Anonymous 12/27/14 (Sat) 00:45:48 No. 5256
>"dating" girl >works very well >heavy feel stuff happens I start to feel numb >cant find out what it is >eventually it crashes and she goes offline >try to sleep, dreams are all over the place sweating, think I am still texting >suddenly realize that I kept every emotion out >wake up good bye message >text her hope I can explain >go out for christmas stuff, nothing >come back, nothing >now sitting here, nothing >she is still in all friendlists but mobile is off I think >as I write this my mobile flashes >grab it at the speed of light >some dude out of my school postet merry christmas >nothing, absolutely nothing every pop up I get, every light that flashes, every sound that comes up that could be a message, I jump at it only to find that it was not her… only to have my suspicion creeping up on me more, something I wont be able to deal with help
Anonymous 12/27/14 (Sat) 00:52:23 No. 5257
I dont know if it exactly fits here… it is just so on my mind, cant stop thinking about itI want to stalk just to know something for sure but I have managed to not really do it this far
Anonymous 12/27/14 (Sat) 06:48:15 No. 5266
>>5256 >>5256 We don't care about your stupid problem.
Anonymous 12/27/14 (Sat) 07:02:01 No. 5267
>>5266 Not even some kind words? Please I am doing everything but fine I barely slept and she is still offline since very early yesterday, I just want a sign that she is ok or there, anything really
Anonymous 12/27/14 (Sat) 07:16:35 No. 5268
>>5267 >>5267 Everything will be fine. Just be patient.
And even if it's not who cares? You sound like 14 year old kid with how you explained yourself.
None of this matters.
Anonymous 12/27/14 (Sat) 07:29:16 No. 5269
>>5268 I really hope it does turn out well I fear that she hurt herself badly. I greatly can't out wait the dead no matter who much I'd like to.
I care obviously even if you take a step back, the guilt remains and will so forever if I don't know she's at least still there
Yeah possible that I explained myself like a 14 year old but what does that matter? I'll move mountains to either speak to her or… Be certain
Anonymous 12/27/14 (Sat) 07:41:40 No. 5270
>>5269 Ok, can you please explain it all over again but do it in a different manor?
>works very well >heavy feel stuff happens I start to feel numb >cant find out what it is >eventually it crashes and she goes offline What is this?
Anonymous 12/27/14 (Sat) 08:07:11 No. 5271
>>5270 It's green text thought it would be a good idea for some reasons.
What happened is that I have online dated a girl for quite a while now - around 4 months now. It worked pretty well aside from some minor conflicts which I think are normal but a week ago my granddad died and I really liked this guy but for some reason I wasn't sad and at the time I was fine with it, who wants bad feelings right? But then I began to notice that I felt numb for her too and that never happened I really love her but the idiot I was I didn't connect two and two and just carried on thinking it'll be just some shit from the body or something… Until yesterday/the day before yesterday.
I was really tired and had a headache and wasn't really as sensitive as I should have been and we had a fight, well it was quite short she wrote that she really didn't like it and went offline on me which made me angry so I wrote her via mobile(I am not the person who gets extreme in this but it was probably clear what my mood was at that time). I then went offline and yesterday I woke up to a message from her how she knew she'd to back off and she thanked me for the gifts I have her for Christmas. I want to explain myself, telling her that I shut out all emotions unintentionally and that it was just a low point of mine but she hasn't been online anywhere since then but she is still in all my friend lists which is the part that worries me so much because if she truly wanted to break all contact she wouldn't be still in them. So I cling to the hope that she decided to not touch the mobile and PC for this day and is now sleeping
There how you now get a better idea
Anonymous 12/27/14 (Sat) 08:32:52 No. 5273
>>5271 Okay well if it was just a online dating type thing then it's really not a big deal.
You seem very inexperienced when dealing with peoples emotions and I would just recommend you allow a cool down period.
She will make contact with you again. Just be patient.
Anonymous 12/27/14 (Sat) 11:12:42 No. 5275
>>5273 I wouldn't call it not a big deal but in the end I could/had to live with her being ok and well but I fear something bad happened
Yes I have no experience with this what so ever I hope I don't lost her
Sorry for the delay passed out.
still nothing :/
Anonymous 12/27/14 (Sat) 17:16:13 No. 5284
Still nothing, can I panic yet?
Anonymous 01/04/15 (Sun) 08:41:59 No. 5537
>>5284 i would have. try speaking to her. if she gets offline right after, panic.
Kutgebruiker9000 01/04/15 (Sun) 10:12:06 No. 5543
>>5284 Who made this pic? Loving the artwork of this one.
Anonymous 01/04/15 (Sun) 21:44:31 No. 5582
>>5537 >panic there's no need to panic because someone isn't responding. if it's clear they don't want to talk, then it's still not hopeless.
Anonymous 01/04/15 (Sun) 21:47:46 No. 5583
>>5582 I am so fucking tired. What I mean is, that even if you lose this person, you netted them to begin with, and that's hope. You also learned something from the situation, which is improves your chances further. I know it sucks though, just try not to let it get to you too much.
if that is the case, that is