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File: 193dfd54f5f4405⋯.png (235.95 KB, 400x240, 5:3, poop.PNG)

 No.3169[Reply]

Hi /qq/, I'm going to be totally honest here…

I'm 16, and I was exposed to porn a really long time ago. I did a lot of web surfing when I was younger, and I eventually came across it then… but I would probably classify myself as being addicted when I was 12 years old or so (which was even before I started masturbating, by the way). I did a seriously good job of keeping it secret from my parents until I told them last year.

I'll tell you this, I've had a therapist or two in the past to help me through this and some other stuff, you know, but… I used to feel like the addiction was making me really impulsive, you know? Like, difficulty concentrating and irritability and stuff.

So yeah. I got this new counselor last October, and um… he was like, totally pressuring me into telling my parents and asking them for help, which I wanted to do anyway… and I knew this would be a really massive step for me, because the type of porn that I enjoyed watching was practically a part of me, and throwing that away at the wrong point in time wasn't my favorite idea. Not but a month later, I finally caved in to my counselor's pressure and told my parents.

I think what I'm trying to say is that no one seems to be taking me seriously. My counselor didn't even understand my whole issue, you know, because I hadn't even been his patient for a month by then… and even so, my parents got me a new phone with internet access that Christmas (which I specifically requested them not to do).

I'm really fucking tired of this mess. Should I give up?

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 No.3244

>>3205

Nigger, I didn't force you to jerk the gherkin to simple cleaning instruments. That's on YOU.


 No.3245

Embrace it. I was the same, you'll grow out of it.


 No.3259

>>3245

This depends on self control. It won’t necessarily go away if you keep it up.


 No.3273

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Man I was addicted to masturbation and internet porn too. Then I began noticing synchronicities (see Carl Jung) and realized that I was going to become a transexual and die childless if I didn't stop. After I did, the synchronicities became positive and encouraging instead of negative and depressing So now I research conspiracy stuff instead. See operation northwoods, 9/11 dancing Israelis, mk ultra, operation paperclip, operation high jump, haunebu and der glocke, JFK and executive order 11110 (see "final judgement"), secrets of the federal reserve, ancient aliens vids on YouTube, take your pic. Good luck op.


 No.3292

>>3273

Lol, this advice is super gay and not bad. If you can find something greater to commit yourself to, then that helps a lot.

Your therapists and parents probably don't support you because they are weak people and your problem makes them uncomfortable. Which totally sucks, but that's how most ppl are

Porn addiction can often be caused by death or a missing person like divorced parents in your life at a young age (i assume it's an evolutionary thing).

I'm nearly 30 and haven't outgrown my own addiction. But it's gotten much better. It started to become major issue when I had trouble getting hard during sex. And I've found that simply fantasizing and only using your hand is one of the best ways to last longer during sex (in addition to moving around a bit and going slow at first)




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 No.3243[Reply]

I am tired of sociopaths lying on the press and the media behind it. I for one, hate lies and untruth more than anything, it makes me seethes with rage. And the latest shit about NZ shooting? The bodies are still warm and those psychopaths are already making the bullets out of them to shoot at anyone they do not like or stood in the way of their profits.

I am already withdrawn from the society at large, do not use any social media, and the only internet hangout I still frequent is this place because of the above. Every time people lost the truth, it sends me into rage and then a spiral into depression. People are already out for blood from this outrage. Some are already pointing at Christians, traditionalists, other right-wingers, who have nothing to do with it; they wish them shot down and out and this is exactly what the perp wants.

My faith in humanity wanes every time and this is not meme'ing. I struggle hard to even look other human in the eyes for real for a while now. I almost come to the point that I do not trust or hold any love for human any more. Inb4 go to shrink or talk with friends or family. Nope. Nobody wants to listen to anybody any more, everyone wants to shout as loud as they can and wants everybody else they do not approve of to shut the fuck up, and all I want is silence.

Blogpost. Yeah I know, but this is /qq/ and anybody seldom comes here so might as well vent.

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 No.3261

I'm not even OP, and I feel uplifted by these posts. Thanks, anons.


 No.3262

> Some are already pointing at Christians, traditionalists, other right-wingers, who have nothing to do with it; they wish them shot down and out and this is exactly what the perp wants.

So what? What that Kiwi was needed to be done.

No wonder you are a Christcuck. Christianity is the antecesor of bolchevism. Thanks for enabling degeneracy in the West.


 No.3264

>>3257

>You're not. It is a natural human reaction to overpopulation and society.

Let me guess what you are going to say next Christcuck: Oy vey, there is overpopulation so whiteis should have less kids.

Do you really believe in that the Behavioral sink mice experiment? Lmfao, if you do it is because you are as intelligent as mice.


 No.3266

>>3261

Welcome to /qq/. All good feels here.


 No.3286

>>3264

>>3262

You latched onto OP mentioning christians and deliberately took his words way out of context like a little faggot.

OP never said he was christian, he said it's retarded that christians are being blamed, and he's not wrong because the auscunt (he wasn't a kiwi, get your facts straight mongoloid) was a fucking larpagan.




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 No.2798[Reply]

I've been a hikikomori since 2010, the year I dropped out of high school.

I have not had a single social encounter with anyone other than my mom since.

I no longer feel loneliness per se. I hate everyone even more now than I did back then.

But, seemingly unlike many people with my condition, I haven't completely outgrown the desire to converse. I'd still like to talk to people. Just not normies, not women, not even 8chan users, really. I post once a month now or so because I just can't stand your "culture" and most of your interests. Jojo's bizarre adventure is a piece of shit. Pokemon is a piece of shit. Pulp fiction is a piece of shit. You all own cellphones and half the posts on this board are about girlfriends. Etcetera.

I digress, I'm going off-topic.

What I'm getting at is I want to talk to people that hate almost everything and only leave their house once a week like me.

I don't know why. I don't know what we'd even talk about. I just want to try it.

Trouble is, I am an outlier. I am talkative when family gives me the chance. My social skills never depleted somehow even despite my constant isolation. I guess they are an inborn trait for me. Not the case for many of the fucked up people I have spoken with over the internet. They were always quiet and left me hanging so I gave up. And that was when I was lucky enough for them to agree to talk to me at all.

It's a paradox. I wish to speak to fucked up people, but how would I find them when they do not post and I do not post. We are not active on the internet, that is what separates us from the rest and also from each other.

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 No.3145

>>2877

Lol you almost 35-40 nigga. Sort your shit out m8


 No.3167

>>2945

Doesn't work, do another one.


 No.3174

I'm similar, with the difference being that I don't like having online friends. I wouldn't mind hanging with you at a Starbucks or McDonald's though.


 No.3278

File: 6d135edfbaebf72⋯.jpg (14.17 KB, 185x273, 185:273, card.jpg)

>>2945

>>2929

whatever happened to you guys? the discords are dead. i hope things have improved for you in at least some small way.


 No.3283

>>3278

damn. i read the entire reply chain and only then I realized this was 2 years old.




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 No.3224[Reply]

I’ve begun to exercise on a regular basis. I also kissed a girl for the first time in a while, and although the relationship didn’t develop much further I don’t care. It felt great. I hope you qnons are doing well, and to many more threads of this kind.

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 No.3239

>>3238

Nice


 No.3263

>>3238

Thanks for that anon. I'll share an awful situation I delt with that became a nice one.

>last night

>my best friend has been very unstable lately

>he joins a group call with some of my other friends and I who're playing some vidya

>tell us he had the best call of his life with his gf

>someone groans because recently he's been going on endlessly about now great she is

>friend gets angry over this, yells at all of us and leaves

>all of us in the call are bewildered

>later, best friend shows off some screenshots of a website he's designing

>other friend criticizes it

>some back and forth that ends up in a heated argument

>best friend ends up telling my entire friendgroup that we're all pieces of shit and he's never talking to us again

>best friend proceeds to remove himself from all group chats with us in it

>the rest of my friends and I are speechless

>night ends will us all playing some vidya and logging off

>wake up late, 11pm-ish

>get on computer to do some work

>best friend's gf starts asking my friends in the groupchat what happened

>tell her

>she tells us that best friend has been angry all day

>adds him to a chat with the rest of my friends

>some angry back and forth

>eventually best friend just breaks down and starts crying

>tells us that he's sorry for being an awful friend

>tells us that he's just a worthless pile of shit

>other friends and I tell him how much we lovPost too long. Click here to view the full text.


 No.3265

>>3263

I appreciate that it ended well, but that’s kind of annoying for your friend to drag everyone into the mud simply because he was having a bad day.


 No.3268

>>3263

That would have been pretty awful for your friendships to have been ruined over your mate being really stupid and petty. I'm glad it turned out alright for you guys.


 No.3279

>>3265

I don't really fault him for it. He's got a huge array of personal issues, so when he spergs out, we just deal with it until he's back to his normal fun self.




File: c640629867ff3ac⋯.jpg (21.93 KB, 355x355, 1:1, coke.jpg)

 No.3240[Reply]

anyone have a copy? I would like to read

 No.3241

File: d9017cfda86a093⋯.pdf (867.57 KB, The_Great_Replacement.pdf)

>>3240

It's really not that hard to find, it's been posted everywhere, but I'll throw you a bone anyways.


 No.3269

File: 9854a9a31640d98⋯.webm (229.85 KB, 460x258, 230:129, cunt.webm)


 No.3310

Who in their right mind would want to read the ravings of a mentally retarded coward.




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 No.3228[Reply]

since about a month ago, i've been suffering from unilateral (one sided) migraines, which go from 0 to end my fucking suffering in a matter of seconds, and the medication i've been given for them makes me dizzy and drowsy, and doesn't entirely stop the pain, you're jsut too hazy to care that you have a crushing headache. what's more, it's going to be a month at least until I hear back from the doctor i've been referred to.

 No.3233

File: e78dfdd74751aac⋯.webm (2.41 MB, 640x356, 160:89, Shouldnt I Be Taller.webm)

>family gay kornheiser

Maybe it's god's way of telling you to stop being a faggot.


 No.3237

File: 97c621af88be2e2⋯.jpg (31.71 KB, 402x306, 67:51, 1447662384798.jpg)

>>3228

I'm sorry OP, I've never had that kind of problem before and so I don't really know anything that would help you except maybe taking some tylenol when it gets really bad (although I'd really doubt that'd help). Is this something that started happening recently? or is this something you've had for a while?


 No.3247

>>3237

Since about a month ago, I was prescribed an anti inflammatory called Naproxen




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 No.3166[Reply]

I need your help /qq/.

I want to buy the self authoring program, this thing here:

https://selfauthoring.com/self-authoring-suite.html

But I don't have a valid credit card (because reasons). So… What I'll do is I'll barter the cost of the program, plus a little bit more on amazon goods for anyone who can and is willing to purchase for me the program. I'll explain myself:

>You have a valid credit card or paypal account.

>You are willing to purchase for me the program.

>you contact me, saying you want to help me

>You choose any good on amazon up to $41.50 that I'll pay for you.

>You pay 29.90 for the program, for me

>You put in place the rules of exchange

>everyone profits.

Please /qq/ make a bro a solid.

 No.3203

>Clean your room anon.

Well its a major step up from Alex Jones.


 No.3242

So, what's the point of putting Dr. Peterson's picture? Is that because his is a trustworthy type of face?

And why can't you just buy a Vanilla Visa with cash or something and use that?


 No.3301

>>3166

This is personal issues, not the e-begging board.




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 No.3178[Reply]

Why come to 8chan with "personal issues"? Seems to me this is the last place you want to waste your time with. Get off the internet and go lift some weights or something, not to look good, just to do something different.

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 No.3217

Why not? Sometimes, it's good to at least anonymously vent about life issues, rather than shit out money to visit a psychologist. Some anon advice may be legitimate, and at the very least, is likely to come from a place of genuine desire to help.


 No.3223

>>3202

I disagree. /qq/ is an oasis of good feels and mutual experience.


 No.3225

File: 7ae170d834ea49f⋯.jpg (480.11 KB, 2048x2048, 1:1, 1156.jpg)

>>3178

it's for all the faggots moving in from cuckchan


 No.3235

>>3202

>I psychologically deconstruct groups of people I don’t like by assigning them unfounded and unfavorable attributes which I can conveniently spin into a devastatingly “astute” pseudo-intellectual characterization ripe for ad hominem, all the while avoiding stating any opinion of substance so as to dodge all responsibility for carrying the conversation forward in a constructive manner. AMA.


 No.3321

File: e7b6353a637a8ca⋯.jpg (55.57 KB, 600x800, 3:4, why 2.jpg)

I've been wondering this too. In my experience plenty of people are so abysmal at giving advice and actually helping that it's just mind-boggling. Going on 8chan, or the internet in general, for this seems like just asking to make it worse since you already have to deal with hostile anons telling you things that make it worse or just downright hating you.




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 No.3175[Reply]

This guy and I have been close friends for over 10 years, and I have fallen hard for him. We've never dated each other but we both clearly have strong feelings for each other. We've spoken intimately and have behaved romantic towards each other, done most things just short of having sex. He is worried he is not mentally ready for any relationship due to his past failed relationships. Because I work and live abroad, distance is also a convenient excuse for us not to date.

Each time we see each other in person, things get heated, leading up to the moment I fly out of the country. He seems good at compartmentalizing because he is content about staying friends with the intermittent benefit of physical intimacy. I feel like it's hard for me each time. I get overwhelmed by my feelings for him and want more than just friendship. Whereas he seems to be able to remain friends regardless of how far (short of sex) we get, I get frustrated and expect more. I have to piece myself back together and the cycle repeats.

I haven't confess my love for the guy, but I am sure he already knows–it was clear through my body language each time we hung out. Recently, I outright asked him if he would consider a relationship with me. In response, he said he says he cares about me, but he is sorry that he can't give me a straight answer. A flat rejection might have been easier to deal with.

A career opportunity is coming up that will let me be physically closer to him. I am hopeful that if I lived near him, we can date. But I wonder if it is worth it to have hope for me and him. Once circumstances change, would he be ready? Or should I expect to get friend zoned forever? Do you think I should close ties and move on?

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 No.3177

>>3175

>We've spoken intimately and have behaved romantic towards each other, done most things just short of having sex.

That's not friendship. That's being fuckbuddies.


 No.3187

>>3175

I guess you need to ask yourself the big question: "Will my penis fit in his anus?"


 No.3189

fag


 No.3192

>long distance

I'm not saying that won't work, but it's not worth starting.

My sis took a "break" from his bf when he had to study for a year in another country. After he returned they met again, started dating… they are engaged now. Don't start a serious thing unless you like feeling incomplete.

No, being single is not worse.


 No.3227

>>3175

Are you being cukced by a Jew?




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 No.3226[Reply]

Please don't shut 8chan down CIAniggers.



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 No.3164[Reply]

i've got a bit of a dilemma

i've failed my algebra/geometry exam in uni 4 times now

technically i shouldn't have even made it to the 3rd year because of this, but they let some of us pass

knowing that i'll probably fail, i didn't bother studying anything this year, planning on dropping out. if it was up to me, i wouldn't have even bothered with the 3rd year, but my parents said that as long as i can keep trying, i mind as well

problem is that i've been lying to them that i'm doing alright with the studying for a while now, so they think i'll be able to pass most of my exams.

the good thing is that while i've been doing nothing at uni, i joined a more modern university (not an official one, but it has a lot of partners and the education is a lot more reasonably done), and i recently got an internship here

they don't know about the internship

my idea was that i could use this to balance the good and the bad when telling them that i fucked up all my exams

how do i do it without giving them a heart attack?

 No.3165

>>3164

>how do i do it without giving them a heart attack?

You say this as if you're just being considerate, like you're not telling them because you're more concerned about them than yourself, but it seems to me like you're just trying to avoid getting your ass beat or getting disowned by people that probably should already have done so a while ago. They probably won't though, and you're old enough to defend yourself and make your own way in life, so just tell them the truth and stop being a faggot.


 No.3197

Change your major.




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 No.3151[Reply]

Hey anon,

I still check this board once a week. If you need to talk, go ahead and post. I'll help you out.

We're all gonna make it.

 No.3152

File: fcde0e559c0454c⋯.jpg (89.17 KB, 500x461, 500:461, d305c99369fa6f45c0da97aa7a….jpg)

It's a shame this board is so dead, I quite liked it.


 No.3153

>>3152

I feel the same way, it was only active for about a month, but I got a lot out of it.


 No.3156

Thanks for keeping up guys. I wish this board enjoyed the activity it once did.

There's no board like it anywhere else. Even 420chan's /qq/ sucks because most of their problems are directly related to recreational drug use.


 No.3185

>>3156

I like the smell of my own scent




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 No.3168[Reply]

You have been visited by the moot of Dead Boards

If you are reading this message brave board traveler, then heed the following instruction;

Good luck and prosperity will come to you, but only if you repost this thread to 1 or more other dead board(s)

 No.3170

This sincerely stinks.

I wish 4chan had a board like this… it seems like people are just PROMOTING suicide nowadays




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 No.3003[Reply]

>Just turned 27

>live with parents

>overweight

>have always been a social retard and very anxious around people

>only had one girlfriend because she basically did all the approaching

>low self esteem in addition to the anxiety

Lately have just been feeling depressed about the lack of a social life / girlfriend / being fat, yet I find myself in the same spot I was six years ago. The fucked thing is, subconsciously I may not even want things to change. How the hell do you get out of this trap?

 No.3004

You find a solution, you be sure to let me know


 No.3006

>>3003

You need a psychiatrist and a dietician. Everything else will fall into place.


 No.3076

>>3003

Do some cardio. Estar by doing 5 minutes and grow from there. Run, if you can. Ride a bike if you can. Swim. Try to surpass your own records and keep pushing. You'll feel better about yourself and ypur anxiety will go down.

That's the first step


 No.3144

terytytrt >rtgergtergter




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 No.3143[Reply]

wtf

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