/phile/ - For those who think young.

>>5714

How have you functioned up to this point? Male, female, either way, you can't take the risk of coming out with it right away. Just treat this girl as you'd treat anyone else. If you eventually need to drop that bomb, do it when the time is right. I mean, I'm struggling with the issue of my age with a group of younger female friends. I hide it with good reason. It's connected to my story as a hebephebophile. The last girl I told my age to was the one I loved and still love, though she may now be buried under brainwashing. I haven't seen her in over a year. Obviously, I'm reluctant to share my age with anyone now, because somehow my relationship with my lgf leaked and got ripped way out of context to condemn me and ruin my life. So I'm going to have to test and tell one of the girls part of my story. I have enough of a read to believe that it's probably safe to do so, and guess what? That's the ticket. You hang out until you have enough of a read to determine if you can trust them or not.

Now, then, tell me something, too. Is it true that you can find teenage girls on Tinder? Because if it is, I need to consider that.

>>5714

What are you hoping to achieve by telling her? I understand what it's like to want to have someone who knows all about you, and still loves you, but I suspect that it's incredibly rare to find someone who will not let it change anything in your relationship. In which ways do you feel you have to hide being attracted to kids? What would you do or say differently in practice if she knew?

> I also want children, in the normal way,

why?

>>5766

Because it's our most important instinct as human beings?

>>5771

Yes, we are all animals, and all animals must reproduce to survive.

However, having a cute loli daughter should be something to strive for anyway.

>>5781

you are an animal, im antinatalist ubermensch

>>5786

Then you will probably never have loli. 😞

>>5790

im schizotypal, im afraid of people so no loli anyway

>>5795

Oh, well, that sucks.

I know these feels.

I'm in my mid-20s and it pisses me off that I've basically given up on women already. I've had tons of sexual encounters through my life but it's never been satisfying, because I'm never really into it. I pretended I wanted to "fuck all the hot bitches" basically to fit in with my friends. But I just can't bother to keep up the charade anymore.

Fortunately I don't particularly want kids, and I'm good being alone, but what worries me is what happens as I get older. I have a great social life now cuz I'm still young. But what about when everyone's paired off except for me? People's social lives seem to focus more and more on their families as everyone gets older. Right now I can be all "friends all day and loli hentai all night" but what about 20 years from now? I start freaking out when I think too much about that.

OP here - sorry it has been a while.

>>5715

>How have you functioned up to this point?

By not having girlfriends and by avoiding talking about sexual relationships with my friends because I have no experience.

>Now, then, tell me something, too. Is it true that you can find teenage girls on Tinder? Because if it is, I need to consider that.

I my area you can't. There are not many 18/19yos on it around, let alone younger girls. Either Tinder is good at moderation or young girls just don't go there. I have seen quite a few 18 yo "but i'm 13 really" girls on Badoo, however.

>>5716

> What would you do or say differently in practice if she knew?

It would be much easier if I could tell people. Otherwise there is a big mystery over why I have not had girlfriends and have so little interest in women.

>>5901

>what about 20 years from now? I start freaking out when I think too much about that.

Yup. This is my worry too. I am approaching 30 and wondering what the point is to my life.