knows what's up
Anonymous 12/03/14 (Wed) 19:22:59 No. 4436
>>4432 I'm not even into cartoon mantii. I need them to be real but it's so difficult to find mantii in suggestive poses.
Anonymous 12/03/14 (Wed) 21:52:41 No. 4438
>>4436 Can't tell if you're serious brah
Anonymous SAGE! 12/04/14 (Thu) 03:25:26 No. 4453
Help I am attracted to vagina.
Anonymous 12/05/14 (Fri) 09:53:56 No. 4487
Guys, I kind of want to fuck my dad, what do I do? I'm serious, please help.
Anonymous 12/05/14 (Fri) 14:58:31 No. 4496
>>4487 Start fucking men who look like your dad and ask if you can call them daddy.
Anonymous 12/05/14 (Fri) 19:02:44 No. 4502
>>4438 Not this guy but i'd like to have a qt mantis gf like that.
Anonymous 12/09/14 (Tue) 06:18:09 No. 4611
>>4487 You ever fucked a man before?
Ever been fucked by a dick yourself?
Anonymous 12/09/14 (Tue) 11:56:38 No. 4623
>>4487 lol. that's disgusting. absolutely haram!!!!!
Anonymous SAGE! 03/31/16 (Thu) 22:34:55 No. 12859
>>4210
>Why is a fetish less genuine if it's discovered through internet pornography? It seems to be arguing that the only way to discover your "true" sexual preferences is to try and ignore fantasies you've developed through viewing pornography.
I thought it's just saying to only ignore porn, not any fantasies it induced. Like say, you thought you're straight but discovered gay porn turns you on and you kinda think you might want to suck dick, if after quitting you start fantasizing exclusively about women it's probably just porn that was fucking with you, if you still want to suck dick long after you quit then you're probably bi and just discovered it through porn. Same for kinks.