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>I think this conversation got too all over the place if you know what I mean. Let's go back to your original problem. You asked her a favor and she procrastinated and in the end, didn't give you what exactly you were looking for. Maybe let's begin with the simple questions first.
I know thats not what you meant, but its funny:
At the beginning when i was asking questions, i asked like a few questions at once. But she always answered just the last question. Took me a while to realize that its not that the other questions were 'too private' for her to answer or something, but she always just answered the last one.
So i don't ask complicated questions anymore and never more than once.
>Did you emphasize to her that this was something very important to you and would like to get an answer from her the soonest she is able to? Because if not, she might have taken the favor you asked for, not necessarily you as a person, as something that's not urgent.
I didn't pressure the importance in any way, because it wasn't really urgent.
But it was an information that she literally could get by asking our neighbour. It feels sureal that i had to remind her two times and even after that i didn't get the information.
I just asked when a construction on my property will be done. All she had to do, was asking the neighbour - who is responsible and who didn't respond to my messages anymore.
So after two weeks, i finally got the answer:
'its not done yet'