12d3a6 No.8417
>Be me
>Gurl
>Go on dating site
>5'1 womlet
>Somewhat obese
>First day get 5 messages
>hey what's you're favorite band
>Don't respond
>Week later
>Have over 80 messages
>Below average to average guys
>Le me god
>I can have any man
>Look at all the messages i'm getting
>Hot as fuck
>I have high standards now
>Must make alot of money
>Look like brad pitt
>Le never find date
>Standards to high
>Stay on dating site for months
>I'm not fat, i'm sexy
Wtf /pol/
My advice for you gentleman out there, just go to a fucking club, you have no chance on these sites.
Check this link out btw, some guy made 10 fake profiles on okcupid to find out just how many woman get messages compared to girls, the results were shocking as fuck. Decent looking woman got at least a 3500% increase compared to a decent looking guy.
12d3a6 No.8419
fd0c1a No.8425
The best way to meet decent women is through friends. This is why I will never understand dudes who complain about getting friendzoned. Women love hooking their girlfriends up with guys they know, and so having lots of female friends greatly increases your odds of that happening for you.
Dating sites are for autistic people
Clubs are for pump and dumping loose sluts
f89f52 No.8429
if you're a tall white male you can clean up
12d3a6 No.8431
>>8429
>Implying im a manlet I'm 6'1, have short cut hair, have alot of tattoos and not a beta faggot.
Online dating is shit.
Clubs are where it's at.
12d3a6 No.8432
>>8425Sluts are good and all but i kind of want to settle down and have a decent relationship. You can never trust a slut or a bi chick.
043061 No.8446
>>8417When I was underage b& on /r9k/ I made a profile on lotsofish with an obvious tranny. I was getting ~ 6 messages a day.
Weird shit man.
>>8425this is good advice
8e0521 No.8510
I once made a profile with a nigger and when any mudsharks wanted to fuck, I would send them to an isolated industrial area in the middle of the night where I did administrative work and when the girls arrived to ask for Raoul, I would tell them he was a bit late and if she wanted to wait.
Raoul wouldn't show up of course, but the girl had wasted her evening.
652a88 No.8513
>>8510was there many coalburners, and were they ugly like the stats would indicate?
8e0521 No.8518
>>8513>was there many coalburners, and were they ugly like the stats would indicate?I did it three times, before I chickened out and figured out I might lose my job.
1. A ginger with a kind of inbred look about her.
2. A fut ugly skank.
3. A aging soccermon type with brown eyes and a lesbian haircut.
Most of the girls where not pretty and I was no swamped with requests, though I did choose a very average nigger not to cause suspision.
652a88 No.8523
>>8518thats gold
its a great idea tbh, you could make fake nigger profiles in various different cities and use them to prank mudsharks, or even spout anti white racial slurs at potential mudsharks
8e0521 No.8528
>>8523>its a great idea tbh,The idea I had is that someone could create a youtube show where they pretend they are nigger, then get ugly skanks to come over who will get confronted with what they have done by two or three buff white guys, who will shame her, call her a slut and ask her why she would fuck a jiggaboo instaid of a white man.
The white guys confronting her have to be really strong and buff to make sure we appear the most suitable mate.
652a88 No.8530
3279db No.8536
these sites are fucking terrible, it says a lot when the most common disclaimer in people's profiles is "i'm not looking for someone who is married".
if you want to meet a degenerate with BPD and a couple of kids, though, a dating site is by far the easiest way.
b41cec No.8640
>>8417>okcupid Met my hot wife thru okcupid
464ac6 No.8645
Aren't dating sites you pay for better, though?
8d17a9 No.8656
>>8528I'm anti-racemixing, but that is the most autistic and weird idea for a youtube channel ever
19580a No.8673
>>8417Yeah, OKcupid has turned to total shit since I first signed up a in 08.
The problem is that a lot of men do prey and spray, short messages and copy-pasta, so even if you personally actually bother to write a message the girl in question might not even notice it.
e7aa14 No.8706
This is true. I didn't realize how true it was until I got stationed in fort bragg. Every male here is in great shape, tan, confident, all that good shit.
There are like 10 males to every female here. 400 pound women think they're hot shit here, it's sad. Some 5'3 woman who was 300 pounds was talking to me like how she wants me to hang out with her.
I've got all of the qualities of every male here too, except I'd rather look for a real woman than some hole for a one night stand. This disgusting midget whale was using a tone like I was lucky that she would give me the chance to hang out with her. I just laughed in her face and walked off
It is seriously sad where the only women in your town are extremely obese or married
e7aa14 No.8708
>>8706Most of the men I know here refuse to post pictures of them in uniform. The only men who get matches on tindr or whatever are ones who spam pictures of them in uniforms, they get the dependas. I l know an overweight soldier who gets many women because he spams uniform pictures and he is okay with doing it with whales
84b1f3 No.8709
This makes me want to put up a buff surfer dude pic with $80k/year income stat, with a shallow profile text filled with "yea brah" shit, and actually set up dates. Just to fuck with the women! >:D
I'm really BMI ~45, neckbeard, on CalFresh and MediCal, hate surfing, and have an IQ north of 140 sd15, who couldn't get laid if my life depended on it. The polar opposite.
It should be lots of LoLLz!!! xDDD
e9a3e3 No.8714
A bit of advice.
The best way to find girls who you think will share similar interests, beliefs and values as you is to join interest groups. There you will meet guys/girls who share the same interests with you so you'll immediately have similar interests to talk about and discuss in an environment which is not essentially a dating environment but one conversation can turn into mutual attraction and a date in a blink of an eye depending on how well you gel with others.
For instance, if you want to learn a new language, preferably a European one, you can get a friend or two (or simply yourself) and find an online language learning place where people gather to learn/speak in that language and meet girls there. Or if you have an obscure music interest you can also meet girls like that.
Dating site advertisements like to give the impression that the first person you contact will be a beautiful women who will be 100% interested in you, intelligent, etc.., but it's just a marketing technique to get you to join their website and pay whatever weekly/monthly fee they charge. They essentially exist to make money off your desperation.
84b1f3 No.8715
>>8656That's what makes it a great idea!
It would get SJWs, Jezebel, and MSNBC into a tizzying tailspin!
84b1f3 No.8716
>>871490% of the chicks in High IQ societies I'm in are age 30+.
e9a3e3 No.8717
>>8716>10% below 30+I don't see the problem with what you just said. The statistics may not be on your side but if you're looking for someone younger then they're still there, albeit in lower numbers.
84b1f3 No.8718
>>8717Yea, nowhere near where I live. When you're dealing with groups that have ~150-300 members worldwide, that's ~15-30. An exception I could think of may be MENSA, but I am not a member (I am of higher IQ requirement groups).
e7aa14 No.8720
>>8714>be me>join politics/current events group>hitler wasn't that badNo thanks
13b3a0 No.8724
This thread sucks and isn't politics but here's my pointless, unprovable, anecdotal rebuddal. Take it for what you will, and check my subs for truth.
I've been using online dating for about a year now. During this year I met three girls who I deemed worthy of my time. One was a psychopath who gave me herpes. The next was a crazy bitch who wanted to use my alpha male power to her own ends and make me into her beta bux.
And then you have my current girl. Does she have dyed hair? Yes. Is she on anti-depressants? Yes. Is her mother a vacuous cunt who divorce raped her father? Yes.
But she is pure European, believes Hitler was smeared post-war, is utterly submissive yet challanges my world views, hates niggers, Ioves vidya and kicks ass at it, has a fantastic body, and is open to the idea of making white babies with me to bring back our race. She has had one other partner ever, and has utterly severed the connection to him.
In the end women and just weak people in an age full of maddening propaganda. There are good women on dating sites. You just have to work at finding them.
For the record, her profile picture was just a dog. But I took the chance at being somethin more than a shallow faggot and it turned into the best relationship I've ever had.
e7aa14 No.8725
>>8720I enjoy current events, psychology, Vidya games, and trying to learn german/electronics
God I need to find more mainstream hobbies
cf0595 No.8729
Evem /polpol/ still thinks women are worth a shit.
AWALT
fa7110 No.8734
>>8724Does she know about the herpes yet?
8d17a9 No.8735
>>8729Good luck regenerating your race with no reproductive capability
13b3a0 No.8744
>>8734Of course, do you think I'm some kind of Jew? People fear herpes without reason, it's easy to manage and has low rates of transmission when treated correctly. She has enough rational ability to grasp this, another fine trait that white women are capable of possessing or learning.
26eed8 No.8745
>>8724> Does she have dyed hair?what colour?
this is, naturally, of the utmost importance
13b3a0 No.8751
>>8745It fades from purple to blue. Stereotypes blown the fuck out? You decide.
I suppose I should include the fact that I'm not letting my guard down with her. AWALT after all. But my metaphorical pimp hand stays strong, and in this way I remain the alpha wolf of her pack (her words, not mine)
3279db No.8752
>>8751you sound like a real faggot
277f67 No.8764
>>8724
>There is hope OP here
Using proxies
I get some reply's, just not as many as i sent out.
I must of sent out 8 messages and only got 2 reply's
Keep in mind i'm not a nigger and have a decent job.
+ I wouldn't settle for no land whale.
277f67 No.8770
>>8709
>Tips bedora Go back to plebbit
ac8cf3 No.9140
>>8752Well it's too bad you think that way anon. Good thing your opinion is meaningless to me.
>>8764That's not a bad return rate, remember any women at 6/10 or greater are getting an insane number of messages on any dating sites. I have a few suggestions to follow on any leads you get, if you want to keep trying though. But please keep in mind the first part of my story. My life got turned upside down by the first two tramps I met there. These women seemed decent based on their profiles. NEVER trust a woman to tell the truth when her reputation is at risk.
67b24b No.9141
151f80 No.9185
It really is true. I don't think a lasting relationship is even possible if it starts on the internet.
"Internet dating is like a buffet, you can have all you want but none of it is any good."
-Dick Masterson
3279db No.9189
OKCupid has also openly bragged about 'experimenting' (their words) on their user base.
They did things like intentionally flip match rates (oh, you wanted a repulican christian? here's an atheist liberal instead as a high match rate), cross match people to traits they scored as dealbreakers, the lot. They are real scumbags.
fd40c4 No.10665
Why do people use dating services of any kind, there are people literally everywhere. What happened to just striking up a conversation with someone? Does every part of your life have to involve some online element?
24f93f No.10674
Dating sites set a president for failure. It makes the relationship seem artificial and less special because it is contrived. It's about as romantic as dog breeding. At the same time the resolve to make a working relationship are seriously diminished. The whole time you know you can just go back to the service and keep looking. Like OP said it ruins your standards. Relationships are about compromise. Suddenly you think your shit don't stink and you're ready to go back to looking for Brad Pitt as soon as you pick one thing you don't like about a date even though you're a fucking waitress with a kid who's living off her parents still.
8065cd No.10677
>>8417>>10674I`ve used Tinder as a dating tool. Sure you can just look at the size of the tits and that`s that. But you can also use it to specific what kind of person you are and what you are looking for.
Once you match and chat a bit then go and have some fun, walks on the beach and all that. I`ve met some fun woman via Tinder with whom I am still friends. Just because you`ve agreed to have a date it doesn`t mean that you`ll have to be in a relationship or fuck.
Maybe it`s an age thing, my taste in women has changed over the last decade. I`m not looking for sluts anymore. I`m looking for a woman with something going on in her life. Intelligence, skills and femininity is what I seek (And have found, good looks too).
So yeah, I would say keep dating online. Just date for the right reason, just like you would(or should) do when you`re looking for a partner IRL.
bc577d No.10681
>>8425>Women love hooking their girlfriends up with guys they know, and so having lots of female friends greatly increases your odds of that happening for you.That's not how women operate, even if they aren't aware of it. A woman is unlikely to date a guy that was passed over by one of her friends because then she "loses" to that friend.
Humans are social mammals, and like all social mammals, we're constantly vying for a chance to rise in the hierarchy, and that hierarchy is inherently entwined with mating. If a woman passes on a man, he is perceived as below her status: therefore, any woman who mates with that man is ALSO below the status of that female, so for a woman to take the cast-off from a friend is to acknowledge that that friend has dominance over her.
The best way to get the interest of a woman is to date one of her friends. This will make you automatically attractive to the other women in the social group.
4dda63 No.10683
>>10665>Does every part of your life have to involve some online element?You're not from around here, are you?
508bca No.11479
>>8725replace phych with (classical) music and you pretty much have me.
I met my (hong kong) girlfriend whilst trying to learn german, she is a classical pianist and we play video games and music together regularly.
It happens. Not always, but it certainly happens.
82aabe No.11644
>>8417Anything set up specifically for dating is a trap. Live your life and meet women that way.
526699 No.11834
>dating sites
jew can you go make shekels on reddit?
we dont like you
ca6e09 No.11836
>>8417>the above average guy got 38 message in 4 months>if he wanted to he could sleep with 2 women every week, even after blowing every 5th one off for not being good enough>meanwhile it has been over a year since I got laidthis ride too wild for me
526699 No.11837
>>11836>sleeping with the fat and crazy ones on internet dating sitespls dont
ca6e09 No.11840
9f1292 No.11845
>>8431> Tattoos> Clubs> 6,1 not a manletIts like degeneracy bait bingo
9a1f83 No.11850
>>8417a good looking guy on a dating site means theres something wrong with him (serial killer) if he cant slay in RL (pussy, not people)
526699 No.11859
>>11840no it doesnt
this post just displays your desperation