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If you fall off the wagon, get back on.

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 No.588

Relapsed on day 5 today

I did 91 days last year so I know I can do this shit. Then went through a phase of never intending to fap but idly edging, while clothed, and often going over the edge.

Told myself that I'd either fap/nofap, none of this halfway bullshit. If I'm gonna fap I'm gonna at least enjoy it. Plus know I've done the 90 day reset it seems to maintain hormone levels better if I fap every week or so.

But damn, I always slip back into this mindset:

1. I don't want to fap 'cause I like the motivation and confidence from the extra testosterone

2. But I just want to treat myself to a quick look at some (cute, innocent, clothed) girls on Tumblr blogs

Then shit escalates quickly.

 No.603

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>>588

>I just want to treat myself to a quick look at some (cute, innocent, clothed) girls on Tumblr blogs

>Then shit escalates quickly.

Then cut that out you fucking faggot, and I call you that out of respect.

If your problem is forgetting, find some way to remind yourself to stop 'slipping' up. Post-it note, or something.


 No.618

>>603

>find some way to remind yourself

I wish I could make a script that plays some blaringly loud screaming and some eye-bleeding imagery that I can't turn off every time I open a porn file/folder or a porn site.


 No.621

>>618

You kind of can. Edit the hosts file so that all porn sites get redirected to another website that you think will get rid of your urges, like

http://emergency.nofap.com/


 No.622

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>>621

how do you do that??


 No.625

>>618

>porn file/folder

You assbasket, do you mean to tell me you still have porn on your computer?


 No.626

>>603

> Post-it note, or something.

I've started leaving a small wooden cross on my keyboard any time I step away from or turn off my computer, and making sure to say a quick pray whenever I pick it back up. It's still early days, but I think it's helping.


 No.627

>>622

It's not super easy on Windows, though I think there's some tools that will do some form of blocking for you automatically.

These instructions look reasonable for doing it manually:

http://www.rackspace.com/knowledge_center/article/how-do-i-modify-my-hosts-file

You'd then list a bunch of sites like this in the file it tells you to edit (104.131.35.216 is the current IP address of emergency.nofap.com):


104.131.35.216 apornsite.com
104.131.35.215 anotherpornpage.net

It's got a couple of limitations though:

Each entry has to be a domain name (so you could block 8ch.net, but not 8ch.net/porn).

The examples I posted would block http://apornsite.com/videos/ but not http://videos.apornsite.com/, for that you'd need a separate entry for videso.apornsite.com.


 No.635

>>588

91 days is pretty impressive. My record is about a month and a half. I'm only on day 3 right now and trying to beat my record this time.


 No.936

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>>588

Posted pic in another thread but you have to cut these habits of "halfway" or "just for a bit" or "to relieve boredom" or "it's totally not porn" and recognize actions that lead to actions that you don't want to do and stop yourself. You need to find something in your life to help you advance past this gap of fap.

One thing is restricting porn, the overabundance and ease of access is too much. The male was not meant to be stimulated so! He was only meant to be activated like this when a woman whispers in his ear and puts her hand down your crotch.

Porn of course simulates this so your nature is telling you to jizz however you can. If you cut out porn then your natural urges for fap will dry up and your nature will push youto more useful/irgent endeavors ("oh it's messy better clean up!, oh i got work to do!, oh my mother is calling and she's pissed I didn't pick up!, oh john wants to play sportsball!")

You're setting yourself up for failure. the common man cannot fight nature in such a way. You are guiding your nature and pushing the right buttons and acting in a way purposefully or accidentally to make your nature scream "FAP FAP FAP NOW!" and then you feebly say "oh no I didn't want this! I dindu nuffin!"

Stop these actions that lead to actions that push your nature to push you in such a way and take control of your life anon.

"Work with the nature not against the nature"

-old fuckin jap guy


 No.938

>>936

Also if you do fap then don't use porn but use your imagination.




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