/pol/ - Politically Incorrect

My father sucks, tbh fam, I had to learn to be a man from fictional, mythical and historical men.

My wife prefers me to not be the father for her son.

>>5296471

There seems to be a plague amount of fathers who have a tough life, make it decent, say to themselves "I want my son to have a better life than I had!", go off the deep end with coddling, and then remain surprised when their sons end up as pussies with incredibly different values.

You'd think that common sense would tell them to give their sons at least some sound real talk, discipline etc. if not the diet of cabbage and cheese crusts they grew up with on the farm.

>>5296409

If anything my father showed me what not to be. Neither of my parents really raised me or taught me anything, and my mother spoiled me constantly. Only thing I've really gotten from them is being passive aggressive. We can't even talk properly with each other.

I want to be a father myself, but I am afraid I'd be really detached as I have no real bond with anyone today. It's all pretend.

>>5296517

Sven?

Fatherhood, as it once was, is over. Society now has baby-daddies (black) biological fathers (white). Neither have any authority over their children, or rather - the mother's children. The bio dad is there for financial support until the money runs out or the mother finds a better source of funds - new daddy. If bio-daddy just becomes too damn boring for the mother, in the absence of a new-daddy (super chump), the State will provide for the child's and the mother's needs.

In all cases, the bio-daddy can be iced out of his children's lives forever with a simple false accusation to the police, domestic violence/child abuse.

You are NOT the father.

>>5296471

Same story. My father served in the army for 20+ years, but didn't give a single fuck about disciplining his own son.

>>5296540

Yep, my dad let me quit everything I ever tried as soon as I got bored with it or it became difficult, and then he was surprised when those same habits spilled over into other areas of my life like school. The thing I most regret is leaving any sports I was in when I was a little kid. I've been lifting and getting /fit/, but I'd like to be able to experience the comradeship that my friends who play on sports teams do. Plus I'm nearly 18, so I can't really just enter any sports.

My dad was and still is a protie bastard with a lot of monie that scolded me all my life for being a manlet nerd that liked Satanic shit like drawing, cartoons, drawing cartoons, legos and nintendo games.

since I was 13 I basically renounced all that bullshit and my only role model, i guess it is Satan becuse he is the only one that hates people more than I.

Inb4 edgy, that does not makes it less true.

Sup /pol/, long time lurker, seldom poster.

I am a father of a two year old - he's an only child and his mother and I love him very much. My wife and I agreed that outside death, we will always be married. Here are a few things that is right for our family:

We will seek Truth and tell him only the Truth.

We will not partake in the Easter bunny, Santa Claus, Toothfairy, etc.

I used to drink, smoke, and do all sorts of things that I regret now. Since I was married, I cleaned up my act, and only do the sort of things that he is allowed to do. When he gets older, he will know how I failed in situations and I hope that he will learn from them.

The wife and I are both vets (her in Iraq, me in Afghanistan) - I plan to teach him everything I know in regards to firearms, self-defense, etc.

My father was pretty much the same way - he is a retired cop, never divorced, and my role model.

If I had any advice to give to a father, it would be this: Kids are a direct reflection of yourself. Every way you handle yourself, verbally or non-verbally, they will become the same.

My dad died when I was 3. He borrowed money from Russians in the 90's and allegedly "killed himself" because of the debt, but we have strong suspicion that a couple of men in tracksuits may have assisted him with the suicide.

He had left my mom prior to that, and I like to believe that he left because he didn't want to put us in danger, but who knows. Mother never got together with other men and the closest thing to a father figure was probably my grandpa and maybe my uncle, although uncle didn't give a shit about me until I was old enough to understand his endless ramblings about local politics.

>>5296907

>he's an only child and his mother

That's impressive, but degenerate. :^)

Your last point is really good advice.

>>5296907

It makes me very glad to see folks like you exist, my friend.

Striving for Truth is the most noble of causes. Truth is all there is, after all. Learning to see It and live in accordance to It is the only key to a fulfilled life.

I have children, but they're all daughters. Just sort of worked out that way, but it does allow me the opportunity to help them become proper women and not coalburning whores.

A son would be nice, but I'm getting too old to be running around with babies. Perhaps I will have grandsons upon which to pass the wisdom of my father and grandfathers.

>>5296409

>Are you a father?

I'm still pretty young, we'll see what happens as I get closer to my 30s.

>What was your father like? Did you like him?

He treated me well, took me fishing at every opportunity. When I was really young he ended up dying of a heart attack. He's sort of a fading memory at this point but I remember liking him.

>>5296657

Spoken like a kid who doesn't have children.

Or a wife.

Probably just a gf on a pillow.

>>5296907

>We will not partake in the Easter bunny, Santa Claus, Toothfairy, etc.

Nah man, you've got this wrong.

Why does almost every society in the world have mythology? Because finding out the truth is far easier from stories than years of real life experience to get the same thing. That's why promoting degeneracy in the media is such a big thing - people are both consciously and subconsciously affected by it.

Anyway, stories and myths serve to relate truths and moral values that are hard to grasp otherwise.

Tooth fairy? Suffering often leads to rewards.

Santa Claus? Being good gets you ahead, being bad doesn't.

Easter Bunny? Admittedly I can't think of an explanation for this but Easter egg hunts are fun and can be educational if you do cool clues like my dad did.

So don't shy away from tales by the fireside even if they're not the 'Truth' - tell him more! Tell him the stories of Norse mythology - the story of Sol and Mani and their chariots in the sky. When he's old enough, tell him of how Odin hung himself for nine days from Yggdrasil to gain knowledge - this teaches that knowledge and truth can only be obtained by hardship and/or sacrifice.

Point is, your child will be missing out on a massive portion of the culture of our forefathers. I urge you to start reading him mythology and telling him tales.

>>5296913

What, that is the reddit tier satanism, I didnt meant to be Satanist but, Satan like, if i had an ounce of power I would go on a killing rampage sicne I hate people, specially abrahamics.

>>5297079

basically, a tiny guy with an small penis.

Not to brag lads, but my dad is pretty fucking based. Dudes been a builder for 30 years now, hes right wing (voting ukip) and i kid you not i went to visit him on the weekend he said and i quote "we need to stop this imagration stuff". I love my dad

Being a father is pretty awesome. Especially when you made a healthy handsome and intelligent blonde haired blue eyed son. Seriously, my entire existence was vindicated the moment he was born. I have been very stern but fair with him and thus far I have been getting nothing but compliments "oh wow what are you doing with your son? He is such a happy, well behaved boy! He even obeys your words exactly as you say them when you tell him to do or not do something." Basically people are amazed that my son doesnt behave like the shitty kids that liberals and cuckservatives are creating. And its simple.. I treat him as I would treat an adult. If he fucks up I let him know that he did, if hes doing well I give him tempered praise and if I see an opportunity to teach him something new I seize it.

>>5297186

you and your wife both blonde hair blue eyes or did you take a risk?

>>5296663

after disciplining your subordinates in strict military fashion and being in their shoes.. its hard to do it with your own kids. Let me tell ya punishing your kid and making him cry for a while is pretty fucking rough especially when its not a bratty cry but a 'heart broken' type of cry.

Anyone else have an overly-religious upbringing?

I was raised evangelical and I think it really helped fuck up my social skills among other things. I think evangelical christians, the kind that speak tongues and wiggle around on the floor like snakes, are actually some form of satanists. All the kids in school thought I was a weirdo (and I was thanks dad) because I was seriously into the church cult.

Not to mention when I did get a couple of friends I couldn't hang out with them outside of school because my mom thought I was going to get molested (even though it happened in my family, to my brothers too)

And girls? I wasn't allowed to even go to parties if they were hosted by girls until I was 16/17.

It was the worst form of theism that even took over little things and made me miss out on so much. Wasn't even allowed to play pokemon or go trick-or-treating. WHAT THE FUCK MAN fun=/=evil. Got a full scholarship to college and wasn't allowed to go because I got caught smoking weed with my cousin. I TRIED TO BE A GOOD KID MOM AND DAD

tl;dr

Don't be like my parents, socialize your kids early-on, talk to them about God in a healthy way don't force it on them, and allow them to enjoy their lives.

I love my dad but he was a weak pussy.

He didn't teach me anything. Cars, money, girls, life. I had to figure everything out on my own.

Not to mention lacking that strong masculine presence of respect in my life. Learning respect takes a long time. My life has been cushy but lacking in real depth and warmth. I had to learn that myself.

I taught myself almost everything I know. All the meaningful things I had to struggle to pick up by forcing myself to do so.

My father was a fucking pussy bitch who watched and did nothing while countless people shit on me.

Doctors, teachers, coaches, family members, police, bullies….. all these people constantly fucked up my shit and he didn't do a fucking thing.

I've spent a good portion of every day I've been alive contemplating suicide because the one person who was always supposed to have my back literally let me get abused by every evil person in society. He sat there and watched me get bullied and would basically say "Man, that was completely fucked up! But I can't do anything about it. Sorry. Those people are more powerful than me and I have to go play some golf"

That faggot fuck had 1000 opportunities to stand up for me and every single fucking time he just stood and watched while I was traumatized. If I was ever raped he would have invited the rapist into my house and said "Hey, this guy wants to apologize and then we can all move on. No charges need to be pressed. No dicks need removed."

He insults me even today by constantly blowing up my phone and leaving voicemails like "hey it's dad, give me a call, why aren't you answering? I didn't do anything, I was always there for you"

Fuck our fathers. They let this shit happen. We can be real men like our grandfathers and fix this shit but the baby boomers were the most cucked generation ever and deserve hell for selling us out. Go talk to any baby boomer father about fixing any severe problem in the world. "Oh, well what's that gonna fix? That's just one problem. It's alrght, i mean we still have x y and z. We will just let the jews take this one."

Most useless cucked group in human fucking history. Ever wonder why all these faggots get cancer? Because they let evil take over. They literally sold their own children to the devil. Now they are getting their punishment.

I feel that a very good topic of discussion, relating to fatherhood, is motherhood.

In today's world more than ever, the importance of motherhood can not be overlooked.

Raising a child in a functional, loving family is extremely important for the child's development and will have life-lasting effects on thinking patterns and social behavior.

Which brings me to a stunning realization:

In today's world, it is quite possibly much harder to find a red-pilled, morally-sound female companion than it is to actually raise a child.

Thoughts?

>>5296727

My father was all about himself and viewed me as a hindrance to his success. He always dai;Ed in life, never following through on his businesses, never making enough money, leaving me and my mom when I was 12 to live with his mistress and basically raise her kid.

I only got to know him at the age of 26 as an adult. He pretends to care and shit, but then hits me up for money.

My mom was too lenient and I lacked focus. I realized this in college when my dad visited me and said I would;d never amount to anything because I was "left handed" and "left handed people are weird." I was like: "WTF? Fuck you."

I got a 4.0 GPA after he said that and hated him for being a bitch. It's like I get motivated and prove his bitch-ass wrong.

I hated myself because I felt like I was the reason for his failures. Like, he invented a product that got ripped off and it became popular in the US. He is so butthurt over that.

My life changed when I started reading The Art of War and then books generals like Patton and MacArthur.

Basically has to teach myself self-discipline and regain self esteem.

He was kind of a nigger-tier father.

My father is a good guy, raised on a farm, served in the Gulf War

Never too relaxed nor too firm, but supportive and hard working

He owns his own business now too

Couldnt be better honestly

>>5296907

Good luck m80

>>5297321

I'm going to take this opportunity to chime in on… the importance of a healthy diet!

Evil manifests itself in our reality throughout our day to day life.

Thus, by allowing ourselves to become completely cucked when it comes to health and nutrition thanks baby boomers!, we suffer from plague of incurable diseases such as cancer and mental disorders.

How does this happen? It's very simple really: Your body is like a computer, the data that you put in is reflected in output.

Food and water are data.

In order for our bodies to function the way they were designed, they must be fueled by other things that are also in their natural state.

Our bodies do not interact well with the large quantities of artificial compounds that are added by man in pretty much everything.

So here you have your computer, and all you're doing is using internet explorer with a million toolbars and clicking all the jankiest "you win!" ads, and downloading MadMaxFurryRoad.exe files all the while being a smug faggot because you just paid $199.99 for norton anti-virus.

Is it any wonder why you inevitably get the blue screen of death?

tl;dr start eating organic, stop drinking pop and eating white bread, stop putting poison into your body and it will react accordingly.

At least do it for your children.

>>5297547

Any advice for picky eaters? It might have come from me being spoiled as a kid, but there is a lot of things I can't eat without puking it right up. I have found a diet that works for me where I get what I need, but it makes me eat pretty much the same things every day, and I am afraid it wouldn't work when I start a family.

>>5297694

Don't worry about picky eaters. It's a sign that he won't swallow everything spoon fed to him.

>>5296907

>We will not partake in the Easter bunny, Santa Claus, Toothfairy, etc

That's just cruel. Weird too.

I'd respect my father a whole lot more if he wasn't so soft. He bends his back over nonstop for my sister when it comes to college finances. There was also my mother who went batshit, and it felt like an eternity to remove her and then a kinda stepmom that came into our family's life that was either crazy to begin with or he didn't keep her in check. Now I have a half-brother in another house because she wanted to move and her crazy dog who was going to be put to sleep unless my father took him in because the mutt bit her son. The best part? She was the one who adopted it knowing full well that the dog is "special." She then went on to adopt two more dogs after dumping the creature on him. Apparently says she wants to assimilate them, but ZERO progress has been made on that. I'm not asking him to be perfect, but even when I bring up his "mistakes" in context of the conversation, I swear. or how terrible she is, I get some pansy, hand wave tier response from him. There's more to fatherhood than just being a breadwinner. Sadly, I've learned this later rather than sooner.

When it comes to who I look up to, I don't even know anymore, it doesn't feel like there are any strong men in my life. I've just been taking bits and pieces of successful attributes of whoever, be they some blog writer or a random father on the street and just try to incorporate it and heaven help me if I need to do some heavy reprogramming for the billionth time. Not knowing what to do is useful, but that seems to only do so much.

Hopefully we're still at the beginning of the resurgence of masculinity, demoralization and environmental fuckery has got a lot of us good. We have the potential to be the best fathers in the world if we overcome the madness that is our world, we can secure a future for our kids. It would be the bee's knees if I could tell my grandkids that I once lived in a world where my generation had no future and was not free and maybe teach him why whatever kind of stupidity going around in the future is a bad idea.

I still don't have kids, but will have at least 2.

I spend a lot of time with my nephews, and "practice" being a father with them, although it's impossible if you're not really the father. But since their parents are very soft with them, it's been interesting being both a strict yet fun uncle to them.

It's been working wonders for almost about some 6 years already. When talking about ordinary things, I always try to use one or another rare word they wouldn't hear otherwise so they ask me "what does X mean?" and learn something new out the blue.

When something happens that other adults would just explain with lies, underestimating their intelligence, I'll take my time to explain in a simpler way but still teach them the truth of it - be it death, love, jobs, money, whatever topic.

If they behave improperly, I'm strict with them without even raising my voice, and they are a lot more disciplined around me than they are with their parents.

Interestingly enough, they like me a lot. This last weekend one of them asked me if he could live with me and my gf in our home.

Kids want to have adults paying attention to them, but not just praising them, but making them learn about the world and what they'll need to be able to make it through hard times, when they grow up. I think it's an instinct, at least I had that when I was a kid.

But I am mixed race.

>>5297321

Just fucking kill him already.

>>5297321

Just fucking kill him already….

>>5296907

>We will not partake in the Easter bunny, Santa Claus, Toothfairy, etc.

Don't be an asshole, anon

>>5298728

> I always try to use one or another rare word they wouldn't hear otherwise so they ask me "what does X mean?" and learn something new out the blue.

I have two nephews but they never ask what a specific word is unless I use a word as part of my vocabulary daily or explaining what everyday objects do and how it works

The fact that I turned out to be kind of a pussy is not my fathers fault in my opinion and I think everyone ITT shouldn't blame their fathers either for becoming a fuck-up.

>>5297082

this

I have my first son being born in 6 months and I plan to teach him all the old norse mythologies. Those stories are damn interesting and entertaining for kids.

better that than the shit on TV

>>5299007

That's a common argument, but this thread is about identifying mistakes and correcting them. If you are blaming and stagnating, I Don't think you'd find much disagreement that's unhealthy.

>>5297368

> leaving me and my mom when I was 12 to live with his mistress and basically raise her kid.

>He pretends to care and shit, but then hits me up for money.

> I would;d never amount to anything because I was "left handed" and "left handed people are weird.

kek, what a shitty dad

21 year old, Generation Y fuckhead here. Sorry if this comes off as a blog post, this thread just really hits home with me right now.

I had a good relationship with my father during my childhood until I was about 8 and he just left overnight. I would only see him from time to time after that, and the more I talked to my mother about it the more she would just try to convince me he was a terrible person. Every time I'd go to his place, I'd meet a new woman that he was dating and I'd just be a feminized faggot-ass momma's boy about it and get jealous that he was with anyone besides my mom.

A few years ago my frustration of growing up without a dad around hit its peak and I didn't talk to him for a little over 3 years. I recently started talking to him again, we had some drinks at a bar, and hashed things out. When I found out the full story, I felt so fucking guilty for hating him, since I would've done the same things he did.

Long story short, he got laid off when he was working wall street, just around the time of the housing bubble as well, so he was left with no money. My mom told him that she, nor any other woman, would love him if he didn't have money to his name and started cheating. Didn't sleep with him for 2 years and one night brought him divorce papers. My father, inexperienced in the subject, and being an immigrant (white, don't worry) who couldn't speak much English just signed whatever. He got no fault divorced, kicked out of the house, got forced to pay alimony even though she made more money than him at the time, and considered becoming an hero for a while. And after years of trying to find a new woman to no avail, my brainwashed ass stopped talking to him for years.

I feel like a total prick, and I can't take back my past now. Nor will I be able to have a father teach me how to be a man in my life, I just had to learn myself all this time. I partially blame the fact that I grew up in the generation with the most volatile marriage laws ever.

Take note, guys, my generation is fucked. A wide majority of us had to grow up with either no fathers around or very bluepilled, feminized fathers. I would pinpoint this as one of the biggest reasons that there are so many retarded cuck millenials now. It's a real shame. Thank fucking goodness I discovered /pol/.

>>5299194

>8 years old around housing bubble (2008)

>Is 16 right now

> Claims 21

> Has drinks at a bar

>Father is White immigrant working on Wall Street and can't speak English

MGTOW fag GTFO!

>>5297694

As long as you're getting your macros I wouldn't worry about it.

>>5299007

I think you should shut the fuck up.

>>5297321

>We can be real men like our grandfathers and fix this shit but the baby boomers were the most cucked generation ever and deserve hell for selling us out.

My pussy liberal dad has 'horror stories' of how my Granddad believed "Gays should be taken behind the shed and shot", and that he didn't trust the Blacks he worked with in the Ice cream factory because when the management wasn't looking they would all "skim some off of the top" of the ice cream containers.

Grandad handled all of the finances, worked a series of odd jobs to support his family for the majority of my Dad's childhood, served in the Navy in the '50s, quit smoking cold turkey early in his marriage and was a committed success story from Alcoholics Anonymous for 35 years.

He died when I was in elementary school, but all my memories of him were him taking time out of his visits to play with me and my siblings. I'm glad he wasn't around for my dipshit liberal phase, but I would give anything to talk with him now, one last time.

I miss you, Pappy

>>5299444

Nice dub-trips bro

>>5299320

Stock market crash of 2000 fits his story, and it was when the housing bubble got big. It fits.

Father not be around + over protective mother + shitty "no child left behind" education policy = shit upbringing.

No matter how rich you are.

>>5299194

>Take note, guys, my generation is fucked. A wide majority of us had to grow up with either no fathers around or very bluepilled, feminized fathers. I would pinpoint this as one of the biggest reasons that there are so many retarded cuck millenials now. It's a real shame. Thank fucking goodness I discovered /pol/.

It started a bit before your generation, but yours has been hit the hardest.

>>5296657

Almost all of us want families, but to everyone else, remember that ignoring reality is the figurative bluepill.

>>5297079

Says the guy with just daughters.

I know it's outside your control, but I wonder why so many people here using their families as an example have mostly girls?

>>5299320

Alright. Believe me or don't, I don't give a shit. I wouldn't put that much effort into a post simply to lie.

Also

>MGTOW fag GTFO

Nigger, please. You're trying way too hard to fit in.

>>5299538

>It started a bit before your generation

What onset this trend exactly - what started this ridiculous divorce culture? If I had to guess it would be with Reagan's no fault divorce shit, but I feel like it has to be more than just that.

>>5299481

Yep, pretty much half of gen Y dealt with this shit. And then you have foam boi lubio saying that the millennials can potentially be the best generation of Americans ever produced. What a crock of shit.

My fathers parents died when he was young, so he was raised amongst his three sister. Where he studied in Sweden with the youngest one (a few years apart).

He is not an authority at all. It is all on my mothers terms, and I assume it was like that when he studied in Sweden too. Just goes along with others expectations and have no real opinion about anything.

So naturally, I got all that too. Conflict-shy, timid, ashamed. I wasn't actively raised. Fuck sake, I just had my nutriment-needs met, and that's it.

And somehow I should be shamed for being a fuckup now. How I lack dreams, ambition, while consonantly hearing what kind of a fuck-up I am in terms of external factors.

"Chasing virtues" doesn't provide money. You can't "show" happiness, joy or shit like that.

Guess ma mama taught me good :^) .

My father thought it was better to not take an authoriative figure, and rather leave things be and wait for mother take the fight. Now, my mother, being a woman, has its biological faults for taking the father role.

And saying this, I'm the ungrateful one. I'm the one choosing to have a fucked up life. I'm the one choosing my situation and all that. But god forbid I choose to look up to a traditionally manly man (Trump in this case), that deserves shame.

So I'm supposed to either be shamed for choosing wrong, or choose from a select few whose degenerate.

I don't know what to do. It's all so abstract to solve it. It's like I'm the only somewhat sane amongst the insane.

>>5299538

>Says the guy with just daughters.

4 daughters, yep.

A lot of my peers are having mostly daughters. Maybe it's something they put in the milk when we were in elementary. Some bizarre chemical experiment in the 1970s to turn an entire generation into women.

>>5299625

Families split up pretty bad in the 80s and 90s here. Feminism. Maybe incentives changed for women getting divorces then, dunno. There was no shaming probably because feminism had really absorbed by then.

>>5299700

I was thinking environment or something, or maybe women are more likely to stay with the father when they don't have boys? More masculine guys and higher-status usually have more sons. Might relate: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Trivers%E2%80%93Willard_hypothesis

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2614476/

Need more time to read up.

I wouldn't say it if you weren't being a snarky bitch and bashing on guys with fucked up families, but most us really aren't interested in raising more women. We know how they will turn out until society changes. I want children, but if I knew I was only going to end up with girls I would go full mgtow.

>>5299874

>More masculine guys and higher-status usually have more sons.

[citation needed]

Especially since you know nothing about me, nor my masculinity, nor my status.

>>5299511

These two always get me.

I'm an only child. My dad's pretty good to me. Often lets me do my own thing but gets protective now and again. Stopped drinking as soon as I was born. The only thing that I never really liked was during my childhood he was obese. When I was halfway through high school he got that whole stomach shrink surgery or whatever and lost a shit ton of weight. He got it because the doctors said he wouldn't live to see me graduate high school if he didn't get his shit together. Made me feel like I missed out on alot of fun stuff. Same with his age. Him and my mother were 38 when I was born. There's a few things I'd do different if I was a parent. But I like to think I'd be as caring as he is, but without showing too much emotion. I want to be stern but loving. I plan on having a big white family. Several children since I'm an only kid. I want to instill big family values into my family, a set family meal even after they're all grown up. I'm only in my early 20s, but I want to make sure I keep my bloodline going and keep it going strong. I just pray they don't have any disabilities like epilepsy. Nothing would make me feel as shameful as passing my disability to my kids. Hopefully they're all boys. Anyways, that's my shitpost of the day.

>>5299914

>You don't know me *snaps fingers*

But I can guess, since >>5297079 you resort to feminized shaming language. I fully admit I might be wrong, I need to do some hunting to provide anything but anecdotes, and I know statistics doesn't prove anything about an individual.

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/15748918/ is about brain types, not testosterone I believe. Could someone remind of the website to get studies from behind paywalls?

I do know that I have never met a guy proud of living in a houseful of women that I either respected or envied.

My father is a fucking cuck, his father was a comunist and my father was indoctrinated by him in his chilhood, although my father is more right wing, he is just fucked up because of his father. Also he has anger problems, and he had never do thing with my or my brother, and he had never say nothing good about us when we was kids… And he is unemployed because he is a lazy man and my mother sustains him, really pathetic. I was a fucking pussy till I have 16-18 years.

>>5296727

Trust me it isn't that bad.

Just play Recreationally your friends and lift.

I played pro academy soccer as a teen, and travel baseball and tennis as a kid and hated just about all of my teammates.

How am I supposed to be a father in current year when people my age have no social mobility, can barely leave parents house and buy a home, and even if we do so, have to work twice as hard as our grandparents for half the wages which barely cover living standards?

>>5300192

>>5300192

>a guy proud of living in a houseful of women

They're my kids, you nitwit. This is how I know that what I said in >>5297079 is right on the mark.

I don't live in a house full of women. I live in a house with my children and my wife.

>>5300853

>I don't live in a house full of women. I live in a house with my (4 female) children and my wife.

Like I said, I don't envy you. >>5296657 wasn't me.

>I grew up with a weak father who imprinted alot of things I really hate about myself

I think that's the norm for anyone raised after ww2. There's too many "yes dear" types

I have a newborn daughter. Being a father is the greatest feeling of all time, and that is coming from someone who is basically emotionally retarded and dead inside. I contemplate her future non stop

KIDS ARE MEANT TO BE RAISED BY GRANDPARENTS! NOT PARENTS!

You guys who seem to hold resentment towards your fathers, do realise that one of the hardest things as a father, is letting your son do his own mistakes and struggle (and in turn grow stronger from the failures).

Beyond teaching the fundamentals of being a man, the one thing a man has to figure out is to struggle and figure out what it actually takes to grow up to be a man. Look at you all, hanging on /pol here, you're on your way and many of you basically already are better men than 90% of the male population.

This wouldn't have happened if your father "stood up for you". You can't lean on your father like a shield for you when you enter your teenage years. That's only going to make you grow up being a faggot and being weak.

Struggle doesn't make you weak.

>>5301807

I don't agree. A dad who doesn't teach a kid how to defend himself against bullies isn't helping, even though we would agree that the dad has to let the kid fight for himself. A dad who refuses to stand up to authority figures (doctors, teachers, cops) is a terrible example. All that a kid can learn from that is to spot those people, and maybe say to themselves 'I will never be weak like that.' My dad standing up for me about things way outside of my control are part of why I am not afraid to stand up for myself now, I have his example.

Struggle is not abuse. And abuse doesn't make people strong, it's how they are taught, or learn on their own, to respond to problems that makes them strong.

>>5302498

> boomer hate

Boomers are approaching 70+. My parents are boomers and I'm in my 40s. You sure you're blaming the right generation? Boomers were the 60s hippie bitches.

>>5297186

great job man. i know that feel.

>>5297207

good chance the kid will have brown hair: both my kids were blondie blonde tip 8-9, now they have brown hair like me. perhaps the lad will have a blonde beard like his old man (blonde redemption)

>>5302530

my folks were born in 46 - first boomers. will be 70 this year. math, my friend, math.

>>5301468

nigger detected

>>5302553

Just makin' sure, bro. Don't get upset.

we coo we coo

I had no father.

>never knew my father

>grew up without one

>he shaved my head and left one day and never came back

>>5296677

God damn-it, why are you me?

Jesus fuck /pol/, the penny just dropped

We're the first sizable generation in the history of the world to have to raise ourselves

This explains so much.

>>5297288

This, my dad is a great guy, nice, willing to lend a hand, etc. I go pretty far out of my way for him any chance I get.

My dad just never reeally stood up to my overbearing (and frankly terrifying) mother. The divorce was not a shocker to anyone.

I hate that I think this way, but despite all of his goodness I had to figure out how to be a man myself and go between worrying about not being assertive enough to worrying I'm too overbearing.

I love him, but kind of hate him sometimes by accident. For God's sake, he called my stepdad "sir" one time. He believes in 'fairness' about these niggerriots even though he knows the truth of the story. But on the other hand, he's been nothing but good to me.

>>5306456

Haha, just figured it out?

No better time if it had to happen though, we're the first generation with access to the entire history of humanity.

>>5307498

>Looking back my childhood really lacked and I feel it was wasted despite living comfortably.

Our parents gave us everything but a reason to live. So we found our own.

Or are finding. Mine is space, I want my prodigy to meet ayylmaos, compare mythologies. Hopefully we can put the puzzle pieces together and figure out what the bigger picture is.

Another person with a vet dad here and hes a fucking mess. Barely in any psychological condition to raise children. All he did was yell at us and basically was raised by mother, yet again.

She tried really hard, I don't blame her. I think compared to many people here, I had it pretty good.

Raising children is a two person job. One side for men, one side for women, none of this gay/lesbian bullshit. When one side doesn't pull their weight, things go wrong.

Suddenly the flower children, drug-using, hippies have kids, and are self-absorbed shitters, and we get the stories here.

My best advice is to watch old videos and movies about raising kids. They exist and you'll probably have to dig for them. Stuff from maybe the 50s. Maybe we can undo all this mess.

>>5307993

I've always been good with children, and this is gonna sound dumb, but really simple logic and some empathy goes a long way.

>>5296907

>We will not partake in the Easter bunny, Santa Claus, Toothfairy, etc.

>No fun allowed

>only one child

>women

>combat

You've failed already.

>>5306927

and the first generation with unlimited access to all the perversions and corrupted morals that belong solely on the internet. Children who are gullible will soak it all up and it is ruining them.

>>5308907

True, but there is a silver lining.

For instance, how many anons here were full on /d/? How many went to the most extreme of fetishes before realizing "no, I'm not attracted to the shitting dick nipples, I'm attracted to her"? Where hand-holding and missionary position does more than a gangbang ever could.

Soak it all in, let it all out.

>>5309183

I'm not confidant I know the crossposting so http://8ch.net/hgg/res/10278.html

I have looked upon the abyss, the end of all fetishes, and it is fatherhood. That is the lewdest of the lewd.

My father is a good man but he has always considered himself to be stupid because he never went to college. He is a traditional fixer/builder/plumber/electrician with loads of skills but never wanted to teach those skills.

My mother is a teacher and took over most of the "teaching" portion of child raising while he deferred to her judgement.

This left me conflict shy and highly liberal with tons of social difficulties. The first time i saw real masculine pride in his eyes was when I finally fought back against a tormentor in high school. This clicked for me that everything I knew about being a man was a female driven fantasy. It took me years (with plenty of help from /pol) to turn my life around.

Now i have begun redpilling my father and he is much more willing to share his fatherly advice seperate from my mothers sensibilities.

Boys raised solely on the advice of women cannot become men.

I thought I did.

>>5296409

My father was a huge failure, retarded libfag, beta, who got a PhD and worked, then went into 'depression' and had some kind of injury issues for basically his entire life thereafter, tried to essentially brainwash myself and my sister into hating my hardworking mother after she divorced him for being such a fucking hunk of shit.

More or less the opposite of those MGTOW stories, actually. I still think feminism is retarded, I just also think that if my mother hadn't been brainwashed by it, she would have found a real man instead of a sack of shit.

I want to be an actual father for my children. One who won't raise them into ethnomasochistic faggots like everyone else.

>>5307695

>Our parents gave us everything but a reason to live. So we found our own.

What a strong thought.

>dad is 40 years older than me so I could never relate to him at all

>he never exercised, didn't care about sports, smoked and drank while telling me to do as he said not as he did

My dad's okay I guess. He's never been exactly a deadbeat but neither has be been inspirational about anything.

My Dad did a lot of good for me, but his inane temper set a rift between us for a long time.

He pushed me into sports like, wrestling, football, and baseball; I didn't care for that at the time, but it taught me a lot about competition, pushing yourself, and fighting.

My main problem with my father is that he has always gotten vehemently upset about non-issues and then I, in turn, get upset at him as well. He is a good guy, and I love him very much.

My dad was extremely up my ass about everything I did until I was, like, 9.

I of course bucked and resented his controlling influence, so after that he got all bitter, and pretty much turned his back on me all throughout my teenage years.

He just wanted me to excel, because he felt like a failure. I realize that now.

From this, I've learned that you have to always be there for your sons, but you also have to give them their space and let them choose their own path. You can't live their lives for them.

My own father redpilled me. He told me a story about when he was in the Navy back in the 1970s. He was on a destroyer that was called in during the Iran hostage crisis (the university one).

At some point he was in Pakistan, went to a bar where he drank "the nastiest fuckin beer I ever tasted". He met a Muslim man there and had a conversation that shook me awake. The man said "one day a great Muslim will rule over the United States"

My dad and the man both started laughing, then fhe man kind of slowed down his laugh and gave a "knowing smile"

I've never shared this story before, but the way he told it really shook me to my core.

My father was overall a great dad, but did leave something to be desired for my brother and I. Excellent in way of caring and setting a good example but he really didn't teach my brother and I very many practical things and was very passive.

That said his passiveness wasn't all bad, he acts as quite a nice foil to my very fiery mother, being the voice of reason.

He is the quintessential science teacher, always absorbed in some specialized study or grading tests and homework. Sometimes I wish he had pushed me harder in sports or scouting or martial arts instead of letting me quit. Thankfully he did push me to learn as much as I can and to always question things. How thankfully I am for the gift of skepticism.

I hope to emulate his youth, eschewing women his age to pursue his own interests and eventually settling down in his 30's with a wife a decade his junior.

He's 60 this year and I hope he retires from teaching soon. Between shit school districts and shittier students it really does wear him down. Besides, 40 years is long enough for a career.

>>5301807

>Struggle doesn't make you weak.

Missed the point

>You guys who seem to hold resentment towards your fathers, do realise that one of the hardest things as a father, is letting your son do his own mistakes and struggle (and in turn grow stronger from the failures).

With at least some support of some kind. Learning after a mistake requires guidance. Fathers are supposed to step in and prevent terrible things while teaching lessons about the bad.

I never had one. I was raised by a (very shitty) single mother. Being subjected to her childish behavior and permanent entitlement redpilled me on women by the time I was a teenager.

My father was a man's man who taught me the value of hard work, how to be a good man, and he gave me a sense of duty. I remember, for example, when he took me to work delivering bouncy houses one summer, we had to carry a heavy ass one back to the truck, and I basically pussied out on my side: I don't know how the fuck he pulled it off, but he got a surge of strength and did the whole damn thing by himself because it had to be done. The only thing I dislike about my father is that he cheated on my mother when he was younger, he was a little shit back then.

The more I grow, the more I become like my father. What's more, I understand the mistakes of my father and can work to avoid them to become, I hope, a greater man to my kids. As it stands now, if my girlfriend and I were to conceive tomorrow, I think I would make a good father. I certainly am a good role model to my nieces and nephews.

>>5309445

Funny thing is I have a friend who's dad wasn't around so he was raised by all women. Super nice guy, not traditionally masculine but funnily enough he gets laid all the time. I guess he just knows all about talking to chicks since he was pretty much raised by them

my father left my mother before I knew how to speak, so I only know him with his wife. I always hated being around her and her family, it's like he hid his true face when he was near her. this alone fucked with me as a kid to the point I stopped seeing him for a number of years. whenever she wasn't around everything was fine, got to build, shoot, learn fun shit, talk about neat things, but as soon as she was near I was suddenly treated like the unwanted bastard child and only got worse when they started having kids, to this day it's the same and it infuriates me.

my half brother recently quested why I was around, why dad isn't with my mother, both of these at the table with everyone around. froze up and had to deflect the questions, it killed the mood and got awkward for a while after that.

he could have been a much much MUCH better father, but he didn't. never called me unless it was important on his end, like cutting child support. that was the only time he ever called to talk about school with me, is when he could cut child support due to my semester break. still pisses me off to this day. he's a smart man that I could have learned a lot from but he's a thoroughbred smug asshole.

my mother tried her best as a single mother(that can only go so far), i do thank her for not dragging strange men into our life, who knows how bad that could have ended. I've seen how fucked up some of my childhood friends became that had multiple different "step dads"

bump

>>5312946

Holy shit. Anecdotally sounds like my father.

I swear, my father exists solely as a n orbiter to my mom. At least before he had a not-to-cool job to go to during the day, but then he got fired. He just sits around at home doing not much. And around 30 minutes before my mother gets home, he does "correct" stuff, to make it seem like he has been doing constructive shit all day. And tasks are exagurated to get my moms approval for how he spent his day.

And I'm a copy of that, but I can't say that, because that's suddenly my choosing to be a fuck-up.

Why were most of our fathers so fucked?

>>5315260

Overbearing religious parents in an increasingly community-less society. When everything is in motion an anchor of morality can cause more harm than good. Thus, they cut the anchor. They might not say so, but like a cuckservative they will bend and give ground on issues one should be firmly against.

Often both parents have to work to pay off usury, this puts them on equal footing for providing for the family.

So many distractions that the joy of a family comes only after Seinfeld, beer brewing, CoD.

Children are a drain on resources to fuel the distractions. The more children, the less distractions.

The whole concept of "not my place to-" is now ingrained in our culture. Apply this to anything your father didn't stop or initiate that you felt he should have. "Not my place to force religion on my child". "Not my place to determine his schooling". "Not my place to tell him how to use his money". etc. More often than not the mother has a whole other concept of this, and will suggest or guilt trip one into the path they prefer.

They really are unaware of it. Watch Rebel Without a Cause for the prime example of a beta husband.

>>5296471

I know that feel bro. My father had the family as the priority but couldn't see the forest for the trees. He got caught in the materialist trap, that is, he worked hard to provide but did not set and activity teach amoral, ethical, spiritual standard to his children. There was the assumption that this element would fall into place as long as the material was taken care of. I learned more from reading the oddesy etc.

He came to me a few years ago and said, yeah now I realize how families really work and build wealth. He had enough time among the Chinese doing business after the army to realize some of what we as a people have forgotten.

On the downside, he found other things amongst the chink and flip women. Shit tier taste pops. Shit tier. At least it wasn't niggers.

>>5296604

Ok, what the fug is with the previous generation (born in mid 50s to early 60s) and passive aggressiveness?

>>5297694

Add spices? What is it that you are picky about?

>>5296409

At this point Im not sure what to think of my father. While I do love him, he's been pretty fucking useless most of the time. I was born out of wedlock, but him and my mom always kept contact with each other. When I was eight, my mom ended up doing hard drugs and ended up involved with a gangster. So I was taken away, and a little while latter my mom moved to the other side of the country (I visit her on occasion, she has her shit together now). My dad was supposed to take care of me, but he just left me with his parents while he attended a business course in school. Before he went to school, if my mom's word is to be trusted, he just wasted his life partying all of the time. Our only father and son bonding was watching movies and playing video games together. We beat Castle Crashers together and it's one of my fondest memories with him. When I lived with my grandparents, he was so busy that he could only visit every other weekend. We rarely have and real father-son conversations, just small talk about video games, movies, and "How is your X doing?". The only things he taught me where my manners, honor, and how to hide weed from my grandma. He's currently living with his buddy and working three different jobs, a bar tender, a manager of a game's shop him and his buddy opened, and as the general manager of a bike shop his buddy owns.

I could write an essay's worth on how fucked my upbringing was, but I don't really feel like it. I'll answer any questions if you feel like asking them, I've got time to kill.

>>5297082

Totally agree. I'm raising my kids in a pretty orthodox Christian faith that doesn't celebrate Christmas or Easter, but those holidays and traditions are dear to me and I want them to have the same joy and sense of wonder I had growing up. Plus I think traditions are an important pillar of society. My wife used to not give a rip and I had to do everything, decorating the house, buying and decorating the Christmas tree, taking my daughter trick or treating but now shes on board. I think she realizes the importance now

For most of life I had no interest in raising children, but thanks to /pol/ and the reality of white genocide I want at least three; preferably daughters.

My dad was an alcoholic and when he sobered up he left my mom. He was never really in my life and was barely involved with my older brother's life. Thank goodness I had my grandfather to fill the void. My mother did the best she could, but she could only do so much.

We need good men and great fathers more than anything else in this world.

>>5316071

>wanting daughters

numale detected

your genes are so weak, you know that any sons you have wouldn't stand a chance having children as it's easier for even ugly women to find husbands.

>>5315495

>By the way, guess what happened to my dad? He left my mom 1 year ago for this other woman who he was fucking on the side. She's got kids in their teens and now he's playing house with this new family at the final lap in his life. She walks all over him too, he's basically a bitch. The best part is HER HUSBAND lives with them and pays my dad rent. Can you believe the cuckoldry going on there? FUUUUCK.

Your dad is basically repeating what his father did. Glad to see you broke the cycle anon.

Intelligentt men are monogamous and invest a lot in their kids and wife. Congrats on your conquests and good luck conquering more and more as you go.

>>5316071

I was the same way, I didn't want kids, but I read a book that basically red pilled me on demographics and how fucked the situation is. It totally changed my mind and I made sure the woman I married was on board with having a big family. We're having our 2nd child this June. We want 4 kids but MAN this shit ain't easy, anon. It is pretty awesome though, being a dad and sort of righting all the wrongs of your own childhood

>>5316109

Jesus, what kind of lame motherfuckers think Bernie is cool?

That brings up another point

Why were our fathers/parents so lame?

The "lame" dad wasn't a thing till what the 70s?

There was assertive and un-hip, but the rise of the beta 'yes dear' father is recent.

Thought I'd point out TRS has a podcast made by fathers talking about this kind of stuff

episodes:

https://radio.therightstuff.biz/author/fatherland/

forum thread:

https://forum.therightstuff.biz/topic/28/the-fatherland-discussion-thread/

>>5316245

I can only speculate.

I think some of it had to do with WWII, and a lot of man-men died, so it was up to the women and beta cucks to make society function meanwhile.

And since the West was on the right side of history, it was ripe to be subversed.

On top of that, more and more jobs were externalized (I don't know if this is some official term). So father and son could no longer bond when doing practical things. You hire a plumber, you hire a mechanic (no need to drag your kid with you for that shit), you pay for a new vacuum cleaner and so on. Less fixing, more consuming.

As part of the technological advancement, consumer technology increased fast. Kids grew up with electronic gadgets their parents didn't have. So it created a (big) wall between what a father could actually teach.

Would a 12 year old rather work on the car, or be engulfed in flashy colors from the screen while eating candy.

The food-thing is another big deal, my parents talk of a time where they got one 0.33 l of coke on a saturday weekend, to watch whatever weekly show they sent on the telly. This is not something I had the "joy" of experiencing. 12 liters of coke costs like $10 or whatever. And your father wants you to have it better, so they don't want to deny you the joy of the coke, like they had to endure.

>>5299511

My fucking heart.

>>5297090

If anyone wants to know the ACTUAL truth about satanism, instead of the standard jew spread lies, you might want to go here: www.joyofsatan.org

My father wasn't there for me, but I don't blame him.

He wanted our family to be well off, so he worked his ass off overseas. I saw him may be two weeks a year growing up. He sent home around 10k USD a month, which my bi-polar mother pissed away.

He trusted my mom to raise us properly, which she completely failed to do. You know who raised me? Batman. I grew up watching the old cartoons and got my sense of right and wrong from the caped crusader.

He's raised the topic before. He told me his biggest regret was not being there for us when we were growing up, but I forgive him because I understood his reasoning and the circumstances.

>>5320704

Anon, that you want to walk away from it all is exactly the reason you need to stay.

Tell him you have your reasons and if he'd be willing to listen you will tell him. Hell, if he is as chill as he sounds tell him about us.

Otherwise sell yourself to the military. One, it doesn't sound like you have any plans ahead and lets face it, you won't be missing anything of value. Two, you might get closer to him and understand where he is coming from.

Also, if a coworker of mine's experience is repeatable, brewing your own beer makes you drink less. It's a nice hobby that is easy to get into but is incredibly deep in nuance, and some psychological trickery makes you not want to drink it all.

>>5320751

We really are a lucky ass lot to have the most moral oriented cartoons every Saturday morning. In the long run him and Supes will have converted more to Christianity than any saint in history.

Mostly inspired from historical leaders, notably Churchill, Mao, Mussolini, Omar Bradley, Patton, Alexander the Great and Napoleon. The greatest lesson I've learned from all these great men was to keep on going, no matter the adversity. Continue despite failures. Seek greatness. Seek purpose.

>>5308990

Very true, eventually we did grow up and mellow out.

I used to support gay rights and be a neet, but those day are over, and so are the days of multiple love interests, now there is one love.

>>5296471

Straight up man. My dad is alpha as fuck in a lot of ways, but he took a soft approach with me. Thankfully I was raised by the right corners of the internet and I'm turning out quite well.

Reminder to have at least 3 kids

I'm willing to bet most of us grew up with shitty fathers who were either too distant or too violent or weren't there at all.

>>5323529

3 is the minimum

5 is the ideal

8 is the inspiring

11 is the soccer team

>>5323642

>11 fucking kids

Hot dogs… hallways.

At that point they would probably just slide out on their own like a waterslide of blood.

>>5323681

sliding kids as hard as the jidf slides /pol/ threads

Be sure to teach your kids about antisemitism and the holocause. You woulnd't want it to happen again? Oy vey!

>>5296490

This too

I then began to become brainwashed by media/schools, but thanks to /pol/ I'm better.

>>5323826

*Also, he would white-knight my mother. It always seemed he loved her more than his own kids.

Fucking boomers, I swear.

>>5316226

>but I read a book that basically red pilled me on demographics

What book, may I ask?

>>5306456

This is not true.

>>5315495

Who has your coach trained?

And would you ever consider fighting at an amateur level?

My dad is a cuck and is currently raising 3 other children that are not his own :(

My dad is a cuck and is currently raising 3 other children that are not his own… :(

>>5296409

Yeahhh…

I'm going to have to go ahead kind-of disagree with you on this. Patriarchy is the foundation of the oppression of the catholic church. By that I mean fathers abusing their sons and the community condoning it kept the peasantry stupid and submissive to authority. The greatest tool the oligarchy uses against the public are the stupid, violent people running amok. Society is a prison, they are the security guards, and they will give you to bubba if you challenge their authority or speak on the maltreatment of prisoners.

>>5366112

By all means, free the prisoners.

See what it has done for society, the abolition of community. Think, what does an idiot do with freedom? There are many locked up for their own good, and freeing them means danger to themselves and the rest. I know too many good idiots who get themselves hurt.

A better system for making the guards is needed, but by necessity it must be those who gain most from stability who are chosen.

Most serfs were perfectly fine with their situation. If society were to be restructured I believe a sort of feudalism, a trained and proper gent and his flock he must protect and account for, would be preferable to "equality". An informed vote, with a governorship chosen by these minor-learned-lords.

I really want my coat of arms to mean something god damnit

>>5366317

Why don't you emigrate to saudi arabia. You'd love it there.

>>5366458

I don't like sand. It's coarse and rough and irritating and it gets everywhere.

I'm conflicted about becoming a father. Personality traits and emotions are most certainly genetic, and I see myself inadvertently acting more and more like my old man every day. This is why I'm hesitant to commit to becoming a father, particularly because I am terrified of becoming my old man.

He's on his third marriage now, he treats the family surname like a cheap commodity and hands it out to whatever woman he marries and whatever kids he takes on. Ours is a unique one without many remaining blood descendants and he just imparts it onto these fucking kids without hesitation. Not to mention, he treated me like shit in my early years and practically bullied me when I was a child in teeball. I love the man and everything good he has imparted onto me, but I don't want to put my kid through the same stress.

>>5366653

Anon, you are self conscience. You know you have bad traits. You should know how to mitigate them.

That you are tentative to be a father means you are good to be one. You are a good person if you want to be one, you are a good father if you don't want to be a bad one.

i hate my father. sure he gave the money for a good education but he didn't teach me shit. he's very childish and he doesn't want me to grow as a man (he thinks im competing with him since i now provide food for the table). never taught me anything and laughs at me when i say i want to learn some stuff from him.

also, my parents both were over protective so i didn't get to hang outside the house that often making me a pussified faggot without that much friends until i met you guys. they're very liberal and i think that's the case why they chose that style of parenting.

Thankfully, i stumbled upon /pol/ or else i would become an autistic faggot.

>>5296540

Yeah, they somewhat miss the technical details of prosperity and scarcity.

If you had a good life, and it was tough, don't coddle your chu

>>5366726

I don't think my old man really understands most of what he put me through, though. He's not a bad person. Apparently he was diagnosed with borderline personality disorder, but it was a very light variation that didn't impede his basic social functions. He just seems incapable of staying consistent.

My worries mostly stem from his addictive personality and BPD. He was a moving target and it was seriously frustrating when I was growing up before I knew him well enough to know what he actually wanted.

I've considered seeing a psychologist to determine if I have any of the markers for any of the traits my father had. He seemed unable to understand that he had these personality difficulties and I don't think he has ever grasped those facts (it was my mother and other family that told me of his diagnoses).

>self loathing closetfags: the thread

>>5366849

Sounds like your parents are the material needed for breeding these "new age" liberals.

Nothing but conformity coupled with a sense to not succeed your parents is pretty much what allows your average liberal to grow as he accepts conformist ideals like "equality", pacifism, and tolerance. Glad you came to /pol/, brother, otherwise you might have become one of them.

I came out from a single mother home but I began to grow as an adult at the age of 6 as I changed diapers for my siblings and tried to bring bread into our home. Kind of made me the father figure at a young age. Maybe that's why I have this half-and-half relationship with my mother as an equal and as my maternal figure that I should honor.

Hopefully this makes me a better parent now that I've had some second hand experience in raising kids.

I agree.

A particularly great illustration of Fatherhood is Prescott Bush, who gave millions to Hitler, and raised George Bush, who did his thing, and raised Jeb Bush.

Way to go, Nazi Bush. You really knocked it out of the park with that grandson, oh and that time your black magician buddy Hitler got his ass handed to him.

>>5316003

>being on pol

>orthodox christian faith

But why? Christianity teaches everything opposite of what pol stands for.

Get rid of that filthy sand religion and return to our roots.

Unless you are an arab/syrian/Palestinian. Then sure, but try to go back before judaism and find your real religion, the gods the Mesopotamians and Egyptians worshipped.

>That feel when raised by single mom

>That feel when she makes you call her illiterate fucktoys "dad" but they never call you "son"

>That feel when they laugh at you for going Christian and waitong for marriage.

Flash forward and I married a hot virgin. I have kids of my own that I do NOT allow that side of the family to see. I am learning how to dad. My father-in-law is teaching me. He is such a good man and so proud of me as well. My son is so much more confident then me, and my daughter is so secure she never demands attention from strangers.

Feelsgoodman.jpg

This truly is the basis of all society. I'm really happy. No anti-depressants for 4 years.

>>5367190

If the Thor and Hercules crap was superior it would have beat the Jesus freaks of antiquity. It did not.

Christendom is our best hope of bringing back the morals of fidelity, family, hard work, and virgin waifus.

>>5367190

>pol

Otherwise you're correct.

This is one of my favourite of his.

>>5367190

What about nationalist racist aryan catholicism as may have been practiced before the Bible and many teachings were jew'd up?

we could even form a new split. Similar to esoteric hitlerism but based off an actual diety

>>5367289

Mein neger. Good job growing beyond your family's degeneracy.

I was lucky to have a number of positive male role models in my life even though my dad didn't bother to do anything with me. He spent most of his life fishing and hunting and exploring, and then he never wanted to do any of that with me. I was taught a lot about being a man by working for a few good men who saw potential in me and took me under their wing.

It really does take a village to raise a child, anon, take care what community you're a part of and make the effort to improve your community. I'm building a community between friends and extended family to help show my blonde blue eyed kids what a functioning society looks like.

As an aside, that's something else I want to bring up - A community derives its strength by who it keeps out as much as who it lets in. I don't associate with degenerates, and none of my friends do, either.

>>5367878

https://scholar.google.com/citations?user=Zc33N34AAAAJ&hl=en&oi=sra

>Why liberals and atheists are more intelligent (2010)

hmm some of the titles are kek worthy but this shit doesn't seem very scientific.

>>5367878

also, https://sci-hub.io/

>>5368170

Or you could just do what Strom Thurmond did and pay/see your kid now and then and then go off and have a big white family.

>>5296540

>>5296471

>>5296652

>>5296604

>For me I think it definitely comes from my parents never really genuinely talking to me

fucking feels…

this is me to a T and i think there are alot of us like this. i was not exposed to how relationships are supposed to be. never taught anything. parents didnt really care about us kids.

i never saw my parents being intimate in any way. no kissing. no hugging. no compliments. no nothing.

needless to say im a late 20s virgin who has no idea how to deal with women. theres a difference between being a pussy with women (which im not, i have quite good confidence) and actually not knowing what to do with them or picking up on basic social cues, like it actually feels awkward. ive had a girl start crying in front of me, obviously the thing to do would be to be empathetic. maybe give a hug or something. nope, not me. just stood there like an awkward fucker.

i can talk to girls fine, but as soon as i realize a girl is hitting on me or is attracted (and im attracted to them), it all falls apart. i have no idea how to handle it.

its sickening how socially stunted i am.

>>5368561

meant to include

>>5296686

>>5296913

Satanism is worship of the self and a casting away of all duty and tradition and culture for your own pleasure. Satan fell from grace because of his pride, naturally his religion is to make people all feel like him. There are other religions similar to Satanism with different names, all it really comes down to is whether said religion has you worship yourself or think you're a god or something along that line. (i.e. mormonism)

>>5368170

Why? What would make you attracted to a smash-nosed, low IQ, primitive seafaring-nigger?

>>5368632

I don't know,goddamnit.

>>5323826

All that means is you can be one of the soldiers for the God Emperor and have no strings attached to hold you back, no mercy.

>>5368626

Forgot the obvious (((Judaism aka Talmudism aka Jewish Mysticism)))

>>5296540

"Pain makes men strong, and comfort makes men weak. Hard times make strong men. Strong men make good times. Good times make weak men, and weak men make hard times."

>>5296744

edgy

>>5367101

Yeah, i wouldnt wish my parents to my enemies. The fucking horror it would bring.

Well at least you had it good with being independent on a very young age.

Also,

>tfw no younger sibling to red pill

I hope your sibling becomes as red pilled as we are

>>5300802

I think you may be on to something anon.

Their are forces at work so deep, so powerful, that the petty machinations of merchants are completely outclassed.

We ride on the wave of history, we will be the new patriarchy.

>>5368632

>>5368638

Women have this innate fucking talent to trap men into marriage, a lot of the married men I talk to said that one day they were fucking sluts and the next day they woke up with a wedding ring, 2 kids, and a fat wife

>>5296409

>It is from our fathers we are supposed to learn what it means to be a man,

How did that work out? Fucked up big time.

Hitlerjugends, kulturkrieg, that is the answer.

Hotwheels I beg a boon of you, let me posts show?

>>5296727

If anything, I think that my father letting me give up every sport I wanted just because I wasn't that good or became bored with it is the greatest life lesson he ever gave me…

If I everything came easy it wouldn't be worth it… when I think about my friends winning medals, getting tons of pussy, going to international competitions, forging friendships that trascend language and nationality I say too myself "why the fuck didn't I try just a little"….

Some people might think that my dad (and your dad in our case) coddled us but the way I see it is that they showed us that "you reap what you sow" well atleast that's how my dad is with me, he is there to help me get up but sure as hell let's me fuck up and see the consecuences of my actions… he might not be the best father in the world but sure as hell he is the only person I would never change in any single way

>>5308907

This is why I redpilled my little brother early on, he is thirteen now (I think I always forget my siblings ages I only know that he is ten years younger and I will be 24 this year) and while he acts like a brat (because he is a fucking child) he knows about the jew, how leftism is idiocity and corrupts society and always scolds my leftist sister when she starts spouting feminist bullshit (then the whole family joins because we are all pretty conservative)

I have thought him to search for the truth, not the bullshit they teach him in school and he is always researching and asking me about things he finds out… I'm proud of him and I wish someone did the same with me and spared me the "rebel" leftist years I had in high school

>>5399311

hear hear.

>>5296657

suck it up

It's a new world, learn to live in it.

>>5296409

I never knew what it was like to have a father, until I saw Trump.

My dad was never hard on me. He saw me as a failure to the utmost.

When I graduated High School, I originally wanted to go into coding, I went to a trade school instead he was disdainful of that choice. (it never worked out) I ended up going to a local Community College, and that didn't really pan out either.

When I converted to Orthodox Christianity, my dad didn't like that choice, and in fact attacked me verbally on said choice.

Most of my choices I've made in life my dad didn't like and was condescending to choice.

My dad gave me everything on how to live, but the will to live was something I had to teach myself.

My mom was a workaholic and a gymrat, thus rarely saw her unless she forced me and my sister to go to the gym or Crossfit.

Thankfully I discovered /pol/ and am now learning a trade and how to be a man.

My dad is a weakling and always has been. He never spent any time with me or my siblings. He was always hanging out with his friends during his free time. Never encouraged me to do sports. I spent my entire childhood in front of the TV or computer (ages 6-17). He never gave a shit about me being a depressed weakling throughout my childhood and teenage years. He didn't stop me from smoking weed and taking drugs like MDMA and amphetamines during my most degenerate years because he was scared that I might get mad at him. He found out that I was regularly drunk on weekdays and still was too scared to say anything.

He always showed subtle hints of being a massive cuck. He sometimes talked about how blacks just simply make better music than whites (they have more soul). They are genetically better athletes (white boxers just can't compete with black boxers). Yet he absolutely lost his shit during a car ride when I was 13 when I suggested that maybe races have different levels of intelligence. He always tried to ridicule strong men and always tried to make them seem like dumb brutes (the: if you're physically strong you're just compensating for being dumb meme). He liked to make fun of the Klitschko brothers because he thought they were dumb brutes when they obviously show a lot more intelligence than him.

He spent 20 years in an unhappy marriage, not man enough to set things right. Didn't want to get divorced because he thought it would damage us kids. He never spent time with us kids. All he did after work was browse the internet on his phone until bedtime. Slept on the couch for the last 3 years of marriage until he was caught cheating on my mother with a long time family friend. Now he's married to this woman, and hes always thanking me for being a father figure to his stepkids. He's too feminized to be a father figure to his own stepkids.

Apparently he was a scumbag when he was young. He was still addicted to drugs when my mom was pregnant with my big brother. He was a literal communist when he was 20-25 even though his dad spent 2 years in the trenches during WW2 fighting the commie rats. He was a degenerate punk rocker in his teens.

He's a terrible father, but I still like him because I think he's been made this way by terrible parenting (just like me, except I'm getting stronger and better every day). I try my best to redpill him. But I feel like when I make progress in one area, he goes back to reading some leftist tabloid article and gets bluepilled in some other area. His dad was a depressed mess after the war. His mother was a degenerate whore and a severe alcoholic that simply disappeared when my dad was 7 years old. 10 years later they got a postcard from her that basically said "Hey guys, how are you doing? I'm doing great. I'm living in Buenos Aires with my spic boyfriend and our son, I'm coming to meet you some day!" The only reason I haven't disowned him is because I can relate to him. We both had shitty childhoods. And then there's the father-son bond although it's very weak.

I think a real man should try extremely hard to set things right before turning his back on his own parent.

My dad's a great man, but he's a bit of a beta when it comes to asserting himself, and he got completely cuck'd by my mom, both during their marriage and in the divorce. He also did a terrible job of guiding me through life, himself having rebelled hard against his own parents and he more or less decided the best path for his kids would be to just blaze their own trails with relatively little guidance. That shit didn't work and produced two neet sons (luckily I broke out of the neet curse eventually, unfortunately my brother still has not).

Lessons learned:

1) don't let your wife emotionally terrorize yourself or your kids

2) put your wife in her place as needed

3) don't marry an old, liberal whore that's only interested in you for money

4) assert yourself

5) make an effort to spend time with your kids, talk about your own past and do shit with them

6) guide your kids, talk about their future and their options in life

Now he wasn't a complete failure. He broke the cycle of abusive, alcoholic fathers so deserves massive kudos in that respect. Wish I had a better relationship with him these days tbh.

>>5296490

You're not alone.

>>5298502

>heaven help me if I need to do some heavy reprogramming for the billionth time.

Dude this is one of the best thing about being a male. The ability to recognise faults and correct them. I live for these moments where I need to reprogram myself because I am actively bettering myself. I get that you're tired of it and just want to be in a good state but then where is the joy in that? The journey is the process.

>>5456239

sounds like a liberal, m8.

The joy of social studies is becoming aware of all the undiscovered genders, pronouns and shit.

The thing is, with as broken soul, you are using that broken soul to supposedly fix your broken soul. However, you have no concept of how your soul is broken.

>>5296517

Fuck off Sven, no cucks allowed

>>5296744

Jesus Christ, how's 8th grade?

The best fathers are the geeky, effeminate and socially incompetent ones goyim. Trust me, you only want a father with a weak will that never enforces his will but always tries to rudely access his emotions in a childish manner!

The best men are those that dyes their hair and insists on not working "manual labor" due to academic intelligence. The Best father is a smug lonely and isolated person with bad hygene and even worse habits. Trust me goyim! He He He.

>>5296409

is that why yall suck trumps dick so much? LOL

muh daddy issues

Father of 6 here, an asshole son to a good father.

My father is a very good man. Large family. Poor, hard working, Christian. Taught me a lot, not as much as he should have but I was a stubborn little bastard. Taught me to garden and figure things out on my own without asking. Multiple jobs but he was home a lot and that was more valuable than money. Pushed me into sports. 7 years of football. Told me to be a leader. Taught me a foreign language when I was in grade school.

The only flaw besides not teaching me enough mechanical shit, was that he was too nice, too forgiving. If everyone was like him we'd have heaven on earth, but my kindness is for my family first, the rest of the world will get what it has coming.

Now I'm a father of 6. 3 boys, 3 girls. The wife is a big titted German frau. Poor as hell because I graduated college into the Great Recession. Getting some gov food benefit, better going to me than to some niggers.

I don't think too much about how I parent. They are very young. It is pretty easy. I give them love and affection, but never tolerate lies. My oldest is turning out well, smart, strong. He is nicer than me but he knows how to punch better than I did in first grade. I have him read abridged adventure stories from the last couple centuries. Robinson Crusoe and 20,000 Leagues. He will also learn Deutsch and Latin once he's a bit older. Classical education and classical values. Philosophy to inoculate him against the modern Jew.

I really can't say enough about my wife. She is a natural beauty, a great body, perfect for childbirth. Nurturing and artistic. Mediocre cook but a good baker. A willingly submissive woman, a paragon of virtue. She was enough of a social outsider growing up that she was easy to redpill. A family built on a woman like that could easily stand against the tides of Marxist degeneracy for generations.

I love my dad. I'd give him a warm kiss.

>>5457390

>still posts on /pol/

sounds like fantasy to me

>>5457529

If anything I have more stake in the future than you do, so I'm likely even more extremist.

Which part was the fantasy?

I had that problem with my mother. I never had a father since he abandoned me at birth. My mom is an alcoholic who never ever taught me anything. About human relationships, about my body, about normal fucking life. I didn't know it was normal to just order pizzas and watch movies in family until I was 14. I never had that before. Now I am useless in relationships, I can't be with someone for too long and I don't know what a woman should be like. I really want children though and i am becoming a better person on my own. Learning dignity and hardworking. I now maintain the whole house.

Here's my story.

First, background information. 50% jewish, dad was full blooded. My dad's dad died when he was 5. He grew up going to jail a lot, even got sent there once by his own mother. Went to tons of camps and army shit. He grew up to be a computer guy, married a christian woman even though his mother was pissed and wanted him to stay full-blooded.

When he married her, he converted to christianity, but I'm honestly believing what they say about jewish bloodlines. The guy was fucking crazy. Didn't know how to handle his anger at all, threatened to hit mom but never did. One time I begged him for mercy and he shoved me to the ground, said the only man I should EVER grovel to is god.

Now, my childhood obviously wasn't the most fun, but I respect this man with all my heart. Every lesson he taught me was merciless. He spent little time with me, but he also didn't let me be a weakling. Gave me a computer at like 7 or so, demanded I go out and see the world with him. Took me to temple, took me to church, he wanted me to decide what god meant. I'm a deist now. Personally I think god's abandoned us.

Any time I fucked up, he'd scream at me. Beat me for getting lost in the walmart, and almost kicked this other dude's ass for daring to ask him to calm down. Unfortunately, because of his mannerisms, I didn't like being around him eventually and receded into my room to play vidya instead.

I learned about sex, transgenderism, all this weird shit when I was around 12 thanks to the internet access and MMOs. To me, as a child, the concept of being transgender didn't really bother me. It didn't even seem weird. I accepted pretty much all the homoshit at face value and never questioned if it was viable, or even moral. But mental illness = a lack of empathy or conscience in the first place.

My father didn't teach me many things besides being strong, computer stuff, and how to get away with crime. The guy was a master at stealing shit, always shaved off as much money as possible- then he'd manically spend it all. Passed his mental illnesses onto me but thankfully not following in his footsteps. I think the autism balances out the anger management somehow. I never get mad.

So he killed himself eventually, guess the anger and psycho shit got to him finally. Mom was a different breed, she's liberal and doesn't like racism, etc etc, bluepilled essentially. But with access to the internet, I got to learn more than my school taught me. I look back now and realize how indoctrinatey that bullshit place is. Left as soon as I could because I felt like I wasn't learning anything. I knew all the shit they spat from googling it myself. Decided to get a GED and now I'm heading to a series of colleges using my dad's small fortune to coast freely by.

I think things turned out well, all shit considered, and though I might be missing a few details I managed to recover a lot. I'm not 100% functional and never will be thanks to aforementioned chemical imbalances, but I understand what went wrong and how to hold myself together long enough. I think I got lucky that I wasn't exactly coddled and had access to new information and the opportunity to fail. I don't know what the right answer is in terms of fatherhood and how to raise a child as I'd never wish this life on any kid. I'm too fucked up to pass on those genes IMO.

I think the best thing, the thing that I'm thankful for the most, is that lesson to never bow to anyone but god. I can't stand pussies, I can't stand people who don't know how to stick up for themselves, but there's also more to that. An idiot with the brawn and anger can only do so much before someone more cunning comes along, and the cunning can only do so much until he's caught. There needs to be a balance of skills. I'm no expert, but if I HAD to raise a child, I'd make them read things like Art of War and Orwell, then explain to them where others have failed to narrow their chances of making mistakes.

I'd teach them to look at a man's achievements, not his bullshit. I'd tell him to give where he can, but only when he's standing above everyone else. I'd tell him god's in your heart, not at your church, and hope that he has a better moral compass than myself. Stand strong, move like water, usual shit, but most importantly to always look at every angle of a situation. Tunnel vision, lack of awareness, that's the worst possible thing someone can do. People get indoctrinated, they can't think for themselves, then they follow the leader right into the fire instead of feeling the heat on their skin and thinking for a moment. A man nowadays, I truly believe he needs to go solo and prepare his offspring to deal with the worst the world has to offer.

But, this might just be an example of what not to do. I'm successful, but unhappy. Crazy too in the medical sense. Thought you'd enjoy the read though, /pol/

>>5320745

this

>>5457943

people conception of what is a "god" is completely fucked up to begin with, don't blame him too much

Going to copy/paste a post someone else made a while back. This is pretty defeatist. It's from a depression board I no longer go to.

____

I don't feel like I am living.

Everything seems so exhausting to me. All I can manage to do is passively consume. I tried to study but I couldn't keep my attention up for more than a few minutes. I even asked myself "what prevents me from studying?" and tried to collect all my willpower but it's physically painful to me. My head starts hurting, I feel tired and a physical sensation that is like an itch all over my body that is getting stronger.

So all I do is sit and browse imageboards. I am not even fully in them. I just lurk and shitpost now and then. I do not participate in any generals because I don't play games and don't watch any shows. I actually rarely have to contribute anything to threads. Yet even though there is rarely anything that interests me I continue lurking. I am like this for 8 years now and in these 8 years I have not changed at all. It's quite shocking thinking about it. So many people my age and younger are successful and have achieved something and I am still a blank slate.

I feel so alone in this world. No one can know how I feel. Maybe everyone feels like this but others manage to "man up". Maybe I should just endure the pain and get used to it? Whenever I talked about my feelings elsewhere people insulted me. They called me lazy, a whiner that shifts the blame to anyone but himself, a loser that didn't use the opportunities life gave him and that deserves the misery he is living in. I don't know if there people are right or not. Society judges people by what they see. Even if I somehow manage to get out of this hole and achieve something I will pale in comparison to the motivated people that didn't waste years of their life. People that are more intelligent and more hard working than me. I am superfluous. There is nothing good I can do better than anyone else of the billion people on earth.

Other people just seem like superhuman to me. They know exactly what to do. They have goals. Even if they too complain about procrastinating they still manage to get things done. When I see just what some people achieve in the news I don't even feel like I am of the same species. And not just the news just regular people. People that manage to graduate from college with good grades while working and living by themselves. People that have a job and live alone and drive a car. People that are independent. People that have skills. I had the naive hope that this would all come to me eventually but it never did. I am still the same I was years ago. Adults still feel as alien to me.

I think I've read all useful advice there is. Now it's up to me. But if I haven't done anything in all these years why should I now? I don't even trust myself to do anything anymore.

____

(in response to the above post)

¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯

Let me guess, anon:

>parents were late 30s/early 40s when they got you

>you're a single child or have a much older sibling you can't relate to

>your father was always working or otherwise absent and your mother was ridiculously overprotective

>you never showed initiative as a child, but that was just fine with your parents, who loved to keep you where they could supervise you

>you always got exactly what you wanted for Christmas/birthdays

>you grew up and perhaps still live in some kind of suburb/subdivision where you're maximally sheltered from any kind of real-life experience

Your story is that of the 21st century digital boy. I'm one myself. I have no idea how to break out of it.

In previous generations, guys like us were probably either made by or killed in war. Now we're just here, existing, not knowing why, not knowing what to do, too lazy to live, too scared to die, too incompetent to do anything else.

>>5455091

My dad was pretty much exactly the same way. Right down to the loveless marriage that he was too afraid to break until he got caught cheating, the completely cucked attitude about race, and the father who fought in the war. If anything, he's shown me what not to be. But I agree with you about not turning your back on family.

>>5459666

If you mean me, not exactly but the result was the same. They had me in early 30s, have a sister who's far worse off, tumblrista kind of chick who's desperately empathetic.

Always working, mother ridiculously overprotective true.

I showed initiative for things I gave a fuck about, but I never did anything for school. I procrastinated way too much though.

Exactly what I wanted, yep, not that I'd ask for much. Objects don't really make me happy.

Suburb/subdivision yeah.

Most of what you list is either true or half-true, but I think I got lucky by being mentally ill. I'm talking autism, bipolar, weak empathetic response, gifted programs, med after med after med until I couldn't speak or remember anything that happened to me.

I don't think it's hopeless though. I don't care about life enough to try, and I don't fear death, and I've cultivated a number of skills. It's a hole you have to dig yourself out of because you have nothing better to do.

In a way, I guess because of my dad's fortune I can do whatever the hell I want. So I'm going to go for the maximum education possible and just do something, get written down somewhere, maybe not seem like such a waste.

If I fail? Not like anyone expected anything different.

Polite sage for ebin blogpost.

>>5459666

Believe me or not, I wrote that.

Still moping around though,

>>5461944

I think the failures of the new age of parents speaks to the validity of wanting to return to more traditional things. I've personally been a traditional type of guy regardless of influence, but that's my small hypothesis.

Modern love and tolerance does not breed strong people. Even the weak can recognize their own faults if they care enough.

>>5296409

Sir, this thread has touched me immensely. This also got me to wonder how in the world would we go about organizing meeting each other in real life. Is there a board on 8chan for folks to organize meetups through or something?

>>5470069

> Is there a board on 8chan for folks to organize meetups through or something?

>>>/meadhall/

Any of you guys interested in meeting in person at a local restaurant, quiet pub, or church where we can touch base on stuff?

>>5483207

This is not the place, Anon.

I think it might honestly be a good thing for some anons here to participate in one of these big brothers things and give some white children from single mom "families" at least an idea of what being a man is. No need to redpill kids on merchants and shit, just teach them how to be a man.

I was raised by my mother and grandmother, and I have a sister. I was around women all my life. I had no father figure as all males in the family were either dead or lived far away. Not only that, but my mother would tell me that she hated men and that we were all pigs, shit like that. Male sexual urges were especially vilified. Of course, when I'd point out the obvious, she'd say "of course not you", but that made it worse because then I felt I was special and that rewarded my inability to be a man.

On top of that, my mom had me at 44, so I developed Asperger syndrome (or ASD as they call it now). You can imagine what a mess I was, and still am on some levels. For the longest time, not only had I no idea how to be a man but I was also intensely ashamed of being one. I'm honestly surprised I didn't turn out tranny.

When I turned 21 I decided to try and figure out how to be a man. I took role models from TV and tried to emulate them in real life. It was like play acting, and I found the disconnect useful to manage my crippling and numerous anxieties. I started reading a lot on self-reliance, I learned masculine activities like fishing or fighting, skills that boosted my self-confidence. I had a few failed relationships and got over my disgust of sexuality and instead learned to take control of it, and gradually figured out what was expected of me by women as a man. I hung with my ex's father, who was really good at building stuff and learned to work with my hands a bit. I never really managed to function 100% normally, but I did learn to function to a degree, and I did manage to learn and put into practice some aspects of what it is to be a man.

The greatest crime in all of this is that I was conceived by artificial insemination. Single women can go in a sperm bank, pay, get fertilized and have a child, no matter their relationship status or age. I had no chance to turn out a normal man because I was not only willfully put into a fundamentally broken family unit, but they allowed my mother to conceive at 44 even though everyone knows about the risks. I think that should be illegal. Single would-be mothers should not be allowed to use sperm banks or adopt. Neither should same-sex couples or women who are past 40.

It's my life they were playing with, not hers. I started on Lunatic+ difficulty just because a selfish woman had a selfish desire and the means to pay for it. When libs tell me "her body her choice" in regards to abortion, I am thoroughly disgusted because I paid my dues for my mother's choice in the usage of her body and I should not have had to. It was completely avoidable. Women are not gods and should not be able to create or dispose of life so easily.

Single mothers are pure cancer. I urge every anon with the possibility and the will to take a white kid from these "families" under their wing to do so. I know it would have been much easier for me if I had had an older male figure that was reliably around at least once a week. It's not enough to focus on your own future kids. Single motherhood is more and more readily accepted and a lot of young males will grow up in these dysfunctional "families". A lot of our future men will not be men at all. If you don't have kids of your own, then use a bit of your time and try to salvage something out of this fucking mess.

patriarchal bump

>>5483627

yes! amazing idea

i've been thinking we should set up a series of farms in europe for building brotherhood / fraternity

we would have camps where alpha bros can come and train mentally and physically. younger bros would have a chance to learn from them and be positively influenced

>>5457790

>My dad's dad died when he was 5.

Did he die in the shoah being gassed by evil aryan monsters over 9000 times?

Forgive the source material. This song makes me a little misty-eyed in jealousy. Song was written by a father to his daughter, who is singing it. I never had a good relationship with my folks, but grew up idealizing the concept of family solidarity.

Now I'm old enough to be the dad in the equation, but can't for health reasons, leaving me doubly spurned.

Still, it's nice to see this kind of heartfelt sentiment.

So, anyone become a big brother to a fatherless kid here?

>>5498569

Not in any literal sense, but I often take a sort of unofficial mentor role to younger people.

My brother's girlfriend is a weeb and mostly a normie, but she's super sweet and merely naive, not stupid. I think she looks up to me because she has an awful relationship with an emotionally abusive father, and I'm kind of dadly in demeanor and appearance. I turned her on to Trump, and in doing so she redpilled herself on the utter deceit that is mainstream media. We've also covered things like privilege, the anti-white narrative in media, and race relations in general. She soaks it up like a sponge.

She calls me sempai.

>>5296409

Young father here, 20 years old, have a 6 month old daughter. Living with girlfriend and daughter, plan to make that fiance and daughter after I get my degree or get accepted to med school, whenever the future becomes a little more financially certain.

Grew up with a hard working dad who worked 60+ hours/week, worked out 5 days a week, and helped my mother cart my 3 siblings and I to all of our activities. He was kind of a push over when it came to my mom but I got the feeling that he didn't have time to worry about drama and had to concentrate on work so he just said whatever he had to to avoid conflict with my mom so he could get back to work. As a result I turned out to be a pretty passive person had a few friends, now I have about 2 that I actually spend any time with maybe once every other month.

My father was a good man and a strong man but I told myself I would never work in a cubicle like him.

I want 5 children, this first one just came a little early. When things get hard with school with a couple of rough tests or deadlines stacked on top of one another it feels nice to think that I have a beautiful woman and a beautiful baby girl waiting for me at home. I love the time I spend with my daughter and I happily babble with her. She's asleep when I get home half of the time but I always get to give her a kiss good night. Fatherhood feels great, everyday I feel like I'm where I need to be doing what I need to do. I just wish I was a husband as well as a father but that will come when I can support my little family.

>>5498748

Actually, wait. She did start by calling me onii-chan. She cut it out when we realized it was weird, her dating my brother. So yeah. I guess I have been a stand-in older brother.

>>5296471

>I ended up being a massive pussy until I was about 16

lol Who gives a fuck about 16? What, you're mortgaging off a house? Are you paying taxes for the business you created?

Yeah, I'm glad you grew a pair but seriously, if you're under 25 and whining about being a pussy, you're immature, uneducated, unwise and ignorant.

In other words, you're young as fuck.